FabSwingers.com forum: What are you waiting for before you leave? Or are you here to stay?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw will miss you on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Ohhh have you met someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If (God forbid) I was in the UK more often than not I'd probably leave, but for as long as that's not the case I'll likely stay. It's a more-interesting, rounded way to stay connected to the culture than the alternatives.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've only really stuck around for the forums, I doubt I'll be renewing my supporter next time it runs out.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Ive been on and off a good few times (when ive been in a relationship).

Ideally id like to meet the one and leave for good, fabs a great community but id like to think theres someone out there that will tick every box for me amd me theirs.

Until that day, im here to stay ( that rhymes lol)

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I keep thinking of leaving. I just keep checking in though. I don’t make much of an effort looking for new friends. I just keep up with the ones I have. And if someone else just happens to come along then even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine I'll be forever here but I'm not really actively looking for anything so I'll probably just get bored and log in less and less until one day I just don't anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep thinking of leaving. I just keep checking in though. I don’t make much of an effort looking for new friends. I just keep up with the ones I have. And if someone else just happens to come along then even better. "

Pretty much this

. Probably won’t leave again though too much faffing I’ll just hide profile this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffffm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffffm

Ha. Not planning on leaving anytime soon then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't see myself as being in it for the long haul - I think I'm far less active on here increasingly and when I no longer get enjoyment from coming on here I'll just stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffffm

Ha. Not planning on leaving anytime soon then?? "

Says you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get the urge I think I will just go hidden!! I always seem to come back. So don't wanna deal with the whole set up stage again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.

But to answer your question - I’m not sure what I’m waiting for. I’ll leave when it’s not working for me any more. As per when I last UNLOSed. It’s enjoyable for me right now, so I’m here for the foreseeable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffffm

Ha. Not planning on leaving anytime soon then??

Says you

I wish you luck on your quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.

I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffffm

Ha. Not planning on leaving anytime soon then??

Says you

I wish you luck on your quest "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll go when I lose the love for it

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can see myself leaving and have come close a few times. I seem to go through phases of enjoying the Forum and having a giggle to being totally bored shitless with the same old drivel.

As for the sex thingy....well that's a bit up and down too.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’d just leave. I wouldn’t hang around getting more disillusioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.

I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy. "

These are my favourite kinda meats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Eh, a couple of months?

What's the deal, is it lawyers and everything when you want to go?

I was thinking it was just a case of hitting a leave tab, about 2 seconds?

Nobody warned me of this when I signed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for long hopefully.

See how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think that far into the future, but if my arthritis keeps getting worse I doubt I'll be able to meet for sex, so no point staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Will be sorry to see you go. Good luck fella.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I will stay until I’m too old. If I meet the love of my life I hope he will be of a similar inclination to me so would then have a couple profile as well as this one.

V x

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Two reasons for me .. in no particular order.

1. If it no longer gives me enjoyment.

2. I meet a lady. Unless we met on here I doubt this will be a feature.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We've been here nearly 10 years, and I cant see us leaving any time soon.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Find myself getting more and more frustrated with the arrogance, entitlement and endless knob pics. Which isn't great or why I came and stayed here.

Only really worth it for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find myself getting more and more frustrated with the arrogance, entitlement and endless knob pics. Which isn't great or why I came and stayed here.

Only really worth it for the forums

Women are also like this. Besides the dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just waiting for the moment I think "Time to go and I won't immediately think hmm was I too hasty". That times close and it actually feels liberating at a major turning point in my life.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not sure yet I haven't really thought about it. Not ready to go just yet though, I like the attention too much.

I'm surprised by the amount of people who say they'll leave if they meet someone outside of here. I'd rather have my cake and eat it

I'll miss you if you go OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops, stop.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I currently see no reason to leave anytime soon as i'm currently enjoying myself too much

I might eventually reach a saturation point where I might take a short break but wouldn't see myself giving it up entirely under my current circumstances.

