FabSwingers.com forum: Profile turn offs and on’s

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What turns you on about a profile?

What turns you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What turns you on about a profile?

What turns you off?"

Turn off is facial hair.

Turn on for both of us is a nice pair of boobs

Mrs c

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

On: Classy pics good text, honesty.

Off:Cock and pussy or action shots

Minging homes...look before you take a pic.

Two word profiles.

Tacky user names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lists.

More lists and hoops to jump through.

The word exceptional. Darling if you need the be on a free site in the first place you're not exceptional just up your own backside.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Text and photos which I find appealing.

Shouty profiles or profiles that read like you don’t really like people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You turn me on OP

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Oh and of course.

The entitled sounding profiles.

Zero effort = Zero reward.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We love searching for the code word that we need to put in a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You turn me on OP"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lists.

More lists and hoops to jump through.

The word exceptional. Darling if you need the be on a free site in the first place you're not exceptional just up your own backside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love searching for the code word that we need to put in a message.

Pick me pick me

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Turn on would be nice body pics with some tattoos

and a funny bio.

Turn off... pictures of full condoms hanging off a guys cock... yuck!! Nasty looking and ab instant block.

Also dick pics taken over a toilet! Flush guys if you're gonna do that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I must admit, really negative profiles is a massive turn off. Dos and don’ts and stuff like no face pic no reply bugs the shit out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn offs... Profiles that are dull. If I can't make it to the end awake it's a no.

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh yeah definitely. Must admit I've been guilty of writing a list but it was out of frustration more than anything. Now when I'm meeting if they don't bother to read I just don't respond. Makes life much easier

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Turn ons:

Men in mens underwear

Nice cock bulge

Women wearing nice but fairly everyday underwear

Full length shots of guys lying on their stomach

Shots of guys fro pubic area upwards (not showing cock)

Turn offs

Any form of BDSM, even mild

objects shoved in various orifices

Pictures of sexual acts

Women in crutchless knickers and peekaboo bras

Body stockings

Men wearing ladies underwear

men who take pictures of their cocks whilst sat on the bog

Kids toys in the background of erotic pictures

guys that bearback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that are too long or too short, or have no pictures on saying “get in touch”. Why would I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive turn off are profiles with a list of demands and what you need to do to get blocked. I avoid them like the plague.

Turn ons are friendly profile with lots of information on what someone likes.

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

For us a couple profile that comes across aggressive with must do this must do that etc.... Too many cock pics with only a few pictures of the female are all turn offs for us. We love an honest profile with text and with honest pictures (not all of one angle).

Reading through this thread definitely has made us think of re-doing our own profile in places though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a profile that says it's looking for single guys just like me and not so keen on ones that don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno i dont read them

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

No bio or just Sydney stuff. Barebackers & genetalia jizz pics. Couples with no male body pics just the odd close up cock pic. Scruffy messy backgrounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say on their profile " up for anything "

That suggests they're slightly desperate to me.

Blank profiles with no effort suggests either laziness or not much going on upstairs.

I like confident profiles that explain what they enjoy and with the people they want it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons -

Funny profile text

Outdoor pics

Torso and face pics

Full body nudes

Creampies

Suit pics

Group pics

Tighty whiteys

Turn offs -

Men in womens underwear

Flacid cocks with muppet like pubes

28 cock pics at different angles

No clear full body shots

Sydney University, Facebook blurb

Hi viz jackets

Pink blotchy shaving rashes

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

"A massive turn off are profiles with a list of demands and what you need to do to get blocked. I avoid them like the plague.

Turn ons are friendly profile with lots of information on what someone likes.

I guess that's mostly females and couples and personally I agree with them, some guys think they are gods gift, won't take no for answer and think they are the exception to the rule, I frequently get messages from bi guys, mainly on Fab guys, who think that any ground rules and preferences on my profile somehow don't apply to them. Sometimes you need to set specific ground rules and get slightly aggressive with the wording, threaten to block people, basically because as mentioned a lot of guys just don't get the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off on single woman profile - These irritating photo app filters that add animal ears, whiskers etc. I’d rather see no head shot than those.

Turn on - Nice everyday shots that show the person as opposed to how many guys attended their latest gangbang.

Cpls turn off - As above re: gangbang record, profile pics that only include just one or the other.

Cpl turn on - Well thought out (and written) profile that presents them positively rather than coming over as a checkbox exercise you need to complete before ‘applying’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off are profiles with a list of demands and what you need to do to get blocked. I avoid them like the plague.

Turn ons are friendly profile with lots of information on what someone likes.

