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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because people like to use labels to identify others

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman. "

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I don't like snow or flakes -evidently I have "snowflake" issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

Er, I've got a tin of quality street and a couple of tickets to a Little Mix concert!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Er, I've got a tin of quality street and a couple of tickets to a Little Mix concert! "

Have fun at Little Mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree.

I get this comment a lot and have had people say it on here, I must have daddy issues liking older men.

Surprisingly not! People are allowed to have a preference! Good point about young men and mummy issues though, funny how I’ve never seen it mentioned like that for young men!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?"

It’s a very good question. And I’m going to say something you don’t often hear on the forums. ‘I don’t know’.

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I also dont have daddy issues at all , my master is older than me but i dont call him daddy that creeps me out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?

It’s a very good question. And I’m going to say something you don’t often hear on the forums. ‘I don’t know’. "

It’s just always bothered me, I have a very lovely, normal and healthy relationship with my dad. So no daddy issues from me!

Thank you for answering honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Er, I've got a tin of quality street and a couple of tickets to a Little Mix concert!

Have fun at Little Mix "

But you want the chocolates then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally agree.

I get this comment a lot and have had people say it on here, I must have daddy issues liking older men.

Surprisingly not! People are allowed to have a preference! Good point about young men and mummy issues though, funny how I’ve never seen it mentioned like that for young men! "

Someone who can relate!

Winds me up so much haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Er, I've got a tin of quality street and a couple of tickets to a Little Mix concert!

Have fun at Little Mix

But you want the chocolates then? "

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer younger men but I love calling them "daddy" is this a daddy issue or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you dadnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I much prefer younger men but I love calling them "daddy" is this a daddy issue or not? "

I don’t know - do you have daddy issues and are you fucking young men and calling them daddy because of it?

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"I much prefer younger men but I love calling them "daddy" is this a daddy issue or not? "

More like oedipal issues

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Its because people like to use labels to identify others "

Sadly they do people should be able to be what they want to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its because people like to use labels to identify others

Sadly they do people should be able to be what they want to be. "

But I’m just me!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

What is a daddy issue anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you just say about my mother???!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is a daddy issue anyway?"

Dads that walked out on their kid, dads that are toxic, abusive etc. There’s many ways your dad could be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not yet seen derogatory comments like that made about women that prefer men older than themselves. It's rare to see such things on here certainly (unless it's about how rude women are not replying to men's messages). I have seen bitchy comments made about younger men and older women though but nothing specifically in regard to daddy/mommy issues.

Although I may just not have been looking hard enough to be fair

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I like hot, curvaceous, busty women in the mid twentys to mid fortys age range who come under the description of 'classy but no knickers'

I know i have an issue- its not being able to get hold of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like hot, curvaceous, busty women in the mid twentys to mid fortys age range who come under the description of 'classy but no knickers'

I know i have an issue- its not being able to get hold of them "

See, that IS an issue

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We are both attracted to our age and younger , (it would be hard to be attracted to older as we are ancient). The label “Daddy issues” is, in our opinion, simply laziness from people who have to have a reason that someone could enjoy the company out of age group. There are stunning people out there who are our age and older and we can totally understand a younger person being attracted. Daddy issues is a pure red herring. It’s unfair but so is life.

It is also of course a taboo subject which titilates many hence the popularity of the phrase.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are both attracted to our age and younger , (it would be hard to be attracted to older as we are ancient). The label “Daddy issues” is, in our opinion, simply laziness from people who have to have a reason that someone could enjoy the company out of age group. There are stunning people out there who are our age and older and we can totally understand a younger person being attracted. Daddy issues is a pure red herring. It’s unfair but so is life.

It is also of course a taboo subject which titilates many hence the popularity of the phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree.

I get this comment a lot and have had people say it on here, I must have daddy issues liking older men.

Surprisingly not! People are allowed to have a preference! Good point about young men and mummy issues though, funny how I’ve never seen it mentioned like that for young men! "
The word preference has killed the world off!! it’s a bit of what you fancy,it’s not about age it’s the person therefore it’s not a preference. you could find a guy 20 years older who your into then a another guy the same age and not attracted to him one bit so it’s not a age “preference” it’s a case of person depending

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've mummy and daddy issues. I can't stand either of the useless fuckwits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cougar / Cubs is perfectly acceptable as women are empowered to reclaim their sexuality.

Whereas men are dirty old men for liking younger women.

So if you are a young woman who likes the older men, you must be doing things wrong...

