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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a guy message out of the blue me to tell me I have a small cock, and then instant block so I couldnt respond.

I dont care about the content of his message (my cock is average size, I know that and have never claimed otherwise), just more that I couldnt send a response. What winds you up more, the message itself, or the inability to respond?

Note it would have been one response and that's it, not an exchange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a guy message out of the blue me to tell me I have a small cock, and then instant block so I couldnt respond.

I dont care about the content of his message (my cock is average size, I know that and have never claimed otherwise), just more that I couldnt send a response. What winds you up more, the message itself, or the inability to respond?

Note it would have been one response and that's it, not an exchange! "

Are you not more peed off because you couldn't respond and block them first?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the abuse and block messager is similar to the anonymous abusive letter, you have no redress so its enormously frustrating. Except on fab you do have redress, report the message, block the profile and sit back safe in the knowledge that admin will deal with it and you haven't had to sink to their level.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have more of my life behind me than ahead so I tend not to waste what time I have left on nonentities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever respond.

No matter how angry you are don't they are looking for it.

If it was a woman I'd be a little bit cheeky back because you can turn it around with laughter.

but with men never respond or couples as you'd only get the man on the account.

Be the better man.say nothing hit block.

Walk head high

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a guy message out of the blue me to tell me I have a small cock, and then instant block so I couldnt respond.

I dont care about the content of his message (my cock is average size, I know that and have never claimed otherwise), just more that I couldnt send a response. What winds you up more, the message itself, or the inability to respond?

Note it would have been one response and that's it, not an exchange!

Are you not more peed off because you couldn't respond and block them first? "

Ive only used block once. I just think its pretty cowardly for someone to abuse you and not give you the chance to respond. Thats the internet for you though...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever respond.

No matter how angry you are don't they are looking for it.

If it was a woman I'd be a little bit cheeky back because you can turn it around with laughter.

but with men never respond or couples as you'd only get the man on the account.

Be the better man.say nothing hit block.

Walk head high "

Women from couples are just as bad, if not worse! It's not always the men that are the keyboard warriors, women are just bitches!

Q x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they? "

I didn't see the status update.. if you don't like the answer don't ask the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

It wasnt on this site, so no, my current status wouldnt have been the reason for the unsolicited message. Same pics though.

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they? "

Thanks, and you're right, they dont really. As i say, itsnot the actual comment that annoyed me, more that I javent had the chance to reply. Waste of energy though really...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they?

I didn't see the status update.. if you don't like the answer don't ask the question "

Didnt ask a question, it was out of the blue contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior! "

Report and block. Seriously the answer to this lies with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet attracts some right weirdos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a guy message out of the blue me to tell me I have a small cock, and then instant block so I couldnt respond.

I dont care about the content of his message (my cock is average size, I know that and have never claimed otherwise), just more that I couldnt send a response. What winds you up more, the message itself, or the inability to respond?

Note it would have been one response and that's it, not an exchange! "

ahhhh but why did he say it? Was it a one off I don't know you but you have a small cock type jibe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t that the Fab version of knockdown ginger?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just had a guy message out of the blue me to tell me I have a small cock, and then instant block so I couldnt respond.

I dont care about the content of his message (my cock is average size, I know that and have never claimed otherwise), just more that I couldnt send a response. What winds you up more, the message itself, or the inability to respond?

Note it would have been one response and that's it, not an exchange! "

They're called cowards. They're more than likely not getting anywhere on the site and take their frustration out on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the abuse and block messager is similar to the anonymous abusive letter, you have no redress so its enormously frustrating. Except on fab you do have redress, report the message, block the profile and sit back safe in the knowledge that admin will deal with it and you haven't had to sink to their level."
yes I think I could rest easy in that knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

Report and block. Seriously the answer to this lies with you.

"

OP I think you messaged us the other night after we had a similar incident.

Just report it. Admins appear to have been quick as the account went UNLOS.

I found it frustrating that I couldnt respond but in hind site is it worth potentially getting reported yourself.

I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever respond.

No matter how angry you are don't they are looking for it.

If it was a woman I'd be a little bit cheeky back because you can turn it around with laughter.

but with men never respond or couples as you'd only get the man on the account.

Be the better man.say nothing hit block.

Walk head high

Women from couples are just as bad, if not worse! It's not always the men that are the keyboard warriors, women are just bitches!

Q x"

How refreshing to hear that.well done x

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior! "

He's probably reading this thread. You can still block him, use the option at the bottom of the message as it seems like a persistent targeted attack. Once blocked report him.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I do get cross if I can't respond but I do enjoy a counter block

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

He's probably reading this thread. You can still block him, use the option at the bottom of the message as it seems like a persistent targeted attack. Once blocked report him."

The op said not this site.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Not this site. "
Not this site does that site have block options? If so block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Isn’t that the Fab version of knockdown ginger? "
God knockdown ginger I loved that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

Report and block. Seriously the answer to this lies with you.

OP I think you messaged us the other night after we had a similar incident.

Just report it. Admins appear to have been quick as the account went UNLOS.

I found it frustrating that I couldnt respond but in hind site is it worth potentially getting reported yourself.

I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same character. "

Yeah we messaged the other night. I dont care aboit the abuse itself. I know my cock isnt huge (bigger than 3 inches though!) but would have been good to say my piece back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they?

I didn't see the status update.. if you don't like the answer don't ask the question

Didnt ask a question, it was out of the blue contact. "

So your status update doesn't ask a question? Id remove it if i was you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think his message may have been in response to your status update... You basically did ask for feedback about your profile... So not really out of the blue

I disagree with his assessment by the way. But that's just my opinion too... Neither opinion has any validity really, do they?

I didn't see the status update.. if you don't like the answer don't ask the question

Didnt ask a question, it was out of the blue contact.

So your status update doesn't ask a question? Id remove it if i was you "

Rhetorical maybe - but as stated a few times above, it wasnt this site so status is irrelevant on this occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

Report and block. Seriously the answer to this lies with you.

OP I think you messaged us the other night after we had a similar incident.

Just report it. Admins appear to have been quick as the account went UNLOS.

I found it frustrating that I couldnt respond but in hind site is it worth potentially getting reported yourself.

I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same character.

Yeah we messaged the other night. I dont care aboit the abuse itself. I know my cock isnt huge (bigger than 3 inches though!) but would have been good to say my piece back!"

Yeah so small we wanted to meet. Unfortunately the only measurement in the way was the distance between us which we both know will change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's messaged me again to send more abuse about my "3 inch cock".

No idea who he is or why. Proper keyboard warrior!

Report and block. Seriously the answer to this lies with you.

OP I think you messaged us the other night after we had a similar incident.

Just report it. Admins appear to have been quick as the account went UNLOS.

I found it frustrating that I couldnt respond but in hind site is it worth potentially getting reported yourself.

I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same character.

Yeah we messaged the other night. I dont care aboit the abuse itself. I know my cock isnt huge (bigger than 3 inches though!) but would have been good to say my piece back!

Yeah so small we wanted to meet. Unfortunately the only measurement in the way was the distance between us which we both know will change."

Yep, soon enough

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