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"Are you one of them? I am I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine. Let's make some matches PM the person you're interested in meeting x" Just did.... | |||
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship. I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find " I know! Surely it's the way forward. Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation. I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again. But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort | |||
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"Are you one of them? I am I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine. Let's make some matches PM the person you're interested in meeting x" Must be seriously undatable, never had a date! | |||
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship. I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find I know! Surely it's the way forward. Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation. I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again. But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort " Exactly! I have tried dating sites and most men want to just take control over everything, and that is not for me. In my area a strong woman is seen as a threat for some reason Give me a guy I actually want to shag once a week, and I'll be happy! That should be the way forward, I can't even be arsed to do a lady wank lol | |||
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship. I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find " In fact what I find, most want me to give them more than I am willing to, so whilst they want more than I do, I have to go without due to the consequence | |||
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"Yep this is me the undateable elusive spider. I'm looking for an athelic tall man who can swing from chandeliers a bit like Spiderman. No lies, no bullshit, no mine games...someone fun, exciting, erotic, sensual, sexy...who wants me for me...let's start this journey with a date " 3000 messages later | |||
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"I'd just like a boxset and gig buddy who I fancy like f**k. Not much to ask you'd think!" It is too much to ask apparantly Well for me it is. The ones that want to date me - I don't want to date! And the one I want to date has so much baggage and only wants me for NSA | |||
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"I'd just like a boxset and gig buddy who I fancy like f**k. Not much to ask you'd think! It is too much to ask apparantly Well for me it is. The ones that want to date me - I don't want to date! And the one I want to date has so much baggage and only wants me for NSA " you want what you can't have, anyone for cake? | |||
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"I Certainly undatable or it seems that way lol awwwww " | |||
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"I'm actually the opposite . I've had long term relationships with people that I planned to be casual only. " Yes my last relationship was like this. It confirmed to me that I never want to live with anyone again | |||
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"Oh I am in! I am not undateable I just don't want a full on relationship. I want part time and just get together for the fun times, who wouldn't want that? I don't understand why that would be such a hard thing to find I know! Surely it's the way forward. Separate houses, separate finances and no drab routine or obligation. I've been single for a long time now - and don't want to have a traditional relationship again. But I don't want to have random hookups either- a lady wank is more satisfying and less effort " Its the way forward for sure, problem is that not many mortals have evolved to the level that some of us have. | |||
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"Exactly! I have tried dating sites and most men want to just take control over everything, and that is not for me. In my area a strong woman is seen as a threat for some reason " There's a lot of dating advice out there telling men to do this as it's seen as taking charge and being assertive. | |||
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"Now wouldn't that be nice to have someone pretty localish." It would be lovely, but all thw dating threads are distinctly short on ladies who are local for me. I'm starting to think I need to move. | |||
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"Are you one of them? I am I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine. Let's make some matches PM the person you're interested in meeting x" This is me! I'm so used to my own space I'm not sure i can share it! I'm in! | |||
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" Its the way forward for sure, problem is that not many mortals have evolved to the level that some of us have. " Maybe you're right. A lot of people in my life have exactly the kind of relationships I don't want! To be honest I don't know anyone with the kind of relationship I want Maybe it doesn't exist. | |||
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"I can't even find someone to like me... I'm just thinking of giving up and if it's meant to be they will come to me lol" That's interesting thought | |||
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"Are you one of them? I am I'm rubbish at relationships and shudder at the thought of spending time with other people's families or doing someone else's laundry or spending my weekends with someone else's kids Say you're in if you just want to have a good time with someone - a little more than NSA - nights out, holidays etc .. fun times without the horror of routine. Let's make some matches PM the person you're interested in meeting x This is me! I'm so used to my own space I'm not sure i can share it! I'm in! " Same been single that long I don't want to share my own space, bed or tv remote lol. | |||
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be.." I'm undateable because women choose me to be | |||
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be.. I'm undateable because women choose me to be " | |||
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be.. I'm undateable because women choose me to be " Same for me .. men and women It's Halloween soon maybe I'll fit in a bit better for one day of the year | |||
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"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle. Oh for the simplicity." Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army. | |||
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"It seems I fall under this category " Why your gorgeous. | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally )" You’re gorgeous | |||