People love a good label, particularly if you aren't looking for what they offer. Fuck em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably roots back to some Freudian theory where your parenting is the cause of any "faults" or issues you have in life.

I also think it's an alpha male butt hurt thing where younger guys need to make up a reason why girls aren't attracted to them. The same reason they don't have mummy issues, because snagging an older lady or someone normally out of their norm is somehow gloat worthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It probably roots back to some Freudian theory where your parenting is the cause of any "faults" or issues you have in life.

I also think it's an alpha male butt hurt thing where younger guys need to make up a reason why girls aren't attracted to them. The same reason they don't have mummy issues, because snagging an older lady or someone normally out of their norm is somehow gloat worthy. "

It’s the alpha male butt hurt thing. Some people take the rejection personally.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "
it could be because 'daddy issues' is the kind of patronising cliche used by men grumpy that you don't fancy them.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Paging Dr Freud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "
It's a bit like you saying you're a Queen you're not but you can be a bit regal sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All very very good points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree.

I get this comment a lot and have had people say it on here, I must have daddy issues liking older men.

Surprisingly not! People are allowed to have a preference! Good point about young men and mummy issues though, funny how I’ve never seen it mentioned like that for young men! The word preference has killed the world off!! it’s a bit of what you fancy,it’s not about age it’s the person therefore it’s not a preference. you could find a guy 20 years older who your into then a another guy the same age and not attracted to him one bit so it’s not a age “preference” it’s a case of person depending "

Of course it’s a case of person depending.

But the fact is, I PREFER older men to men my own age, so essentially it is still a preference.

There’s no need to get specific as long as everyone’s having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not yet seen derogatory comments like that made about women that prefer men older than themselves. It's rare to see such things on here certainly (unless it's about how rude women are not replying to men's messages). I have seen bitchy comments made about younger men and older women though but nothing specifically in regard to daddy/mommy issues.

Although I may just not have been looking hard enough to be fair "

You may not see them because it’s mostly via message!

Before my age filter the amount of “daddy issues” comments I’d get from guys who I weren’t interested in, I’ve lost count. In my opinion it is a comment made by a butt hurt man who can’t take rejection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All very very good points "

I relate to this because matty is 16 years older then me.

I deffo would never call him daddy! Turns me off and nor do i feel like im fucking my dad..

Were just happy do what makes u happy! Ignore the stereotypes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever heard ‘Daddy issues’ mentioned in American tv programs

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Daddy issues are the new Man Size Tissues

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s not even messages - it’s people I know and chat too. I have friends asking it. A man I slept with asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have mummy issues because I like older women

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

It’s a paraphrase, we like categories everything

Btw I’m older tv would that do ???

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

I suppose it is because the ‘Daddy Dom’ is a real fantasy for some men and women and is the preferred kink of some dom/subs.

But the same doesn’t apply to female Dommes, so it is really a hangover from our male-dominated social history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not old.

im experienced.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must have mummy issues because I like older women "

Must do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort. "

If I had that as a verification from you I would be a very happy man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort. "

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort.

If I had that as a verification from you I would be a very happy man "

Are you old. And wise.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort.

If I had that as a verification from you I would be a very happy man

Are you old. And wise. "

Old......er, yes. Wise, not yet Assured, definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not old.

im experienced.

"

That’s the spirit!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Happy to be any ones fix of older (not necessarily more experienced) man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only ever an 'issue' for those looking in

Have you noticed that ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's only ever an 'issue' for those looking in

Have you noticed that ?

"

Yep! Odd, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy issues - normally insinuated by a younger guy wondering why you fancy your other half and not him.

We were discussing this last night, it's not uncommon to see large age gaps on FAB but we also concluded that many young guys (and ladies) are too jealous and lack the life experience to enjoy the lifestyle on this site.

But in the end its all labels - do what's good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Daddy issues - normally insinuated by a younger guy wondering why you fancy your other half and not him.

We were discussing this last night, it's not uncommon to see large age gaps on FAB but we also concluded that many young guys (and ladies) are too jealous and lack the life experience to enjoy the lifestyle on this site.

But in the end its all labels - do what's good for you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Daddy issues - normally insinuated by a younger guy wondering why you fancy your other half and not him.

We were discussing this last night, it's not uncommon to see large age gaps on FAB but we also concluded that many young guys (and ladies) are too jealous and lack the life experience to enjoy the lifestyle on this site.

But in the end its all labels - do what's good for you

"

hope your ok chanelle xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only ever an 'issue' for those looking in

Have you noticed that ?

