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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So get another. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

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Yep get another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another "

Or two others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

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It's why I have more than 1 guy I can call on. I don't call them fwb though they are just guys I can call when the mood takes me. Normally one of them is available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another "

I am trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over."

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then "

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

He's married

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Next time he messages you tell him you're seeing another guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He's married "

I know he definitely isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!"

You deserve better. It wears you down. It's one sided and that's crap. Hope you find someone more respectful.

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

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Make yourself less available to him. Say no. And get another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!"

I don't understand why you would persevere with someone who's hard work. Surely that is the joy of a fwb. You get what you want out of it or walk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then "

Don't overdo it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!"

Time to fuck him off I think.

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude! "

I think you should send him that pic in the red dressing gown and ask him over. If there’s an excuse there’s no hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!

Time to fuck him off I think. "

Yeah I think it is... just will mourn the amazing sex for a few weeks lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fwb. But thats it a friend as well as lover. I go round and sometimes chat laugh and no sex. But sometimes outher way round. Find anougher. Hes using you and one sided. I could be his replacement. I dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is why its rarely nsa as feelings always get in the way somehow or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!

Time to fuck him off I think.

Yeah I think it is... just will mourn the amazing sex for a few weeks lol. "

That's what I will miss when I lose my buddy of 8 years. I know it won't last forever but I'm going to miss the sex so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is why its rarely nsa as feelings always get in the way somehow or another "

It's not feelings, it's not getting sex when she wants it.

I would tell him why he's being outed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another

I am trying lol

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Use me to make him jealous. If nothing else, I’m local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex! "

Are you seeing the same guy as the op??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I quite fancy a lady friend avec benefits and she don’t need to be French neither.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex! "

This is exactly it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude! "

He obviously doesn't want to be seen with you in public, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude!

He obviously doesn't want to be seen with you in public, just saying."

Haha nope, that part is the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry this has happened.

i see this a lot and although im no expert i tend to put it down to a few things so please dont take anything personal here ts just my view.

fb relationships are great. but.

after a while some people get tired of the same face and because its a fb relationship its an easy get out.

they may want to try something else.

and you know what he/she will say 'its fun nothing serious, you knew that'

not saying that is whats happening here just a view.

i dont know how deep this arrangement or fb relationship with you and him goes.

happy to talk about it privately but one thing i do is never discuss things like this on this forum.

because if he is on here someone may direct him to this thread or he may see it for himself.

i would prefer her to come to me and discuss everything together.

thats just my way and not a dig at you.

if you feel your now being used and left on the subs bench instead of getting on the field of play you are indeed right.

as i say happy to talk if it helps.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!"

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads to fuck in Southampton look around more xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour. "

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway. "

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heyyy thatsca shame. U got much planned for the weekend then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway. "

Nope going to kick him to the kerb and find me a new hot fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude! "

This is why I'd never want a fuck buddy. At least with friends, you'd surely get some respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour. "

Not always. I gave that advice for a reason. It may not help her situation, but it might help her make up her mind to get rid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing. "

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me"

The sex is CRAZY!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing. "

Huh?? I'm not looking for a boyfriend just a guy who comes round when I'm horny not just when he is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!! "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude!

He obviously doesn't want to be seen with you in public, just saying.

Haha nope, that part is the other way around."

What an awful thing to say.... If a bloke said that he'd be strung up seven ways from Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Huh?? I'm not looking for a boyfriend just a guy who comes round when I'm horny not just when he is. "

That's why I said don't make yourself available for only when he is. They become complacent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!! "

I know exactly how that is

. And finally it has happened (only took 9 years), I'm in luvst

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!! "

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this what fab is all about? Finding people, singles, couples to have great sex with, then wait until the next time.

I do think his actions are rather selfish, op. All about him and his needs rather than yours. As others have suggested, find one or two others that can help you fulfill your needs as well. So long as everyone is aware of the other, then there should be no need to give him and the great sex up. That way you are being selfish, having what you want, but with everyone aware.

