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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

Been told I have nice eyes a few times

Not a confidence booster as such but nice compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it’s just the day to day things

I get told about my eyes all the time but for my confidence it’s knowing I am good enough

Years of being told I wasn’t - stupidly believing it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’m a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it’s just the day to day things

I get told about my eyes all the time but for my confidence it’s knowing I am good enough

Years of being told I wasn’t - stupidly believing it too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuck with me for 3yrs and took every opportinity to make me feel like they cared analysed what drink i liked ,what clothes i liked,what i ate and the learned the jamaican style of cookin i eat n what i liked sexually and provided it without me asking ...and through that creativity i did the same back so yeah ...so yeah just many little things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it’s just the day to day things

I get told about my eyes all the time but for my confidence it’s knowing I am good enough

Years of being told I wasn’t - stupidly believing it too oh

I woke up ... it’s ok

Probably why I like to be in control

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over a year ago

"Stuck with me for 3yrs and took every opportinity to make me feel like they cared analysed what drink i liked ,what clothes i liked,what i ate and the learned the jamaican style of cookin i eat n what i liked sexually and provided it without me asking ...and through that creativity i did the same back so yeah ...so yeah just many little things "

Aww that's so cool.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Something I touched on in a comment on your other thread - Someone having the patience to wait for me to have time for him. Its nice to know in these times of instant gratification that someone thinks you're worth waiting for. Means a lot to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something I touched on in a comment on your other thread - Someone having the patience to wait for me to have time for him. Its nice to know in these times of instant gratification that someone thinks you're worth waiting for. Means a lot to me. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

One of my ex boyfriends (9yrs my junior) said to me that I had the body he always fantasised about a woman having when he was a teenager!

I felt like a shiny shilling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I’m a good kisser

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good kisser ehhh?

theory needs testing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grabbed hold of my todger whilst sat on the couch, then they tried to change the sky channel with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I like sent me a message saying good morning. Doesn’t sound much but the fact that they thought of me first thing in the day meant a lot.

Simple things mean the most at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through a bit of a hard time where my life was pretty much falling apart. I was completely overwhelmed by the amount of people who cared for me and supported me and went out of their way to be there for me.

I'd never felt so much love before and it made me feel good in myself that I was someone who could deserve that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I’ve had some ex bfs do some really wonderfully thoughtful stuff. One ex in particular was pretty amazing.

Surprised me one year.

I was listening to ‘I’m dreaming of a white Christmas..’ and I complained, there’s never a white Christmas here! (In London, it’s never cold enough)

He wanted to make sure I had one

On Christmas morning I was blindfolded and led downstairs, I could just feel something cool under my feet.

When he took my blindfold off, there was snow all over the living room and on the Christmas tree.

He’d been to Hamley’s, got fake snow, and woken up extra early to make some magic.

I’ll never forget that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told and keep being told i am amazing and i have a gift for creating wonderful orgasms now call me a sap if you must but

All i feel is lucky and honored

To have met some wonderful women whos bodys can do remarcable things i didnt know were possible 12 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just had the hottest thing anyone has said to me in all my time on Fab tonight, within the last hour or so!

Goosebumps!

Obviously it’s against forum rules to disclose PMs but she knows! Thank you!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate."

a good reflection on your personality

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality"

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you "
altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most recently? Via fab? Being told that I give an awesome blowjob.

And that person also being understanding and patient as I have a few sexual hang ups. Obviously there's been more important compliments in my life but that's the most recent.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite! "

stop the press.

a woman admits farting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite! "

thank the lord no mini maltesers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an older couple come over to me in a hotel restaurant when I was there with my 2 very young children to say how they had been watching us around the pool area and when in the restaurant, and were amazed how well behaved my children were and how happy they looked. They said they wouldn't dare take their grandchildren to the hotel because of how they would behave.

That made me feel very proud and made me think I must be getting a little bit of this parenting malarkey right.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

stop the press.

a woman admits farting. "

I don't just admit to it. I fucking love it! Brrrppffttttt.

Purely for hilarity and in a non sexual sense, however if someone let's out a toot during rumpy I will giggle. It's generally not me though, as I rarely eat n meet. If they do a stinker though, a dead arm may be on the cards, followed by a royal rumble.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I had an older couple come over to me in a hotel restaurant when I was there with my 2 very young children to say how they had been watching us around the pool area and when in the restaurant, and were amazed how well behaved my children were and how happy they looked. They said they wouldn't dare take their grandchildren to the hotel because of how they would behave.

