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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many read these, and when you've seen what a person's been with, does it ever put you off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them before the meet helps set expectations

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"How many read these, and when you've seen what a person's been with, does it ever put you off ? "

Not really . It's quite entertaining as a bed time read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many read these, and when you've seen what a person's been with, does it ever put you off ? "

Yes and No in that order.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"How many read these, and when you've seen what a person's been with, does it ever put you off ? "
Yeah it can do

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My latest one is great

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

on the road again

It's very subjective.

The verification depends on the person's involved in the encounter.

If anyone else were to meet that person it could be a completely different affair and that shouldn't put people off.

Personally I read the profile, all of the profile and then look at the pictures for an attraction and importantly start chatting and establish a decent connection.

But that's just my take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only read those who have loads on their profile from actual meets, as i probably wouldn't want to meet them anyway...

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

on the road again


"I only read those who have loads on their profile from actual meets, as i probably wouldn't want to meet them anyway..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a person's been with? .

I read veris to get more of a feel for a person. To see if there is a running theme in what is being said. I'm more for personality and how they treat a person, than solely focused on looks. I don't use it to put a red mark against someone for go they've met. Though I have been guilty of doing it on the past. Now I just judge a person on their own merit and seen if we would be compatible for meeting regularly

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like to read verifications and follow the trail, so to speak. Yes, sometimes they can be off putting. I base my overall opinion on more than just verifications though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me , I have a few and they aren't all meets and I sometimes get replies saying sorry you have to many Veris. I reply by asking if you have read them and clearly they haven't , but I am pleased with them even though some are insulting me lol

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Yes i read them as it gives a reasonable idea who the person is before i invite them to my home i want to know as much as i can

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I did when I was actively meeting... And yes... There were people who I avoided because of who they had met and/or played with. Sometimes just to stay the hell away from drama, sometimes for health/hygiene reasons, and sometimes because of the 'girl code'.

I would also check the veris a prospective meet had left for others... Their tone would sometimes influence my decision. If they were overly explicit and graphic for example, it would put me off.

Damn picky ain't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather meet someone whose verifications are hidden tbh...i like to make my own judgement about them rather than have it skewed by some over enthusiastic whitterings given by someone basking in the afterglow of 'the best meet of their life'

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What a person's been with? .

"

Glad I wasn't alone in raising an eyebrow at that turn of phrase

I read veris, along with the profile (Yeah I know!! Shocker!! ) - I would never not meet someone based on their veris alone, although it might put me off if someone had overly graphic veris and had in turn left overly graphic ones for people they had met - certainly wouldn't avoid someone because of who else they had met necessarily - they're just another part of the overall profile though really that give another perspective on the person.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

They can put me off. But I wonder more about the ones that they don't show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I always read them. And yes I have been put off by them. (Mrs Muff)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh my!

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes I do read and there is certain ladies I would avoid if they have met the bloke......as someone said above "too much drama" and Ireland is a small country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read verifications and follow the trail, so to speak. Yes, sometimes they can be off putting. I base my overall opinion on more than just verifications though. "

Yep. Pretty much this. I follow the trail too!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I only read them to suss out the competition ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will not meet you because of them.

And some won't meet you if you haven't got them on display.

As usual it's impossible to know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to check the persons ok ... you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that .... if the verifications are full of superlatives and cherries - I’m steering clear

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I always read them. And yes I have been put off by them. (Mrs Muff)"

same same

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We love reading people's verifications, it feels like voyeurism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some will not meet you because of them.

And some won't meet you if you haven't got them on display.

As usual it's impossible to know what to do.

"

Just focus on the ones who do . If someone doesn't want to meet me based on who I've met, I don't really care. I like who I meet and am having a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some will not meet you because of them.

And some won't meet you if you haven't got them on display.

As usual it's impossible to know what to do.

"

Do what feels right for you..

F*** anyone else ( not literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read verifications and follow the trail, so to speak. Yes, sometimes they can be off putting. I base my overall opinion on more than just verifications though. "

Exactly this for me too. Verifications can give you an idea of a person but you also need to keep an open mind and make your own mind up about them. I can be put off a person by who they've met previously though.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I like to read verifications and follow the trail, so to speak. Yes, sometimes they can be off putting. I base my overall opinion on more than just verifications though.

Exactly this for me too. Verifications can give you an idea of a person but you also need to keep an open mind and make your own mind up about them. I can be put off a person by who they've met previously though."

Same as both above. Veris give me a gauge of what the person I’m meeting is like and how they come across, what previous meets thought. I have to say some are way over inflated when you read between the lines

I don’t display mine.... one new veri and it’s almost certain to attract unwanted attention I’d rather avoid. It also pisses me off immensely ( excuse the language!) when guys don’t think about about how their verifications read once sent, sometimes they may make one feel insignificant over previous meets. Whilst it might be worded ‘politically correct’ you just know what HASNT been said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials. "

Haha who said that!!!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"

Some will not meet you because of them.

