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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm getting a lot of mail from guys who think I have daddy issues. Which isn't the case at all. I love my father and certainly don't want to f**k him. I've a friend that i meet when he is down my way and he loves it when I call him Daddy. I've never gave it much thought. So I guess I'm asking the guys who like to be called Daddy well why? For ladies who use the term do you have Daddy issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a thread about this last week, I’ll try find the link. Some pretty interesting answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/814362

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your mail is something to do with your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/814362"

Thank you very much. I'll take a look now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your mail is something to do with your profile pic "

Oh I know it is. It just surprised me how many guys think I have Daddy issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like Daddies brown sauce if that's any good

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So I'm getting a lot of mail from guys who think I have daddy issues. Which isn't the case at all. I love my father and certainly don't want to f**k him. I've a friend that i meet when he is down my way and he loves it when I call him Daddy. I've never gave it much thought. So I guess I'm asking the guys who like to be called Daddy well why? For ladies who use the term do you have Daddy issues? "

Admin takes a dim view on prostitution so they go down the Daddy route. Report them if they are offering money I do its just spoiling fab.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Feel a bit like a pimp if it's used.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m not keen on the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like Daddies brown sauce if that's any good "
me to on egg rolls

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Feel a bit like a pimp if it's used. "

How much do you charge for your "girls"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your mail is something to do with your profile pic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir "

I am a Master of my own Universe, well I was until I became a Legend in my own lunchtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir "
yes madam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir "

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses "

Thats my issue too, i could never say "fuck me daddy". But the term daddy isnt the same as father or dad. Ive had it explained many times. I still cant say it. Ive been asked to use it but its just not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its creepy

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Personally find it weird and a bit creepy but that's just my opinion, I'm sure plenty get off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little boy calls me daddy id be freaked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

I am a Master of my own Universe, well I was until I became a Legend in my own lunchtime "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creeps me out. I’d be out of there sharpish. Even if it was Tom Hardy. That’s how much it creeps me out.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses "

I kind of agree with what you are saying there, but is it only the same as having a long term relationship and calling your partner Honey, Babe, Sweetie or any other names?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Creeps me out. I’d be out of there sharpish. Even if it was Tom Hardy. That’s how much it creeps me out. "

I'd make an exception for Tom to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Creeps me out. I’d be out of there sharpish. Even if it was Tom Hardy. That’s how much it creeps me out.

I'd make an exception for Tom to be honest.

"

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I find it weird and creepy!

What is it? An inces* fetish?

Heard it once when some people were fucking close to me and just found it strange and creepy tbh!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It’s really not something I would be comfortable with.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses

I kind of agree with what you are saying there, but is it only the same as having a long term relationship and calling your partner Honey, Babe, Sweetie or any other names? "

Erm no?

They're all non specific terms of endearment.

Daddy is what you'd call your dad....so a bit eeeh in my book.

But entirely up to the individual.

If someone I was sexing called me mummy I really would feel unwell though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses

I kind of agree with what you are saying there, but is it only the same as having a long term relationship and calling your partner Honey, Babe, Sweetie or any other names? "

Do you feel like it's the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think its the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im useless at explaining, i copied this. Hope it helps.

A Daddy-Dom is simply the Dominant partner in a D/s relationship. Like a Master or Dom, a Daddy is the top in their relationship and owns or cares for the submissive. Depending on your own personal preferences and relationship dynamic, a Daddy can be many things to his little but there are some generalities that exist in most Daddy/little relationships.

His love for his babygirl goes without question. He loves her as much for who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is ...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. Afterall, He helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and has greatest power to hurt Him.

This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with Him.

He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.

If He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.

This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her, everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.

A Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.

I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.

Perhaps a Daddy Dom is something only a lilgirl can understand.

Daddy as a Father

Unlike age players or role players, Daddies do not consider themselves a father to their little. They consider their role much like how a Dom would look at their role over their sub. Though their little may call them Daddy, they are not observed as a father and they don’t look at their little as if they were their child.

What do Daddy-Doms Do?

