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"My dyslexia effect my grammatical errors writing sentences and not so much on numbers." There are a lot of dyslexic people on here, sometimes I think perhaps more than the national average, but your posts are perfectly coherent - that's all that matters | |||
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"My dyslexia effect my grammatical errors writing sentences and not so much on numbers." People who write lots (like me) can often spot the difference between a dyslexic person and one who is grammatically inept. It’s to do with patterns and the way they write. Orlando Bloom is dyslexic. | |||
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"I personally feel people get annoyed by bad grammar because they feel like it makes them more intelligent or something. It’s bullshit ain’t it. " not necessarily - bad grammar can change the meaning of what someone is trying to say. | |||
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"I have been diagnose with dyslexia and i assume some people on fab may suffer the same condition. But im starting to get annoyed with some people who think, i or we are not able to write good grammer and considered as unintelligent. Dyslexia is a learning disability and i wondered have any of fab members expereince the same issues." Believe me if you know someone who is really dyslexic you know when someone is jumping on the bandwagon to try and pass off bad schooling as dyslexia. Real dyslexics use larger words they are literate and express themselves well its just the letters within the words are not always in the right order or all there. | |||
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"My dyslexia effect my grammatical errors writing sentences and not so much on numbers. There are a lot of dyslexic people on here, sometimes I think perhaps more than the national average, but your posts are perfectly coherent - that's all that matters " Thank you | |||
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"I personally feel people get annoyed by bad grammar because they feel like it makes them more intelligent or something. It’s bullshit ain’t it. " High 5 to that comment, i can't tell you how many i come across who do that. But i know im more creative. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason." Spell checkers only work if the spelling is only slightly off. Someone with moderate to severe dyslexia can be too far off with their spelling for a spell checker to sort. Though the ones I know use one automatically in documents and browser add-ons to help with a lot. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason." With the greatest of respect your showing your ignorance of dislexia. | |||
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"Dyslexia isn't a learning disability it's a learning difficulty. For a disability your IQ must be under 74. It alsonaffects people in different ways. Therefore the OP being able to use grammar correctly but not spell is his dyslexia. Mine is spelling and grammar. Therefore meaning my grammar is affected by MY dyslexia. It's very subjective and I get annoyed when people presume that all dyslexic are affected the same. It's an umbrella term used for a variety of different presentations. " I do apologise, you're right its learning difficulty and not disability. I missed words in my sentences and i possesses grammatical errors. | |||
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"Dyslexia isn't a learning disabilitie. Most dislexics myself included have no problem learning anything in fact they normally excell in most things other than spelling or reading. It also can be improved on. I'm the classic example of that. When I left school I could just about spell my name but back then there was no understanding of it so I was labelled thick or just plain stupid. Now I do ok and most ppl struggle to spot it till I point it out but that took a massive effort on my part and I've now done all I can to put my situation right. I still have no clue where punctuation marks or any of the rest of that kinda crap should go but I know I can easily be understood with a hell of a lot less effort than it takes for me to write anything in the 1st place so in all honesty I really don't see it as my problem anymore. If anyone want to challenge me over my spelling be it on here or anywhere else they better be of a higher intelligence than me as I'll rip them to bits no matter who they are or who they are trying to impress. They will lose in what ever way they choose to take me on." Rapiers at dawn, my good man | |||
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"Dyslexia isn't a learning disabilitie. Most dislexics myself included have no problem learning anything in fact they normally excell in most things other than spelling or reading. It also can be improved on. I'm the classic example of that. When I left school I could just about spell my name but back then there was no understanding of it so I was labelled thick or just plain stupid. Now I do ok and most ppl struggle to spot it till I point it out but that took a massive effort on my part and I've now done all I can to put my situation right. I still have no clue where punctuation marks or any of the rest of that kinda crap should go but I know I can easily be understood with a hell of a lot less effort than it takes for me to write anything in the 1st place so in all honesty I really don't see it as my problem anymore. If anyone want to challenge me over my spelling be it on here or anywhere else they better be of a higher intelligence than me as I'll rip them to bits no matter who they are or who they are trying to impress. They will lose in what ever way they choose to take me on." | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason." Likewise no matter how badly something may be written, as long as you can get the general gist..who cares! | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. With the greatest of respect your showing your ignorance of dislexia." I respect your opinion. And bad grammar, too. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. Likewise no matter how badly something may be written, as long as you can get the general gist..who cares! " gizza duck | |||