I often think i've crossed a threshold I can't come back from and for the moment can't see myself in a traditional, vanilla relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been thinking this will be my last time, I'll either Waite for membership to run out, or just leave soon.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

When I get into a full time relationship hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Buuuuut I wanted to ride your cock

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I can't see myself leaving, I enjoy the meets and just chatting to people without having to worry what I say or type.

The only thing that annoys me is how much time I spend on here. I'm worse than a kid with a new phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already sort of left. I won't be getting a silver account anymore or anything. Probably I'll delete the account all together.

One can do better in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the fun stops, stop."

I thought that was gambling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't leave until I've been the filling in a hot man sandwich, or a bun in a hot man burger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not waiting for anything. We'll probably leave when we're no longer able to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the fun stops, stop.

I thought that was gambling."

Works for most things really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve left Fab a few times and have been on and off for years. I actually miss it when I’m not on here. It becomes apart of you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ll stay whilst it’s still fun. I’ll just hide if I need ‘quiet time’ but once I go that will be the end of it. Everything has a shelf life.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Probably stay for winter coz i'm bored then fuck off next year when i move. Not really feeling like meeting anyone off here anyway, it was more fun when me and my sister cammed on here but that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will stay here for many years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will probably leave at some point, i will probably also return..

I always do..i miss the forums and all the characters on here and its also a good way to stay connected for the socials..

I also don't see myself meeting anyone new for the foreseeable future anyway ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving has been on my mind a lot lately,it's a forum thing,it fills some gaps at work,but lately even the forum's have not been entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days I'm basically just here for the forums, the boob pics and very occasional socials or club visits. If I met someone away from Fab (unlikely at this point) I'd disappear quietly, but unless and until that happens this place has it's amusements.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I'm not planning on going anywhere.

I enjoy the forums and chatting to the people I know from here.

Yes, I could do that outside FAB, but it's more hassle.

If I don't want to meet, I just hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't leave until I've shagged everyone.

Nearly there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is in me, it's my lifestyle so I don't see myself leaving any time soon. I also enjoy chatting on here with quite a few friends and the forums can be great fun.

I also have too many fantasies left to fulfill, many experiences that I want to repeat again, and there are so many people that I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't leave until I've shagged everyone.

Nearly there..... "

One final push now Doris.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I find that the effort I put into Fab has dwindled considerably in the past year. I was already on the verge of leaving last December but decided to give it another chance after chatting with some lovely daft buggers over dinner after the Lounge Social in Manchester. I've had 1 Fab meet in the past 18 months.

I'm not complaining (I've got something pretty great going with someone away from Fab and thanks to Fab as it's how we originally met), but the transient nature of Fab makes it very difficult for someone like me (who needs to connect with someone on multiple levels in order to have great sex) to develop and establish that kind of connection. I could just meet people purely for sex obviously, but without that mental component it would be mediocre at best and it wouldn't satisfy me. My year is almost up... I haven't uploaded a new pic in months... I've stopped organising events... I haven't renewed my subscription... I think it's probably only a matter of time before I simply stop logging in.

If you're still enjoying all that Fab has to offer OP, stick with it, but if you feel that the timing is right for a break, I wish you well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Can see us getting bored of the forum, doubt we'll do the big leave thing, just more stop posting and reading. But in terms of fabs and swinging, highly unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was only supposed to be here short term until I found a relationship. As it now appears I'm undatable (autocorrect changed that to unstable, it might have a point....) so I'm here for the long haul.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So since May we haven’t been meeting . Yes , almost six months without swinging , so why stay I hear you ask . Just as I would have done in years gone by . No point being here if you’re not going to meet is there ?

Well I don’t know if we will ever meet again , the desire just isn’t there . But I do like the forums and they help pass the time when there’s not much else to do . And perhaps we will decide to meet again sometime .

Will we just leave and not return ? I don’t know .

But what I will say is I’ve never felt more ambivalent to it all as I do right now .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly

But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens.

