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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

What???

Im sure there's something profound in your mind but...

No I doubt it.

But hey I'm not a woman so I refrain from answering the question at hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Interesting thesis, seems plausible but then again I'm not a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so, though I'm not too convinced by the whole alpha/beta labelling in 21st century.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just fuck people I fancy, who fancy me. I don’t overthink it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing. "

Alpha males can’t type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type. "

Aha! Is it that audio typing app?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

This!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Interesting thesis, seems plausible but then again I'm not a woman!"

It's self contradictory!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Beta males are Betta

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type.

Aha! Is it that audio typing app?"

Do you think any app could understand my monotone farmer accent ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

Are you new to the forums ?

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"And is this because beta males bring money"

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

This!"

Oh, totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing. "

Also I don’t understand the need for labels. But my answer is no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that. "

Two words, Bill Gates.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I had a beta Max video recorder. I don't think that got me any sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Interesting thesis, seems plausible but then again I'm not a woman!"

Judging by the reaction, I’m spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just fuck people I fancy, who fancy me. I don’t overthink it "
Dam I fancy you...am I halfway there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates."

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some might. I'm not sure I really know what an alpha male is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type.

Aha! Is it that audio typing app?

Do you think any app could understand my monotone farmer accent ?"

Eh? I wasn’t meaning you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates."

I’d fuck him

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Beta males? I think quite the opposite. If they can provide for their family, are stable in life and are good fathers, wouldn't that make them the alpha males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between an egg and a wank....

You can't beta wank lol

Sorry....I'll get my coat

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I had a beta Max video recorder. I don't think that got me any sex "

I had the other one! What was it? V2000 or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The alpha male hypothesis is bullcrap, it's based on wolf dominance systems from the 80's or something and a decade later the researcher published work basically saying g they got it all wrong.

Women are attracted to men, or partners who have power.

But power and status are subject to the individual.

Some women like muscular men and select that in favour over anything else.

Others like artistically creative people. Hence why a scrawny guitarist or singer might be objectively more attractive than Brad Pitt. That singer holds power in his niche.

This is why we have diverse complex societies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement. "

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by the dictionary's definition of an alpha male I married one.

My LTP seems the alpha type but I haven't seen him in a group situation (unfortunately).

Neither of them are poor.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

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Yadda yadda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting. "

Like I said you haven't a clue you what a alpha is or a beta if you go on what a 63yr old man looks like but then you are an attention seeker so why should you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a beta Max video recorder. I don't think that got me any sex

I had the other one! What was it? V2000 or something? "
Philips V2000.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going by the dictionary's definition of an alpha male I married one.

My LTP seems the alpha type but I haven't seen him in a group situation (unfortunately).

Neither of them are poor.

Oh and my ex husband was really bad at the sex stuff"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic."

Slightly off topic, but ooooh hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting.

Like I said you haven't a clue you what a alpha is or a beta if you go on what a 63yr old man looks like but then you are an attention seeker so why should you. "

Is every woman humourless on these threads ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Beta males? I think quite the opposite. If they can provide for their family, are stable in life and are good fathers, wouldn't that make them the alpha males?"

Precisely. What is more challenging, being attractive to multiple women and fucking them, or finding one which will help you raise and create successful children, committing to that fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting.

Like I said you haven't a clue you what a alpha is or a beta if you go on what a 63yr old man looks like but then you are an attention seeker so why should you.

Is every woman humourless on these threads ? "

Bless can't you take a bit of honesty that's really sad.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "
No, met many couples where the guy appears to be an Alpha.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Beta males? I think quite the opposite. If they can provide for their family, are stable in life and are good fathers, wouldn't that make them the alpha males?"

Nope. Not that any of those are undesirable either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just fuck people I fancy, who fancy me. I don’t overthink it "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic."

I don’t class myself as anything, new guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting. "

He is also probably one of the most influential people in the modern era. Influence is part of power, and the guy has bags of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic."

Omega.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic.

I don’t class myself as anything, new guy. "

Omega, you're Omega Man.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The alpha male hypothesis is bullcrap, it's based on wolf dominance systems from the 80's or something and a decade later the researcher published work basically saying g they got it all wrong.

Women are attracted to men, or partners who have power.

But power and status are subject to the individual.

Some women like muscular men and select that in favour over anything else.

