FabSwingers.com forum: Mid-life crisis

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who’s having one? Or had one?

Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?

If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?

Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans!

) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all

Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m definitely having one. It’s the only explanation I can think of for this madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly one in progress here

Grown a goatee, working out like I haven’t since my 20s and started learning Wing Chun all in the last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner 24 years my junior

I jacked a very good job in for an unknown future late last year

I have lost a decent amount of weight this year and now go to the gym 5 times a week

The signs are all there ?

Mid life crisis tho ?

I just like to think I am making my life a bit better for myself

I deserve it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I had my mid life crisis when I was 30. Although I hope it wasn’t actually mid life.

I figured I’d get it out of the way early.

Maybe I’ll have another one later but right now I’m feeling ok about life.

Sometimes a crisis is required to get you out of the ruts that become your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine

I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.

I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have absolutely no idea

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine

I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.

I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers

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. same here... only keep the job ... just working less

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

I'm too old to be someone's midlife crisis now

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine

I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.

I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers

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same here! As much as I can’t aford it, I brought a sport’s car and acting like I am twenty. Can’t find a new lover and stuck in a rut. Lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sod the sports car ..I got a camper van... looking for a camper buddy or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh yeah i am! Hoping its more like a 1/3 of my life crisis!

The sports car is a sports bike!

18 year old girlfriend....nah, but im chasing couples instead!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You are closer to 50 than 40!

I don't know if I will - I'd like to type no but I can clearly imagine me doing so.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think turning bi was my mid life crisis but as I’m gonna live to be 100, I’m not half way yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having some sort of crisis, let’s hope it’s not quite mid life just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always in some kind of crisis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are closer to 50 than 40!

I don't know if I will - I'd like to type no but I can clearly imagine me doing so.

I know, right!!

It’s my youthful good looks that’s so deceiving!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve just changed house car and job. Does that class as a midlife crisis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was a mid life crisis but when I lost my Dad to cancer a few years ago it really made me think about my own life and what I wanted and needed from it. Joining the swinging scene was just one decision I made to improve my life.....Hmmmm.......having just said that, maybe it was a crisis after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think thats why i joined if im honest

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'd have to grow up in order to have a mid life crisis!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Mr Mid Life Crisis

I've even got the convertible haha

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I thought this whole site was evidence of a mid life crisis -seems to get some earlier than others though

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Did mine a couple of years back ... re located from city to country ... left job and Home and everyone behind ... and I started afresh ... and I love it best thing I ever did ... got my dream house in my dream location , new friends and exercisewith yoga and Pilates .. gave up the booze too and feel great

Life is fantastic

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Going to a lot of funerals in the last 18 months certainly focusses your mind on your own mortality.

I wouldn't say it's a mid life crisis, maybe more of a wake up moment.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I'm at that mid life point but I'm distracted by all the glitter and pretty stuff I keep buying. No crisis here move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure in in the middle of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet my mid life crisis trumps the rest of you

I've always said... If you're going to do something you may as well go all in

But you know what. There's part of me that thinks a mid life crisis is quite a good thing now (it'll be even better if I can find a 20yr old girlfriend haha

). It's a moment of reassessment and rejuvenation. It's the last cry of a rebellious youth in the face of oppressive social conventions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in complete denial of my age so it's impossible for me to have one.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I was once someone's mid-life crisis. 18 years old and with a guy more than twice my age. I was enjoying life, clubbing, staying up all night, working hard all day... It lasted almost 2 years. Looking back on it now it must have nearly killed him trying to keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the term 'mid life crises' is a very negative phrase. I prefer to call it a 'mid life realignment'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have one and bought a classic car

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm just carrying on as I did in my 20's so if others perceive that as a midlife crisis then so be it! I still like the same clothes and cars, I still like going out often, I still like buying the latest gadgets, I just have more money to indulge it than I used to

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Who’s having one? Or had one?

Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?

If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?

Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans!

) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all

Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?

One is more achievable than the other! You will find the best insurance details for a 2 seater on moneysupermarket

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"I'd have to grow up in order to have a mid life crisis!!!

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Lol love this one. Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who’s having one? Or had one?

Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?

If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?

Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans!

) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all

Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?

One is more achievable than the other! You will find the best insurance details for a 2 seater on moneysupermarket

And the best chance of finding a young girlfriend on cradlesnatchersRus.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

My husband is by having this mistress 18 years younger than him (and me...)

Apparently my 4-stone weight loss was my midlife crisis, he says.

I’ve been on the swinger scene on and off for 10 tears, so not really a mid life crisis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually better now than I was 10 years ago.

I'm a better man, feel better and know so much more.

Experience of my younger years is paying off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually better now than I was 10 years ago.

I'm a better man, feel better and know so much more.

Experience of my younger years is paying off now"

If only i could remember my youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm... I'm not sure if this one is the mid life one or the one before was... or the one before that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did mine a couple of years back ... re located from city to country ... left job and Home and everyone behind ... and I started afresh ... and I love it best thing I ever did ... got my dream house in my dream location , new friends and exercisewith yoga and Pilates .. gave up the booze too and feel great

Life is fantastic

Are you rich?

Money is the only thing that would help me out of my predicament.

