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By *he Original TT OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No, I like my women to have spunk in them

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By *goutimouseWoman
over a year ago

kenley


"No, I like my women to have spunk in them"

Pahahahaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?"
Noooo most people here are lovely they wouldn't be aggressive to your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very forthright this morning - I’m really hoping that the ones that think I was too ‘honest’ stay clear

I’m only put off of if their opinion is really offending - other than that , people will disagree.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes it puts me off. I think you can have discussions and debates without it getting personal or unpleasant. Too many ‘shouty’ folk at times. Could give a person a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Noooo most people here are lovely they be aggressive to your face "

That's like when some boys grow Facebook Balls

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

If i'm physically attracted to someone but see they have a rude, disrespectful manner that's a no for me. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If i'm physically attracted to someone but see they have a rude, disrespectful manner that's a no for me. End of."

I agree with Chill

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?"

The chances of meeting anyone from the forum, is too small to worry about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd few I’ve blocked but the majority of people on here can accept a good discussion, sadly there is the odd one that really can’t handle someone disagreeing with them and then a bunfight starts and I need to eat popcorn!

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By *he Original TT OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?

The chances of meeting anyone from the forum, is too small to worry about that. "

Actually, I've met a few from the forums - one was an FB for 3 years and another was my girlfriend for quite a while....

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Nah it’s only the internet. Will give them a chance in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?"

Aggressive and unnecessary in what manner?

See I sometimes see what looks like really uncalled for comments - then come back to a thread and it's two friends having a laugh.

I often see posts where peoples comments could be misconstrued as aggressive and maybe unnecessary - but having seen regular posts by that person they are quite blunt and say it as they see it instead of sugar coating their thoughts.

Or those regulars just having a laugh at the same thread type that comes up everyday - how big a dick do women like, who wants to watch me wank on cam, bald or hair, blah blah blah.

Ive not come across any particular person whose comments have made me think I wouldn't give them a chance, photo's is a different story though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Noooo most people here are lovely they be aggressive to your face

That's like when some boys grow Facebook Balls "
kinda I don't have Facebook mind it's intrusive

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No, I like my women to have spunk in them"

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By *he Original TT OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?

Aggressive and unnecessary in what manner?

See I sometimes see what looks like really uncalled for comments - then come back to a thread and it's two friends having a laugh.

I often see posts where peoples comments could be misconstrued as aggressive and maybe unnecessary - but having seen regular posts by that person they are quite blunt and say it as they see it instead of sugar coating their thoughts.

Or those regulars just having a laugh at the same thread type that comes up everyday - how big a dick do women like, who wants to watch me wank on cam, bald or hair, blah blah blah.

Ive not come across any particular person whose comments have made me think I wouldn't give them a chance, photo's is a different story though...

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No, the comments I am referring to can't really be misconstrued or taken any other way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all a front, come on be honest.

in person i bet most of us would have a good laugh and afterwards think he/she was different to what i expected.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?"
Yeah I just couldn't meet some of these so called 'liberals' too much like hardwork, couldn't have a laugh.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I just take it all with a pinch of salt. Some people come across quite brash and enjoy being the controversial troll, believing their pantomime villain persona will get them noticed and into someone’s bed. Some people love playing the victim and are waiting to be offended, so they can become the ‘white knight’ and impress the damsels in distress. It’s quite comical sometimes. We personally like a social meet in the ‘real world’ and then form an opinion from that. Anyone can be anyone when hiding behind a keyboard.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?

Aggressive and unnecessary in what manner?

See I sometimes see what looks like really uncalled for comments - then come back to a thread and it's two friends having a laugh.

I often see posts where peoples comments could be misconstrued as aggressive and maybe unnecessary - but having seen regular posts by that person they are quite blunt and say it as they see it instead of sugar coating their thoughts.

Or those regulars just having a laugh at the same thread type that comes up everyday - how big a dick do women like, who wants to watch me wank on cam, bald or hair, blah blah blah.

Ive not come across any particular person whose comments have made me think I wouldn't give them a chance, photo's is a different story though...

No, the comments I am referring to can't really be misconstrued or taken any other way.... "

In that case I haven't happened upon the comments you have seen. It doesn't particularly bode well though, we tend to chat before a meet, and if I feel someone is pushy, manipulative, demanding, deceitful or aggressive they tend to find themselves blocked without explanation and we wouldn't meet them.

I dont believe we have blocked anyone from the forums for comments to date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I see they are or have personalised things. That's a red flag for a few things that would most likely make us incompatible. It's also one reason I'll rarely meet a forumite. There have been the very odd exception but it's an exception for a reason.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm sure there are plenty on here who police the link between their opinions and their fingers for this very reason. After all most people on the internet/social media are amuture propagandists (even if subconsciously).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to learn that once you sign out of Fab for the day - then forget about it!

Its only an issue if you allow it!

Socially, I'd meet anyone off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It would put me off but aggression shouldn’t be confused with disagreeing with people’s opinions. I’m not one for sugarcoating things but I hope it doesn’t come across as aggressive. My main thing is bullying and i see a fair bit of it on here. That has put me off a few people to be honest.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Why we only meet, initially, in clubs.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Aggression less than the bigots, the arrogant, the misogynistic and the know it alls who snootily refuse to listen to the opinions of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they said, who to and how they said it.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Definitely puts me off. Everyone is entitled to have a difference of opinion but when it crosses the line in to full on insults then its shows a side which isn't so pleasant. Having been on here over 9 years i've seen a fair few discussions going too far and the insults get very personal.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

If someone as aggressive in one persons eyes they are forthright in others so wary but not put off. However the sarcastic, the sycophants and the snide shits are what really turn me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty who have put me off with their general attitudes and often pretty horrible opinions. If they’re local, I just block and let them get on with it

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London


"Aggression less than the bigots, the arrogant, the misogynistic and the know it alls who snootily refuse to listen to the opinions of others"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the aggressive attitude. People can disagree in a respectful way. I like debate. If it's sinister then I wouldn't meet them.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"After seeing some rather aggressive and totally unnecessary comments here this afternoon, would you be put off meeting someone if you really liked them, but then you saw their aggressive attitude showing in forum posts?"

Aggressive, or just generally off- putting? Yeah we need a good personality and attitude before we'll shag someone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I would lose interest in others if they displayed behaviour and values that weren't compatible with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet forumites at socials so if a shouty person was there I would probably steer clear

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