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!!

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times. "

Respectfully disagree. I only find a very specific type of guy attractive and i only fuvk people i fancy.They are extremely difficult to find.

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over a year ago

I couldn't enjoy sex with guys like this

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!!

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times.

Respectfully disagree. I only find a very specific type of guy attractive and i only fuvk people i fancy.They are extremely difficult to find. "

Yep same. Yet I've still managed to find many in my lifetime and marry one...

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!!

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times.

Respectfully disagree. I only find a very specific type of guy attractive and i only fuvk people i fancy.They are extremely difficult to find.

Yep same. Yet I've still managed to find many in my lifetime and marry one..."

It's no excuse for holding on to shit in my opinion. If they fuck you about then they ain't all that.

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!!

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times.

Respectfully disagree. I only find a very specific type of guy attractive and i only fuvk people i fancy.They are extremely difficult to find.

Yep same. Yet I've still managed to find many in my lifetime and marry one...

It's no excuse for holding on to shit in my opinion. If they fuck you about then they ain't all that. "

Agree with this. But again....the sex!!!

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!!

Crazy sex can be found in many many places. I know. I've been there many times.

Respectfully disagree. I only find a very specific type of guy attractive and i only fuvk people i fancy.They are extremely difficult to find.

Yep same. Yet I've still managed to find many in my lifetime and marry one...

It's no excuse for holding on to shit in my opinion. If they fuck you about then they ain't all that.

Agree with this. But again....the sex!!! "

Jeez you women don't help yourselves. Where's your self respect???

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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This thread is awful

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over a year ago

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Tbh he sounds more like a fuck buddy than a friend with benefits OP. It may be that you view him as an Fwb, but he sees you as an FB. Have you discussed this with him?

The operative word in Fwb is friend. Someone who respects you and treats you as more than just a sexual relief (and vice versa). If its always purely sex it may just be that your views of the dynamic differ. Say it to him. It doesn't need to be a heavy conversation, just talk about what you both want going forward and find a common ground. He might think you're OK with how things are if it's been going on this way for over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is awful "

I think its just taken a very predictable turn.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"So I see a guy just for sex. He comes round we gave amazing sex then he leaves again.

We have been doing this for just over a year. And the sex is insane.

My problem is he only ever comes over if he wants to (I cannot go to his as he has flatmates) so even if I am really in the mood and ask him to pop over sometimes he doesn't even bother replying.

Hence why I'm looking for other FWB. Im really annoyed that he does it I just think how rude! "

The man is clearly a fool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is awful

I think its just taken a very predictable turn.

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Not understanding why people put up with less than satisfactory situations you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is awful

I think its just taken a very predictable turn.

Not understanding why people put up with less than satisfactory situations you mean?"

Understanding and empathy are not mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is awful

I think its just taken a very predictable turn.

Not understanding why people put up with less than satisfactory situations you mean?

Understanding and empathy are not mutually exclusive."

The trouble with empathy is that it doesn't really solve anything. It wouldn't sound very sincere me saying "oh dear. You poor thing. Have a hug" would it? It's also hard to find empathy when someone gets into a situation that I wouldn't get into in the first place. Probably why I'm able to be more practical. Of course the op can take no notice of me and carry on in a shit situation. It's no skin off my nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop asking why he keeps acting like this and start asking why you keep allowing him to behave this way towards you.

Block him, forget him, there’s more than one guy to get great sex from in the world.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

Unfortunately op I think the nature of the forums means most people will respond quite flippantly not taking into consideration that's its real people involved.

The advice given to ignore and wait for them to come running is a good one but the problem is once you let them back in they revert to the same behaviour.

Not flippant at all. It's how I see fwb. Otherwise where is the line between that and a boyfriend? I won't advocate playing games either. None of this treat em mean shit. That's childlike behaviour and if it's meant to be only a fwb I don't see how that would possibly work anyway.

