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"Others may disagree" I disagree, look at what happend a few days later, a train guard stabbed, no one stepped in, if they had have done so in that case, it may have been prevented. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-16274920 | |||
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"Others may disagree I disagree, look at what happend a few days later, a train guard stabbed, no one stepped in, if they had have done so in that case, it may have been prevented. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-16274920" one case someone stepped in and someone got hurt another case no one stepped in and someone got hurt in both cases someone committed an assault the only difference is one victim was wearing a uniform and one wasn't Maybe the attacker should get banged up in both cases | |||
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"The trouble with you lot and I mean the 98% of the NIMBY squad (that Not In My Back Yard) means that the more these cretins get away with it, not just fare dodging but shoplifting, litter louts and the like, and it means it's a downward spiral to a decline of all things decent in our society. Deal with the simple things now, and the world could (I say could) evolve into a better place. For those of you old enough to remember, think back to the times tou could play out till it got dark for example, why? Cos we all looked out for each other and not ourselves. I would have no hesitation of heaving out of a train a low life thief, and that is exactly what he was. But I would let it stop first. I'm not all bad! Theft? Whilst he didn't actually steal a tangible item, he didn't pay for the ride that everyone else probably did! And if a fund is created to pay for defence costs, I for one will offer something. As far as knife crime is concerned, there are limits to even the best of intentions when it comes to people power. But think on this. If the knife wielding thug had been told to pick up his litter, etc, he might not be standing there now with a knife in hand. Classic NIMBY in action. There I feel better now. Rant over for 2011. Merry Christmas. " I don't think the fare dodging or the alleged assault was serious. What is serious is the blatant attempt by this little shit to profit by his offense. He should be taught a lesson, a long stretch at her majesty's pleasure should do the trick. | |||
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" I don't think the fare dodging or the alleged assault was serious. " the fare dodging is also 'alleged' why do you make the false distinction between between the two | |||
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" I don't think the fare dodging or the alleged assault was serious. the fare dodging is also 'alleged' why do you make the false distinction between between the two" The fact he didn't have the correct ticket, gives me a bit of a clue. | |||
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" I don't think the fare dodging or the alleged assault was serious. the fare dodging is also 'alleged' why do you make the false distinction between between the two The fact he didn't have the correct ticket, gives me a bit of a clue. " you didn't answer the question | |||
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"I am guessing public sector workers are told what to do in these situations....is it normal practise in these type of situations to agree to a member of the public to sort out the situation or do they ask for security or the BTP?" And when did you last see a member of the BTP on a late night train? Only time I have ever seen them is walking around mainline stations in pairs during the day. Like normal police its nice to think that they will be there when needed. In practice the usual answer is they take up to 30-45 minutes to appear, if at all! I can remember a time when nobody would have done this sort of thing, why? Because the knew that to do so, it wouldn't have been one guy standing up to them, but the whole carriage of passengers. Sadly this sort of public spiritedness died out way back in the the 80's with the rise of 'Its all me, me, me' attitude put forward by the then government. | |||
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"I am guessing public sector workers are told what to do in these situations....is it normal practise in these type of situations to agree to a member of the public to sort out the situation or do they ask for security or the BTP? And when did you last see a member of the BTP on a late night train? Only time I have ever seen them is walking around mainline stations in pairs during the day. Like normal police its nice to think that they will be there when needed. In practice the usual answer is they take up to 30-45 minutes to appear, if at all! I can remember a time when nobody would have done this sort of thing, why? Because the knew that to do so, it wouldn't have been one guy standing up to them, but the whole carriage of passengers. Sadly this sort of public spiritedness died out way back in the the 80's with the rise of 'Its all me, me, me' attitude put forward by the then government." That didn't really answer my question. You work in the public sector ( or did do if I remember rightly) What do they advise you to in situations like this? The lad was on the train through the day btw. | |||
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" I don't think the fare dodging or the alleged assault was serious. the fare dodging is also 'alleged' why do you make the false distinction between between the two The fact he didn't have the correct ticket, gives me a bit of a clue. you didn't answer the question" I suppose if you're splitting hairs there was an assault, very minor. As a fare dodger myself in my youth on the tube, who was thrown off more than one train, I'm more bothered this kid is making out that he was the victim, he tried it on, he got caught. He should cut his losses and move on. | |||
