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"Yeah i know its cowardly but thats me. Im a ckwardly small insignificant person and fine with it ![]() ![]() Why do you think that? | |||
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"Yeah i know its cowardly but thats me. Im a ckwardly small insignificant person and fine with it ![]() ![]() Its a damn sight easier to run away from things than face them. After a lot of thought i came to that conclusion. It's just the way i feel about myself. Im not upset or emotional btw, | |||
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"Yeah i know its cowardly but thats me. Im a ckwardly small insignificant person and fine with it ![]() ![]() Can relate to that, human nature to do so and have been there.. Does not make you a coward though.. | |||
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"Yeah i know its cowardly but thats me. Im a ckwardly small insignificant person and fine with it ![]() ![]() Nobody's being a coward mate, its all about how we all individually deal with things. Its just our own coping mechanisms that's all. | |||
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"Yeah i know its cowardly but thats me. Im a ckwardly small insignificant person and fine with it ![]() ![]() I feel i have no influence over my life/destiny. Constantly being imposed on by others, having to put up with it. The other day i hel a shop door open for a guy striding out the shop, and was followed by an assistant. Apparently i helped a shoplifter inadvertently. The old me would gsve been after him but i thougjt, "fuck it" | |||
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"I choose not to wear a poppy. I won't do something just because people say should. I would rather support the British legion in a quieter way and not wear a poppy to show the world I've put some money in the collecting tin. Remembrance isn't just one day a year for many people." I think similarly. I was brought up to display my national pride and remembrance privately. I have been chastised for not wearing a poppy, and it's not on. My feelings are private and my own, and I donate as I feel appropriate. Freedom of belief and expression being part of what was fought for. | |||
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"I choose not to wear a poppy. I won't do something just because people say should. I would rather support the British legion in a quieter way and not wear a poppy to show the world I've put some money in the collecting tin. Remembrance isn't just one day a year for many people. I think similarly. I was brought up to display my national pride and remembrance privately. I have been chastised for not wearing a poppy, and it's not on. My feelings are private and my own, and I donate as I feel appropriate. Freedom of belief and expression being part of what was fought for. " I remember my 2 uncles. One killed in the Pacific and the other in Norway in ww2. I think of them privately. Ive had enough of it being shoved in my face az it were. On tv, parades getting donation boxes pushed my way, I've had enough | |||
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"I choose not to wear a poppy. I won't do something just because people say should. I would rather support the British legion in a quieter way and not wear a poppy to show the world I've put some money in the collecting tin. Remembrance isn't just one day a year for many people. I think similarly. I was brought up to display my national pride and remembrance privately. I have been chastised for not wearing a poppy, and it's not on. My feelings are private and my own, and I donate as I feel appropriate. Freedom of belief and expression being part of what was fought for. " 100% agree its a personal choice but above all we don't forget. Unfortunately though that this time of year is not easy for some. | |||
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"To be 'told' you should wear a poppy is going against the freedom that those people fought and died for..... " This. Its your choice what you do, but I'm always mindful of those whose sacrafice gave us all that choice. | |||
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"I feel guilty feeling this way, survivors guilt im told. ive no dependants If I'd been killed to save someones family go through what i witnessed, then id be ok with that, but i got through unscathed apsrt from my hearing. thatz the way it is. Im a miserable bugger today lol " Most of us are now grumpy old men OP ![]() | |||
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"I feel guilty feeling this way, survivors guilt im told. ive no dependants If I'd been killed to save someones family go through what i witnessed, then id be ok with that, but i got through unscathed apsrt from my hearing. thatz the way it is. Im a miserable bugger today lol Most of us are now grumpy old men OP ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I feel guilty feeling this way, survivors guilt im told. ive no dependants If I'd been killed to save someones family go through what i witnessed, then id be ok with that, but i got through unscathed apsrt from my hearing. thatz the way it is. Im a miserable bugger today lol " Respect to you my friend - and whilst I know it's easier said than done... "Don't let the b*stards grind you down" Peace | |||
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"I was made to wear one when I was in the army. Its wrong. I wear one now as ive a choice. Im no longer serving, im a civilian. X" holy shit feisty minx, I don't recall seeing anything quite as good as that during my 22yrs ![]() | |||
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" If I'd been killed to save someones family go through what i witnessed, then id be ok with that, but i got through unscathed apsrt from my hearing. thatz the way it is. Im a miserable bugger today lol " 'People sleep peacefully in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to visit violence on those who would harm them.' Thank you for your service. | |||
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"I feel guilty feeling this way, survivors guilt im told. ive no dependants If I'd been killed to save someones family go through what i witnessed, then id be ok with that, but i got through unscathed apsrt from my hearing. thatz the way it is. Im a miserable bugger today lol " I think you would benefit from having a chat with someone the British Legion could help. Guilt it natural. The shoplifter story is funny mate. You held a door open with the best intentions. You should chuckle about it. | |||
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"I served my country for almost 12 years. I’ve seen the true horrors of war and come out the other side. There’s things I’ve seen that will haunt me for the rest of my days. I give monthly to serviceman’s charities but i always make a point of working over the rememberance peeiod. I served my country and was lucky to come home to my family. Good friends and colleagues didn’t. I will remember them in my own time and way. " well said mate | |||
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"We always wear our poppie. We always observe remembrance day, we always will. " Apologies. Should read poppies. | |||
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