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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening good people of fab.

I’d like a little advice if at all possible?

Am I doing something wrong with my profile as no one seems to be so much as looking at it.

I’d appreciate your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably read the first line and thinking that you won't hang around long so they pick the next guy who isn't leaving.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You've only been here (back?) 3 weeks. That isn't long in Fab terms.

I would say more and varied pics and better text. You need to sell yourself.

The other general advice is get on the forums, go to socials and try clubs.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People could be looking in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh good point.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If nobody is looking at your profile, then something else must be the problem.

If you're getting loads of views, but no messages, then that could be your profile (or just a fact of life).

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The first thing to remember is a lot of ladies and couples look in "stealth" mode so won't show on your "who's looked at me" list

Have seen worse profiles, but also a lot lot better - being honest your profile is, well, a little bland - as Testarossa says the first line suggests you won't be around long and the "catch me while you can" line will put some off as it has a touch of arrogance to it.

The rest of it doesn't really tell anyone anything about you, what you're looking for or think you can offer.

In summary you need to stand out a little, inject some personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saying you're not sure how long you will be back for is slightly off-putting....especially as you don't give a reason...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening good people of fab.

I’d like a little advice if at all possible?

Am I doing something wrong with my profile as no one seems to be so much as looking at it.

I’d appreciate your feedback "

I'm not being funny or don't take this the wrong way. But if people are not looking at your profile then you profile has nothing to do with it as they've not yet seen your profile... make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could be looking in stealth mode. "

How does stealth mode work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could be looking in stealth mode. "

I love your status.. just out of your age range tho... damn

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"People could be looking in stealth mode.

How does stealth mode work??

"

It's a setting - switch it on and you don't appear in "Who's Looked At Me?" when you've looked at other people's profiles - may only be available to site supporters though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening good people of fab.

I’d like a little advice if at all possible?

Am I doing something wrong with my profile as no one seems to be so much as looking at it.

I’d appreciate your feedback "

Serious answer to an often asked question.

I'm not really looking for anything but if I do happen to start a thread on here a few people do view my profile. Nothing happens but that's fine by me, there's nothing on my profile to respond to.

Just raise a few subjects on here and people will come for a peak. If there's anything on your profile of interest, I'm sure they'll make themselves known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People could be looking in stealth mode.

How does stealth mode work??

It's a setting - switch it on and you don't appear in "Who's Looked At Me?" when you've looked at other people's profiles - may only be available to site supporters though "

Ty... Understood. Here me thinking it was something SAS based lol!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile says next to nothing but does include lots of distracting info.

Cut the first paragraph, ending in the McDonald's metaphor. Instead start with who you are and why people should meet you, in your own words.

Stay on topic - people will skip to the next person if you waffle, giving them no substance or reason to consider you.

Include info that gives them some reason - at least one- to spark and maintain their interest. You're one of thousands of men here. Forgettable is, sadly forgettable.

Visual attraction is essential so expect that you will need public pics to give yourself even a small chance.

Search profile help in the forum for the basics of making yourself distinct from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s plain and boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads like someone’s forced you to write it. Words/phrases like not sure, suppose etc, infer that you’re not really bothered, or a tad fed up. Also having an avatar as a profile pic is dreadful. We see it as worse than having a cock pic! Maybe try fix that first? It’s quick and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s plain and boring"

I like people who take the sensitive approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even tell what you look like. No public picture's at all . Lexi

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