A lot of the posts on here have resonated with me. Like some others, I ceased seeking meets a while back and have enjoyed chatting to people on and off the forums instead. This wasn't because I wasn't meeting. It was because I had the savvy to realise that the only way I could compete with the vwe gym bods was to find a way to project my personality.

Like PlayD8, I really need a connection to want to get sexy and I find dating is much more suitable for that approach.

Like DeepBlue, I'm at a major turning point in my life. And it feels right to abandon unproductive avenues and refocus on what's important to me.

I've made some lovely friends on here over the months that I've been really quite exceptionally active haha

But I can't help but bemoan the fact that you're all virtual friends... and how much more rewarding it would've been for me to have put that effort into my local community and build a set of hands on friendships here.

To anyone who wanted to meet me don't worry I'll still be meeting. So stay in touch. Or get in touch if you haven't and we can exchange details. I'm as intent on having erotic adventures as I was when I joined. I'm just building up to pursuing that off Fab.

Pushing delete is the nuclear button for a guy. It's just so difficult to get going on Fab, let alone the many months and meets that are required to get traction. So by doing that I'm making a commitment to myself not to return. The urge will be strong to stay in and log back onto Fab on a Friday night. But I'll just have to go out and socialise

p.s for God's sake don't quote this post or we'll all be scrolling all day haha

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly

But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens.

Like PlayD8, I really need a connection to want to get sexy and I find dating is much more suitable for that approach.

Like DeepBlue, I'm at a major turning point in my life. And it feels right to abandon unproductive avenues and refocus on what's important to me.

I've made some lovely friends on here over the months that I've been really quite exceptionally active haha

p.s for God's sake don't quote this post or we'll all be scrolling all day haha

But I want to

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

Be like a kitkat.....

I’ve been here nearly 6 years. I have a horrible feeling that if I hadn’t, I might not have been here. I’m staying because it’s good fun both in reality and interacting with the pixel people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

Ironically I haven’t posted one today. To be honest, I’m not sure I can take much more of your poor mans, Mills and Boon, wet lettuce romantic spoutings that’s more suited to E Harmony dating, than a swinging site.

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

Awwww I love his posts. Do they have forums on E Harmony? I’ve never been on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here because the forums entertain us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here mainly for the forums now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

I’ll miss you, even though you’re miles away.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Left lots of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll probably re-evaluate after the Glasgow Xmas social. I don’t really know if I’m here for the right reasons and it’s of my own doing that I’ve got there

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I'm winding things up now on Fab with a view to leaving in the next couple of months. This time I think for the last time.

Can you see yourself ever leaving? Or are you here for the long haul? If not what do you hope to have gotten from it before you feel happy to move on?

We will definitely leave, it is just the timing that needs to be decided. Think the hardest thing will be leaving friends behind that we have made although hopefully we would stay in touch with those that mean the most to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re here until we decide we don’t want to meet anymore. Will miss you op x

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

It’s only really me (Mrs) here just now as mr is fed up of fab and taking a time out. I’ll only last until I get fed up of the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I will not be far behind you due to recent events...Im on a short wire right now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that. "

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination..."

Weird isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey OP I like your forum work and hope that you stay. Hopefully the food times meet-wise will roll.

I love food time meets. Eating is up there with orgasms in terms of joy. "

I’m having autocarrot errors all over the place today! More haste, less speed in terms of typing out stuff on Fab today it seems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you

I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

As soon as I start looking elsewhere for entertainment. Which for me is most likely synonymous with meeting someone and becoming exclusive, regardless of how we meet.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

'Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying "

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you

I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up. "

Ahh well in that case may your heart swell with a sense of belonging one day within the soft bosom of a feminine soul

Either that or may you keep rogering with your boner until it goes floppy

Whichever makes you happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want, you can quote this shorter abbreviated version which is... that my lifetime quota of reading Tame Impala posts has almost reached its max

My guess is I’ll probably leave this site before you do.