That made me feel very proud and made me think I must be getting a little bit of this parenting malarkey right."

Love that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

thank the lord no mini maltesers"

Choccy raisins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

thank the lord no mini maltesers

Choccy raisins."

passion killer or what

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

thank the lord no mini maltesers

Choccy raisins.

passion killer or what

As yet I've been lucky! Nothing like that thus far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelling a good few hours when we meet.

Surprising me at a party.

Leaving me handwritten notes and chocolates.

Talk openly about everything with no judgement.

Letting me know I'm being thought about.

Telling me straight if I'm being a dick.

Tells me I'm beautiful ... and means it.

I've had friends that go out of their way to pick me up and give me lifts to parties, even when they know there will be nothing happen between us. I'm very fortunate.

a good reflection on your personality

Thank you Pat, that's really sweet of you altho missed out the trumps trumpibum

I shall add... doesn't run away when I fart. In fact we laugh about it.

Remember though, they're all bark and no bite!

thank the lord no mini maltesers

Choccy raisins."

Dong start with the raisins youl start up the tcake barm cake butty row of the century off again

Btw its a t cake not a current t cake oops i gone and done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

My dad told me that he was impressed with my work ethic and I had a natural talent for my line of work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone I like sent me a message saying good morning. Doesn’t sound much but the fact that they thought of me first thing in the day meant a lot.

Simple things mean the most at times"

I agree.

Someone once made me a cup of coffee and it meant the absolute world to me, daft as it sounds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went through a bit of a hard time where my life was pretty much falling apart. I was completely overwhelmed by the amount of people who cared for me and supported me and went out of their way to be there for me.

I'd never felt so much love before and it made me feel good in myself that I was someone who could deserve that. "

Love that.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

On here nothing really...there's a very fine line between deviant and genuine.

In the real world people say how fit I look male and female with no hidden agenda so that makes me feel good.

Or another is when young girls come up to me in a pub and say wow you look fab thats always a confidence booster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a good bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone I like sent me a message saying good morning. Doesn’t sound much but the fact that they thought of me first thing in the day meant a lot.

Simple things mean the most at times"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That made me feel very proud and made me think I must be getting a little bit of this parenting malarkey right."

That's brilliant. Strangers very rarely give compliments, you're a great mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me feel very proud and made me think I must be getting a little bit of this parenting malarkey right."

That’s nice. I have a friend who is a single mother of two. I make sure to tell her what a great job she’s doing. I’m not sure anyone else does.

I always notice well behaved children, I’ve got a lot of admiration for good parenting

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

How could I forget receiving flowers? Even dedicated a picture to say thank you with said gift on show.

That was when I was sad over my pooch and other things. Friends are truly wonderful.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

The best thing for me is every morning even if I’m sleeping, mr kisses me and tells me he loves me.

Sometimes it’s the little things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me feel very proud and made me think I must be getting a little bit of this parenting malarkey right.

That's brilliant. Strangers very rarely give compliments, you're a great mum.

Thank you

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Mr tells me how beautiful I am every morning when we wake up, even when I look like a zombie troll

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I’m much prettier in person than I am in my pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Telling me how sexy I am...

Or how sexy certain things looks on me.

Biggest confidence boost you can imagine...;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

Sometimes it doesn't need to be something in particular

Sometimes have a chat and laugh with a good person on your wavelength can leave you feeling fanflippintastic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

There's been a few things but the best was probably when Estella asked me to bend her over the sofa and "spunk her up".

I'm a sucker for romantic gestures like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

Sometimes it doesn't need to be something in particular

Sometimes have a chat and laugh with a good person on your wavelength can leave you feeling fanflippintastic x"

You got me out of one heck of a downward spiral last week. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best/ nicest thing that someone has said or done for you that boosted your confidence?

Either your sexual confidence or just in general.

Sometimes it doesn't need to be something in particular

Sometimes having a chat and laugh with a good person on your wavelength can leave you feeling fanflippintastic x

You got me out of one heck of a downward spiral last week. x"

That's good to read

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Turned up for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘You showed me what it means to be truly loved and cared for’.

That was quite nice for me to hear.

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