Others like artistically creative people. Hence why a scrawny guitarist or singer might be objectively more attractive than Brad Pitt. That singer holds power in his niche.

This is why we have diverse complex societies."

Nothing to do with wolves. Alpha males are easily observable in chimpanzees, our closest relative. There are also alpha females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated "

I’m with this guy, quite agree mate. Not sure what the OP is talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting.

Like I said you haven't a clue you what a alpha is or a beta if you go on what a 63yr old man looks like but then you are an attention seeker so why should you.

Is every woman humourless on these threads ? "

Yes. We are all the humourless ones. Say something funny and we'll laugh and join in.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated "

Can you hunt your own dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this why I’m single

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated

I’m with this guy, quite agree mate. Not sure what the OP is talking about. "
You're not that deep yet 'Studley Moore'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The OP has made some valid points

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated

Can you hunt your own dinner? "

Only if it’s in Asda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why men have to be one or the other.

You'd class me as perhaps Alpha. I'm a welder, I ride fast bikes, no fear of challenge or foe.

I'm also caring, romantic and attentive.

A good man is a good man regardless of his outward persona. It's not complicated

I’m with this guy, quite agree mate. Not sure what the OP is talking about. "
Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And is this because beta males bring money

Well thats a joke they rarely have the impetus to do that.

Two words, Bill Gates.

Well you really don't know the Bill Gates story do you! The guy was an aggressive achiever I will just assume you don't know what an alpha is after that statement.

Take a look at the dude, he wears a cardigan and has a side parting.

Like I said you haven't a clue you what a alpha is or a beta if you go on what a 63yr old man looks like but then you are an attention seeker so why should you.

Is every woman humourless on these threads ?

Yes. We are all the humourless ones. Say something funny and we'll laugh and join in. "

Didn’t mean you, you’re great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alphas are merely survivors. They put themselves before everything else including their mate and offspring. The stereotype is bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The alpha male hypothesis is bullcrap, it's based on wolf dominance systems from the 80's or something and a decade later the researcher published work basically saying g they got it all wrong.

Women are attracted to men, or partners who have power.

But power and status are subject to the individual.

Some women like muscular men and select that in favour over anything else.

Others like artistically creative people. Hence why a scrawny guitarist or singer might be objectively more attractive than Brad Pitt. That singer holds power in his niche.

This is why we have diverse complex societies.

Nothing to do with wolves. Alpha males are easily observable in chimpanzees, our closest relative. There are also alpha females. "

This is true, however there are only really two ways in which chimps compete for alpha roles in their groups.

Fighting, or influence through grooming and caretaking activities. Grooming is measured in both males and females, however the other two traits are selection methods used almost exclusively by one gender or the other.

In homo sapiens we see so many different metrics by which people could be an 'alpha' that nobody can be an alpha. Simply put, alpha males should be able to get all the women they want to increase offspring output. However it's generally not the case in our species as one women may consider a certain guy ideal because of certain traits, however her friend might not even consider the guy as she selects for different traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

WSS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

WSS "

Anyone else going to put a thumbs up to this comment, or can we all move on now ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic.

I don’t class myself as anything, new guy. "
Mr alpha seems to be threatened by Mr new guy...alpha plus?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The alpha male hypothesis is bullcrap, it's based on wolf dominance systems from the 80's or something and a decade later the researcher published work basically saying g they got it all wrong.

Women are attracted to men, or partners who have power.

But power and status are subject to the individual.

Some women like muscular men and select that in favour over anything else.

Others like artistically creative people. Hence why a scrawny guitarist or singer might be objectively more attractive than Brad Pitt. That singer holds power in his niche.

This is why we have diverse complex societies.

Nothing to do with wolves. Alpha males are easily observable in chimpanzees, our closest relative. There are also alpha females.

This is true, however there are only really two ways in which chimps compete for alpha roles in their groups.

Fighting, or influence through grooming and caretaking activities. Grooming is measured in both males and females, however the other two traits are selection methods used almost exclusively by one gender or the other.

In homo sapiens we see so many different metrics by which people could be an 'alpha' that nobody can be an alpha. Simply put, alpha males should be able to get all the women they want to increase offspring output. However it's generally not the case in our species as one women may consider a certain guy ideal because of certain traits, however her friend might not even consider the guy as she selects for different traits."

