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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I'm seeing a lot of negative statuses,people on the forums bemoaning their lack of success, etc.

If it's that bad why don't they leave the site or at least take a break.

Is anybody REALLY going to give a sympathy shag to an online stranger? Of course they're not,it invariably ends up in advice being offered,ignored ,ridiculed and abused in that order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like being in work and saying "I can't be arsed" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit like being in work and saying "I can't be arsed" x"
that's an interesting thing to say.

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"It's a bit like being in work and saying "I can't be arsed" x"

Not really, because you have to go to work but nobody is forced to be on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exaxtly OP. Negativity breeds negativity. They don't seem to realise that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy happy happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing a lot of negative statuses,people on the forums bemoaning their lack of success, etc.

If it's that bad why don't they leave the site or at least take a break.

Is anybody REALLY going to give a sympathy shag to an online stranger? Of course they're not,it invariably ends up in advice being offered,ignored ,ridiculed and abused in that order. "

I would say you are spot on there but then there has always been moaning on here. Do people give sympathy shags? I very much doubt it but can't blame them for trying to get one.

We alas live in a want it now generation so it just seems to follow through to here and patience is still la virtue

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If they feel better for getting it off their chest...so be it.

We are very much glass half full people and are attracted to those who are positive and fun.

Nita

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My local updates a few days ago... Apart from 2, every status from a man was moany.

This site is crap, full of time wasters/fakes, won't be renewing my subscription, or the, I'm bored/horny somebody come fuck me, suck me, drain me.

I actually posted one of my own in return.

Giving a little advice.

No idea if any daw it, or it made them think.

But it amused me.

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Maybe their just letting of steam, we have to be honest here, it can be hard work going through the fakesand thers alot of them here.

No one really like their time being wasted, so let them vent off i say.

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Letting off steam is fine, but some ( men particularly) post endless self pitying statuses, threats to leave etc.Do they honestly think it's going to get them laid? Lol, it's an immediate turn off for me and most others I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn that frown upside down all you little sausages

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

.... . Like so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There you go then.

I do get a bit negative when you chat to a lady then exchange face pics and then you get blocked. That puts a bit of dampness on my mood. But oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Letting off steam is fine, but some ( men particularly) post endless self pitying statuses, threats to leave etc.Do they honestly think it's going to get them laid? Lol, it's an immediate turn off for me and most others I imagine "

I trawl local updates and shag the most desperate men. Charity is good for the soul.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Positivity is sexy.

No one wants to fuck Victor Meldrew.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Positivity is sexy.

No one wants to fuck Victor Meldrew.

Just saying."

I thought everyone fucked Victor meldrew, why he always said 'i don't believe it'

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Letting off steam is fine, but some ( men particularly) post endless self pitying statuses, threats to leave etc.Do they honestly think it's going to get them laid? Lol, it's an immediate turn off for me and most others I imagine

I trawl local updates and shag the most desperate men. Charity is good for the soul. "

Your inbox has suddenly overflowed!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Why don't they just get dressed up, go out in town with friends and try to meet someone the old fashioned way? (Bearing in mind to be charming and chatty, not creepy and desperate!)

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Why don't they just get dressed up, go out in town with friends and try to meet someone the old fashioned way? (Bearing in mind to be charming and chatty, not creepy and desperate!)"

Ahem! There are 'a few' men on this site for whom that is not an option,either because their wife won't approve or because of social inadequacy ( which is what causes them to be trawling unsuccessfully for online hookups in the first place!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't they just get dressed up, go out in town with friends and try to meet someone the old fashioned way? (Bearing in mind to be charming and chatty, not creepy and desperate!)

Ahem! There are 'a few' men on this site for whom that is not an option,either because their wife won't approve or because of social inadequacy ( which is what causes them to be trawling unsuccessfully for online hookups in the first place!)"

That's why I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooooo... this is in essence a negative thread about others negativity on here?

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By *ust Clare OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Soooooo... this is in essence a negative thread about others negativity on here?"