If I wanted a boyfriend Fab would not be the site I frequent. I think the point is that NSA does not mean that mutual respect and manners go out the window or become a one way thing.

Hence my point. Can easily move on to the next one. Why put up with shit from a fwb of all people. Doesn't make sense to me

The sex is CRAZY!!! "

So you're choices are suck it up and enjoy great sex on the other person's terms

Or get some self respect and go find someone who actually likes you rather than uses you as a handy hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh he sounds more like a fuck buddy than a friend with benefits OP. It may be that you view him as an Fwb, but he sees you as an FB. Have you discussed this with him?

The operative word in Fwb is friend. Someone who respects you and treats you as more than just a sexual relief (and vice versa). If its always purely sex it may just be that your views of the dynamic differ. Say it to him. It doesn't need to be a heavy conversation, just talk about what you both want going forward and find a common ground. He might think you're OK with how things are if it's been going on this way for over a year. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck his roommate at their apartment.....

When he comes home and you’re enjoying yourself....

That will learn him

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

A guy who is as good as the op says he is will have more than one fwb . As plenty of ladies have said , they are hard to find .

Since it’s just about the amazing sex , it may be prudent to accept things for what they are with him , and simply keep looking for a few more guys so that at least one will be free whenever you fancy it .

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By *he Ginger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just fuck his roommate at their apartment.....

When he comes home and you’re enjoying yourself....

That will learn him"

This!!!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It does sound a bit one sided OP. I suppose the way you deal with it depends whether it’s him in particular you want sex with or just someone you have on your list. If you are happy to move on to the next friend then do it but if it’s him you want to have sex with then maybe you need to tackle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a tricky business, even when it is 'Just' sex.

As some ppl mentioned earlier, either you get several fwb that you can call when you want to, but in that case you will become him... Treating other as a disposable sexual commodity, which seems to work for some, or , you tell him how you feel and see if you can understand your position.

Or you can seek for another one but you'll need to first establish some ground rules to avoid to feel like a wet hole being used by a guy, who, btw, is amazing in bed, empty his bollocks full of spunk in your wet hole love.

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

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over a year ago

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?"

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!"

Then ditch him as he's unreliable. Find someone who is.

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

Certainly sounds like someone who is unreliable. We all have occasions when we can’t turn up to a previously arranged meet.. Life has a habit of getting in the way.

But not to let you know is bad form.

Does sound like it might be time to move on to a reliable model...

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over a year ago

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

"

Feel free to pm me if you'd like to see my pics and chat. I'm just outside your age range, otherwise I would've done so myself

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

"

Good for you. It's hard to move on if the sex was as good as you say, but you will. Happy hunting!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Answering your messages is a form of respect, or disrespect if he chooses to ignore them.

It would feel horrible to know that when you would like to see him he doesn't even reply and yet you make yourself available and host him for what must be good sex between the two of you while you were doing this it lasted a long time.

I think you deserve to be treated better.

I'm glad you have moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bob's your uncle hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him you have a kinky idea and lock his cock up in a chastity device until he comes back to see you.

It won't be long lol and that's the time to start ignoring his messages pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bob's your uncle hun "
hes my uncle too

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

"He's married "
I agree. Or he is just using you, more than you are using him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bob's your uncle hun hes my uncle too

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Send him my regards

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Sounds like your throwing toys out the pram because you can't get it as often as you would like if I'm honest(just my opinion) you been doing this for over a year so obviously you like what get and seem more upset because you want it more

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another

I am trying lol

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Can I apply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like your throwing toys out the pram because you can't get it as often as you would like if I'm honest(just my opinion) you been doing this for over a year so obviously you like what get and seem more upset because you want it more "

And you private messaged me that why? It's called a forum for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another

I am trying lol

Can I apply? "

Haha bit of a distance to travel.

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!"

If the sex is that good then I can imagine it will be difficult but in the long term this would damage my self esteem. FWB suggests a degree of mutual respect. He's fucking you about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

If the sex is that good then I can imagine it will be difficult but in the long term this would damage my self esteem. FWB suggests a degree of mutual respect. He's fucking you about."