I disagree. Guys that think they’re god gift will always keep messaging, they are thick skinned. On the other hand you’re just gonna drive away the nice people that you want to meet with an aggressive profile. Aim your profile at who you want to meet, not who you don’t want to meet. Make sense?

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

More turn off to add to my list.

Pictures of:

Prince Alberts

Scrotum piercings

any other genitalia piercings

Jock straps

Dirty/stained underwear (yuk)

destroyed arseholes (yuk)

gaping arseholes Yuk)

Haemorrhoids (gross)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit, really negative profiles is a massive turn off. Dos and don’ts and stuff like no face pic no reply bugs the shit out of me"

Mine has that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Do's - dont's = yawn

2. I suffer from ' x illness' i cant meet due to that reason... bore off fish for sympathy elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those legal warning bullshit do people really that stupid they think they are worth anything? Read the site rules they pretty much invalidate them!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Off..

Gaping pics. Pics with multiple partners. Floating cock pics.

Single line or vulgar bio. Bragging!

40 lines of Sydney, Facebook disclaimers

On.

Arty, erotic tasteful pics.

Bio.. Showing we have shared preferences, a sense of humour, well written, respectful.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

"All those legal warning bullshit do people really that stupid they think they are worth anything? Read the site rules they pretty much invalidate them!

always makes me laugh, people put intimate pictures of themselves on a website that is easy to get membership- too and then put a completely meaningless statement on their profile about use of said images.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Turn offs - loads of cock pics, tons of veris, pics with other people in them, women’s pics where you can almost see what they had for breakfast, cum shots, bad grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Turn offs - loads of cock pics, tons of veris, pics with other people in them, women’s pics where you can almost see what they had for breakfast, cum shots, bad grammar "
tell me why were friends again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picture wise-

Off-

1-gape pics.. just no

2- Loads of big floppy boob pics filling the pic- really.. is this your only asset

3-rubbish blurred steamed up pics

On-

1-arty pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Turn offs - loads of cock pics, tons of veris, pics with other people in them, women’s pics where you can almost see what they had for breakfast, cum shots, bad grammar tell me why were friends again lol"

Haha. I make the odd exception. And I’m a little bit in love with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno if they're turn offs but things that bug me

"Fill in later" - if somebody is new to the site sure, but if you've been here like 6 months or more, nah...

"Profile needs to have pictures" or "no pictures = no meet." - pigs me off when people put this but have no profile picture / and/or have all their pictures set to "friend only". So you wanna see all of me but I can't see non of you. No thanks.

Lists / rules that are absolutes - I understand them. I get it. But never say never. You could be missing out on meeting somebody really nice all because they don't meet your "nobody hair" rule. (Just an example, other rules apply.)

Can not travel / can not accommodate - I get some people mean can not travel meaning like miles, but I know I'm not they only one who reads it as "can not travel at all". That's fine for some profiles, but ones that say they really want to meet people... doesn't make sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Haha. I make the odd exception. And I’m a little bit in love with you. "

Now the fear kicks in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Haha. I make the odd exception. And I’m a little bit in love with you.

Now the fear kicks in lol"

Hahahahaha. Oh you’re so unique

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Headingley

" Turn offs - women’s pics where you can almost see what they had for breakfast

I think this was also described as 'Road kill' in another thread.

Either way, ewww!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

" Turn offs - women’s pics where you can almost see what they had for breakfast

I think this was also described as 'Road kill' in another thread.

Either way, ewww! "

Even more gross when men try and show you what they've had for breakfast ewww

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Turn off - angry ranty 'read this' profiles. Statements that discard an entire race of people. Too much ego, saw one this morning saying 'alpha female', if you describe yourself as an alpha you're pretty much guaranteed to be a cock.

Turn on - sexy pics, good lingerie, nice, friendly profile text, an open minded viewpoint.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"We love searching for the code word that we need to put in a message.

Pick me pick me

Struggling to find it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on: tasteful pics. Well written profiles that tells me exactly what someone is looking for and their preferred way of play. If I spot something we have mutual interests in.

Turn offs: Profiles filled with nothing but cock pics and fuck pics. Gaping orifices especially cum filled ones, urrgghhh. Shit usernames. Arrogance. Pointless legal disclaimers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn ons - creative pics, tighty whiteys, good grammar,

Haha. I make the odd exception. And I’m a little bit in love with you.

Now the fear kicks in lol

Hahahahaha. Oh you’re so unique "
some call it craaaaaaaazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional couple? So you have a job? I work for the fuckin queen,I win!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Complete disregard for the rules of the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy bum cracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook "

Bit harsh. I’ll stay thanks. If that’s ok with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook "

Ah yes. I should stop using fab, the forums, chat rooms, and interacting with friends I have on here, because I am too poorly to meet. You’re right!

