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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omfg thats plain wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always ask for a picture of the person doing a very specific type of pose. Any guy can use girls pictures, but obviously wont be able to re create a certain pose youre asking the 'girl'to do.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

That’s shitty. My condolences sir.

I’d always insist on a phone conversation with your intended/s prior to any future meets in future.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I've heard that John Lewis now have a sex change service but that the results are often well iffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x"
i was let down too can i get the vid please

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP xi was let down too can i get the vid please "

Um....yeah, me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ment to be having a lunch time social but had to cancel due to work plans being changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x"

I’v Not been let down, do I qualify anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x"

I’ll look forward to that dear x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not unheard of on here OP.

I seem to recall some time ago a chap posting a thread about arranging to meet a 'lady' from fab in a car park, only to find that a fella was the only person awaiting him. I can't remember if he said they still went ahead with the meet or not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!"

Ouch. Jot it down in the experience book and you'll laugh about it soon. Again tho OUCH

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Least he owned up. He could've had you along for a even longer ride. Wow that's just wrong on so many levels and certainly emphasises the point of why it should be made harder to message on here.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry"

You time waster you.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

If he is sending you pics of a woman and they are constant, how are you to know otherwise..

Personally I have always spoken over the phone before we have met, I guess that's always a good way to find out if they are male or female..

Still doesn't prevent the no shows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess that’s what happens when you let your cock think for you. Lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry

You time waster you."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry

You time waster you.

Yep "

All lies. I’ve watched you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve actually never had sex. Sorry

You time waster you.

Yep

All lies. I’ve watched you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!"
Yep sorry no other word for it, you answered own analogy yourself

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

I got caught out recently even though my B.S. / Timewaister radar is normally spot on.

After chatting to a couple for a while they invited me over..

I parked as directed then text to say I was here. No reply and messages unread. 10 mins later a man walked over to the car he asked me to park in front of. He got in and drove off not before winking at me and giving me a thumbs up.

Two mins later the profile went unlos

Know how foolish you feel OP.

I’m sure we have all been had at some point by wasters...

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!"

Am I the only one thinking if this ‘member’ is reading this wouldn’t he be peed off if all the ladies offered themselves as a consolation and sent sex videos to the OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No verifications and no phone call before - I wouldn’t have turned up.

If something feels wrong, it usually is.

Just report and strike it off as a bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youve been catfished ! They get off on it . very wrong imo

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

David Walliams strikes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you bother putting someone through that. I dont think I'd gone back the second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the first, and won't be the last sadly. Unfortunately the internet is rife with these people.

I had one a few years back now, I thought I was speaking to a woman called Nicki, several pics all of the same person. Couple of weeks in she kept requesting pics, I didn't - on the one occasion I did she went offline immediately. We were talking on whatsapp at this point. I put her number into Facebook expecting nothing, or her to pop up - but instead a middle-aged man popped up. I got my husband to text him say he was having a clear out of numbers was this still Alans number - straight away he came back with yes.

Nicki was supposed to be collecting me from my house and taking me to her flat in London - I'm not sure quite how Alan thought he would pull it off, he was short, fat, bald, married and lived in Yorkshire according to his Facebook

I reverse search all images before I respond to any message on here, the number of verified profiles with pictures of foreign pornstars is quite alarming. Our block list is quite lengthy.

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I thought the whole point of Kik contact was having a video call?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x"

Awwwwww that's so nice of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus

Report his profile (obviously) for being fake, and clearly having someone’s photos without their permission!

Hope you’re okay, I’ll send you a video of me having sex to cheer you up OP x

Awwwwww that's so nice of you "

She’s a sweetheart. I’d prefer the real thing though. And preferably not a guy posing as a woman

Thanks for the comments. I’ll proceed with caution. I know women are understandably more so but I’ve never really given it much thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess that’s what happens when you let your cock think for you. Lesson learnt "

Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!"

Omg lovey, what pics was he sending you on kik.... wanker! (him not you)

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"That’s shitty.

I’d always insist on a phone conversation with your intended/s prior to any future meets in future. "

Yep, definitely a phone call would perhaps have avoided this situation.

Never mind, you know for next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some weird people on here...that prick who did that to you needs to get a life or go and see a therapist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would always ask for a picture of the person doing a very specific type of pose. Any guy can use girls pictures, but obviously wont be able to re create a certain pose youre asking the 'girl'to do."

I would accommodate that, being asked for endless selfies is a real turn off. I’ll send a live selfie or two on Kik, chat on the phone but I’ve stopped talking to people who were distrusting enough to ask for me to continually prove who I am. It’s boring and exhausting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would always ask for a picture of the person doing a very specific type of pose. Any guy can use girls pictures, but obviously wont be able to re create a certain pose youre asking the 'girl'to do.

I would accommodate that, being asked for endless selfies is a real turn off. I’ll send a live selfie or two on Kik, chat on the phone but I’ve stopped talking to people who were distrusting enough to ask for me to continually prove who I am. It’s boring and exhausting"

Wouldn’t, bloody autocorrect

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

If you're using kik and exchanging messages and pictures I personally ask for a live pic ( says camera below the photo proving it's just been taken through the app for you) nothing explicit, Both sides do it then you know their fab pics are accurate. Doesn't eliminate all risk but it helps. It's a shit situation to find yourself in but easy to crack on with after the initial frustration. Best of luck going forward.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been chatted with someone for a while now through here and on Kik. Sending flirty messages and naughty pics. We arranged to meet last night. Saying she was working in Debenhams until 6 and pick her up from and go from there. I get there about 5 mins early and wait patiently until 615 where I get a text saying she’s now finishing at 7 and will text me later. So I shoot off and about an hour later I get another text asking to pick her up again. So i go back to Debenhams and she asks me to wait by the doors. I say it’s freezing out here just jump in the car, I get out for 2 mins and I text saying I’m here now. The message is read and the next message is undelivered. I’m now thinking wtf she’s stood me up. I bugger off again. Text her this morning saying what happened last night. I’ve just received a text apologising and saying they want to come clean. It’s a guy! A geezer! A bloke. Am I doing something wrong or am I a complete moron for falling for this ? It’s a first not an amusing one at that !!"

We would have started to get suspicious if a single woman told a guy from the net where she worked and agreed to get in his car. That coupled with the sudden change in finish time would have had alarms ringing loudly. However as a genuine guy yourself you had no real reason to doubt the "lady".

Better luck next time as a colleague once wrote on the congratulations card for a man about to enter into his second marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help but question why anyone would meet up with someone without talking no the phone first the voice would have given it away and saved hours so would a refusal to talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Omg lovey, what pics was he sending you on kik.... wanker! (him not you) "

Pictures of his ex. Its very disturbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't help but question why anyone would meet up with someone without talking no the phone first the voice would have given it away and saved hours so would a refusal to talk. "

We’d been chatting for weeks on kik and to be honest I didn’t give it a thought. He seemed so genuine. I guess I was gullible

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By *omfilthMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

WTF

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By *omfilthMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

That’s not even being gullible, it’s getting scammed! And pics of his f’ing ex??? I bet she doesn’t know?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Can't help but question why anyone would meet up with someone without talking no the phone first the voice would have given it away and saved hours so would a refusal to talk.

We’d been chatting for weeks on kik and to be honest I didn’t give it a thought. He seemed so genuine. I guess I was gullible "

More trusting than gullible I would say. Taking people at face value is a good trait but a certain cynicism stands you in good stead when meeting people from the net.

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