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Does this make me seem unreasonable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone...."
No OP you're not, perhaps meeting at a club or hotel could be a compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone...."

Its up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's risky for single men or women to invite 2 strangers to their home.

Not unreasonable at all.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Not unreasonable. What was their reason for not hosting? If all parties like each other but aren’t able to host a hotel seems like the obvious solution. If they’re not happy about a hotel I’d question why they were so keen to go to your home.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible- dont be led by your cock.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone...."
Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not something you are comfortable with it is not unreasonable. I do not do anything I am uncomfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems "

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out..."
Investing in a safe wouldn't be a bad idea. I would take an L on this 1 though OP that trust has got to be earned really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out... Investing in a safe wouldn't be a bad idea. I would take an L on this 1 though OP that trust has got to be earned really."

I feel you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unreasonable, sensible. Like you said, you cant keep an eye on both. Hotel or club. I also agree with an earlier comment, if they are so keen to go to your pad, thats dodgy

S

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For any meet, you decide and enforce your own rules. Likewise with anybody that may enter your home - you decide who is invited.

It's what's right and this reasonable for you only that counts.

In the USA there are pockets of higher density of swingers and desperation isn't any reason to open yourself up to meeting in inappropriate circumstances for you. There are other ways of meeting to ensure you are all comfortable and meeting enough people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out..."

Apart from that a single woman could look at your sensitive material while you were in the loo I don't think you're being unreasonable. Your home, your rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out...

Apart from that a single woman could look at your sensitive material while you were in the loo I don't think you're being unreasonable. Your home, your rules. "

A single woman is always in my eyesight at all times at my place..

The elevator is my front door and the only bathroom is in my bedroom....

There are only 2 walls in my place

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out..."

Hotels are too informal 

What bullshit. You made the right call. Either they are thieves or fruit cakes.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

You've alluded to your wealth a number of times on various threads so that may have drawn people with ulterior motives.

A hotel is a reasonable compromise I think.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your body, your house, your rules. Depends how desperate you are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s very few people on Fab in the USA , so when you find someone you get on with...

It’s like finding a diamond ring in a pile of dog poo...

A couple asked me to host and I explicitly told them it’s nothing personal... But I just don’t host couples....

I’m not married or anything like that.... I just hate having 2 strangers at my house...

A single female I don’t care , but the way my apartment is set up. I can’t keep my eyes on everyone.... Could easily get robbed etc and you wouldn't have a clue who did it and it would be embarrassing to report. Unless you got their number and stalked on Facebook like lot do on here it seems

I have a home office with sensitive material around.....

I offered a hotel but the were insistent on coming to my home.....

I assured them I wasn’t married but they felt hotels are too informal and the wife hates them...

Oh well, I guess I’ll just go out...

Apart from that a single woman could look at your sensitive material while you were in the loo I don't think you're being unreasonable. Your home, your rules.

A single woman is always in my eyesight at all times at my place..

The elevator is my front door and the only bathroom is in my bedroom....

There are only 2 walls in my place "

Ok

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