Awww come on you know you get wet when you read my posts don't you

I’m not a fan, they make me queasy, but they’re not aimed at me, I’m sure they have the desired effect with a certain sections of the sandy vaginas, no doubt they lap them up.

Ahh well in that case may your heart swell with a sense of belonging one day within the soft bosom of a feminine soul

Either that or may you keep rogering with your boner until it goes floppy

Whichever makes you happier"

*sheds a tear*

That’s beautiful, that really is a talent you have there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...

Weird isnt it

I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...

Weird isnt it

I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes..."

Do you watch men wanking on cam? You can play a ‘countdown’ game....

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over a year ago

I only just got here and everyone's leaving

! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys. "

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

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over a year ago

"Hard to say. I go quiet occasionally but this place holds a morbid fascination...

Weird isnt it

I think it's like people watching motorsport for the crashes...

Do you watch men wanking on cam? You can play a ‘countdown’ game....

Negative Ghost Rider..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly

But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens."

Good to know I can make you yawwwwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnn at least one more time

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

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But it's probably true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only just got here and everyone's leaving

! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!"

Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave!

I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't leave until I've been the filling in a hot man sandwich, or a bun in a hot man burger."

Not being pedantic, but the filling in a hot man sandwich would be hot men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the lovely messages and comments. I didn't intend this as an unlos type thread. When I go I'll just pop off quietly

But I'll be around for a little bit before that happens.

Good to know I can make you yawwwwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnn at least one more time

Damn you woman you did it again!

Seriously... Back away from the keyboard

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I only just got here and everyone's leaving

! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!

Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave!

I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site "

Its more like f@@king Russian Roulette....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only just got here and everyone's leaving

! Those will be some right boring games of fuck, marry, avoid I'll be having on my own!

Don't worry this place is like the Hotel California. You can check out any time you like, But you can never leave!

I'm sure most people on this thread will either stay or return. It's a very addictive site

Its more like f@@king Russian Roulette....xx "

So. Do you feel lucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’m bored of meeting...or I find a person I want to enjoy away from the site.

It’s keeping me intrigued and I’m meeting some lovely people that I wouldn’t have met otherwise currently.

So fortunately or unfortunately (depending who you are) I’ll be sticking around for a while yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

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But it's probably true. "

I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place

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over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.

BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm here for as long as it suits me. I wo t leave, but will hide my profile if I need a break. And to the OP, you will be missed, your posts are spot on. (well, most of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.

BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!"

See. This is why I can't leave just yet

I've got to know what happens with the gym guy haha. Will it be an exciting climax? A final pay off? Or cataclysmic finale? Or will it be that most infuriating of endings "to be continued"

God I hate those... just endlessly stringing people along from one series to the next without the balls to ever bring it to a head. That's why I can't do tv serials. I need my endings to be big and final

btw thanks Ms Wood

I make an active effort not to be too perfect

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

I think when it stops becoming fun.... currently in that lull.

Unfortunately I don't think fab is the best place for serious bdsm intrests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that I'll probably leave the site one day. Right now I feel I've done what I have wanted to on here and I've met some very nice people but I've also had a few unfortunate experiences too which has now made me feel disillusioned with it overall. On the other hand I have a lovely guy I see regularly and keep in touch with a few people, which is why I'm still on here. They make it worth while staying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

What’s funny?

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock"

Was that aimed at me

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.

BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

Was that aimed at me"

No, why would it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock"

My cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

My cock

Is that so?

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

Was that aimed at me

No, why would it be?

Just hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only here in the hope to suck your cock

Was that aimed at me

No, why would it be?

Just hope"

Right...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment

But it's probably true.

I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place

Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .

Problems arise for single women when they meet the quality men . They want exclusivity with the said man . Duh.... why do you think they are here ? So that they can enjoy the variety on offer of course . They would do well wherever they chose to meet , so being here means they don’t want women getting all possessive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont leave although i do have periods of time when i dont log in

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment

But it's probably true.