The lottery is my only hope

Good for you though - I'd love to do what you've done x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I’ve been having one since I was about 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much a mid life crisis but I definitely re evaluated my life a few years ago. X

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

Nah no mid-life crisis for me... just general life crises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.

Apparently, older dudes who date younger ladies live longer and are in better health, which means if you're a single guy who's getting on in years, you might want to consider hooking up with a hot, young, millennial girlfriend. It's for your health, after all."

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Life is fantastic

Are you rich?

Money is the only thing that would help me out of my predicament.

The lottery is my only hope

Good for you though - I'd love to do what you've done x"

My partner passed and left me able to do it unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I don't know whether it's midlife because I don't know how long I will live lol. But I am a 33 year old mother of 4, semi professional job, married for 15 years and a formerly saintly wife. I had never even kissed another man/woman since I was a teenager. Then I got so tired of the mundane, I got a new job, gained more confidence and all that old routine went out the window. My husband gave me the space to develop as a person this year. Even though he hasn't much been involved he has allowed me to develop and explore myself as a person and I guess the thing that has changed most about me this year has been my sexuality. I am a completely different person, I met him so young. He is 10 years older than me and got to do so much before we met but I felt like I had missed out so much getting married and having babies young.

I not harming anyone else so I am embracing it. My extended family, brother sister's and mum and dad have all noticed a change in me but that is because I am not being a doormat any more and I am not doing all the legwork of relationships with them. I have moved on this year, grown up and put myself first for a bit for once and I think this has been my happiest year yet apart from losing a very dear relative. Maybe it isn't so much of a midlife crisis than actually making myself happy rather than living my life for other people's approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to the ever scientifically accurate Maxim magazine "Multiple studies suggest the key to a long and prosperous life is not eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women.

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

Is it available on the NHS?

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Drive the 2seater convertible and moved to spain. What crisis!!!!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Think I'm mid way through mine. Dyed my hair a really bright colour and out every weekend practically. Oh and the new found liking for guys at least 10 years younger than me! Pretty tame but cant afford the new car haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm passed that stage now,in my 40s I passed my bike test and got a motorbike,it felt right at the time,but alas it was midlife crisis,men=motorbikes,women=tattoos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I don't know whether it's midlife because I don't know how long I will live lol. But I am a 33 year old mother of 4, semi professional job, married for 15 years and a formerly saintly wife. I had never even kissed another man/woman since I was a teenager. Then I got so tired of the mundane, I got a new job, gained more confidence and all that old routine went out the window. My husband gave me the space to develop as a person this year. Even though he hasn't much been involved he has allowed me to develop and explore myself as a person and I guess the thing that has changed most about me this year has been my sexuality. I am a completely different person, I met him so young. He is 10 years older than me and got to do so much before we met but I felt like I had missed out so much getting married and having babies young.

that’s brilliant!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

lead me there my friend! I’m right with you!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?

I'm 55 this coming monday

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?

I'm 55 this coming monday

Happy birthday mate!

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

Too old for a mid life crisis but it didn't stop me

Jacked my job and spent 6 months travelling and planning my next trip now

happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So Dan... where shall we start looking?

I turn 50 next month, any younger ladies looking for an older guy?

I'm 55 this coming monday

Happy birthday mate!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My midlife crisis came early four years ago. I got into swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is bumping you own thread another sign!?

Or just pure attention seeking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is bumping you own thread another sign!?

Or just pure attention seeking?

Both, now get your arse into my messages and comfort me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I think I’ve had seven mid life crisises. I’ll be dead before I’m 40.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is bumping you own thread another sign!?

Or just pure attention seeking?

Both, now get your arse into my messages and comfort me!!!

Oops! Off to other social media instant messaging channel of choice ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am most definitely right in the midst of one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No crisis... I just don't give a damn what anyone else thinks these days and want to enjoy life and grow old disgracefully.

My dad thinks I've been having a mid life crisis since getting my first tattoo in my mid 30s, then more and dying my hair random colours since turning 40.

Nits

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Who’s having one? Or had one?

Or are you far too grounded for any of that nonsense?

If you’re too young for all that, do you think you’ll have one?

Maybe me signing up again to a casual sex site (for that’s what Fab *really* is Swing fans!

) is my way of recognising that life is rushing on by .. I’m nearer 50 than 40 after all

Should I buy myself a sporty convertable and find myself an 18 year old girlfriend?

I've never grown up so no midlife crisis to have

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I'm definitely ready to have a mid life crisis - I'm bored rigid with routine

I'd love to have the balls ( and money ) to pack up and leave.

I'd love to relocate somewhere, new job, new life and new lovers

I'm seriously considering doing just this, next year myself.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Maybe about 4 years ago...when I decided there's more to life than work ing all the time....now I have that work life balance. It was a about 3 years ago I decided I would be in the best shape ever and also the fittest not sure I've achieved that goal just yet...maybe next year.

Bring on the younger fwb or whatever you want to call it and I'll be sailing though the crisis. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a mid life crisis around 70 and live to 140.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is having one he is trying to get the body he had when he was 21 he now is 56 and bodybuilding he may get the six pack and muscle but he won't be 7 stone like he was back then

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