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It's all becoming so samey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having seen this site grow in numbers over the years, I've been kind of forming an opinion of late that many of the profiles, many of the photos, much if what people say, is just getting so 'samey' and dare I say it, a little bit cliche

It's like someone said 'this is the formula, use it'

I'm not so much talking about the forums. They are what they are. By their nature you expect some repetition.

Have I just got myself in a slightly negative mindset and am seeing what I want to see ?

Or, alternatively, have I pointed out something that others have noticed too ?

In trying to be different, are we actually becoming more alike ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you need another break OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you need another break OP "

Another ?

Even I'm bored of them now

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Take some time out and come back refreshed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Law of averages dictates that you'll notice repetition on a site where the emphasis is sex?

I think we all get a little jaded, especially when we try something a little different and realise no-one pays a blind but if notice.

Hecj I even posed with a model train set

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If you sit looking at profiles all day then yeah I guess they probably do look pretty similar.

Ive found if you get out there on meets/socials/clubs and talk to people then there are some interesting individuals out there.

It's the difference between reading a menu and trying the dish I guess

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You mean all the cock photos and super hot ladies that you should never pass by are fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that quite early on from joining up.

I'm lazy where pics are concerned, and I can't make myself look better in lingerie or at differing angles, so I don't bother.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was thinking that the other day. I looked at someone's profile on a "what am I doing wrong?" thread and had a sense of deja vu. The pictures were all the "clichéd" fab pics.

If all the pictures follow the same format it'll make separating the wheat from the chaff easier as "unique" pictures will stand out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Everything is "samey" if you do it often enough. Humans are herd animals, walk down any high street and count the number of people who stand out in dress or hair style. There'll be very few, even "alternative" people look similar when you get them in a group.

Very few like to stand out as different in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days I tend to separate people's profiles into two categories... MingeMan and "the rest"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are afraid to be different. It's a social media age. If someone doesn't fit into the mould they are ostracised.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"People are afraid to be different. It's a social media age. If someone doesn't fit into the mould they are ostracised. "

This is very true. It's quite character building though

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"People are afraid to be different. It's a social media age. If someone doesn't fit into the mould they are ostracised. "

Ah fuck off Doris, I Hate you So Much Right Now

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETNRfcNIl2w

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are afraid to be different. It's a social media age. If someone doesn't fit into the mould they are ostracised.

Ah fuck off Doris, I Hate you So Much Right Now

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETNRfcNIl2w"

I rest my case.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I guess it happens to all of us sometimes. You can have too much of a good thing for it to make you a bit cynical sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a break like i do.

next one i take i may get my whole back tattooed

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"People are afraid to be different. It's a social media age. If someone doesn't fit into the mould they are ostracised.

Ah fuck off Doris, I Hate you So Much Right Now

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETNRfcNIl2w

I rest my case. "

See now I can retort that with The Most Beautiful Girl In The World

www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMnqtzUqTwA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

homogenization rules the nations

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My lobster photo is different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My lobster photo is different. "

it sure is

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My lobster photo is different.

it sure is "

I might change it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My lobster photo is different.

it sure is

I might change it. "

Snappy dresser

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"My lobster photo is different.

it sure is

I might change it.

Snappy dresser "

Don't encourage him, he might be wearing a pineapple his head soon!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZWEGB2XyIc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean OP.

Having seen this site grow in numbers over the years, I've been kind of forming an opinion of late that many of the profiles, many of the photos, much if what people say, is just getting so 'samey' and dare I say it, a little bit cliche

It's like someone said 'this is the formula, use it'

I'm not so much talking about the forums. They are what they are. By their nature you expect some repetition.

Have I just got myself in a slightly negative mindset and am seeing what I want to see ?

Or, alternatively, have I pointed out something that others have noticed too ?

In trying to be different, are we actually becoming more alike ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My lobster photo is different.

it sure is

I might change it.

Snappy dresser

Don't encourage him, he might be wearing a pineapple his head soon!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZWEGB2XyIc"

I've always imagined to have a touch of Carmen Miranda about him anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean OP.

Having seen this site grow in numbers over the years, I've been kind of forming an opinion of late that many of the profiles, many of the photos, much if what people say, is just getting so 'samey' and dare I say it, a little bit cliche

It's like someone said 'this is the formula, use it'

I'm not so much talking about the forums. They are what they are. By their nature you expect some repetition.

Have I just got myself in a slightly negative mindset and am seeing what I want to see ?

Or, alternatively, have I pointed out something that others have noticed too ?

In trying to be different, are we actually becoming more alike ?

"

I see what you did there

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"My lobster photo is different.

it sure is

I might change it.

Snappy dresser

Don't encourage him, he might be wearing a pineapple his head soon!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZWEGB2XyIc

I've always imagined to have a touch of Carmen Miranda about him anyway "

Miranda Hart possibly, but I can wager a bet that he's never been to see Carmen

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