FabSwingers.com forum: Treat them with respect

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If you get the chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there another way to shudder other than physically then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer your balls in a vice, OP??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there another way to shudder other than physically then?"

Mentally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there another way to shudder other than physically then?

Mentally?"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't use it myself, but some of my veris say it.

I prefer it to sucks like a Dyson or anything really gratuitously crude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not the minimum you would expect anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cums for Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that not the minimum you would expect anyway"

Exactly. If you don’t treat folk with respect, don’t bother interacting with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. Someone put it on one of mine. If someone didn’t treat me with respect they’d get a short sharp kick in the nether regions anyway.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Treat with utter contempt guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat with utter contempt guys! "

Throw the used condom in her face while stabbing her neck with a hotel fork!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat with utter contempt guys!

Throw the used condom in her face while stabbing her neck with a hotel fork!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "

Love the Dyson saying. Free advertising Mr Dyson must love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "

Yes there are a lot of things more annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "
I expect you mean in a verification but all people should be treated with respect unless they are disrespectful to you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "

Ditto..

Don't know what it is, about it. Just makes me go "Uuuurgh!"

Saying that a good friend wrote me a veri that was full of the Fab clichés, including that, it was a private joke and had me in stitches when I read it.

Sadly he's gone UNLOS now & the veri disappeared with him

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘I rammed my pork sword deep into this filthy slut and she squealed like the dirty whore that she is. Anyway, be sure to treat her with respect guys.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it.

Yes there are a lot of things more annoying."

Like stepping on lego.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I never get it when I see this. As if treating someone with respect is not what you would ordinarily do or is somehow an option to ensure more fun. Always makes me wonder about the people who write it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Itsxa given that you treat people with respect when meeting them

Most pointless thing to put in a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get it when I see this. As if treating someone with respect is not what you would ordinarily do or is somehow an option to ensure more fun. Always makes me wonder about the people who write it."
you've got to put something and guess they just aren't very imaginative

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

The first veri I received on here says that, I thought it was a lovely sentiment

Then I found the forums... i still quite like it tbh but can see it from other points of view now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put “ “ in the subject text so I know you’ve read my profile

Doesn’t make me shudder but I do think. Get over yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put “ “ in the subject text so I know you’ve read my profile

Doesn’t make me shudder but I do think. Get over yourself

I have this too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"‘I rammed my pork sword deep into this filthy slut and she squealed like the dirty whore that she is. Anyway, be sure to treat her with respect guys.’ "

*snort*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

i dont see a problem with it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insisting on a face pic and insisting you send one first... Yeah on which planet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??"

You’d be surprised how many men (and people in general, probably) think they can get a meet with no face pic.

I also like to know straight away if I’m attracted to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put “ “ in the subject text so I know you’ve read my profile

Doesn’t make me shudder but I do think. Get over yourself

I have this too

Did you think of that yourself or did you see it in the several hundred other people saying the same?

Be original

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put “ “ in the subject text so I know you’ve read my profile

Doesn’t make me shudder but I do think. Get over yourself

I have this too

Did you think of that yourself or did you see it in the several hundred other people saying the same?

Be original

Thought of it all by myself, like a big girl!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "

Yes it does seem a given, a minimum, but everyone has their own ideas what respect is in practice, what I might find disrespectful might be ok to someone else and vice versa.

If someone needs to quote that respect is needed then maybe they weren't expecting to encounter being respected themselves, so it was a stand out feature of the meet when they were, a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insisting on a face pic and insisting you send one first... Yeah on which planet.

This is me. I never send first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything more annoying than this saying? It physically makes me shudder when I read it. "

Not annoying, but to me it just means... wasn't to my taste, might be to yours but if they aren't please show them some respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insisting on a face pic and insisting you send one first... Yeah on which planet.

This is me. I never send first

I never send unless we're meeting and they send first. Maybe that's why I don't meet too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??

You’d be surprised how many men (and people in general, probably) think they can get a meet with no face pic.

I also like to know straight away if I’m attracted to someone

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I'm a great believer in this to but many women don't like to share face pics certainly not in early stages of chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??

You’d be surprised how many men (and people in general, probably) think they can get a meet with no face pic.

I also like to know straight away if I’m attracted to someone

I'm a great believer in this to but many women don't like to share face pics certainly not in early stages of chatting "

I usually have face pics on my profile, if not I’ll send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insisting on a face pic and insisting you send one first... Yeah on which planet.

This is me. I never send first

I never send unless we're meeting and they send first. Maybe that's why I don't meet too many

I do always send one back though it’s only fair even if I don’t like what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??

You’d be surprised how many men (and people in general, probably) think they can get a meet with no face pic.

I also like to know straight away if I’m attracted to someone

I'm a great believer in this to but many women don't like to share face pics certainly not in early stages of chatting

I usually have face pics on my profile, if not I’ll send one

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your face is out there for all to see and a very nice face it is to

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are ways of writing similar things that don't come off as clichéd or cringe. My very first veri did something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no reply

I have this on my profile

Couldn’t you think of anything else interesting to say lol

Surly people will send a picture if they are that interested? I think what’s the point ??

You’d be surprised how many men (and people in general, probably) think they can get a meet with no face pic.

I also like to know straight away if I’m attracted to someone

I'm a great believer in this to but many women don't like to share face pics certainly not in early stages of chatting

I usually have face pics on my profile, if not I’ll send one

your face is out there for all to see and a very nice face it is to "

Thanks papa

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

"I do always send one back though it’s only fair even if I don’t like what I see. "

That's very good of you. Normally my 'good face for radio' ends the conversation there and then.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

One of the first veri's someone wrote for me included the line 'treat him with respect', and since then I've had women breaking off half way through having sex to sing me their rendition of the Aretha Franklin classic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the fact when people name initials

With couple why not put he or she

Its pretty obvious who your talking about

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I like saying you would be lucky to meet them, as I consider myself Lucky. I don't tell the guy of the couples he is lucky to have his wife/gf though as some don't like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Insisting on a face pic and insisting you send one first... Yeah on which planet.

This is me. I never send first

I never send unless we're meeting and they send first. Maybe that's why I don't meet too many

I do always send one back though it’s only fair even if I don’t like what I see. "

That's the very reason I stopped. When I first started on here over 3 yrs ago I thought it only fair to exchange a face pic and being the type of guy I am I'd send one first when seeing this requested in their profile. When one gets a no reply deleted message afterwards I just started to get annoyed with it and stopped. It's progressed to the point I never send the first message now either simply because of all the time wasted reading and then carefully composing only to see it binned 99%of the time. Hasn't stopped getting meets. If anything what it has done is created a more comparable meet selection process for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the first veri's someone wrote for me included the line 'treat him with respect', and since then I've had women breaking off half way through having sex to sing me their rendition of the Aretha Franklin classic."

Not sure which is worse... them singing or the thought crossing their mind while having sex.

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