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"I have been diagnose with dyslexia and i assume some people on fab may suffer the same condition. But im starting to get annoyed with some people who think, i or we are not able to write good grammer and considered as unintelligent. Dyslexia is a learning disability and i wondered have any of fab members expereince the same issues. Believe me if you know someone who is really dyslexic you know when someone is jumping on the bandwagon to try and pass off bad schooling as dyslexia. Real dyslexics use larger words they are literate and express themselves well its just the letters within the words are not always in the right order or all there. " Extremely well said | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason." Can i suggest you to Google dsylexa and how it effects people in many. Unfortunately spell check don't support people who have difficulty using numbers. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. Can i suggest you to Google dsylexa and how it effects people in many. Unfortunately spell check don't support people who have difficulty using numbers. " | |||
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"Spell checkers only work if the spelling is only slightly off. Someone with moderate to severe dyslexia can be too far off with their spelling for a spell checker to sort. Though the ones I know use one automatically in documents and browser add-ons to help with a lot. " Yup, there are some words that I can't make the machine recognise. Needless to say I can't think of an example but from time to time I'm forced into porting in an approximation that I'm pretty sure is wrong because the machine won't offer the word in looking for. These days though many of my errors are poor proofreading (which is of course also affected by dyslexia) coupled with a crappy virtual keyboard :D Then one gets told to look it up in a dictionary. So many times. ... but if you can't get the first few letters right how is that supposed to work? lol | |||
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" Dyscalculia. I get that too. Luckily, I have very little to do with finances." I have Dyslexia and Dyscalculia. When I was at school I was constantly bottom of the class academically, but practical hands on I achieved top marks. People use to treat you as "dumb", but I have always been sharp as a razor and with speaking I can tie people up in knots. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. With the greatest of respect your showing your ignorance of dislexia. I respect your opinion. And bad grammar, too." Very wise it is however a very common mistake so no offence taken. | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. With the greatest of respect your showing your ignorance of dislexia. I respect your opinion. And bad grammar, too. Very wise it is however a very common mistake so no offence taken." | |||
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"Believe me if you know someone who is really dyslexic you know when someone is jumping on the bandwagon to try and pass off bad schooling as dyslexia. Real dyslexics use larger words they are literate and express themselves well its just the letters within the words are not always in the right order or all there. " I'm not sure this is true. There seem to be at least 2 forms of dyslexia and varying degrees of disability so a personal observation probably is too subject to be accurate (no matter how much we might like to think otherwise). Certainly some dyslexics like exotic or indeed esoteric words but I'm not aware of any evidence that dyslexia predisposes a person to using fancy words. I suspect that it's unconnected with vocabulary or grammar and that the vocabulary of dyslexics follows the usual distribution of the general population. I'm am intrigued by the dysgrammar (if you'll forgive the neologism) phenomenon (now there's a word I'd not have got right in my own!), it's not something I'm aware of any studies on. Mike xx | |||
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"Personally, I have never been a member of the spelling, or grammar police when it comes to posts on here, messages or texts but it does annoy me slightly when I see "professional" messages that are misspelt. Posters, newspaper articles, even blackboards outside pubs. This is just laziness of the writer not checking it on either a spellcheck or with somebody else!" Or it's somebody hideing the fact they are dislexic. I've worked for the same company for over 20 years and to this day only 1 person knows how much I struggle. And he only knows because I noticed he was the same as me. If you know the tell tail signs it's easy to spot. But beware if it's somebody older like myself they will think differently to somebody who's younger who suffers like this. To me I find it embarrassing when it's pointed out. It brings back all them years of constantly being ridiculed over it in my case dayey if not hourly at school and therefore will prove who's thick and who isn't. Anyone younger probably won't care as that behaver from any teacher will be classed as child abuse. | |||
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" ..... but it does annoy me slightly when I see "professional" messages that are misspelt. ......" I get annoyed every time the Economist starts a sentence with 'and' or 'but', which they do a lot, but apparently that'd ok these days. | |||
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"Believe me if you know someone who is really dyslexic you know when someone is jumping on the bandwagon to try and pass off bad schooling as dyslexia. Real dyslexics use larger words they are literate and express themselves well its just the letters within the words are not always in the right order or all there. I'm not sure this is true. There seem to be at least 2 forms of dyslexia and varying degrees of disability so a personal observation probably is too subject to be accurate (no matter how much we might like to think otherwise). Certainly some dyslexics like exotic or indeed esoteric words but I'm not aware of any evidence that dyslexia predisposes a person to using fancy words. I suspect that it's unconnected with vocabulary or grammar and that the vocabulary of dyslexics follows the usual distribution of the general population. I'm am intrigued by the dysgrammar (if you'll forgive the neologism) phenomenon (now there's a word I'd not have got right in my own!), it's not something I'm aware of any studies on. Mike xx" Like you said you are not sure I have no issues I am 100% sure they do. Larger words are fare easier to correct with a spell checker for one also someone who has dyslexia isn't stupid they just have issues with letter recognition they often can express themselves far better that most people as to survive with dyslexia you have to use workarounds in this day and age. Dyslexics are usually very articulate with the spoken word and spoken grammar many non dyslexics seem to assume if they can't spell a word they can't use it which is pharisaical when you think about it. | |||
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"I normally use dragon software which supports me in work, but its doesn't cure my dyslexia and i still have difficulties. " Not sure if you use it to read things but try using the dyslexie font, every letter is uniquely shaped, eliminating the common reading errors of dyslexia and it does help. | |||
