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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

On average how many messages would you say you get per day?

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If i post no pics or status around 10-15

A good picture or status 50 or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

Depends on what my profile says though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

On average 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double "

That should say 6

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Between 5 and 10 most days and if we play on cam up to 50. Profile looks about 30 to 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

About a 20th of a single message..or 1 every 3 weeks if I’m lucky

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double "
Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit I meant I get £1,000 a shag.

#pussypower"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/20 if I'm looking to meet. Plus it depends how many pics are on show!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Depends what filters I have on, if I have have a status update or post new pictures, or I'm active in the forums that day. It can vary from ten or so to hundreds depending on these factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit I meant I get £1,000 a shag.

#pussypower"

I owe you £997 cos I was crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a man and I feel the need to comment on this thread or else I'll feel left out. I have nothing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my profile hidden so only about 1-5 at the mo from people I already know. If unhidden then many more but not as many as most as I’m not here for casual meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About a 20th of a single message..or 1 every 3 weeks if I’m lucky "

I don’t believe that for a minute. Maybe the bulb has blown in your message box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit I meant I get £1,000 a shag.

#pussypower

I owe you £997 cos I was crap. "

pay it back in installments....or am sending the hitmen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen .... you’ll get the ones that tell the men they get hundreds , the reality is and the truth is it varies

Today I’ve had about 25 , Friday I got over 60 , but only due to a new picture. If I said I needed a cock , I’d get lots - any hole brigade

It’s a popularity contest on here to some - I’ve never been a good contestant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.

Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple, however if we put a status that pickle is looking for a meet it’s over 50 messages sometimes it goes mental.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on. "
I think the forum would help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that some women get over 200 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too."

In what way?

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?"
To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From non friends, between 0-5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.

Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men."

Online after midnight on a Friday and I get loads of messages. I'm more attractive in the dark.

Might just be the men online while wifey is asleep though.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Well nothing so far is suggesting that anybody really needs a P.A. keep em coming very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?

To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it."

A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard that some women get over 200 a day "

Really ??

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

At the moment 60 a day as im on holiday up north ...

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?

To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?"
Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower"

You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?

To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?

Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well."

What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double "

Looking well lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it."

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?

To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?

Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well.

What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that "
Messages, 70 today is a substantial amount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on which day, the time of day, how long I stay online and how I use my filters.

Cab be 5 or 6 from 3 different men, or 100 from 100 different men.

Online after midnight on a Friday and I get loads of messages. I'm more attractive in the dark.

Might just be the men online while wifey is asleep though. "

It's people coming home from a night out I think. Although, my age range is probably a lot lower than yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typically bout 50 a day but yh add a pic and it goes mental.. too many to message bk too

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. "
I think it would help especially fuck,kiss,avoid threads etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. "

I rarely got any from people on the forums.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

On average 8-10 a day. Post new pics it doubles

On average I delete most or send a courteous ‘no thank you’ reply to those I’m not interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way?

To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

A usual suspect as in you suspect I get a lot of messages or I post a lot?

Yeah usual suspect on the forums but I can understand the attention as well.

What attention?! I’ve even just explained I get hardly any...and I’m happy with that

Messages, 70 today is a substantial amount"

Not compared to those gals who get 200 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well nothing so far is suggesting that anybody really needs a P.A. keep em coming very interesting "

If I have a 'normal' profile I can get 10 messages in half an hour while I'm reading the forums. I always reply to first messages but while replying more can come in.

I don't have any pics so I'm sure that women with great pics will have tons more messages. On a phone it's difficult to reply quickly so I don't blame anyone for not trying to keep up- it's a nightmare.

So yes some probably do 'need a PA'. It doesn't mean they as women are being rude. It's just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 200 every day without fail. No more, no less. I’ve posted an ad on Indeed

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Maybe about 10 if I have been quite inactive, ie no pics or status updates etc.

If I put up a status of 'guys, read the fecking profile' it's amazing how many angry men it attracts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. "

If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in.

If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad. "

Oh I can post on kink-type threads and get messages months and months on!

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Well nothing so far is suggesting that anybody really needs a P.A. keep em coming very interesting

If I have a 'normal' profile I can get 10 messages in half an hour while I'm reading the forums. I always reply to first messages but while replying more can come in.

I don't have any pics so I'm sure that women with great pics will have tons more messages. On a phone it's difficult to reply quickly so I don't blame anyone for not trying to keep up- it's a nightmare.

So yes some probably do 'need a PA'. It doesn't mean they as women are being rude. It's just the way it is. "
No I understand completely a no reply means not interested and I don't expect any women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in.

If I post on a pegging thread my inbox goes mad. "

Actually, I’ve had that too. Like I want to peg a stranger. That’s saved for someone quite special.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower

You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either. "

One on its way... just for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower

You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either.