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook "

Why? people are not always able to meet but that doesn't mean they should stay away from the site, I'd say putting 'not meeting at the moment' on their profile saves people wasting their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things I really don't enjoy about this lifestyle is lack of interest if you show say for example an interest in a woman and she likes you how can you sustain that interest at your end if it's not reciprocated, so having read the profile a requirement that is a paramount requirement of almost every woman and found somebody that has the thing that you want which could be a regular liason or indeed a relationship and yet they still don't show interest even though they say they are interested in you,they show veris and meets and interest in others and still chat to you, that ultimately is misleading and I can understand how guys get upset with that. The profile reads one way but the veris updates and status and site usage suggest anything but.

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook "

I'd rather be honest than waste anyones time. Don't see why I should leave when I can stay and chat to my friends.

Turn off, ignorant people!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Turn on - boob pics (I’m dead easy to please me)

Turn off - no boob pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on - boob pics (I’m dead easy to please me)

Turn off - no boob pics

Wanna see my boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love searching for the code word that we need to put in a message.

Pick me pick me

Love it...

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Another profile turn off, mostly guys:

Any mention of doing p*pp*rs, any other legal high and illegal drugs.

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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Another profile turn off, mostly guys:

Any mention of doing p*pp*rs, any other legal high and illegal drugs."

100% agree there.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

On; friendly face, suggestive, teasing, funny, blokes in stockings.

Off; plethora of knob/minge/bumhole/boobs. Cream pies, nuts deep in someone else. You've had sex, hurrah for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On; friendly face, suggestive, teasing, funny, blokes in stockings.

Off; plethora of knob/minge/bumhole/boobs. Cream pies, nuts deep in someone else. You've had sex, hurrah for you.

I spat my tea out

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Turn on - boob pics (I’m dead easy to please me)

Turn off - no boob pics

Wanna see my boobs?"

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on - boob pics (I’m dead easy to please me)

Turn off - no boob pics

Wanna see my boobs?

Amen!

That’s a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook

Ah yes. I should stop using fab, the forums, chat rooms, and interacting with friends I have on here, because I am too poorly to meet. You’re right! "

I totally respect your opinion, please respect mine. It’s just my view. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook

Bit harsh. I’ll stay thanks. If that’s ok with you

I’m sorry that you’ve taken offence with me answering the question . “Not meeting” is a turn off for me that’s all, just like “lots of cocks” are a turn off for you. Each to their own and all that.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Another profile turn off, mostly guys:

Any mention of doing p*pp*rs, any other legal high and illegal drugs."
Yeah drugs or any real degrading of the lady not into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off “Not meeting at the moment” there’s always Facebook

Bit harsh. I’ll stay thanks. If that’s ok with you

It’s cool. Can’t remember ever being offended in my life so no need to be sorry

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Forgot the mother nature posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On-hot pics

Off-no effort in text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love searching for the code word that we need to put in a message.

Pick me pick me

Struggling to find it!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the things I really don't enjoy about this lifestyle is lack of interest if you show say for example an interest in a woman and she likes you how can you sustain that interest at your end if it's not reciprocated, so having read the profile a requirement that is a paramount requirement of almost every woman and found somebody that has the thing that you want which could be a regular liason or indeed a relationship and yet they still don't show interest even though they say they are interested in you,they show veris and meets and interest in others and still chat to you, that ultimately is misleading and I can understand how guys get upset with that. The profile reads one way but the veris updates and status and site usage suggest anything but. "

I don’t get this my friend, it’s a swinging site - some might say it’s a casual sex site - so by its very definition most of the people here aren’t going to be ‘exclusive’ to one person.

I certainly don’t expect the ladies I speak to to ONLY talk to me or only meet me, I know that they will also be chatting to and meeting others.

So the fact that they meet others and still talk to you isn’t misleading, unless they’re telling you you’re the only one for them (which I suspect they’re not!)

The reason this alarms me is because when I was here before there was this guy who used to get really upset when the women he talked to met me first, he then started spreading malicious lies about me saying I was barebacking my way around the local area and taking diseases back to my other half. He also sent them outrageous horrible PMs too, just because he was jealous that they met me before him!!

So if any guy is getting upset that women are meeting other men on here, I suggest it might not be the right site for them!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I prefer the ladies I chat to to also have sex with other men. I don’t like exclusivity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sharing is caring. If I wanted “exclusive” I certainly wouldn’t be using this site. I like group sex

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Classy pictures are great. Don’t like cock or open pussy shots, spunky pics, stupid ‘demands’

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