Yep! Odd, right? "

I love it when a girl calls me daddy regardless of the age it's a huge turn off. Ignore the haters they're jealous they can't enjoy it like we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only ever an 'issue' for those looking in

Have you noticed that ?

Yep! Odd, right?

I love it when a girl calls me daddy regardless of the age it's a huge turn off. Ignore the haters they're jealous they can't enjoy it like we can "

This was supposed to say a turn on for me not a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Daddy issues - normally insinuated by a younger guy wondering why you fancy your other half and not him.

We were discussing this last night, it's not uncommon to see large age gaps on FAB but we also concluded that many young guys (and ladies) are too jealous and lack the life experience to enjoy the lifestyle on this site.

But in the end its all labels - do what's good for you "

What’s good for me is getting that dick bruhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's only ever an 'issue' for those looking in

Have you noticed that ?

Yep! Odd, right?

I love it when a girl calls me daddy regardless of the age it's a huge turn off. Ignore the haters they're jealous they can't enjoy it like we can

This was supposed to say a turn on for me not a turn off "

It doesn’t have anything to do with me calling someone ‘daddy’. It’s just I fancy older men, I don’t find men my age attractive, and some folk like to assume and tell me I have daddy issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad "

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Lovely photos your majesty.

Especially the one where you are wearing a shirt with the word "daddy" on it.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I met someone who used to like using the words Daddy I didn’t link it to her real Dad at all. Was fun while it lasted. The veri was very funny and came in for a little bit of stick.

I think it’s a very unfair label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The perceived stability of an older, wiser man, what's not to like. You don't need daddy issues for that. Labels are easy to slap on, the ability too understand takes effort.

If I had that as a verification from you I would be a very happy man

Are you old. And wise. "

I can give you one out of two..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Daddy issues - normally insinuated by a younger guy wondering why you fancy your other half and not him.

We were discussing this last night, it's not uncommon to see large age gaps on FAB but we also concluded that many young guys (and ladies) are too jealous and lack the life experience to enjoy the lifestyle on this site.

But in the end its all labels - do what's good for you

hope your ok chanelle xx"

I’m great! Hope you are too! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts "

Oh man!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like much older men , much younger men , men my own age and men in the middle.

Not all at once tho ......

Maybe I have men issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like much older men , much younger men , men my own age and men in the middle.

Not all at once tho ......

Maybe I have men issues. "

Why not all at once?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts "

Oh stop it QL....... a rose by any other name.

Not every Bob is a builder.

Not every Pat brings your post.

Not every Del is a wideboy.

Not every Casper a ghost.

So your dad has the name of your lover

What prob could that possibly bring ?

Surely you call your Dad - Dad , Father , Pater.

But your lover is called other things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts

Oh stop it QL....... a rose by any other name.

Not every Bob is a builder.

Not every Pat brings your post.

Not every Del is a wideboy.

Not every Casper a ghost.

So your dad has the name of your lover

What prob could that possibly bring ?

Surely you call your Dad - Dad , Father , Pater.

But your lover is called other things."

That’s exactly my thinking I don’t call him by his name, so that doesn’t bother me. It bothered the man in question a little bit though. Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts "

So I assume this guy is around the same age and has the same name as your dad. I say just listen to what that does for you. If it feels kinky just roll with it. It doesn't need to mean anything in real life. It may just be so taboo that it turns you on. If it just feels urgh then clearly that isn't part of the kink for you and just call him something else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts

So I assume this guy is around the same age and has the same name as your dad. I say just listen to what that does for you. If it feels kinky just roll with it. It doesn't need to mean anything in real life. It may just be so taboo that it turns you on. If it just feels urgh then clearly that isn't part of the kink for you and just call him something else "

It doesn’t feel kinky at all

It’s nothing. I don’t call my dad by his name lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts

So I assume this guy is around the same age and has the same name as your dad. I say just listen to what that does for you. If it feels kinky just roll with it. It doesn't need to mean anything in real life. It may just be so taboo that it turns you on. If it just feels urgh then clearly that isn't part of the kink for you and just call him something else

It doesn’t feel kinky at all

It’s nothing. I don’t call my dad by his name lol "

And he’s 10 years older than my dad. But please, let’s not turn this into a thread where it actually seems like I have daddy issues. I do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "
Don't know but I love the colour of your hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? Don't know but I love the colour of your hair "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts "

I can relate in the fact I won't meet guys with the same name

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe its no longer common but it was quite usual for men who liked older women to be labelled as looking for a mother figure. Jokes would be made about him looking for someone to iron his shirts and other hilarious quips .