No,but I agree we've gone off track slightly!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

These 'can everyone stop moaning' threads pop up at least once a week.

Look, we're (mostly) British and we're world class whingers. Nobody complains like we do. So yeah

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"These 'can everyone stop moaning' threads pop up at least once a week.

Look, we're (mostly) British and we're world class whingers. Nobody complains like we do. So yeah "

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"These 'can everyone stop moaning' threads pop up at least once a week.

Look, we're (mostly) British and we're world class whingers. Nobody complains like we do. So yeah "

I often think this when you get someone ranting about immigrants, going "If you're gonna live in this country you should learn the bloody culture! Try and fit in!"

But then if an immigrant moans about the weather, they're all "Well if you don't like it - fuck off back to Bongo Bongo Land!"

Which leaves me slightly bemused, as moaning about the weather is as British as it gets...so which is it to be? Adopt the culture or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, to add a little balance, the site is just not what it was a few years ago. We met on here and had some fantastic meets with some lovely, attractive couples. Nowadays, it seems like you have to spend hours and hours to find a decent meet. Hence being very frustrating when it is supposed to be a swingers site.

We generally now only use the "meets" facilities i.e. only contact those advertising meets - but even that is about 90% failure.

It simply wasn't like this in the past - something has clearly changes, although many deny that fact. Basically, it is 90% a chat site now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, to add a little balance, the site is just not what it was a few years ago. We met on here and had some fantastic meets with some lovely, attractive couples. Nowadays, it seems like you have to spend hours and hours to find a decent meet. Hence being very frustrating when it is supposed to be a swingers site.

We generally now only use the "meets" facilities i.e. only contact those advertising meets - but even that is about 90% failure.

It simply wasn't like this in the past - something has clearly changes, although many deny that fact. Basically, it is 90% a chat site now."

Fascinating

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I think, to add a little balance, the site is just not what it was a few years ago. We met on here and had some fantastic meets with some lovely, attractive couples. Nowadays, it seems like you have to spend hours and hours to find a decent meet. Hence being very frustrating when it is supposed to be a swingers site.

We generally now only use the "meets" facilities i.e. only contact those advertising meets - but even that is about 90% failure.

It simply wasn't like this in the past - something has clearly changes, although many deny that fact. Basically, it is 90% a chat site now."

Works for me, I must be getting your portion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, to add a little balance, the site is just not what it was a few years ago. We met on here and had some fantastic meets with some lovely, attractive couples. Nowadays, it seems like you have to spend hours and hours to find a decent meet. Hence being very frustrating when it is supposed to be a swingers site.

We generally now only use the "meets" facilities i.e. only contact those advertising meets - but even that is about 90% failure.

It simply wasn't like this in the past - something has clearly changes, although many deny that fact. Basically, it is 90% a chat site now.

Works for me, I must be getting your portion."

Of course it does - you are that rare breed - a genuine single lady

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By *ittle LunaCouple
over a year ago

London (future visits not now)

We think it's a sense of entitlement and being here looking for others to fix then rather than realising they need to be happy in themselves first to be attractive to most people.

Needy greedy seedy guys are a complete turn off.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We think it's a sense of entitlement and being here looking for others to fix then rather than realising they need to be happy in themselves first to be attractive to most people.

Needy greedy seedy guys are a complete turn off."

Sounds like the follow up to Men Behaving Badly

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Funny thing although I’m going through shite, I’m very positive x

Erm not trying to get a shag either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe their just letting of steam, we have to be honest here, it can be hard work going through the fakesand thers alot of them here.

No one really like their time being wasted, so let them vent off i say. "

Well at least from my posts you can see I ain't fake! Each to their own. Fabswingers is a set site. Swinging is about sex. So those saying don't treat this site like a sex site is just obsurd. OK I agree you need to get on with people and have a connection. But new users don't know the clicks and groups on here. Some are on here just to put people down to make themselves feel better.

If someone posts something you don't like just ignore it. Simple

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