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"In the NHS we are advised to stand back or back away and call for security help. In this case when faced with somebody being aggressive you hope that they will arrive quickly or that as in this case somebody may come to your aid. Security, depending on where they are can take 10 minutes or more to arrive. As we all know, it can take 10 seconds for a lout to thump you in the face and then leg it before your help arrives. Case in point, last week at around 10-30 in the morning. A woman walked into our 'front of house' pharmacy shop with a gp prescription. It was explained to her that we are forbidden to dispense non hospital prescriptions. The member of staff was treated to verbal abuse, a face full of spittal and the balled up prescription thrown at her. She of course had pressed the emergency button which is linked direct to security control. Two burly security guards arrived out of breath within 5 minutes,but the abuser had already left. This sort of behaviour would not have happened 20 years ago. Its just another sign of the breakdown and acceptance of bad behaviour in society." I sympathise completely with this, I had to sit in A+E one Wednesday evening and couldn't believe what they had to put up with. People with minor or self inflicted problems thinking they had priority over people with serious injuries. I believe assaulting, including verbal, a member of any public service should carry severe sentences. | |||
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"The trouble with you lot and I mean the 98% of the NIMBY squad (that Not In My Back Yard) means that the more these cretins get away with it, not just fare dodging but shoplifting, litter louts and the like, and it means it's a downward spiral to a decline of all things decent in our society. Deal with the simple things now, and the world could (I say could) evolve into a better place. For those of you old enough to remember, think back to the times tou could play out till it got dark for example, why? Cos we all looked out for each other and not ourselves. I would have no hesitation of heaving out of a train a low life thief, and that is exactly what he was. But I would let it stop first. I'm not all bad! Theft? Whilst he didn't actually steal a tangible item, he didn't pay for the ride that everyone else probably did! And if a fund is created to pay for defence costs, I for one will offer something. As far as knife crime is concerned, there are limits to even the best of intentions when it comes to people power. But think on this. If the knife wielding thug had been told to pick up his litter, etc, he might not be standing there now with a knife in hand. Classic NIMBY in action. There I feel better now. Rant over for 2011. Merry Christmas. " I's odd, you've taken the time to spell out that a NIMBY menas Not In My BackYard yet you clearly have no idea what that means or the origins of the term... Mind you, I'm impressed we've made it this far woithout some equally non-sensical "political correctness gone mad" type of comment! | |||
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"So.... We have two people who "had a go", one is hailed a hero, and another hailed a "thug". Think back to news reports of an OAP, female, who waded in when she saw a bunch of lowlives on mopeds smashing their way into a jewellers, she didnt just move them on, she laid into them with a vengence!!! Then we have a guy who hoiks some scroat off a train (ok, fairly robustly), aforesaid scrote was not only trying to avoid paying for his journey, but also inconvieniencing all the other passengers too. One gets a pat on the back, and the other gets charged with assault, yet they both were trying to "do their bit". I wonder if it had been a little old lady chucking the scroate off the train, would the authorities have brought charges? " If it had been the old lass you'd probably be seeing her next on one of those TV shows where they give out awards to the community. The sort of thing Carol Vorderman hosts and you get the odd politician saying she's a heroin. One rule for one... | |||
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"In the NHS we are advised to stand back or back away and call for security help. In this case when faced with somebody being aggressive you hope that they will arrive quickly or that as in this case somebody may come to your aid. Security, depending on where they are can take 10 minutes or more to arrive. As we all know, it can take 10 seconds for a lout to thump you in the face and then leg it before your help arrives. Case in point, last week at around 10-30 in the morning. A woman walked into our 'front of house' pharmacy shop with a gp prescription. It was explained to her that we are forbidden to dispense non hospital prescriptions. The member of staff was treated to verbal abuse, a face full of spittal and the balled up prescription thrown at her. She of course had pressed the emergency button which is linked direct to security control. Two burly security guards arrived out of breath within 5 minutes,but the abuser had already left. This sort of behaviour would not have happened 20 years ago. Its just another sign of the breakdown and acceptance of bad behaviour in society." Thanks. And yes, this sort of behaviour is disgusting and no one should put up with it....but as you say, all employees normally stick to procedure if possible. Going back to the lad on the train, he could have been dealt with with the procedure in place too. | |||
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"So.... We have two people who "had a go", one is hailed a hero, and another hailed a "thug". Think back to news reports of an OAP, female, who waded in when she saw a bunch of lowlives on mopeds smashing their way into a jewellers, she didnt just move them on, she laid into them with a vengence!!! Then we have a guy who hoiks some scroat off a train (ok, fairly robustly), aforesaid scrote was not only trying to avoid paying for his journey, but also inconvieniencing all the other passengers too. One gets a pat on the back, and the other gets charged with assault, yet they both were trying to "do their bit". I wonder if it had been a little old lady chucking the scroate off the train, would the authorities have brought charges? " A thought indeed. | |||
