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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here? "
Just go to clubs

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

There's certainly a lot of other sites or other forms of social media apps that cater for swinging

Would I?...no

Ss

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here? "

Just use dating sites. More fly-by-nights there though, the veri system seems to make a difference on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't. Fab gives me discretion to seek casual, less likely to be outed by some boasting guy in a pub that he met me for just sex.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I would walk around wearing a sandwich board that detailed my sexual proclivities and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to put trousers on and actually go out and talk to people. Thank God for fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t to be honest...maybe tinder? Or actually interact with people face to face? But I live in such a small area where everyone knows everyone...my postcode is set somewhere not where I live but local enough. I don’t want everyone knowing my business

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I probably wouldn't bother tbh.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Before fab existed I used to used yahoo chat rooms. I guess that those don’t exist anymore. But where there’s a will there’s a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just go old school to pubs cafes cornershops

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would walk around wearing a sandwich board that detailed my sexual proclivities and take it from there "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id just go old school to pubs cafes cornershops

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Cornershops? Hmmm maybe I've overlooked a key swinging ground. I always wondered what people were doing lingering around the back with the air fresheners and the hoover bags

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

If Fab didn’t exist I doubt I’d have got into the scene at all so I have no idea. I’d probably still be shagging men from work.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

I hear behind the back of Aldi and Lidl are the in thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If fab didn’t exist my phone battery would last longer. That’s about the only difference.

I don’t really go around this site looking for any thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm getting a distinct lack of imagination here. Come on guys. Where there's a will there's a way. Fab is just a website. It doesn't define the scene. There are still clubs, adult resorts. I think gloswingers went awol for a while and only fucked guys they met in pubs.

I am forever more changed. I'm loads more sexually liberated and enlightened haha than I was when I first joined. I'm happy that I can take that into my vanilla life, go to tantric sex festivals, have sexy experiences dating, maybe try a few kink parties up in London just for a laugh. Without Fab you just have to get more imaginative and active imo. Well... that's my current theory haha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

99.99% of our meets from clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before internet use to be dateline and stuff like that plus ads in phone boxes and wank contact mags.

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

Teletext dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here? "

I was on a few other sites before someone told me about fab...

You can find almost anything you want on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here? "

Don't think i would have thought about it. So probably would be in a vanilla relationship watching corrie of a evening haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's an idea that came into my head when I read your thread.

Why don't more independent adult sex shops organise their own in-house toy meets and sessions, aka "Ann Summers party" that women usually have? Put a whole bunch of like-minded people in a room to exchange sex toy tips and suggestions and possibly even use them, and it isn't too far of a stretch to say it could be easily pushed in boundaries to become a full-blown orgy.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm getting a distinct lack of imagination here. Come on guys. Where there's a will there's a way. Fab is just a website. It doesn't define the scene. There are still clubs, adult resorts. I think gloswingers went awol for a while and only fucked guys they met in pubs.

I am forever more changed. I'm loads more sexually liberated and enlightened haha than I was when I first joined. I'm happy that I can take that into my vanilla life, go to tantric sex festivals, have sexy experiences dating, maybe try a few kink parties up in London just for a laugh. Without Fab you just have to get more imaginative and active imo. Well... that's my current theory haha "

If I was single I guess I'd do those things so my honest answer would be to work on my marriage a bit more. And lady wank more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess i'd have to resort to begging. Oh, hang on, i do that on here already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adult friend finder used to be good. Used it for years but now you have to pay through the nose for everything. Fab dulls a great need, it's simple. great chat rooms. Good news feed. Now if I could get a meet in Leeds that would be fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's an idea that came into my head when I read your thread.

Why don't more independent adult sex shops organise their own in-house toy meets and sessions, aka "Ann Summers party" that women usually have? Put a whole bunch of like-minded people in a room to exchange sex toy tips and suggestions and possibly even use them, and it isn't too far of a stretch to say it could be easily pushed in boundaries to become a full-blown orgy. "

I like this. A kind of behind the scenes network which isn't obviously about fucking around. But those who want to can easily find each other. Cool idea. I think some people have found Fab through chatting on Ann Summers and stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...how would you go about finding what you're seeking on here? "

I’m on another site and clubs are still around.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I’d go back to the alternative dating site I was on before. Just try to remember not to post pics of my norks and threads about swingers clubs in the forum on there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm getting a distinct lack of imagination here. Come on guys. Where there's a will there's a way. Fab is just a website. It doesn't define the scene. There are still clubs, adult resorts. I think gloswingers went awol for a while and only fucked guys they met in pubs.

I am forever more changed. I'm loads more sexually liberated and enlightened haha than I was when I first joined. I'm happy that I can take that into my vanilla life, go to tantric sex festivals, have sexy experiences dating, maybe try a few kink parties up in London just for a laugh. Without Fab you just have to get more imaginative and active imo. Well... that's my current theory haha

If I was single I guess I'd do those things so my honest answer would be to work on my marriage a bit more. And lady wank more often."

You wouldn't think about joining a cheating site? Have you tried it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tweet tweet..bukkake meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"99.99% of our meets from clubs. "

I'm often surprised by the amount of people I meet at clubs who aren't on Fab. It's part of the reason why I think there's life beyond Fab

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By *emmabTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Go back to cultivating pampas grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.99% of our meets from clubs.

I'm often surprised by the amount of people I meet at clubs who aren't on Fab. It's part of the reason why I think there's life beyond Fab "

I went to clubs before I joined fab. I was on another site though that hosts their own parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't. Fab gives me discretion to seek casual, less likely to be outed by some boasting guy in a pub that he met me for just sex."

Most men wouldn't dare admit they shagged the 'sort of woman that uses a site like this'.

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