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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. " Single women don't generally want them but I find couples do more often. | |||
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Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it. | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. " Some larger size men think their dick is their main selling point or, in some cases, their only selling point. They're under the belief that any woman that sees it will instantly want it, immediately. Sadly for them most women don't think that way, and that includes myself. Personality, charisma, literacy, numeracy, intelligence and a sense of humour seem to be absent in a lot of the single males. So a dick pick with a message "u fuk now" is the best they can muster. And yes, we really did get that message with attached underwhelming dick pic. But they'll never stop doing it. Rational thought is something that escapes many males on here. | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it. "Oh and if men think that their dick is attractive enough to make up for their shitty personality, and is all the have to offer, they are very very mistaken  | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. " The unsolicited bit is the key there OP. There's really no excuse for lacking the common sense and decency to take a moment to ask yourself if you really, really should ever send a pic of your genetalia out of the blue to anyone (unless it's someone whose profile explicitly says that they welcome it). Conversely, I did recieve a message a year or two ago from a lady fabber (not on the forum, I hasten to add) that was very disparaging toward me because I didn't have any cock pics on my profile. Funny old fab world innit? | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it. "Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear). | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear). "It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life | |||
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"Back in ye olde days (like medieval times), did men used to commission an artist to attend at their quarters, paint or sculpt a highly detailed image of their cock, then hire a horseman to ride the length or breadth of the country whilst avoiding brigands and highwaymen to deliver it to the object of their desires? "Now there’s a thought | |||
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" Conversely, I did recieve a message a year or two ago from a lady fabber (not on the forum, I hasten to add) that was very disparaging toward me because I didn't have any cock pics on my profile. Funny old fab world innit?" That's odd. Although you're profile is a different place. People actually have to go there, and you can post what you like. So different to actively sending it too someone. | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life "Maybe not Alpha men  | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life
Maybe not Alpha men "What do alpha men do? | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life "But it's not something that just happens on fab - women get it on Twitter/Snap etc. | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. The unsolicited bit is the key there OP. There's really no excuse for lacking the common sense and decency to take a moment to ask yourself if you really, really should ever send a pic of your genetalia out of the blue to anyone (unless it's someone whose profile explicitly says that they welcome it). Conversely, I did recieve a message a year or two ago from a lady fabber (not on the forum, I hasten to add) that was very disparaging toward me because I didn't have any cock pics on my profile. Funny old fab world innit?" Remember my tea theory?  | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life
But it's not something that just happens on fab - women get it on Twitter/Snap etc. "Yup I used to get it on POF all the time. | |||
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" What do alpha men do?" They bety their spaghetti. | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life
But it's not something that just happens on fab - women get it on Twitter/Snap etc. "Yes but Twitter, snapchat etc isn’t real life, it’s online | |||
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"Back in ye olde days (like medieval times), did men used to commission an artist to attend at their quarters, paint or sculpt a highly detailed image of their cock, then hire a horseman to ride the length or breadth of the country whilst avoiding brigands and highwaymen to deliver it to the object of their desires? " | |||
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"Awk you can’t protest on here! The first line on my profile says I don’t want one sent to me. I have men who go out of their way to send me it, along with abuse and ‘you’re on a sex site grow the fuck up’ before blocking me
Some women do love seeing it. I personally don’t mind, I’ll want to see it eventually to ensure I can handle it. But not until I ask for it.
Yes, it's the unsolicited bit that's important. Totally get that you may want to see it eventually. But it's the 'the first interaction with this human I would like is for them to see my dick' mentality I don't get. Particularly if you're clear you don't want it (although you shouldn't have to make it clear).
It’s because ‘it’s a sex site’. Men don’t tend to get their cocks out when introducing themselves in real life
Maybe not Alpha men
What do alpha men do?"Just joking I don't recommend that approach | |||
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" Conversely, I did recieve a message a year or two ago from a lady fabber (not on the forum, I hasten to add) that was very disparaging toward me because I didn't have any cock pics on my profile. Funny old fab world innit? Remember my tea theory? "Abso-bloomin-lutely! You could write a paper on it and host seminars | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. " Its hardly a phenomenon  | |||
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" Conversely, I did recieve a message a year or two ago from a lady fabber (not on the forum, I hasten to add) that was very disparaging toward me because I didn't have any cock pics on my profile. Funny old fab world innit? Remember my tea theory?
Abso-bloomin-lutely! You could write a paper on it and host seminars "I really must actually write it down one day. | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. Its hardly a phenomenon "I use it as a filter. Anyone that sends one when I’ve asked them not to I delete the message and block them | |||
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"Men send unsolicited dick pics. All (most?) women say "Please don't send me unsolicited dick pics" Men continue to send unsolicited dick pics. This is a phenomenon I just don't understand. Are there any women who like to get random dick pics from strangers? Has it ever worked? Anyone ever hook up when the first move was to send or receive a dick pic? Is it like spam,if a dude sends enough will one eventually land? It just feels like, since all (most) women say they dislike it, it's a practice that should die out. Its hardly a phenomenon
I use it as a filter. Anyone that sends one when I’ve asked them not to I delete the message and block them "Me too.. | |||
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"I don't mind getting them alongside other face/body pics. Just not as the only pic. " As a first message? | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. " At least you got to see my mug | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. At least you got to see my mug "A very lovely mug it is too. Perfect size for dunking. | |||
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"I don't mind getting them alongside other face/body pics. Just not as the only pic. As a first message? " It would be the last bit I looked at (if I looked at it at all) - after the rest of the pics sent, message itself and profile. They're just white noise to me usually, easy to ignore but I don't care if they're there. | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. " I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY! | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. At least you got to see my mug
A very lovely mug it is too. Perfect size for dunking. "I actually broke that mug last year, it made me very sad. | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY! "What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick? | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?"Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?
Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related "You have to upload something first to be accepted though. | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY! "That’s one of the reasons I don’t join in those threads anymore  | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?
Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related
You have to upload something first to be accepted though."Not if you’re sending it in a message, you can add photos directly. | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?
Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related
You have to upload something first to be accepted though.
Not if you’re sending it in a message, you can add photos directly. " | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?
Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related
You have to upload something first to be accepted though.
Not if you’re sending it in a message, you can add photos directly. "Well you learn something new everyday as they say | |||
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"I was in a ‘send a pic’ thread earlier. Sent face pics. Received 4 dick pics in amongst the replies. It was a little unnecessary in a first message to be honest. I get that! Or the ‘send a picture to the person above’, I’ll send someone a random photo of food or my dogs, and ten guys send dick pics, even though I wasn’t above them I point that out and they say ‘so what’. DONT IGNORE THE RULES THATS WHAT BUDDY!
What if all your pics are public an the only 1 you have to send is your dick?
Send something from your camera roll? Or from google? It isn’t hard, doesn’t need to be fab related
You have to upload something first to be accepted though.
Not if you’re sending it in a message, you can add photos directly.
Well you learn something new everyday as they say"I’m a good teacher | |||
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