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" Going back to the lad on the train, he could have been dealt with with the procedure in place too. " absolutely... and the reason why the student hasn't been charged when the the other person has, is that there is more to the story.... the student had bought the right ticket, the actual issue was that the railcard used to buy the ticket at a discounted rate was not valid at that point in time (9.30am instead of 10am) if they can prove he bought the ticket knowingly..... then they will charge him, however if the ticket was bought at the counter where he would have had to have shown his railcard.. it becomes a lot more of a grey area...... the conductor could have held the train for the BTP to arrive, he could have had the BTP meet them at the next stop.... he could have written him out a penalty notice....... the person who turfed him off the train, that case was a lot more clear cut, and they could use the youtube footage against him...... | |||
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" Going back to the lad on the train, he could have been dealt with with the procedure in place too. absolutely... and the reason why the student hasn't been charged when the the other person has, is that there is more to the story.... the student had bought the right ticket, the actual issue was that the railcard used to buy the ticket at a discounted rate was not valid at that point in time (9.30am instead of 10am) if they can prove he bought the ticket knowingly..... then they will charge him, however if the ticket was bought at the counter where he would have had to have shown his railcard.. it becomes a lot more of a grey area...... the conductor could have held the train for the BTP to arrive, he could have had the BTP meet them at the next stop.... he could have written him out a penalty notice....... the person who turfed him off the train, that case was a lot more clear cut, and they could use the youtube footage against him...... " You see I have always thought, who knows the full story? Only the people involved. I had read somewhere that the lad had bought two tickets but they were both singles going the same way...he suggested it was a mistake of the person who sold the ticket as they were trying to get him the best ticket price as he couldn't use his railcard on one of the journeys. If that was the case...then ok, it isn't the guards fault...but maybe he should have done what you say is in place for these situations. | |||
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"He should be praised for actually getting involved and doing something about it, too many times have people just stood by and let people bully, verbally abuse or just be damn right rude, the male of this couple had to go to court last year because a young male on the bus was asked to leave by the bus driver for using foul language and spitting on the floor, he pushed the bus driver and then graham tried to escort the young man of the bus without touching him, he then tried to punch graham but missed and got a broken nise for his efforts, he tried to get graham charged with racially aggrivated assualt, he was cleared of all and praised by the judge for standing up for his beliefs and trying to help the bus driver, Now I know this young lad didn't try to assualt anyone but he was damn right rude and shouldn't of been on the train, and he was forced off, simply because he wouldn't leave on his own accord, if he went buy the rules and bought a ticket or just left the train like asked, he would of been forcably removed, he has himself to blame and no one else " three cheers for Graham, well done. | |||
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"He should be praised for actually getting involved and doing something about it, too many times have people just stood by and let people bully, verbally abuse or just be damn right rude, the male of this couple had to go to court last year because a young male on the bus was asked to leave by the bus driver for using foul language and spitting on the floor, he pushed the bus driver and then graham tried to escort the young man of the bus without touching him, he then tried to punch graham but missed and got a broken nise for his efforts, he tried to get graham charged with racially aggrivated assualt, he was cleared of all and praised by the judge for standing up for his beliefs and trying to help the bus driver, :p Now I know this young lad didn't try to assualt anyone but he was damn right rude and shouldn't of been on the train, and he was forced off, simply because he wouldn't leave on his own accord, if he went buy the rules and bought a ticket or just left the train like asked, he would of been forcably removed, he has himself to blame and no one else three cheers for Graham, well done. " | |||
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"My husband didn't get a smack, he gave it in self defence, and the lad got what he deserved, there's too many youths nowadays who think they can do what they want on public transport and intimidate the public! Yet people just sit back and let them do it, it angers me that all respect has been lost for people who serve the public, they get paid to serve the public not get abused! It shouldn't be expected as part of the job If the young man was picked up punched in the face then thrown off, I would agree that the man should have been charged with assualt, he simply removed the lad of the train, if he went without a fuss he would of been forced, he tried to run back on the train, after being removed. " As I said before, I think Violence is violence, whatever the excuse people have for doing it. | |||
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"easiest solution ... lets all just do nothing ! never get involved ,never stand up for ourselves or for others . just make sure the right paper works filled out by the right offical and processed in the right mannor . wouldnt want others think their anti-social behaviour wont be tolerated and accepted would we " Or...be violent to people and think it is the right way to act | |||
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"Seen a Story tonight where an old lady fell and broke her leg and lay there for over an hour whilst people drove slowly past - when she lying on the pavement next to the fooking road... the world is fucked - and i really dont mind saying that nowadays... " Or....maybe just the place where the old lady lived is fucked? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 22/12/11 22:42:46]" im not going to bite.. il just help anyone i see that i think that needs helping x sorry if thats the wrong way to think nowadays.. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 22/12/11 22:42:46] im not going to bite.. il just help anyone i see that i think that needs helping x sorry if thats the wrong way to think nowadays.." Im with you on this, if I can help I will, but not into violence as I may break a nail Seriously though, if someone was lying in the road or pavement I would stop to check they were ok. I couldnt leave someone just lying there and hope if it was me lying there, someone would come to help. | |||
