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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long do these bans last? It’s been nearly three hours and I was in the middle of arranging to meet someone. I could have been shagging him by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could put a status up saying you can’t message and for the guy you were talking to to send you his number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard of this , blimey What happened . Through it's probably best not to say

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

why was you banned may i ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tsk tsk, who's been a naughty girl then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do these bans last? It’s been nearly three hours and I was in the middle of arranging to meet someone. I could have been shagging him by now "
could be permanent, meet me instead

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Wow , how do you get banned from sending messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could put a status up saying you can’t message and for the guy you were talking to to send you his number. "

She already has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how bad you were... maybe a full day...

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Wow , how do you get banned from sending messages ? "

This I want to know too, but if I message to ask how does she reply to tell me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could put a status up saying you can’t message and for the guy you were talking to to send you his number.

She already has."

Only the first bit tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they explained why you can’t send messages OP ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve got absolutely no idea what I’ve done. We were having a nice conversation and then the message came up saying try again in a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow , how do you get banned from sending messages ? "

Mentioned a group in a Message and got banned, certain links and mentions of other websites seems to result in it too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have they explained why you can’t send messages OP ? "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could put a status up saying you can’t message and for the guy you were talking to to send you his number.

She already has.

Only the first bit tho. "

He’s offline now anyway so he wouldn’t see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why was you banned may i ask..."

If I knew why then I’d probably have taken it on the chin and not asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have they explained why you can’t send messages OP ?

No"

Thank you for your prompt reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried switching it off, then back on again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got absolutely no idea what I’ve done. We were having a nice conversation and then the message came up saying try again in a few hours "

Are you a site supporter? If you aren't you can only send so many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why was you banned may i ask...

If I knew why then I’d probably have taken it on the chin and not asked. "

Sadly I doubt you'll find out. Of the several bans I've had I've emailed admin every single time asking why so I can see what I did wrong and not had a single reply, just had to wait for the bans to expire. That thing about being able to discuss if you think a mistake was made is either ignored or out of date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a site supporter, verified. Haven’t sent that many messages today. I’m baffled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tsk tsk, who's been a naughty girl then."

Unfortunately not me, I’ve been cock blocked by admin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this."

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"How long do these bans last? It’s been nearly three hours and I was in the middle of arranging to meet someone. I could have been shagging him by now "

Never heard of such a ban to be honest Hun!

Have you been contacted by admin to say why you’ve got such a ban and how long for? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long do these bans last? It’s been nearly three hours and I was in the middle of arranging to meet someone. I could have been shagging him by now

Never heard of such a ban to be honest Hun!

Have you been contacted by admin to say why you’ve got such a ban and how long for? X"

No, it just says try again in a few hours! It’s been almost three! X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy"

Was going to try to pm you with a possible explanation but can’t as I’m too ancient! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy

Was going to try to pm you with a possible explanation but can’t as I’m too ancient! X"

Sorry Peachy, filters changed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tsk tsk, who's been a naughty girl then.

Unfortunately not me, I’ve been cock blocked by admin!"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy

Was going to try to pm you with a possible explanation but can’t as I’m too ancient! X"

She won’t be able to reply anyway

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Didn't they tell you how long the ban was for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy

Was going to try to pm you with a possible explanation but can’t as I’m too ancient! X

She won’t be able to reply anyway "

Unfortunately that’s true!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed"

Maybe you're contagious and admin don't want it to spread you've been quarantined!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed"

I think if you say a really bad word they sometimes block your messaging for a few hours, presumably while they check you out. I said something once that was banned totally out of context, can't remember what now - that the roads were ch@ked up or something similar lol!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It's possible you just used up your daily allowance of messages - there are limits for everyone - Admin advised about this on an other thread.

Clocks are re-set at Midnight, so you can try again then.

If you broke Site Rules then a ban could be anything from an hour to permanent - though usually in those cases, you would have received a message telling you this.

The last message I sent before I was banned was about Michael’s tattoo in The Good Place. Hardly seems ban worthy

Was going to try to pm you with a possible explanation but can’t as I’m too ancient! X

She won’t be able to reply anyway "

No reply needed!

Just saying what I think the issue might be and how to rectify it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed

Maybe you're contagious and admin don't want it to spread you've been quarantined!"

Oooo I didn’t think of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed

I think if you say a really bad word they sometimes block your messaging for a few hours, presumably while they check you out. I said something once that was banned totally out of context, can't remember what now - that the roads were ch@ked up or something similar lol!"

I think I had this also, an unfortunate combination of words got sent, that was the best reason I could muster up. They cleared again at midnight that night though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed"

Oh gosh I missed that one , so what is dickpression?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Wow not even I have been banned from sending messages before.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"why was you banned may i ask...

If I knew why then I’d probably have taken it on the chin and not asked. "

did you try and send a link of a certain site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After all the messages I put in the dickpression thread yesterday, I really didn’t need this today! I’m officially dickpressed

Oh gosh I missed that one , so what is dickpression? "

It’s when you haven’t had sex for a while and it makes you sad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why was you banned may i ask...

If I knew why then I’d probably have taken it on the chin and not asked.

did you try and send a link of a certain site "

The contents of the last message I sent are above, it was about a tv programme

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

im clueless then...

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

I can't message neither. Seriously, I'm not joking

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Have they explained why you can’t send messages OP ? "

The powers that be have no one to answer to.... I had a pic up that only had a montage of 2 smaller ones of myself(which are still on ma profile) and a couple of Derby County badge logos with superramfan , that was ma username for about 9 years, imposed on the top of it. I uploaded that pic about 2 years ago, after much fucking around to get it right, and it was accepted and had been ma profile pic on many an occasion. Then suddenly after Derby had won their first game of the season, I made it my avatar pic, within an hour or so it had been rejected, so I tried to upload it again and it was accepted again. This went on for about 5 times until I got into a convo with Admin, who said I could "edit" the pic and then resubmit it.