That sounds very post modernist!

It isn't hard to create objective measures of what makes a male alpha. Like most things, it could be expressed as a 0-100 scale with only the top 20% considered alpha enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting a primeval urge to smear blood across my torso and run naked through Aldi towards the meat counter

...anyone?

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using your rational the logical conclusion is that Alpha males don’t get married, they don’t earn money, they are unstable, like confrontation and like risk?

You also imply that Beta males are crap at sex.

I am not sure what you class yourself as but it is not looking good either way if you use your logic.

I don’t class myself as anything, new guy. Mr alpha seems to be threatened by Mr new guy...alpha plus?"

I hardly feel threatened by a fun forum debate - the OP loves to start a good lively debate. Anyway I can’t be an Alpha - I am married.

I did like your Beta are Betta comment- that did make me chuckle.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

My interpretation of your post OP is that alpha is a physical attribute and beta being an intellectual. I think women ' settle' with you interpretation of a beta male throughout adulthood mostly because it goes back to the saying (paraphrasing here) that a fool speaks just to say something whereas a wise man speaks when there's something to say. My reason for thinking this way is because women like to be thought about, most women don't like to be put at risk through the foolishness of their male counterpart but most importantly they want stability which you'll most likely find in wisdom.

This is going off your explanation and what I can deduce from that.however, in reality there doesn't need to be brains or Braun there can be both. I think the kind of people that end up together in the long run are the ones that grow together in the sense that they have a level of understanding that comes from maturing and time spent with one another. This whole alpha/beta thing is nonsense if you ask me. I know some people would by your definition call me an alpha or a beta it just depends on who you ask. I'd say the so called beta males that women supposedly end up with make them feel safer in a physical, financial and mental aspect as oppose to just one.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm getting a primeval urge to smear blood across my torso and run naked through Aldi towards the meat counter

...anyone? "

Nah blood messes up my skincare routine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

WSS

Anyone else going to put a thumbs up to this comment, or can we all move on now ? "

I think it was most valid. Don't pretend to be the victim here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you're an alpha beta?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

WSS

Anyone else going to put a thumbs up to this comment, or can we all move on now ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if you're an alpha beta? "

You'll be reported for domestic violence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm getting a primeval urge to smear blood across my torso and run naked through Aldi towards the meat counter

...anyone?

Nah blood messes up my skincare routine"
We can swing by that isle too.

Time to go wild in the isles....

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Well us Zeta Zeta Gamma Deltas don't stand a chance with this lot ahead of us in the queue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. "
Nice back pedal

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

David Attenborough is going to make a documentary about this thread

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. "

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male."

He's an alpha male trapped in a beta body

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"David Attenborough is going to make a documentary about this thread"

He is a beta male too, but an alpha male would keep him safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Predictable back pedal "

Fify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. "

Lies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal "

Thanks new guy.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

He's an alpha male trapped in a beta body"

Yes, maybe. If he was clever he could get protection from an alpha male by offering ideas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

He's an alpha male trapped in a beta body"

That’s what confused me, is Bill Beaumont a beta male trapped in an alpha body?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal

Thanks new guy."
I'm not new, just returned after a long break. You just mustn't have met many couples OP. The reclaiming sex some would say is Alpha I think .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta "

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

He's an alpha male trapped in a beta body

Yes, maybe. If he was clever he could get protection from an alpha male by offering ideas."

I'd body guard him in return for getting his sloppy seconds. You know that guy gets the gooooood poon tang.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male."

Well you clearly don't understand what one is.

Just google it then blush as your faux pas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about tango males they were popular in the 90s

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

Well you clearly don't understand what one is.

Just google it then blush as your faux pas "

I would just ignore them what you have is a gaggle of wannabee males stomping round in boots attempting to be alphas while nervously glancing at the door for when the real alpha turns up so they can hide behind the sofa.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type. "

E’me

Nrry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha "

Ross got Rachael, Emily and Julie.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha "

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal

Thanks new guy. I'm not new, just returned after a long break. You just mustn't have met many couples OP. The reclaiming sex some would say is Alpha I think ."

No, the males usually want to suck my cock. Not my bag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode"

Was Gunther the only alpha male in Friends ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Ross got Rachael, Emily and Julie."

He lost his first wife to a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode"

Ross was sooooo fragile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Ross got Rachael, Emily and Julie.