I know three women who've married men much older than themselves and I have to say that I think one of them was looking for a father figure.

I do think though that making any assumptions about other people's relationships is although tempting, often misguided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?"

It's an absolute load of shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? Don't know but I love the colour of your hair

Thank you! "
How you feeling? and it's unusual that you haven't matched you hair colour to your bra

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? Don't know but I love the colour of your hair

Thank you!

How you feeling? and it's unusual that you haven't matched you hair colour to your bra "

Shocking isn’t it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!"

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

"

It’s an older person thing. I say it all the time...kids eh? It’s tongue in cheek. I would say it about someone my age too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you got an issue grab a tissue

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts "

Does this really bother you? That they have the same name? Do you use your Dad's given name or call him Dad (or any other variation on father)? If so, why would his given name be an issue?

I'm curious because my fwb has the same name as my Dad, but tbh, until you mentioned it, it never struck me as something odd or noteworthy... Lots of people have that name... My own name is the female version ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

It’s an older person thing. I say it all the time...kids eh? It’s tongue in cheek. I would say it about someone my age too. "

Maybe it is an older person thing, that’s probably why I don’t understand it.

Still, if I were bantering with an older man or flirting and he said “kids eh” or similar it would be a put off! Each to their own and all that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I have daddy issues - my meets must be nothing like my dad

I currently fancy the pants off of someone and recently learnt he has the same name as my dad. The conflicts

Does this really bother you? That they have the same name? Do you use your Dad's given name or call him Dad (or any other variation on father)? If so, why would his given name be an issue?

I'm curious because my fwb has the same name as my Dad, but tbh, until you mentioned it, it never struck me as something odd or noteworthy... Lots of people have that name... My own name is the female version ffs "

Honestly? No not really. My old fb had the same name as my brother. That was a bit weirdo, as I do use my brothers name, but they’re spelt differently and although it’s the exact same name, I feel I say them differently (I probably don’t). I just called my ex fb ‘sir’ a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx"

Well Freud can fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

Well Freud can fuck off"
helmut?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

Well Freud can fuck off"
I do like how you word stuff

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Sigmund

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

Well Freud can fuck off

I do like how you word stuff "

I’m classy ain’t I?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

Well Freud can fuck off

I do like how you word stuff

I’m classy ain’t I? "
Haha I love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Probably because those people with the power to label such things (such that they stick) were influenced by Freud and came from a patriarchal background which didn't acknowledge the existence of unsettling ideas such as 2 women loving each other or a young man fancying an older woman.

Also in part because the most common age disparity is (I believe) older man/younger woman and that's probably biology.

Mike xx

Well Freud can fuck off

I do like how you word stuff

I’m classy ain’t I?

Haha I love it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Freud can fuck off"

Too late in afraid, he's been dead for years but it's worth understanding his role, he shaped a lot of our culture's ideas about the mind and sexuality while, sadly, being almost entirely wrong. Plenty of people still go to see Freudian analysts which frankly boggles my mind but there, it does offer nice, comforting and simple explanations as opposed to complicated and incomplete ones :D

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well Freud can fuck off

Too late in afraid, he's been dead for years but it's worth understanding his role, he shaped a lot of our culture's ideas about the mind and sexuality while, sadly, being almost entirely wrong. Plenty of people still go to see Freudian analysts which frankly boggles my mind but there, it does offer nice, comforting and simple explanations as opposed to complicated and incomplete ones :D

Mike xx"

I’ve studied a few of his theories (a few years ago mind) so I know fine well his thinking on ‘daddy issues’ and all that rubbish...and yes, I know he’s been dead a wee while now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve studied a few of his theories (a few years ago mind) so I know fine well his thinking on ‘daddy issues’ and all that rubbish...and yes, I know he’s been dead a wee while now "

To be honest I quite respect him for trying and find it sad and hilarious that he wasn't able to that see his own hangups were so skewing his analysis. Hardly surprising he (and the rest) was wrong though given the culture, and knowledge and equipment available at the time.

Even more exciting to me is more recent work that strongly (to my mind) indicates that our conscious self is really a back-seat driver desperately trying to justify the choices the subconscious has made for it :D

Mike xx

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By *antingfun92Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

100% agree.

I prefer a more experienced/mature man myself. The only time it becomes an issue is if I find out he has children the same/close in age/older than myself and then I become a little uncomfortable.

