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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Hi *waves*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi *waves* "

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by unfriendly?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "

Too many Brexit threads, mate.

Keep it light...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?"

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ?

Too many Brexit threads, mate.

Keep it light..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back! "

They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back! "

Do you read profiles or do you go for the scattergun approach?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back! "

You've been on here long enough to know how it works??? If the rejection is getting to you, maybe time to make a change.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "

There are some great people on here, in fact the majority I've spoken to are really nice people. You get the odd ones who are awkward shall we say but that's just part of life.

Chill, relax make friends and have fun!

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Isn't unfriendly op, you may not be what that person is looking for. Gotta suck it up and keep doing what you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "

If you think that they're unfriendly to you, you should see what they're saying behind your back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!

They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly. "

It could bee that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!

Do you read profiles or do you go for the scattergun approach?"

Yes I read all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by unfriendly?

As most of my msg get deleted and not getting any reply back!

They clearly aren’t interested. It isn’t being unfriendly. "

Read the fab FAQs. It isn’t considered rude to delete/not reply to messages. https://m.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly "

it that in all the cases

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ?

If you think that they're unfriendly to you, you should see what they're saying behind your back."

So how do I know what they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we really have to be friendly

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Can't you see a surgeon about your penis? There must be something they can do, surely?

I guarantee that once you get that sorted, you'll have a bit more luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you see a surgeon about your penis? There must be something they can do, surely?

I guarantee that once you get that sorted, you'll have a bit more luck."

It’s implants.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly "

Ah. I forgot that was OP.

Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...

Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets)

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Can't you see a surgeon about your penis? There must be something they can do, surely?

I guarantee that once you get that sorted, you'll have a bit more luck.

It’s implants. "

That's self inflicted?

Jesus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly

Ah. I forgot that was OP.

Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...

Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets)"

They’re plastic, I asked when he put up a thread about them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it's your Nobbly Bobbly

Ah. I forgot that was OP.

Riorio, you have made yourself slightly non-standard, which could be reducing the pool of potential partners. As a result, your ratio of replies to messages could be even worse than us boring vanilla types...

Keep at it (but stay away from strong magnets)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do we really have to be friendly"

You don’t have to bee but I was just asking people opinions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to learn to be thick skinned on here OP..

Be like your penis...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Honestly, I'm not being mean - get your knob sorted asap.

Chalk it up to youthful exuberance or something.

I'd put money on it putting a lot of women off...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to learn to be thick skinned on here OP..

Be like your penis... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly, I'm not being mean - get your knob sorted asap.

Chalk it up to youthful exuberance or something.

I'd put money on it putting a lot of women off..."

Thanks man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone! I appreciate all your opinion.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

They’re plastic, I asked when he put up a thread about them "

I probably missed it as I was coincidentally bleaching my eyeballs that day

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I can't unsee that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "

We understand how difficult it is on her to get known and make friends etc. Specially for single guys.

But not answering messages is not unfriendly it's just the amount of messages couples and single females get on here can number in there hundreds.

Get yourself out alot of areas have social get togethers or get to a local club and start chatting to people.

It all helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re all just proving his point.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

There's no one message that gets results from everyone.

You are just one of many guys,all seeking the same thing.

So long as you read profiles fully and if you do reply, do so in good terms, stay polite and accept that not everyone will respond, then it's all part for the course.

Plus, add in Patience, more Patience and Perseverance! It does work!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Honestly, I'm not being mean - get your knob sorted asap.

Chalk it up to youthful exuberance or something.

I'd put money on it putting a lot of women off...

Thanks man "

Or if you really like your implants put the pic away for the time being?

Didn't you do a thread on it recently? What was the majority ~ a yay or a nay?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "
be yourself and true to yourself also not everyone gets on its life don't take it personally x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"You’re all just proving his point. "

How?

I'm genuinely trying to be nice.

If I wasn't I'd make some sort of platitude, but that won't help him will it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You’re all just proving his point. "

I protest! Anyway, the issue is unreplied messages - and we're all replying!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "
Dont let anyone put you down x folk will try ignore them x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

You were told by almost everyone when you made a thread about your implants that it put them off so on top of being in the vast majority of single men that already struggle to get meets/replies, you've got that going against you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good looking guy,suited & booted,goes to the gym but Jez the implants do seem a bit strange if one's never seem them before I agree,take the mickey pic's off your profile & if a lady request's to see the mickey photos in private,then show them.Out of curiosity,are the implants sore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you stick dolly mix under your willy skin? Don't understand it

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

Hi op ,I am a newbie on here (6months or so).but I have found that most folk on here are friendly but not allways responsive ,big difference .just hang in there and keep on trying . Good luck and best wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "
awwww I think you're OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you stick dolly mix under your willy skin? Don't understand it "

Had to look didnt I, I just had to fucking look

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Tbh a lot of people would think you're a bit of a nut to have that done to yourself. Try a fetish site if you want positive approbation.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

People not replying isn’t unfriendly it’s just the normal way of saying not interested.

Personally if you messaged me and I saw your implants I would be put off. That’s not to say everyone will be the same but going by your thread on your implants the general consensus wasn’t positive.

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends on what you mean by friendly op. Some people here are incredibly friendly and supportive - but you need to balance this with the fact you are a single man who is up against incredible volumes of similar men, with a bias for sex and not friendliness.

Most people have established networks of friends, others gain many here but an internet site only swinging presence isn't the best option for a single man to gain friends Imo.

If it's about getting sex, it's a similar hardships to the other single guys who post the same

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Like others have said, single guys are ten a penny, so getting a response is not easy.

You must have realised when having them that your implants weren't going to be for everyone, so this reduces your chances even more. I wouldn't say get rid of them to marginally improve your chances on fab, if you like them then great but you need to realise it's going to be extra hard on here.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not many people are friendly on here, I don’t see the point ? "

You’ve never messaged me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reply to people I'm interested in. Why waste both our times if I know it's not going to go anywhere.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I didn't look last time I read about the errrrr enhancements ..I'm not looking now either

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Females and couples get literally hundreds of messages, they can't reply to them all, so as mentioned many don't reply if they are not interested. You are a good looking guy but your implants are putting many off meeting you, that said, none of this has any bearing on your acceptance in to the forum community

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