FabSwingers.com forum: question to everyone.

By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I m an advocate that we all have the same choices

Yes please or no thanks.

Guys after messaging and exchanging pictures or meeting in person do you often say no thanks ?

Ladies couples if you exchange messages pictures or meeting in person do you get many rejections from guys ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arc1oneMan
over a year ago

oxford

I have said no thanks during a social meet if you don’t fancy them you don’t !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've not as yet been outright rejected after exchanging face pics. I have had conversations with people that eventually kind of fizzled out as we had nothing to say to each other though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I've said no loads of times. Never after meeting as if i don't like their vibe or picture then we won't be meeting anyway.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a few occasions that I have politely declined. And there have been mixed reactions too. A few didn't take it at all well, whilst others were gracious and wished me a happy fabbing experience. No need to be nasty, but also no need to lead someone along with false hope.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I've sent a face pic I've only had one man go quiet directly after sending it.

I've sent face pics to hundreds of men and a few couples.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills)."

Can I ask, does being in possession of your face pic automatically entitle the bearer to a blowjob?

Just curiosity, that's all...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been rejected after sending face pics. Just some conversations have just fizzled out x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not had anyone say sorry can't do this after seeing me in person and most have asked to see me again, or stayed in contact (It's my blow job skills).

Can I ask, does being in possession of your face pic automatically entitle the bearer to a blowjob?

Just curiosity, that's all...

It gives them the chance of something to wank over

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.

Obviously I don't have a face pic on my profile but happy to send them, the same I ask to see them fairly quickly. Whilst I will tell someone if I'm not interested I've never had the same back. I'm fully aware I'm not a stunner & everyone's cup of tea.

Is it just that women tend to be fussier?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.

Is it just that women tend to be fussier?"

I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.

Men need to not want to throw up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.

Is it just that women tend to be fussier?

I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.

Men need to not want to throw up

I completely agree, I have to fancy someone, it's when you then get a cock picture with a what about now message?! Uh still no! Your cock isn't going to change that I don't fancy you!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.

I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny I had this conversation with a male friend of mine this morning.

Is it just that women tend to be fussier?

I'm not fussy; I have to have that instant facial attraction.

Men need to not want to throw up

I completely agree, I have to fancy someone, it's when you then get a cock picture with a what about now message?! Uh still no! Your cock isn't going to change that I don't fancy you!"

As much as I like the penis I am turned off by a pic of one thrust into my inbox, from a stranger.

It feels like they think I'm just after the cock and it will have me drooling and gagging for it; when it has the opposite effect.

If they were to send a face pic, I was attracted to it and we chatted, I could very well be gagging for his cock.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv said no thanks and had it said to me

A case of suck it up and move on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been rejected after sending face pics

I have said no thanks after meeting someone as the chemistry just wasn't there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it

Everyone I have met has come back for (at least) seconds though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

We have been turned down once after sending pics, but at least it didn’t waste anyone’s time, much prefer honesty, and said thanks for letting us know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.

I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.

Now I like boob's I do.. however ..

I might be in the minority of guys on here ..if I'm not attracted to the others sorry it ain't happening.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one man tell me I wasn't his type after he saw my pic.

Can't be everyone's cuppa

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Two reasons I asked ..

1. I saw a thread about a single guys value in the swinging world being zero.

2. I suggest to folk they do the searching rather than wait for the diamond to appear be proactive and search for whom they seek .. often the response is I don't send first messages .. I wondered if it was the fear of rejection from guys or whoever that might stop them messaging ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I once got a response, after sending a pic of: sorry, not my type, but if you're a double D or bigger, I'd consider meeting anyway.

I politely informed him that I'd been willing to overlook his appearance in the first place, and while I apparently met his criteria, he no longer met mine.

Now I like boob's I do.. however ..

I might be in the minority of guys on here ..if I'm not attracted to the others sorry it ain't happening.

There's nothing wrong with having a preference, or attraction to whatever. I guess I consider myself a normal woman--who prefers to be seen as a person, rather than a pair of tits that make a meet worthwhile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive had a few thanks but no thanks messages. Cant be everyones type x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got rejected straight after standing a face pic once.

He messaged straight back with ‘god no, not what I’m looking for’. Ouch!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said no more times than I've gotten a yes..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

I just rejected a couple. Very good looking mind you but the woman wanted DP. That’s not for me at all so declined their offer

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I just rejected a couple. Very good looking mind you but the woman wanted DP. That’s not for me at all so declined their offer"

Bloody time waster lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to say no thanks if men are looking for a club buddy, or a woman for 3somes..or if they say, after chatting and exchanging pics, that they also have a 'female friend' they can bring along to meets as thats not what I'm looking for

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had one man tell me I wasn't his type after he saw my pic.

Can't be everyone's cuppa

Do you know, I wouldn't want to be. I'm that that self obsessed to think I would be either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got rejected straight after standing a face pic once.

He messaged straight back with ‘god no, not what I’m looking for’. Ouch! "

Hope you told him to fuck right off?

What a knob

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've never been turned down after sending a pic, but I've had chats that have just fizzled out.

I've found when someone sends me a random message, and a pic. It's easier just to delete than say no thanks.

I've also 'gone off' people I've been chatting with after they've posted a verification, status or a photo.

I've ended all communication with them, I've always figured it was pokye to tell them why first.

But usually block immediately too, to avoid any follow up messages from them.

I've had a few socials, thst have gone nowhere, although chatting was going ok - In real life something just didn't click.

I've apologised been polite to most, but a few I have left, without saying anything and then blocked the person, as I just got a bad vibe & didn't want a confrontation.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I m an advocate that we all have the same choices

Yes please or no thanks.

Guys after messaging and exchanging pictures or meeting in person do you often say no thanks ?

Ladies couples if you exchange messages pictures or meeting in person do you get many rejections from guys ?"

Two in 8years.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Ive had a few thanks but no thanks messages. Cant be everyones type x"

This is how I see it too. That said, I’m a LOT of ladies ‘not their type’. ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"I got rejected straight after standing a face pic once.

He messaged straight back with ‘god no, not what I’m looking for’. Ouch!

Hope you told him to fuck right off?

What a knob"

I'd expect a guy who'd been told that would receive a different response.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread