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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, report her to HR for inappropriate and unprofessional conduct in the office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wake up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

You've already objectified her and clearly think she's only a piece of meat.

Get on with your job that's what your there to do not be a dog on heat.

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By *parky4gMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Wake up. "

Yes wake up and go to work dreams over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, report her to HR for inappropriate and unprofessional conduct in the office. "

This!!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Ah sure go for it.. whats the worst that could happen?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Go for it op, I mean it’s only your job, life and family that’ll be affected when it goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you have been dropping big hints op...

Anyway back in the real world she probably said it as a joke and your married anyway..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s not a good idea to mix business and pleasure. You’re an adult so you can make an adult decision.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? "

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, report her to HR for inappropriate and unprofessional conduct in the office. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating"

And this

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By *umumCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS


"Go for it op, I mean it’s only your job, life and family that’ll be affected when it goes wrong "

"Don't shit on your own doorstep" is very good advice

But I think you've already made your mind up .....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to let u all know so I don’t get any more backlash that I wasn’t going to ask her as it’s far too dangerous

You have all reinforced my view so thanks xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just to let u all know so I don’t get any more backlash that I wasn’t going to ask her as it’s far too dangerous

You have all reinforced my view so thanks xx"
it sounded like you were ‘tempted’ to whisper in her ear that you were a swinger. I think your view could have been better reinforced had you announced that ‘no way would I consider this’. Whatever you do, it’s your decision.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Just to let u all know so I don’t get any more backlash that I wasn’t going to ask her as it’s far too dangerous

You have all reinforced my view so thanks xx"

Don't worry, nobody heard the crunching of gears as your libido was shifted into reverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult to determine what’s going on with the absence of a lot of details or context. Just reflect and consider whether it was a joking comment based of the vibe of a conversation or joke or whether it was a call out challenge?

I’d very much suspect given the nature of an outburst in a team meeting that someone has recognised your fab profile and your colleagues are aware, or that your general office conversation, behaviour and/demeanour has led your colleagues to believe you are a swinger.

Either way, I would think your colleagues have spoken about this suspicion and the woman in question carries the loudest voice to publicly call you out. I’d very much doubt that it was a public flirt to suggest she was looking for any extra curricular activities but hey I could be wrong?

I’m not going to comment on the ethics and moral dilemma of cheating, I’m not here to judge anyone but I will say that if your colleagues suspect then who else does? People talk and rumours spread fast!

I’m terms of the public challenge, I’d personally think that was unacceptable. I’d certainly want to clear the air with the woman in question and understand where that question had come from and why it was raised in the why it was i.e. in front of your team and explain the impact of her action in doing so.

Equally, I’m sure there’s an avenue of support available through your line manager, HR, union and company policies should you feel that is the appropriate route for you

But just to be clear, I don’t believe the manner in which she called you out was an invite for any fun or action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe sort your marriage out

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

If she not getting enough and hinting let her say more so you definitely know she wants you.

Don’t mention your a swinger until you’ve slept with her

But be careful these days you’ve got be careful what you say coz of sexual harassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy section for this maybe ??

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Again I have to say, imagine these roles were reversed with a man saying they need more sex to a female employee. Go see hr.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Also don't see why she was black was included in the story.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

You say your a married swinger? You mean a cheating shit bag?

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Or it's been a big wind up because she/all your work mates know you've been cheating.

So she leads you on then publicly calls you out.

Or she's legit and you do the deed, then she tells everyone including your wife.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Tell who you like but there would be a very clear line between me and her, if in your shoes. She's not particularly sensitive to boundaries and doesn't seem to show discretion. Let her find any sex she needs and information on swingers elsewhere. Or speak with your wife about your full life and organize a party night with her and husband, plus any work colleagues you fancy at a local club. What could possibly go wrong?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

here comes trouble, here comes danger [listening to a music that describe your situation while scrolling through this thread]

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Green arrow.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating"

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

If it goes wrong at work it really goes wrong OP. It all depends if its worth the risk and how you feel about having to move to another job possibly even in another company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? "
Does she know your wife, would she meet your wife in the future, would your wife like her, do you like your job, those are the questions I'd ask myself before I slipped one in her oh and is her hubby Big?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? Does she know your wife, would she meet your wife in the future, would your wife like her, do you like your job, those are the questions I'd ask myself before I slipped one in her oh and is her hubby Big?"

Do you mean does he have a big penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? "

None, just isn't worth it. If you're an adult make your own mind up, you're already cheating on your wife so what's stopping you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? Does she know your wife, would she meet your wife in the future, would your wife like her, do you like your job, those are the questions I'd ask myself before I slipped one in her oh and is her hubby Big?

Do you mean does he have a big penis "
nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also don't see why she was black was included in the story. "

Because its descriptive, same as if she was Swedish or red haired Irish, doh!

Offended for other people easily I see.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating"

Exactly what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also don't see why she was black was included in the story. "

If he said there’s a gorgeous redhead at work, would you pick up on that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ? Does she know your wife, would she meet your wife in the future, would your wife like her, do you like your job, those are the questions I'd ask myself before I slipped one in her oh and is her hubby Big?

Do you mean does he have a big penis nooooooo"

Yesssss

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Did she really say that out loud in front of other people?

Not sure I believe that tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have just said “African” and not mentioned the colour?!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could have just said “African” and not mentioned the colour?!..."

Why, not very descriptive, plenty of white Africans, why is it a, problem to you?

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wake up. "

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

Put it this way ! she maybe an outspoken person. someone could be talking about you behind your back. And has told her that you are a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was poor taste to blurt it out in front of everyone. Poor form to cheat on a partner. Other than that I'm all for work hook ups!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here’s the situation

I work beside a really gorgeous black African woman - fab voice on her massive tits cracking big arse - she is married like me and she keeps going on about needing more sex in her life - I’m sure she gets plenty at home but think she’s a bit of a nympho - anyway during a team talk she comes straight out and asks me in front of everybody if I’m a swinger - everyone is gobsmacked - of course I had to deny it but secretly I’m so tempted to whisper in her ear - I do swing but my Mrs doesn’t know about it - do u want to have sum fun ?

Any advice ?

Sleeping with others without your wife knowing is not swinging, it's cheating"

Yup

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