FabSwingers.com forum: Why Fab ?

By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment the forums. I’ve left loads of times so can be all sorts of things.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Have you seen the rubbish on TV

I'll get my coat now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?"

Currently the forums. Hoping to be meeting again within the next few weeks though.

And closing my marriage up. Although I’m sure my hubby would have no problem with me staying on the forums

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A couple of friends and the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stay because it’s the best way to meet people who like what we do.

We do leave from time to time but always come back as the desire grows.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The forums especially when I'm on nights. I tend to be either on constantly or not at all. Gave up meeting so long ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and the forums at the moment

Oh and cock

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

The idiots

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The forums keep me on Fab

Vanilla love could possibly make me leave but that’s never going to happen so you are all stuck with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends and the forums are whats keeping me here..

Last time i left was due to anxiety and lack of confidence...once it returned, so did I

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"The idiots"

Is that for the staying or the going

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?"

The sex keeps me on fab

I'd leave if I got bored of the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people make me stay. They'll probably make me leave one day too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s generally fun and if I’m lucky I get to meet some really great women who enjoy the same kinds of things as I do

I’d leave if it wasn’t so much fun. I did so before.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"The idiots

Is that for the staying or the going

"
... I'll just leave that one deliberately open ended

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good link to the UK when I'm not around, particularly to a range of people I'd doubtful encounter otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people make me stay. They'll probably make me leave one day too. "

*plays a violin* That actually sounded really poignant. I guess that's what happens on Fab for most people. Sooner or later everyone would grow out of this lifestyle and move on to pastures new.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Sex with likeminded people makes me stay, love would make me leave - I'm not looking for that though

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I like the cam rooms and forums, don't really meet much any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?"

What keeps me on Fab? The fact that I own my sexuality as well as my sex drive, and I've no wish to partake in the d*unken mess that is conventional hookups from the nightlife scene. I much prefer to fuck with people who can be upfront about what they want, not be shy about it, not need to drink or have an excuse to do it, and also be open to exploring scenarios and boundaries together as adults fully enjoying themselves.

What would cause me to leave Fab? If I get attached to a partner in future I'd come off Fab and enjoy some quiet monogamy time to build up my relationship and love life. Or alternatively, I'd leave Fab if it seems to me that my time's run out on here, that I'm unable to rebuild any new social scene and find anyone who would want to meet me for swinging fun anymore. Happens to us all I guess from time to time, when we realise the scene's moved on from us, the meta of what's considered attractive and the new "hot thing/people in swinging" changes.

And in my personal case, I'd leave Fab once I end my time in the UK for good and have to return home. No sense keeping my profile on here anymore if I don't have a permanent life in this country or any other countries that Fab's active in.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I pop on to chat to friends and put up some pictures that are not for my mum's eyes. The forums I like to read and excercise my eye rolling. I'm not looking for new meets but maybe someone I come across ticks all the boxes for the particular kink I am involved with.

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Men

Is that staying or leaving though ?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I love the forums. The site is great for making contact with people who are looking for the same things as me.

I’ll leave when people stop being interested in meeting me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums iv been thinking of leaving all week but can even last a day

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Fab can be fun a lot of nice people here but the rise in people offering money is seriously spoiling fab admin need to stop it as it will eventually drive people away if they don't.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Shenanigans keep me here

Boredom would make me leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the pretty pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people have said the forums would make them leave. Why? Would it not be easier to just stay out of the forums???

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By *abfriendcarlMan
over a year ago

barnstaple

Love the banter and meeting like minded singles and couples thought about leaving a few times due to the ever growing fakes but faith soon gets restored by the genuine fabbers

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

The people we have met and hope to meet keep us here, something to make us leave...hmmm will have to think on that one

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Here for the sex.

The forums amuse me but I'm here mainly to get laid.

Working so far.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

I'm beginning to wonder why I'm here at all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?"

Interest.....lack of......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet some good friends and have a good laugh on here.

Would leave if I got into a relationship where being on here would be an issue.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Keeping in contact with friends and making new ones.

Will leave Fab when we lose interest and no longer attract any attention

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Addiction for the site

If i didn't have Si x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It suits my current lifestyle, not much free time, so helps me get laid regularly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for over 10 years never left but hidden my profile many times.

I joined because I love sex and I'm not cut out for vanilla type relationships I tried hence why I've hidden profile, but something brings me back on here

I'll be honest it gives me confidence getting messages and meeting different people where in 'real life' I'm shy and don't get much attention from men and even less from women.

I know on here there can be any holes a goal mentality with some but I'm lucky I've met only nice people so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An element of addiction, the forums and the what if possibilities. Can't be bothered to leave then go through the whole remaining as a newbie hassle which invariably happens.

I know when I next leave it's forever. It's soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What keeps you on fab ?

And

What would cause you to leave ?"

Have you had a problem with fab?, reads like you are searching for an answer, want to explain your thoughts on the matter?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Just the forums. Something to come in and read that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What keeps you on fab ?

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What would cause you to leave ?"

1) The (getting much harder) chance of meeting sexually liberated, attractive people.

2) It moving ever more towards a chat/forum site rather than one for meeting others of a like mind.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I stay on Fab so I can remember my password. Seriously, if I forget one more password I will completely freak out.

Oh, and I've also met lots of nice people here

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I'm still here as I enjoy the forum,having a perv and a bit of fun and the odd meet or two and hope to be around for a while!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I often think of leaving. I guess I just stay for the Forums really. They can be a bit of a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id leave Fab if I didnt have my friends. I love the social side. Ive left twice but come back. I love having fun and sometimes Fab offers me that x

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