He lost his first wife to a woman "

She was using him for his sperm so went for intelligence and good looks.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal

Thanks new guy. I'm not new, just returned after a long break. You just mustn't have met many couples OP. The reclaiming sex some would say is Alpha I think .

No, the males usually want to suck my cock. Not my bag. "
Mine neither, ok it was just a big sweeping statement you made then with little experience of actual couple's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal

Thanks new guy. I'm not new, just returned after a long break. You just mustn't have met many couples OP. The reclaiming sex some would say is Alpha I think .

No, the males usually want to suck my cock. Not my bag. "

And want to feel and smell the other guy's spunk in their wife

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Was Gunther the only alpha male in Friends ?

"

Rachels dad

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked. Nice back pedal

Thanks new guy. I'm not new, just returned after a long break. You just mustn't have met many couples OP. The reclaiming sex some would say is Alpha I think .

No, the males usually want to suck my cock. Not my bag. "
any ladies out there want to suck my bag?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Ross was sooooo fragile"

Try taking his sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No"

Hahahaha short and to the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Ross was sooooo fragile

Try taking his sandwich "

Only a fragile man would react like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Was Gunther the only alpha male in Friends ?

Rachels dad "

Oh I liked him

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I had a beta Max video recorder. I don't think that got me any sex "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Ross was sooooo fragile

Try taking his sandwich

Only a fragile man would react like that "

Not at all. Alpha males exchange food for sex with females whilst cock blocking beta males. Never try and take an alpha males food without offering the honey back.

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them.."

With respect you're talking bollox no wait... That's it, utter bollox

Lol @ "our humour"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The alpha male hypothesis is bullcrap, it's based on wolf dominance systems from the 80's or something and a decade later the researcher published work basically saying g they got it all wrong.

Women are attracted to men, or partners who have power.

But power and status are subject to the individual.

Some women like muscular men and select that in favour over anything else.

Others like artistically creative people. Hence why a scrawny guitarist or singer might be objectively more attractive than Brad Pitt. That singer holds power in his niche.

This is why we have diverse complex societies.

Nothing to do with wolves. Alpha males are easily observable in chimpanzees, our closest relative. There are also alpha females.

This is true, however there are only really two ways in which chimps compete for alpha roles in their groups.

Fighting, or influence through grooming and caretaking activities. Grooming is measured in both males and females, however the other two traits are selection methods used almost exclusively by one gender or the other.

In homo sapiens we see so many different metrics by which people could be an 'alpha' that nobody can be an alpha. Simply put, alpha males should be able to get all the women they want to increase offspring output. However it's generally not the case in our species as one women may consider a certain guy ideal because of certain traits, however her friend might not even consider the guy as she selects for different traits.

That sounds very post modernist!

It isn't hard to create objective measures of what makes a male alpha. Like most things, it could be expressed as a 0-100 scale with only the top 20% considered alpha enough. "

Yeah but you are missing the point. It's about natural selection.

Ask yourself this, how many traits are women going to select a male partner on, which are universal?

The alpha label is based usually on the ability to get women.

But women select on many traits.

Imagine combining these traits and scoring men on them, very few men would score enough overall or specific points to even come in the top 50 percentile

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode

Ross was sooooo fragile

Try taking his sandwich "
six inch sub?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them.."

Excellent examples. Tom Selleck looks like Dan the beast Severn and George is a soyboy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them.."

Alpha males are arrogant dolts, who think in binary terms and see in monochrome vision, there’s no subtlety or delicate shades of grey. I wouldn’t be proud to be an alpha male, they’re selfish, self absorbed and vain.

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them..

Alpha males are arrogant dolts, who think in binary terms and see in monochrome vision, there’s no subtlety or delicate shades of grey. I wouldn’t be proud to be an alpha male, they’re selfish, self absorbed and vain."

Gotta agree with this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, bill gates is a beta male.

He's an alpha male trapped in a beta body

Yes, maybe. If he was clever he could get protection from an alpha male by offering ideas."

Bill gates gets protection from the most powerful in society (the government, police, private security ect) because knowledge, innovation and the creation and distribution of wealth is a form of power. And its power that is indespencible to other powerful people.

To say he has a beta body, ignores the characteristics which women define alphas by.