Yeah fine, but if you're not telling me what part of the pic is causing so much offense after over 2 years, then how the hell am I supposed to know

That's why I love this place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s lettinf me again now, four hours later!!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Have they explained why you can’t send messages OP ?

The powers that be have no one to answer to.... I had a pic up that only had a montage of 2 smaller ones of myself(which are still on ma profile) and a couple of Derby County badge logos with superramfan , that was ma username for about 9 years, imposed on the top of it. I uploaded that pic about 2 years ago, after much fucking around to get it right, and it was accepted and had been ma profile pic on many an occasion. Then suddenly after Derby had won their first game of the season, I made it my avatar pic, within an hour or so it had been rejected, so I tried to upload it again and it was accepted again. This went on for about 5 times until I got into a convo with Admin, who said I could "edit" the pic and then resubmit it.

Yeah fine, but if you're not telling me what part of the pic is causing so much offense after over 2 years, then how the hell am I supposed to know

That's why I love this place "

Possibly the ram! You can’t have pictures of animals on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's obvious what the ban was for OP. You're lucky they didn't kick you off the site really.

You're a woman and you were sorting a meet. That's crazy talk. The site message system won't have ever had to deal with that before and you broke it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's obvious what the ban was for OP. You're lucky they didn't kick you off the site really.

You're a woman and you were sorting a meet. That's crazy talk. The site message system won't have ever had to deal with that before and you broke it. "

I forgot we weren’t supposed to talk to anyone! Damn. I nearly ruined it for everyone. As you all were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's obvious what the ban was for OP. You're lucky they didn't kick you off the site really.

You're a woman and you were sorting a meet. That's crazy talk. The site message system won't have ever had to deal with that before and you broke it.

I forgot we weren’t supposed to talk to anyone! Damn. I nearly ruined it for everyone. As you all were "

It's good of you to apologise. Enjoy the dick.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"How long do these bans last? It’s been nearly three hours and I was in the middle of arranging to meet someone. I could have been shagging him by now

Never heard of such a ban to be honest Hun!

Have you been contacted by admin to say why you’ve got such a ban and how long for? X

No, it just says try again in a few hours! It’s been almost three! X"

Send me a message. Purely to check if it's working

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse"

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I’ve got absolutely no idea what I’ve done. We were having a nice conversation and then the message came up saying try again in a few hours "

They saw you about to have a good time. Got jel and put a stop to it. Either that or it's a glitch. If you haven't done anything then it must be that. Or the guy has reported you and wqsnt who you thought he was?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Possibly the ram! You can’t have pictures of animals on here! "

It was the DCFC logo, hardly a sheep orgy

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Maybe they're jealous you done the Kessel run in less than 12 parsecs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now the ban is up, the most important question is, has Hannah's dickpression been cured?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now the ban is up, the most important question is, has Hannah's dickpression been cured?"

Ha! No! I can’t discuss details of things that weren’t said here, per the rules, but it turns out he was a bit of a tit. Maybe the admin knew and were trying to save me the trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now the ban is up, the most important question is, has Hannah's dickpression been cured?

Ha! No! I can’t discuss details of things that weren’t said here, per the rules, but it turns out he was a bit of a tit. Maybe the admin knew and were trying to save me the trouble."

ahhhh so you wouldn't have got your desserts anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now the ban is up, the most important question is, has Hannah's dickpression been cured?

Ha! No! I can’t discuss details of things that weren’t said here, per the rules, but it turns out he was a bit of a tit. Maybe the admin knew and were trying to save me the trouble.ahhhh so you wouldn't have got your desserts anyway "

I would if I was a tit as well, but as I’m not...

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern "

I may have my wires crossed I thought discussion of bans timeouts was against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern

I may have my wires crossed I thought discussion of bans timeouts was against site rules."

Again, I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this. Thanks for your concern.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern

I may have my wires crossed I thought discussion of bans timeouts was against site rules."

Feel free to report me if you’ve been offended. I was merely asking a simple question

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hope it’s been rectified now lovely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this the other day. Was ok after 2 hours

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I had this the other day. Was ok after 2 hours "

Maybe knowing its happened to a few people will stop others jumping to the conclusion it's a ban. After all glitches do happen and setting some idea of the situations in which it becomes an issue is the best way to avoid it surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get their knickers in a twist on forums don't they

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

If it’s any form of ban you’d usually get a message from admin to explain. I was under the impression that private messages were not monitored in that way so highly unlikely to be a ban for that. More than likely some sort of system glitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Brother is watching you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern

I may have my wires crossed I thought discussion of bans timeouts was against site rules.

Feel free to report me if you’ve been offended. I was merely asking a simple question "

Take no notice.... Must had blatantly been bullied at school, I wonder why ?

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Don't discuss sanctions ever please, for your own and the sites wellbeing.

I always suggest a fallback communication and meeting methodology, as some people become star struck or shoot their load, after a brief text intercourse

I’m sure I’m not going to come to any physical harm for discussing this, but thanks for your concern

I may have my wires crossed I thought discussion of bans timeouts was against site rules.

Feel free to report me if you’ve been offended. I was merely asking a simple question

Take no notice.... Must had blatantly been bullied at school, I wonder why ? "

No skin off my nose.. if it's against the rules one of the. Moderators will be along to inform you of the infraction.

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