Yeah he is so I sacked him lol.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sounds like you're not his FB, just a booty call. Its disrespectful and downright rude.

I tend to boot people like this from my life if they can't maintain the basics of manners and mutual respect. In the bin, move onwards

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over a year ago

"I'm in a very similar situation. He cannot accomodate(also flatmates) so always comes here but only when he feels like it. If I'm horny and I message him I generally get ignored.

I ignored him for two months after explaining I found his behaviour very rude but now its seems we are back to square one.

Not that easy to find a regular fwb as suggested on here and also very hard to give up amazing sex!

This is exactly it!!!

If the sex is that good then I can imagine it will be difficult but in the long term this would damage my self esteem. FWB suggests a degree of mutual respect. He's fucking you about.

Yeah he is so I sacked him lol. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"A guy who is as good as the op says he is will have more than one fwb . As plenty of ladies have said , they are hard to find .

Since it’s just about the amazing sex , it may be prudent to accept things for what they are with him , and simply keep looking for a few more guys so that at least one will be free whenever you fancy it ."

I would have said that, 'have more cake and eat it' were it not for the 'he ignores my texts when he doesn'#t want it' statement.

That is just rude as fuck and disrespectful, and I don't think I could tolerate that however good the sex was!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Sounds like your throwing toys out the pram because you can't get it as often as you would like if I'm honest(just my opinion) you been doing this for over a year so obviously you like what get and seem more upset because you want it more

And you private messaged me that why? It's called a forum for a reason. "

clicked on the wrong link to reply! deleted and reposted here but your response speaks volumes

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By *he Dark Knight09Man
over a year ago

London

Hi OP,

I'm sorry to hear on how you've been treated. This guy of yours sounds like an ass! He can just use you like that. Did you ever hangout,have dinner/drink or go to movies etc? Something a fwb should be doing. Sound to me he was your FB.... He's crazy to be standing you up! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like your throwing toys out the pram because you can't get it as often as you would like if I'm honest(just my opinion) you been doing this for over a year so obviously you like what get and seem more upset because you want it more

And you private messaged me that why? It's called a forum for a reason.

clicked on the wrong link to reply! deleted and reposted here but your response speaks volumes

"

Sounds to me like she's a bit cheesed off that he's treating her like dial-a-fuck when he's got the horn, but isn't there for her when she's got needs. Not an unreasonable petspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of him for newer model, change is as good as a rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like your throwing toys out the pram because you can't get it as often as you would like if I'm honest(just my opinion) you been doing this for over a year so obviously you like what get and seem more upset because you want it more

And you private messaged me that why? It's called a forum for a reason.

clicked on the wrong link to reply! deleted and reposted here but your response speaks volumes

Sounds to me like she's a bit cheesed off that he's treating her like dial-a-fuck when he's got the horn, but isn't there for her when she's got needs. Not an unreasonable petspective "

Next time I want o post something I'm asking you to do it for me... this is exactly how I feel!

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

No way I’d have a fb that used me only when it was convenient for him!

Get him to fuck! New fb needed

Mrs

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol

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over a year ago

"Start telling him no, or ignoring him when he asks to come over.

This.. he might start responding to your texts more then

Done that and went about 4 months without seeing him. He kept wanting to come round and I said no for ages.

But it's like tonight we planned for him to come round and he hasn't even bothered to turn up!"

That to me shows a complete lack of respect. You deserve more than someone who will only meet You when they're horny. With a FB arrangement, there needs to be mutual respect for another

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over a year ago

"Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right? "

That doesn't make it a one sided rub. They should be doing each other a solid, when they are both horny, not just him

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol "

Good on you! Wish you every happiness!

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over a year ago

"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol "

Well done! I hope you find a new fb or two soon.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right?