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"I have been diagnose with dyslexia and i assume some people on fab may suffer the same condition. But im starting to get annoyed with some people who think, i or we are not able to write good grammer and considered as unintelligent. Dyslexia is a learning disability and i wondered have any of fab members expereince the same issues." Constantly. In life, work and Fab. Found out I was on the spectrum when I was 42. Constantly remind people the reasons why 1. I take longer to read emails. 2. Take longer to write emails. 3. Why my written documentation is unreadable. Mistress Amelia x | |||
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"Ive seen some very nasty comments from people on here over the years. Peoples who criticize grammar and spelling. I always struggle myself, i read things that are different to what is actually written down. I just wish people would be more considerate of others. Xx" Its not in some peoples nature to be considerate sadly but I wouldn't worry it just tells you who are best avoided. | |||
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"....Like you said you are not sure I have no issues I am 100% sure they do.... " I'm very data driven Do you have data from a 3rd party or is this a personal observation? I appreciate your supporting explanation but it's a hypothesis without data and mechanism... | |||
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"Ive seen some very nasty comments from people on here over the years. Peoples who criticize grammar and spelling. I always struggle myself, i read things that are different to what is actually written down. I just wish people would be more considerate of others. Xx Its not in some peoples nature to be considerate sadly but I wouldn't worry it just tells you who are best avoided. " Exactly! Being judgmental isn't a nice trait, and one that's prone to backfiring. Very bad taste in my opinion. | |||
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"... I appreciate your supporting explanation but it's a hypothesis without data and mechanism..." Sorry, that sounded rather more judgemental than I intended, I should have said it sounds like a hypothesis, as for all I know you do gave excellent data. I ask as I want to know if I'm wrong but I do like a good study, personal experience counts for little in the scientific world. Mostly because it lacks enough samples or there's some kind of bias in the sampling to be meaningful even if it's correct. Mike xx | |||
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"I have been diagnose with dyslexia and i assume some people on fab may suffer the same condition. But im starting to get annoyed with some people who think, i or we are not able to write good grammer and considered as unintelligent. Dyslexia is a learning disability and i wondered have any of fab members expereince the same issues." On the plus side More creative More practical Out of the box thinking I’m sociopathic as well. | |||
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"On a positive note guys, are brains work differently and thats why we are creative. No wonder most of you have got good veris " It was best described to me many years ago as my brain was wired differently. Far from wrong but in a very different way. To me that pretty much puts it in a nutshell | |||
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"....It was best described to me many years ago as my brain was wired differently. Far from wrong but in a very different way. To me that pretty much puts it in a nutshell...." Personally I don't mind what it's described as. I can't hear what someone's saying in a noisy environment in a way that most people can (which is, I suspect, connected to my dyslexia) and that's very much a loss-of -function or disability and not to the standard issue which to my mind indicates that something somewhere is wrong, different but also wrong. Mike xx | |||
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"On a positive note guys, are brains work differently and thats why we are creative. No wonder most of you have got good veris It was best described to me many years ago as my brain was wired differently. Far from wrong but in a very different way. To me that pretty much puts it in a nutshell " I raised a dyslexic child and she had a poster on her wall which was like a giant hexagon with lots of coloured triangles inside it (from the local Dyslexia Society) and it said "Dyslexia Is A Unique Learning Ability". It's purpose was to remind people that the brain is wired differently and although some things will be really hard for the person other things they will be really really good at as a result (pattern recognition and logic is typically something they are very good at hence the patterns and coloured triangles on the poster). | |||
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"I normally use dragon software which supports me in work, but its doesn't cure my dyslexia and i still have difficulties. Not sure if you use it to read things but try using the dyslexie font, every letter is uniquely shaped, eliminating the common reading errors of dyslexia and it does help. " Think I'll try this. Many thanks for the comment | |||
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"I personally feel people get annoyed by bad grammar because they feel like it makes them more intelligent or something. It’s bullshit ain’t it. not necessarily - bad grammar can change the meaning of what someone is trying to say. " Let's eat out, Grandma Vs Let's eat out Grandma | |||
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"In this era of spell check pretty much everywhere I don't get why people don't use it more. For whatever reason. Spell checkers only work if the spelling is only slightly off. Someone with moderate to severe dyslexia can be too far off with their spelling for a spell checker to sort. Though the ones I know use one automatically in documents and browser add-ons to help with a lot. " | |||
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"There are quite a few who post in the forums that suffer from it, some have openly put it on their profile. You will get one or two of the grammar police comment on their posts, but they get shot down quite quickly." Yeah but when female grammar police decide to belittle your spelling you get a thread and inbox full of white knights clambering over each other to impress the lady by giving you crap. I’ve even revived threats of physical violence if I don’t shut up ..... from the other end of the country like | |||
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