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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well here I go again lol

First seen dr today and told me off till January as info from physio is I doin good but concerned if go back in 4 weeks maybe to soon and would go off or jeopardise all work done and stuff so 9 weeks off to get fit, strong and good.

Spoke to dr about my anxiety and depression issues and told all ok and natural post operation and especially As am hard worker and stuff and never had time off natural would impact so that’s good and given advice out reducing pain meds and issues with driving (shit it’s bad to drive and do drugs even pain meds can cause fines or court ooops)

Physio been tough and hard but also good last few days been out with family and yday went Liverpool to shop for but didn’t last long cos pain and knee but was amazing to be out in city and even bought a Lego item lol.

Oh well thanks again for support and help meant a lot on this journey.

Ooooh and finally some ppl I work with started messaging me which was wow as felt so alone as don’t have friends (bit loner) which been hard and as not seen or spoken to work friends since June it felt isolated but think they msg me cos worried now been 5 months nearly (wow that’s nearly half year shit)

Thanks for reading and help ppl give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you. One day at a time. Make sure boredom doesn't claw at you. Get stuck into plenty of the stuff work takes away the time for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done you. One day at a time. Make sure boredom doesn't claw at you. Get stuck into plenty of the stuff work takes away the time for."

Yeah I been enjoying PlayStation and Lego so far haha and planning get rehearsing so new year able to get out gigging,

Yeah one day today been tough one cos done loads rest week but tomorrow be better

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well done you. One day at a time. Make sure boredom doesn't claw at you. Get stuck into plenty of the stuff work takes away the time for.

Yeah I been enjoying PlayStation and Lego so far haha and planning get rehearsing so new year able to get out gigging,

Yeah one day today been tough one cos done loads rest week but tomorrow be better "

Keep your chin up, you're doing great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....talking of lego, i was in B and M today and they had a lego advent calander....slightly random but there ya go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".....talking of lego, i was in B and M today and they had a lego advent calander....slightly random but there ya go "

Haha yeah they are awesome had one last ur goin order one soon I’d have Star Wars one lol

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Rome wasn't built in a day mate, just take it day by day. Hope you recover OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rome wasn't built in a day mate, just take it day by day. Hope you recover OP"

Thanks Ano guess I need eases and chill as all going great some days as good and some need bit of rest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep at it my friend, I’m pleased to hear the work colleagues are being supportive, and 9 weeks is a good target to hopefully be in a position to return to work!

As ever good luck in your journey!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" keep at it my friend, I’m pleased to hear the work colleagues are being supportive, and 9 weeks is a good target to hopefully be in a position to return to work!

As ever good luck in your journey! "

Thanks everyone means loads and also this journey has been life changing physical and mentally

Yeah it’s nice work ppl finally realised I may need em at last been so isolated most my talk or contact been through fab lol or fb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the msgs and posts means loads phew I feel so relaxed an less stressed now dr signed me off longer so don’t need stress or stuff about rushing back

Just back from another walk only 1.76 miles but still good be just out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the msgs and posts means loads phew I feel so relaxed an less stressed now dr signed me off longer so don’t need stress or stuff about rushing back

Just back from another walk only 1.76 miles but still good be just out"

1.76 miles is 2.83km my friend, that’s pretty damn good and it sounds better when expressed in kms! #toptip

Keep up the good work!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Well done mate .. have you checked out podcasts....dad wrote a porno is hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done you. One day at a time. Make sure boredom doesn't claw at you. Get stuck into plenty of the stuff work takes away the time for.

Yeah I been enjoying PlayStation and Lego so far haha and planning get rehearsing so new year able to get out gigging,

Yeah one day today been tough one cos done loads rest week but tomorrow be better "

Great opportunity to spend time practising. Can you sort a night or afternoon out with your work mates? A catch up kind of thing. It's really good that they've been in touch, that made me smile.

You're stronger than you ever thought possible. Look how far you've come. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done mate .. have you checked out podcasts....dad wrote a porno is hilarious"

What lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done you. One day at a time. Make sure boredom doesn't claw at you. Get stuck into plenty of the stuff work takes away the time for.

Yeah I been enjoying PlayStation and Lego so far haha and planning get rehearsing so new year able to get out gigging,

Yeah one day today been tough one cos done loads rest week but tomorrow be better

Great opportunity to spend time practising. Can you sort a night or afternoon out with your work mates? A catch up kind of thing. It's really good that they've been in touch, that made me smile.

You're stronger than you ever thought possible. Look how far you've come. x"

Yeah I been practicing loads And cos I stopped smoking 175 days ago lol my voice has gone back to amazing pitch but lost my rock gravel lol

Yeah was nice they finally got in touch made me happy an yeah someone said about a lunch or something lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the msgs and posts means loads phew I feel so relaxed an less stressed now dr signed me off longer so don’t need stress or stuff about rushing back

Just back from another walk only 1.76 miles but still good be just out

1.76 miles is 2.83km my friend, that’s pretty damn good and it sounds better when expressed in kms! #toptip

Keep up the good work! "

Hahaha yeah I’m so much better lol damn need put Fitbit back from mls to Kms lol

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I love occy health had meeting with em and made more a fuss that gp and consultant said need time to heal an not rush back.

Well took lots strength not get annoyed haha and then she went on about mental health and how can impact felt like saying no shot an gettin made go meetings every month when I’ve had operation and just getting better don’t help, I had enough issues before operation lol yes it’s brought a lot to forefront but there my demons to understand now and the impacts an changes they made.

Also if friends did as said would and visited and spoke more I may not be as bad as I am now but hey ho this is were it is.

I know the person going back is not same as went off I become angry with ppl and situations, my anxiety is through the roof so much so every time my family take me out I spend a fortune on crap I didn’t want cos I’ve touched it so my anxiety heightens that I must buy it then, yday I spent 70£ only 20 was what I went for. Yeah that’s crazy but hey ho lol

Oh noooo I didn’t wana rant but it came out and probably makes no sense sorry if read an think tw@t lol

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