One on its way... just for you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower

You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either. "

500 said "fancy a fuck".

500 said "shit... sorry.. I mailed the wrong profile!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. "
Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?"

Because then they wouldn’t get the attention

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

Because then they wouldn’t get the attention "
oooh controversial statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?"

I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.

Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.

I need a PA.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh shit I meant I get 1,000.

#pussypower

You too huh!? Not one of mine says "fancy a fuck" either.

500 said "fancy a fuck".

500 said "shit... sorry.. I mailed the wrong profile!"

"

All of mine mention a barge pole...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

Because then they wouldn’t get the attention "

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.

Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.

I need a PA."
People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

Because then they wouldn’t get the attention oooh controversial statement "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between about 5 and 10 every day, depending on how long I spend online.

Much more if I upload a new pic.

I guess it depends on location and filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely open up fab to a message and i usually get them as i read through the forums, maybe 1 or 2 but it also depends whether its the weekend or not and the time, fri/sat nights i get more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I've put pics up or not or what forum posts etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.

Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.

I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox"

Mmm. I’m not really a fan of throwaway mental healthisms.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Between 0 -5. Today I've had 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today I have gotten about 70, but as you pointed out earlier I’m on the hot pics, and I’ve uploaded pics today too.

I reckon those who get about 200 a day either don’t use their filters or live in a very populated area. I’m in a quiet area in Scotland, but I was in London a few months ago and had 200 within two hours, and that’s with my usual filters on.

I think the forum would help too.

In what way? To get more messages, you are usual suspect by the looks of it.

Being on the forums doesn't increase the amount of messages from new men coming in. I think it would help especially fuck,kiss,avoid threads etc"

Possibly, although I was under the impression that it's the same people posting on them all the time.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Ummm... I got 3 today... All from the same lovely person. Its really really tough being this popular....

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I think a lot men would be surprised so far a lot of attractive ladies posting as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.

Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.

I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox"

I'm like that. It grates on me when I have unread messages and I have to delete ones I've answered. A cluttered inbox is a cluttered mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot men would be surprised so far a lot of attractive ladies posting as well."

Thanks

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"OP, you also need to factor in how much time a woman has free to be on Fab and what she would like to spend that time doing, perhaps that’s also why some may need a PA, lots of messages if having to read/review profile/reply “politely”, wean the chap who misinterprets a no thank you, etc because they want to spend the time they do have doing other things on Fab.

It’s amusing to see the thread from earlier has been revamped though. Yeah I understand but if you set your mind to just do admin and weren't talking or on the forums etc. Why don't more women just block the guys they aren't interested in after the 1st message either?

I think they do. There are a lot of men about. And also many open extra profiles.

Also, why would anyone just set their mind to just do admin? That sounds boring as fuck.

I need a PA. People might have OCD and like a tidy inbox

I'm like that. It grates on me when I have unread messages and I have to delete ones I've answered. A cluttered inbox is a cluttered mind."
Yeah I would be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on lots of things ..average about 40+ a day and that doesnt include anyone I'm chatting with either

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.

Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.

If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.

Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.

If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.

"

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.

Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.

If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.

"
Yeah you can be shrewd if you don't want the attention.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.

Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.

If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.

"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the most unattractive female profile. Even shadows have more messages than me. I get about 3 new ones a day. None of my friends really message me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most women know the game on messages and that is you get as many as you want.

Open filters put new photos up its hundreds.

If you want to reduce then use your filters don't put up photos and don't open messages and you can get it down to low numbers.

Exactly"

ahh keep the photo's coming ladies...I wank bank them all secretly anyway...

also..am too shy to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 to 20 if that. My profile sadly scares alot away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens. "

Mine are open

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens. "
Careful now you might get snowed under and have to hire a P.A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had 7 today and yes like some say depending on status or new pic it can vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.

Mine are open "

Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem

Us ladies get all the attention eh??

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.

Mine are open

Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem

Us ladies get all the attention eh??"
I know, I'm lead to believe you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to open up my filters and see what happens.

Mine are open

Oooh I got a message from someone from the forum today... wanting me to pass a message to clem

Us ladies get all the attention eh??"

I haven't had one message yet. I've just changed my profile pic and I probably should change my blurb too, now I come to think of it.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

10ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night "
Nice, you are gonna start an avalanche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"

No

Pics about 20/30

With pics 30 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night Nice, you are gonna start an avalanche "

On 8 now. 4 unread and a couple of conversations going. One looks rather promising; if it comes to fruition I owe you a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 new messages so far. I from a forum user I spoke to at the STP last night Nice, you are gonna start an avalanche

On 8 now. 4 unread and a couple of conversations going. One looks rather promising; if it comes to fruition I owe you a drink "

7 unread now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all my filters up & no new pics... maybe 3 a day.