And that's what you want, you want to know how women define an alpha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

All alpha males are gay asexual types who only fancy themselves

Real men are all rounders who know when to lead and when to be part of the team.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them..

Alpha males are arrogant dolts, who think in binary terms and see in monochrome vision, there’s no subtlety or delicate shades of grey. I wouldn’t be proud to be an alpha male, they’re selfish, self absorbed and vain.

Gotta agree with this guy "

This is my actual opinion, the rest is a wind up.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them..

Alpha males are arrogant dolts, who think in binary terms and see in monochrome vision, there’s no subtlety or delicate shades of grey. I wouldn’t be proud to be an alpha male, they’re selfish, self absorbed and vain."

How on earth would you know bu your own admission you hadn't heard about one before you started this thread.

When I want to grow roses next year will you come talk over them they will need fertilising.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You're so vain..I bet you think this thread is about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

All alpha males are gay asexual types who only fancy themselves

Real men are all rounders who know when to lead and when to be part of the team."
what a crock

Iv spent my life leading with a follow me mentality i believe myself alpha but i would do anything for my pack true alphas leap first take on that resposibility for all who they include as a packmate what u describe is a rogue male selfish only out for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're so vain..I bet you think this thread is about you"

That’s the title of a thead I started last week.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

There's some narky buggers on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

All alpha males are gay asexual types who only fancy themselves

Real men are all rounders who know when to lead and when to be part of the team.what a crock

Iv spent my life leading with a follow me mentality i believe myself alpha but i would do anything for my pack true alphas leap first take on that resposibility for all who they include as a packmate what u describe is a rogue male selfish only out for themselves

"

He’s saying that real men are combination of alpha and beta.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Well this has been fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alpha males are only funny to other alpha males, the rest of you don't get our humour.

Friends, The Big bang Theory, just beta males the lot of them. Now and again they introduce Alpha males to show the insecurities of the beta, and to show the women getting weak at the knees when presented with a real man.

For example in Friends well known alpha male Tom Selleck came in and fucked one of the main stars. Same for george clooney an beta male know for portreying alpha males in some movies/shows came in to get the womens hearts beating.

Alpha males are too busy laughing at fail videos online where people get badly hurt to sit through a full episode of friends, it simply is not aimed at them..

Alpha males are arrogant dolts, who think in binary terms and see in monochrome vision, there’s no subtlety or delicate shades of grey. I wouldn’t be proud to be an alpha male, they’re selfish, self absorbed and vain.

How on earth would you know bu your own admission you hadn't heard about one before you started this thread.

When I want to grow roses next year will you come talk over them they will need fertilising. "

Do actually think I’d hadn’t heard of the terms alpha and beta male before today, I know I live in Devon but new spreads fast across the shires. With regards to your roses, they are adaptable and can grow in almost any soil, just make sure it is well drained, deep and full of humus. The best soils however are medium to heavy loam, over a good clay sub soil.

You’re very welcome

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"There's some narky buggers on this thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

All alpha males are gay asexual types who only fancy themselves

Real men are all rounders who know when to lead and when to be part of the team."

And take it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's some narky buggers on this thread."

Nah. In the spirit of the op, they aren't being serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t be arsed to read the whole thread to be honest so my apologies if this has already been asked and answered!

But what is your definition of an alpha Male, OP? And are you one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this alpha/beta thing really exist? Or is just something that’s been created that’s not actually there?

I don’t understand all this alpha/beta nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can’t be arsed to read the whole thread to be honest so my apologies if this has already been asked and answered!

But what is your definition of an alpha Male, OP? And are you one? "

No, I’m not an arsehole, so I’m not one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be more attracted to beta types and that’s the kind I ususlly settle down with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Seems you are upset about this situation? Care to talk about your thoughts and feelings on this situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been wanking over Ross from Friends.... what have I missed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Seems you are upset about this situation? Care to talk about your thoughts and feelings on this situation? "

Scroll up the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this alpha/beta thing really exist? Or is just something that’s been created that’s not actually there?

I don’t understand all this alpha/beta nonsense.

"

It's not a real thing.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I usually send my mail second class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are not types, categories, things to be put in boxes.

Each and everyone of us is unique precious and whatever any of us may do we all change the world just by our very existence.

Women or men we don't meet types marry types or have relationships with types.

We do all those things with another, or others, who touch us in some way.