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"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle. Oh for the simplicity. Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army." Why, did you join the Navy? | |||
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"I am only undateable because i choose to be.. I'm undateable because women choose me to be Same for me .. men and women It's Halloween soon maybe I'll fit in a bit better for one day of the year " | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous " So are you x | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x" Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though " Well I'm undateable | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though Well I'm undateable " You’ve got lots interested in you !!!! Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though Well I'm undateable You’ve got lots interested in you !!!! Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse " Pffft | |||
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"There is/was a tribe that had a hut for the men, a hut for the women and huts in the middle. Oh for the simplicity. Sounds ghastly. Living in what's nasically a barracks with dozens of other men? No thanks. There's a reason I didn't join the army. Why, did you join the Navy? " Oddly enough, that was the plan when I was at school, but I wanted to join the submarine service and my eyesight deteriorated. By the way, I'm 6'4 and mildly claustrophobic, so it's probably worked out for the best. | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though Well I'm undateable You’ve got lots interested in you !!!! Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse Pffft " | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ " this | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ " Nothing wrong with this. | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ Nothing wrong with this. " I know ... just need to find the one or two | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ Nothing wrong with this. I know ... just need to find the one or two " Two! Don't be greedy - lend me one | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ Nothing wrong with this. I know ... just need to find the one or two Two! Don't be greedy - lend me one " Haha I want one of each | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ Nothing wrong with this. I know ... just need to find the one or two Two! Don't be greedy - lend me one " | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ Nothing wrong with this. I know ... just need to find the one or two Two! Don't be greedy - lend me one Haha I want one of each " You would | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though Well I'm undateable You’ve got lots interested in you !!!! Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse Pffft " Its not often one gets an opportunity like this...but you did have a really good woman who cared about you deeply but she got relagated to the bin...i agree with Floro, get your head out of your arse | |||
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly " We need a confidence boosting thread now | |||
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly We need a confidence boosting thread now " Way ahead of you. I'm on phone to Samaritans | |||
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly We need a confidence boosting thread now Way ahead of you. I'm on phone to Samaritans " Haha shurrup | |||
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"I’m totally datable but suck at relationships..! Ha! (Not literally ) You’re gorgeous So are you x Ah thank you ... not to the ones I don’t want to date though Well I'm undateable You’ve got lots interested in you !!!! Fucks sake - pull your head outta your arse Pffft Its not often one gets an opportunity like this...but you did have a really good woman who cared about you deeply but she got relagated to the bin...i agree with Floro, get your head out of your arse" Awch | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ " You need a fwb.. Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ You need a fwb.. Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive " Like pulling teeth | |||
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"Yep this is me the undateable elusive spider. I'm looking for an athelic tall man who can swing from chandeliers a bit like Spiderman. No lies, no bullshit, no mine games...someone fun, exciting, erotic, sensual, sexy...who wants me for me...let's start this journey with a date " Oh I forgot if your into rd cycling and you fancy a few miles you know where I am | |||
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"In but my kids will always be a factor. No need to meet them but understand they exist and always will." Snap .. My son comes before anyone or any fun | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ You need a fwb.. Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive Like pulling teeth" I don't care what he does for work | |||
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"I’ll put it out there I want to date ... but only once in a while , I don’t want a relationship, but I want honesty Oh and amazing sex I don’t want to meet people still obsessing over past ‘ lusts’ You need a fwb.. Thats what im looking for but its proving to be elusive Like pulling teeth" Don't mention teeth. Touchy subject | |||
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly We need a confidence boosting thread now " Those really never work. | |||
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"Undateable- Yep that’s me, I’m in sadly We need a confidence boosting thread now Way ahead of you. I'm on phone to Samaritans " Ha ha I may be undatable, but Fab has helped my find fantastic people and experiences. I’ll settle for that for now | |||
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"Have any fellow undateables found dates possibly through this thread x just wondered x " well not me but hopefully some have | |||
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"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away " Define “too far” As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. | |||
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"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away Define “too far” As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. " ...as in loads in England and I'm in scotland | |||
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"Lots of cute undateables but all too far away Define “too far” As I said in my earlier post, I wouldn’t class myself as undateable. I just don’t date in the conventional sense. Zero jealously; instead a little FOMO, which can easily be managed. ...as in loads in England and I'm in scotland " bet it's freezing | |||
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