That doesn't make it a one sided rub. They should be doing each other a solid, when they are both horny, not just him

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Yeah -but he's not worth a relationship anyway? -he's just a good fuck nothing more? -get another supplementary fb if that's really your only issue is what I say

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

"

Well its his loss i wish to be in your candidate list

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over a year ago

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

Well its his loss i wish to be in your candidate list

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It would be rude to not at least speak to a candidate lol.

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over a year ago

Well .... he wouldn’t still be seeing me if he did that

Good luck in finding a new one

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over a year ago

"Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right?

That doesn't make it a one sided rub. They should be doing each other a solid, when they are both horny, not just him

Yeah -but he's not worth a relationship anyway? -he's just a good fuck nothing more? -get another supplementary fb if that's really your only issue is what I say"

I'm guessing the OP is doing just that

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over a year ago

"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol "

What did he say?

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"Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right?

That doesn't make it a one sided rub. They should be doing each other a solid, when they are both horny, not just him

Yeah -but he's not worth a relationship anyway? -he's just a good fuck nothing more? -get another supplementary fb if that's really your only issue is what I say

I'm guessing the OP is doing just that

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Hope so or it's a waste of a nice person there

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Am I the only one missing something -he is a fuck buddy and not your fwb or even a partner in a relationship right? "

But he doesn't respond to her texts sometimes and failed to turn up when expected, having agreed to come round!

Fuck that for a game of soldiers, he's totally unreliable!

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over a year ago

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"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

Well its his loss i wish to be in your candidate list

It would be rude to not at least speak to a candidate lol. "

I hope to be in the running too perhaps OP

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over a year ago

"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol

What did he say? "

Well first he said he fell asleep, but then tried to blame me. I just quickly advised I didn't have to explain myself and wished him luck for the future.

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over a year ago

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

Well its his loss i wish to be in your candidate list

It would be rude to not at least speak to a candidate lol.

I hope to be in the running too perhaps OP

"

Oh you guys. Lifting my spirits all of you

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"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol

What did he say?

Well first he said he fell asleep, but then tried to blame me. I just quickly advised I didn't have to explain myself and wished him luck for the future. "

Wow he tried to blame you??! Hope that makes you feel better- you know you did right to chuck his sorry ass!!

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over a year ago

"So get another. Job done.

Yep get another

I am trying lol

Use me to make him jealous. If nothing else, I’m local

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Clever ninja move. Like it.

Mrs

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over a year ago

Best to avoid that kind of dynamic once it reveals itself - rarely (if ever) a positive outcome.

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over a year ago

"Seems like you are fallen in love is not just a fuck body os it?

no most definitely not in love with the guy! I am in love with the sex that is a very different thing.

but I told him this morning that we are done and I am now on the hunt for a new fuck buddy..... any offers (within reason obviously lol).

Well its his loss i wish to be in your candidate list

It would be rude to not at least speak to a candidate lol.

I hope to be in the running too perhaps OP

Oh you guys. Lifting my spirits all of you

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I'm going to rule myself out on grounds of distance - I can't se a FB/FWB arrangement when someone has to travel 2-3 hours to fulfil their duties. However, having looked at your pics, I will say this.

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over a year ago

"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol

What did he say?

Well first he said he fell asleep, but then tried to blame me. I just quickly advised I didn't have to explain myself and wished him luck for the future.

Wow he tried to blame you??! Hope that makes you feel better- you know you did right to chuck his sorry ass!!

"

Damn right I feel on top of the world at the moment, little horny but still on top of the world lol.

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"Just want to say thanks guys for all your wisdom and support.

The good news is I spoke to him this morning and told him where to go. So on the hunt for a new FB / FWB and I'm in no rush as don't want another douche bag like the last one. Lol

What did he say?

Well first he said he fell asleep, but then tried to blame me. I just quickly advised I didn't have to explain myself and wished him luck for the future.

Wow he tried to blame you??! Hope that makes you feel better- you know you did right to chuck his sorry ass!!

Damn right I feel on top of the world at the moment, little horny but still on top of the world lol. "

well done you. thought you deserved better no go and get a nice guy that will want to see you more often xx

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