The labels they are inventions, and don't matter that much. People will always connect with those who touch their hearts and minds, not those who are labelled by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are not types, categories, things to be put in boxes.

Each and everyone of us is unique precious and whatever any of us may do we all change the world just by our very existence.

Women or men we don't meet types marry types or have relationships with types.

We do all those things with another, or others, who touch us in some way.

The labels they are inventions, and don't matter that much. People will always connect with those who touch their hearts and minds, not those who are labelled by others.

"

Totally beta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are not types, categories, things to be put in boxes.

Each and everyone of us is unique precious and whatever any of us may do we all change the world just by our very existence.

Women or men we don't meet types marry types or have relationships with types.

We do all those things with another, or others, who touch us in some way.

The labels they are inventions, and don't matter that much. People will always connect with those who touch their hearts and minds, not those who are labelled by others.

Totally beta "

(Just a joke x)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are not types, categories, things to be put in boxes.

Each and everyone of us is unique precious and whatever any of us may do we all change the world just by our very existence.

Women or men we don't meet types marry types or have relationships with types.

We do all those things with another, or others, who touch us in some way.

The labels they are inventions, and don't matter that much. People will always connect with those who touch their hearts and minds, not those who are labelled by others.

Totally beta "

* wails sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are not types, categories, things to be put in boxes.

Each and everyone of us is unique precious and whatever any of us may do we all change the world just by our very existence.

Women or men we don't meet types marry types or have relationships with types.

We do all those things with another, or others, who touch us in some way.

The labels they are inventions, and don't matter that much. People will always connect with those who touch their hearts and minds, not those who are labelled by others.

Totally beta

* wails sadly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Given that swinging is only a hobby for less than 1% of the population, and the number of paired up women seeking what they can't get at home is a very small fraction of that 1%.

I think you need to rethink this thread OP

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ?

Given that swinging is only a hobby for less than 1% of the population, and the number of paired up women seeking what they can't get at home is a very small fraction of that 1%.

I think you need to rethink this thread OP "
It's alright the OP was just burying himself alive to prove he can handle the shovel

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No - this sounds a lame, tired perspective on others

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

My ex is submissive. He's not competitive around other men or very manly.

I settled down with him asap, he was an amazing fuck (he got off on me getting off so i got off every time).

Don't get why anyone would think he is beta or 2nd best to an 'alpha' guy.

The guy i'm with now is pretty similar, although not as confident in bed but i'm enjoying training him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No - this sounds a Tame, inspired perspective on others "

Why thank you, I try my best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - this sounds a Tame, inspired perspective on others

Why thank you, I try my best."

Think the translate to Devonian app may be jammed up with cream scones and pasty again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Utter bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

Have you been reading those women's magazines again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread!

Well done for indulging his impish behaviour, everyone.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

WSS

Anyone else going to put a thumbs up to this comment, or can we all move on now ?

I think it was most valid. Don't pretend to be the victim here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alpha and omega

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type. "

Grrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting idea probably true for some,but not all women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find the alpha males are the ones I never fuck.

They seem to be rather shouty, and too busy typing.

Alpha males can’t type.

Grrrrr."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel..."

Why nonsensical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly don't and won't, hence being single for such a long time. I think the major reason women compromise is because of children. I've never had or wanted children, therefore have never had to put up with an unsatisfactory man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just when you think there really couldn't possibly be any more nonsensical drivel...

Why nonsensical?"
Joined the conversation late, when I read over what people where saying saw a bit of information worthy of study.Very impressed!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

After sine careful thinking I'd prefer a beta male.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Do women always settle down with beta males, after they’re tired of fucking alpha males when they’re younger ? And is this because beta males bring money, stability and are un -confrontational and avoid risk ?

Does swinging fill the void for women who don’t have an alpha male in the house to remind them of how good sex can be ? "

No offence buddy, but just because one is a beta it really doesn't mean that one is shit in the sack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I never heard of alpha or beta male till about 10 minutes ago, but I’d thought I’d jump on the bandwagon and wind up the forumites, because they’re a predictable bunch. Appears to have worked.

Ever seen american pie?

Oz = alpha

Jim = beta

Every seen Friends ?

Ross = beta

Joey = alpha

Neither are very extreme. Ross was hardly fragile and Joey didn't really look like he could take phoebe if she got the first punch in and went beast mode"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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