Daddies are in charge of their little. While they do not pretend to be their little’s father, they will take on a parental role as the Dominant. They are there to protect, guide, nurture and love their little. While in some D/s relationships, the Dominate may order their submissive frivolously for their own pleasure, a Daddy will order or set rules for their little based on nurturing goals and what is best for their little.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've many friends who are baby girls and their partners are called Daddy. Its never been a word that i will ever use though. I like Sir

This. Daddy does seem a bit odd to me. I really don't understand how someone can have sex with someone and call them daddy. It's a niche that I'm not comfortable with. I could never be with someone who wanted me to call him daddy. I've spoken to a few who've tried to explain it, but it's still alien to me. Then again, I enjoy the rough element of play and am looking to explore more with markings and implements. I'm sure some would not understand that either. Horses for courses

I kind of agree with what you are saying there, but is it only the same as having a long term relationship and calling your partner Honey, Babe, Sweetie or any other names?

Do you feel like it's the same thing? "

I really couldn't give two hoots about what names are bandied about, it's more about how people react to them really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do this because it turns him on. I prefer sir myself but it's what he enjoys and I've no problem with it. I was just surprised by the amount of mail I got assuming I wanted to fuck my father

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

My fwb and I call each other Yogi and Booboo... Doesn't get much weirder than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb and I call each other Yogi and Booboo... Doesn't get much weirder than that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb and I call each other Yogi and Booboo... Doesn't get much weirder than that "

cute

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"My fwb and I call each other Yogi and Booboo... Doesn't get much weirder than that "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your mail is something to do with your profile pic

Oh I know it is. It just surprised me how many guys think I have Daddy issues."

Sadly some are very small minded.

You like to use the word “Daddy” you have daddy issues.

You like older men, you have daddy issues.

You are submissive, you have daddy issues.

It’s never just a case of, she likes this because it turns her on!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"My fwb and I call each other Yogi and Booboo... Doesn't get much weirder than that

this "

Sugarplum Fairy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

[Removed by poster at 01/11/18 23:23:15]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a label it means nothing just a reference to age gaps

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Feel a bit like a pimp if it's used.

How much do you charge for your "girls"? "

Depends what you're looking for Playa...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your mail is something to do with your profile pic

Oh I know it is. It just surprised me how many guys think I have Daddy issues.

Sadly some are very small minded.

You like to use the word “Daddy” you have daddy issues.

You like older men, you have daddy issues.

You are submissive, you have daddy issues.

It’s never just a case of, she likes this because it turns her on! "

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how all the critics are UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is ancient wtf

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Funny how all the critics are UNLOS"

No they're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Looks like the OPs fantasy has gone too far. She’s been grounded and her phone taken off her.

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

We are Daddy Little, coming into this relationship i had no understanding and no desire to be a Daddy.

I had no undrstanding of her wants, desired and needs, now it feels natural and i love C very very much. The hope i have about the swinging community and certainly the bdsm community is that people are non-judgemental, make efforts to understand even if they don't share a fetish or kink and are accepting.

When people say your weird or ugh or creepy it shows a lack of knowledge and understanding imho. Daddy, Predator, Master, Mistress, Dom, Rope Top, Owner, Hunter etc...all share some element of being a "Top" and the flavor and variety of Top can change, evolve and find different elements of play depending on a million factors. (Want to know more? Read: the new topping book).

Please don't judge people, you only show a lack of understanding and a lack of effort to find out more and learn.

Wouldn't want to meet people who don't make an effort.

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"Oh dear. Looks like the OPs fantasy has gone too far. She’s been grounded and her phone taken off her. "

Made me pmsl btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how a simple word comes across as uncomfortable,even creapy to several fabbers.But however to them their bedroom habits are not in the least bit so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 weeks later i still find it freaky

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire


"Funny how a simple word comes across as uncomfortable,even creapy to several fabbers.But however to them their bedroom habits are not in the least bit so."

Open, honest, non judgemental .... only way to go.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Funny how a simple word comes across as uncomfortable,even creapy to several fabbers.But however to them their bedroom habits are not in the least bit so."

You don’t know what people’s bedroom habits are. Just because people are on a sex site it doesn’t mean they have to be into the weird and wonderfully sexual preferences (not that I’m suggesting that this particular thing is that).

I’m uncomfortable with that terminology in a sexual context. I don’t judge but it is something that I know is not for me.

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By *addyLilGirlCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Well the term is exclusive to C, and her term Daddy is exclusive to me. Not like we throw it to everyone we meet lol in fact the quickest turn off ever is someone else calling me Daddy or someone else calling her Princess

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