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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger yv’s I guess

X

Still Stella

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger tv/ts i guess

X

Still Stella"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It doesn't matter who you are. Don't make any rash decisions.

If you threw a coin in the air to decide what to do, which side would you want it to come down on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter who you are. Don't make any rash decisions.

If you threw a coin in the air to decide what to do, which side would you want it to come down on?"

Oh I like that questions.

But I agree, it doesn't matter who you are as long as you feel comfortable and confident in yourself. Why don't you keep the shoes and stocking for when you want to get dressed up even if that's once a month or so.

I don't see why you have to be a man 100% of the time. Indulge yourself once in a while. xxx

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Thanks perhaps my I’ll health knock all my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger yv’s I guess

X

Still Stella"

Be who you want to be Stella. There’s no right or wrong thing to do whatever age you are. I don’t think you’re too old to meet either unless it’s because you prefer not to. You seem unsure so I’d say don’t make any decisions and just be who you want to be each day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the above, and given what you are going through you may not be feeling ‘your normal self’ right now. Hugs and strength to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than getting rid of everything why not find someone to store it for you for a while?

Then in few months if feel the same get rid of, rather than get rid of now and regret

I have not dresses fully for while but never thought of clearing out as hope to get my mojo back

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

There should really be a catagory for people who identify as animals -would love to see more fauna on here.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Stella, do want you feel you want to. You have been through a very traumatic time, so just take your time and concentrate on your recovery. {{Hugs}} xx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger yv’s I guess

X

Still Stella"

Make another account, and keep this one.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"There should really be a catagory for people who identify as animals -would love to see more fauna on here."
?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t do anything too hasty at the moment. Leave it a bit and come back to it in a few weeks. As someone said, you’ve probably lost your confidence with your illness and feeling not like Stella.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Thanks kitty

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I refer you to my previous answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger tv/ts i guess

X

Still Stella"

Sounds like you want to be Stella.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I refer you to my previous answer. "

Lol

I see

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"So I’m thinking of changing my account to male and stop x dressing, not sure it’s the right thing to do since I got ill, I don’t expect to meet anymore as an too old, but I like the forums and banter, so why does it matter who I am?

I love being in stockings heels and lingerie, but the clothes and shoes can be sold to younger tv/ts i guess

X

Still Stella

Sounds like you want to be Stella. "

Sometimes

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I refer you to my previous answer.

Lol

I see

"

Well why not?

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Paying twice that’s why not

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Paying twice that’s why not"

Run one account without paying

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Paying twice that’s why not

Run one account without paying "

Or 2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what’s right for you.

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By *tella Heels OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Thanks all of you

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