Filters down & new pics.... upwards of 100

Two new pics on today and 277 views so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them."
you can handle a few more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them."

Stop showing off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!"

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them. you can handle a few more "

My hand holding my phone is going numb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 new conversations started. 12 unread, a few replied no ta who etc and a few conversations going.

I need a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"

I don't count but I know I delete way more than I've ever read. Only about 5% are ever opened.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My last message was 11 hours ago!

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

On a good day like 10, a normal day like today. 1/2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested "

I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between one and none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested

I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too "

I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.

I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested

I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too

I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.

I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out "

When I've dealt with the 10 unread messages.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested

I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too

I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.

I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out "
Ah shame, I was expecting an invite to the wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 new messages and a few conversations going. I'll have to shut up shop to keep on top of them.

Stop showing off!!

I have an opening for a PA if you're interested

I can't be arsed to read the 2 I've had let alone deal with yours too

I've had enough myself. I can't chat and read the forums at the same time and Mr Wonderful has turned out to be Mr Manoffewwords.

I'm turning off and chilling the fuck out Ah shame, I was expecting an invite to the wedding. "

I over anticipated

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Any more would be appreciated good research this

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Depends day to day but you have to account fir repeat messages. Id one guy send about 20 messages in the space of a couple of hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends though. I get about 100 a day since I’ve changed my profile to not meeting. Before that it was about 200. But you do get more if you’re showing on line and I usually am as I leave it signed on the laptop in the office even if I’m not on here so that’s probably why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite having blocked hundreds already and saying on my profile I’m not meeting OR chatting and am purely here for forums, I still get a few a day.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

About 100 a day since i changed to being a couple. I have got my fanny for a profile pic though so expected to be 'popular'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything from 30 on a quiet day to around 100..

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Normally under 5 a day.

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Appreciate the honesty being shown aswell

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail. "

I do want mail just so i can ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile - the occasional horny hubby when wifey is asleep pops up in our inbox. Generally speaking if we've no new pics or status - none. New pics and statuses garner attention - so we get around half a dozen to a dozen.

If we open it to single men and are looking for a meet we usually hit around 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail. "

That's what I do and set my age range to 99-99. Even if I forget to block men after unblocking for some reason, I don't show on searches as I have no preferences ticked.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

5 to 10, mostly from people who can't or won't read so get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"

Hardly any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete Men off your 'Looking for' lists if you don't want mail.

That's what I do and set my age range to 99-99. Even if I forget to block men after unblocking for some reason, I don't show on searches as I have no preferences ticked."

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Very interesting reading, i think this would blow some guy's mind's on here. Keep them coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?"

Average about 5-10 new people a day.

If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?

Average about 5-10 new people a day.

If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.

Well your pictures are very sexy!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?

Average about 5-10 new people a day.

If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.

Well your pictures are very sexy!

"

Ah you make me blush

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"On average how many messages would you say you get per day?

Average about 5-10 new people a day.

If I put up a status or picture it can easily be 5-10 every hour.

Well your pictures are very sexy!

Ah you make me blush "
Just as well I'm out of your age range then

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

20 +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From women 48

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more?"

I’ve had three today. Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more?

I’ve had three today. Yay!"
300?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more?

I’ve had three today. Yay!

300?"

No. 3

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this."

Who's they?

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"From women 48"
Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any more?

I’ve had three today. Yay!

300?

No. 3"
awwww hey I will message you to make numbers up

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Depends if you want the truth or the cliche reply

Truth ... about 60 a day

If I put a cheesy status on or a new picture it can double Oh I want the truth, it's like how they say if you ask a man how many women he has slept with divide it by 3 and ask a woman x3 but I don't think this is the case for this.

Who's they? "
you not in the loop

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We put up a "meet a single guy this evening" last Thurs and got over 100 messages in the space of about four hours.

On an average day, probably five to ten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by "
ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy "
Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the beginning 200 plus messages. If I'm not online much them between 10-15. If I'm online a fair bit then maybe around 50 to 60 messages. New pic on display usually 80 plus but that's only if I am online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe."
as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first "
No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required."
think about it like this, do you take advice from me? And there you have the answer

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By *r.Blonde OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"From women 48 Thanks but the survey is for women I know most guy's inboxes are like a tumble going by ahhhh the old man starting a thread just for women ploy Not at all would help to read the OP though. I think this thread is beneficial for men too, can realise not all women are snowed under with messages as they are lead to believe.as we are you mean, I've never been seduced by that theory but then I never approach a woman first No because I had a pretty good inkling already. Well not many women approach men so maybe a change of tactic is required.think about it like this, do you take advice from me? And there you have the answer "
No because you don't have vast knowledge or experience like some

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