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"Seen a Story tonight where an old lady fell and broke her leg and lay there for over an hour whilst people drove slowly past - when she lying on the pavement next to the fooking road... the world is fucked - and i really dont mind saying that nowadays... Or....maybe just the place where the old lady lived is fucked?" Maybe, Jane. I would like to believe that, but in reality I do think that the "everyone for themselves" culture we appear to have these days is prevelent! You only have to read some of the threads we have had on the forums where people openly say they don't care what other people think. Where they say that "I do "X" and if it upsets you? Tough!" Where everyone expects the state to look after them from cradle to grave. Instead of "affording" things themselves, they expect their weekly handouts, even if working! Yeah, you are sort of right, not everyone is like that, but I would wager that a large proportion on here get handouts of some sort or another, because they are "entitled". Including some of those lamenting the demise of the old days... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 22/12/11 22:42:46] im not going to bite.. il just help anyone i see that i think that needs helping x sorry if thats the wrong way to think nowadays.. Im with you on this, if I can help I will, but not into violence as I may break a nail Seriously though, if someone was lying in the road or pavement I would stop to check they were ok. I couldnt leave someone just lying there and hope if it was me lying there, someone would come to help." Thank You !! i would like to hope that someone would help me - rather than go on a forum and give their reasons for driving past me... | |||
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"and rightly so too http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-16288101" have been away from tv's newspapers..news websites etc etc etc for 11 months now....so what is this all about?? | |||
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"Seen a Story tonight where an old lady fell and broke her leg and lay there for over an hour whilst people drove slowly past - when she lying on the pavement next to the fooking road... the world is fucked - and i really dont mind saying that nowadays... " Was that in Banff? If so, it was her wrist she broke, and was laid there around 45 minutes, i know thats true, it was a friends 79 year old mother | |||
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"I am guessing public sector workers are told what to do in these situations....is it normal practise in these type of situations to agree to a member of the public to sort out the situation or do they ask for security or the BTP? And when did you last see a member of the BTP on a late night train? Only time I have ever seen them is walking around mainline stations in pairs during the day. Like normal police its nice to think that they will be there when needed. In practice the usual answer is they take up to 30-45 minutes to appear, if at all! I can remember a time when nobody would have done this sort of thing, why? Because the knew that to do so, it wouldn't have been one guy standing up to them, but the whole carriage of passengers. Sadly this sort of public spiritedness died out way back in the the 80's with the rise of 'Its all me, me, me' attitude put forward by the then government. That didn't really answer my question. You work in the public sector ( or did do if I remember rightly) What do they advise you to in situations like this? The lad was on the train through the day btw." I'd suggest that you offer to assist the person responsible for the safety and management of the train. Fare dodging isn't an arrestable offence so a citizen doesn't have any powers to arrest or detain an offender - so any use of force against the individual is a criminal offence. For the 'it's all gone to shit' brigade that's always been the law. No doubt this bloke thinks he's hard done to, being arrested for doing something he shouldn't - so be it. Magistrates and sheriff's courts are full every Monday morning of people who think they're in the right, right up until the moment they find themselves on the wrong end of a fine. | |||
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"Cant say I agree or disagree with the man stepping in (im on the fence as I dont know the whole details, I've only seen the footage), the thing Im curious about is the footage being filmed and uploaded to you tube or wherever. Surely its a breach of privacy laws someone filming you unawares. Be interesting if one day someone who is filmed in one of these situations, like that effort of a female effing and jeffing the other week on the train, could actually turn round and start legal proceedings for a breach of privacy or human rights. Its one thing being filmed by cctv but by someones phone?" Britain has very few privacy laws, and in most cases filming someone in a public place (which a train is) would be a legitimate activity. You might get more protection from the Data Protection Act, but this particular snippet would be covered by public interest and journalism exceptions. Same goes for the woman effing and blinding on a tram - if you choose to behave like that in a public place, you have no complaint. | |||
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" but I would wager that a large proportion on here get handouts of some sort or another, because they are "entitled". Including some of those lamenting the demise of the old days... " in the grand hall of fame for sweeping generalisations (if there is one lol)you just got top spot with that one... how by any sense of reaoned argument do you come to that conclusion? | |||
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" Thank You !! i would like to hope that someone would help me - rather than go on a forum and give their reasons for driving past me... " ? | |||
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