I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place

Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads

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over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment

But it's probably true.

I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place

Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .

Nail on the head

I think this is more to do with leagues. Women on here are easily able to meet guys who are out of their league because, unlike vanilla women, they're willing to offer sex up front to entice guys in. They then catch a super hot guy and slip into the fantasy that it's something more than just a fuck... or that they can turn it into something more. But the blunt fact is that the guy is only there because it isn't anything more than that. The moment the woman tries to change that it's adios.

I think high quality males are pretty slim on the ground in here and many are doing much worse on here than they would on a dating site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads"

Haha

I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?"

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By *arc1oneMan
over a year ago

oxford

Keep coming back , love/hate relationship. Lol

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

I will just retire when the fun stops ...though the forums are highly amusing at times and I’d probably miss that but when I do go I would like to go out in a blaze of glory with a hopefully hilarious thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads

Haha

I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?"

No doubt you’ll be back for an encore and milk it if for all it’s worth. Then be back in a week with a new account, because you missed the attention.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Fuck that leaving quietly bollox,I'm going out in a blaze of glory,going to start 2 or 3 leaving threads

Haha

I'm already starting out a prolonged Shakespearian death scene where I stagger around for a couple of months gasping for breath until everyone gets arsey and says "ffs aren't you gone already?"

No doubt you’ll be back for an encore and milk it if for all it’s worth. Then be back in a week with a new account, because you missed the attention.

Clearly you'll miss him the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for now there is no time limit before I must go or time limits I must stay till. You know when its time for a break or to go forever. After all for me its a hobby no more its not a lifestyle thing for me like some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is this going to be the longest most drawn out goodbye yet, lol.

No? Because I know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sad to hear that OP I enjoy your posts x

Fab isn't a major part of my life - so I don't think about leaving or staying.

I use it when I'm bored or horny or both

The forums are fun and I like to use it when I'm home alone and need some like minded people to blahhhhh with.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I guess one day I will stop visiting.

I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!

My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.

lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I guess one day I will stop visiting.

I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!

My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.

lol"

If you leave, send me some saucy pics afore ye go

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I guess one day I will stop visiting.

I imagine I may have pegged it at that point. No one really knows me in real life so it will just be Bye Bye Cinn!

My profile will just roll on and I will be the oldest non swinger in town.

lol

If you leave, send me some saucy pics afore ye go

lol you funny!

if i die i'll send you my password .

some never seen photos in there

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over a year ago

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Because I fancy someone from the real world and all my focus is on that, just have no desire to meet anyone else.

BUT if nothing comes of that by the 2nd week of December I'm gonna be looking for someone to have sex with from here!

See. This is why I can't leave just yet

I've got to know what happens with the gym guy haha. Will it be an exciting climax? A final pay off? Or cataclysmic finale? Or will it be that most infuriating of endings "to be continued"

btw thanks Ms Wood

I make an active effort not to be too perfect

Yes you have to stick around to see how it pans out!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'll leave for good if I had a boyfriend. I do browse the forums and will comment if something interests me.

As for meeting people off here, I have no interest in that.

You have no interest in meeting people on here or not on here? I think you mean on here but I'm just clarifying

Yeah meant from here. No interest in meeting fab guys.

Why's that if you don't mine me asking

Warning! The following reply may contain derogatory language and extreme levels of disenchantment

But it's probably true.

I wonder if it's to do with bad experiences with guys on here or more to do with status... the sense that a high quality male wouldn't join a site like this in the first place

Most high quality males on here do really well , and that’s not surprising at all . It’s a positive experience for them , just as it is for couples like us .

Nail on the head

I think high quality males are pretty slim on the ground in here and many are doing much worse on here than they would on a dating site "

Yep , and that’s the truth of it .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Been here a very long time and likely to be here for a lot longer - but who knows? Life has a strange habit of surprising you, just when you're not expecting it to.

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