And some won't meet you if you haven't got them on display.

As usual it's impossible to know what to do.

"

I think you can only go with what feels right for you. You can’t please all the people all the time

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we were meeting we would do the veri trail as there are a few in our area than we really wouldn’t want to meet , nor anyone who had met them .

Then we figured that people probably said the same about us , so it was pointless in the grand scheme of things ,

And now that we aren’t meeting and haven’t done since May , I have to say our lives have become so much more relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials.

Haha who said that!!! "

A lovely lady from Hertfordshire, she has a rather striking set of legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials.

Haha who said that!!!

A lovely lady from Hertfordshire, she has a rather striking set of legs. "

I’d slap her arse if I was you

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Yes, if I look at a profile then I do read the veri's and might look at the veri's veri etc. It's definitely put me off profiles from veri's given and received also I do wonder about the veri's not being displayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some will not meet you because of them.

And some won't meet you if you haven't got them on display.

As usual it's impossible to know what to do.

Do what feels right for you..

F*** anyone else ( not literally) "

yes your right i need to display a harder exterior as being nice doesnt seem to work.

i have emptied my hotlist (as they have no intention of meeting) and will be doing the same with friends who are the same.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

To be honest yes it can do. I've a shit load of them but won't display anything grafic. I don't see the point. I mean why surely even if I was a true swinger (I'm not by the way) some things are best kept private.

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By *ovkid66Man
over a year ago

Warwick

I work behind the bar in a swingers club but don't drink and rarely play. All of my verifications are 100% genuine, i have hidden a few as they are mispelt or just to graphic. I'm happy with mine as they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials.

Haha who said that!!!

A lovely lady from Hertfordshire, she has a rather striking set of legs.

I’d slap her arse if I was you "

No give you a massive cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't put me off but I do chuckle to myself when I read a profile stating "I would never play with a married man/woman"....then you read verifications and details of a sexual encounter with a married person. No opinion on the matter of married people playing, just gets on my tits when folk talk shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll read a couple, but not all. In like to see who they've met and what type of meets people have had if im looking to maybe meet them, could potentially be put off but I hadn't happened yet. I get told I have too many, even though they're 95% socials.

Haha who said that!!!

A lovely lady from Hertfordshire, she has a rather striking set of legs.

I’d slap her arse if I was you "

When I get the chance, I'll make sure I do just that.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now... "

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you "

I've wanted to say that out loud for a long time...just call me Veronica and you are welcome

Verfications yes they do make a difference for many differant reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out off by lots of social and nothing else. Makes me think we're incompatible.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I never ever read veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you

I've wanted to say that out loud for a long time...just call me Veronica and you are welcome

Verfications yes they do make a difference for many differant reasons. "

Well thank you for the kind words, how long have you been waiting if I may ask ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do read them and I've never been put off by one yet.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you

I've wanted to say that out loud for a long time...just call me Veronica and you are welcome

Verfications yes they do make a difference for many differant reasons.

Well thank you for the kind words, how long have you been waiting if I may ask ?"

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you

I've wanted to say that out loud for a long time...just call me Veronica and you are welcome

Verfications yes they do make a difference for many differant reasons.

Well thank you for the kind words, how long have you been waiting if I may ask ?

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face "

Please feel free to send me a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read them and I've never been put off by one yet."

It's always best to take someone at face value. Some may be handsome, but that doesn't stop them being a dick personality wise. Verifications help, so do forum comments, I've noticed, with some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read them and I've never been put off by one yet.

It's always best to take someone at face value. Some may be handsome, but that doesn't stop them being a dick personality wise. Verifications help, so do forum comments, I've noticed, with some "
sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do read them and I've never been put off by one yet.

It's always best to take someone at face value. Some may be handsome, but that doesn't stop them being a dick personality wise. Verifications help, so do forum comments, I've noticed, with some sorry "

Ahhh but you're my dick

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The only way is up

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You are handsome OP thats all I know right now...

I'm genuinely very flattered, thank you

I've wanted to say that out loud for a long time...just call me Veronica and you are welcome

Verfications yes they do make a difference for many differant reasons.

Well thank you for the kind words, how long have you been waiting if I may ask ?

The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

Please feel free to send me a wink? "
Great thread OP

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Stopped displaying them when another profile started contacting them and using our real names as some kind of validation or recommendation, that's not welcomed or respectful in our book.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I read them. They're obviously going to be positive so they're not very subjective.

But they're useful to see if the person has a usual type, and if that type is massive muscle guys with six packs, I usually move on

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I don’t put verifications up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they've met. Swingers.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I don't read TripAdvisor either...

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