I lost my virginity to much older man (no, nothing weird- we were very much in love, together for 4 years and still very close friends with both him and his now wife) so once I had sex with someone my own age when we split up and realised how inexperienced they were I stuck with the older crowd and I guess it’s become just what I like.

I rarely go for anyone under 35, I’m 26. Last few people I’ve met on here (intentionally anyway..) have been in the last of their 30s or early-mid 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with a girly 22 a couple of years ago no issue at all,date one 23 and she was going on 16 jeez it was hard work but all person depending of course and how you get along and no I didn’t say who’s your daddy during hump time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

"

Yes they are all adults, as young or younger than my own kids who are also adults, hence, kids. What's weird about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

Yes they are all adults, as young or younger than my own kids who are also adults, hence, kids. What's weird about that?

"

Probably just me, as Poochie said it’s probably an older person thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been with a girly 22 a couple of years ago no issue at all,date one 23 and she was going on 16 jeez it was hard work but all person depending of course and how you get along and no I didn’t say who’s your daddy during hump time "

23 going on 16 sounds like my cousin!

I keep wondering when she will actually grow up hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the regular group of much younger girls who flirt at my gym told me that they have a bet on to see who can get me into bed!

I laughed, I have older chiildren. I don't believe they all have daddy issues...just horny little minxes. Kids eh!

Little bit weird calling young women who I’m guessing are adults, kids!

Yes they are all adults, as young or younger than my own kids who are also adults, hence, kids. What's weird about that?

Probably just me, as Poochie said it’s probably an older person thing! "

I have heard young people use it about the even younger, so not really. with this bunch I'm certainly not doing anything to encourage them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been with a girly 22 a couple of years ago no issue at all,date one 23 and she was going on 16 jeez it was hard work but all person depending of course and how you get along and no I didn’t say who’s your daddy during hump time

23 going on 16 sounds like my cousin!

I keep wondering when she will actually grow up hahaha.

"
yeah was my thoughts exactly! total princess diva haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have majoooooor daddy issues but I don't have a preference for men who are old enough to be my daddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do you have daddy issues?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So do you have daddy issues?"

Imma fight you and win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do you have daddy issues?

Imma fight you and win "

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the letter T, so I must have "T"issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl the same age as me started yelling Daddy... Where does that fit in if we're the same age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

"

Can you teach me French?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate I may sound ridiculous referring to myself as an oldie at 38.. I just feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate I may sound ridiculous referring to myself as an oldie at 38.. I just feel old "

I was just going to chastise you on that! Old indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate I may sound ridiculous referring to myself as an oldie at 38.. I just feel old

I was just going to chastise you on that! Old indeed "

old soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

Can you teach me French? "

No, but I can teach you Spanish Spanish is hotter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

Can you teach me French?

No, but I can teach you Spanish Spanish is hotter."

Deal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ? "

Thought it was papa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the QUEEN of daddy issues but I guess as I don't seek out much older men before they don't get picked up on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

Thought it was papa"

It’s Papa Elf at Christmas time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

"

Damn you’re so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

Damn you’re so sexy "

You're a very good flirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ve heard it before. A young woman like me, likes older men. Clearly, she must have daddy issues. (I don’t, by the way).

But how come when a young woman like me, likes older women, I don’t have mummy issues?

Why don’t the older men/women who like younger men/women, have son/daughter issues?

Why is it solely ‘ah, another one with daddy issues’ ?

I think younger men get accused of having mummy AND daddy issues when speaking to us oldies.

Personally, Ive always found people of different age groups a turn on. Older people tend to be able to make me look at the world in a different light, experience definately counts for something.

As an older man now, I do find younger women as attractive as women my own age and older. Immaturity is offputting, but there's also something to be said for mature minded, inexperience. It's a pleasure to teach someone something new that helps them feel better about themselves, or improves their life in some way. Be it in a sexual arena, or any other.

Damn you’re so sexy

You're a very good flirt "

Ahaha

Oh I’m awful at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?

It’s a very good question. And I’m going to say something you don’t often hear on the forums. ‘I don’t know’.

It’s just always bothered me, I have a very lovely, normal and healthy relationship with my dad. So no daddy issues from me!

Thank you for answering honestly "

But also the older fella gets beamed a sugar daddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?

It’s a very good question. And I’m going to say something you don’t often hear on the forums. ‘I don’t know’.

It’s just always bothered me, I have a very lovely, normal and healthy relationship with my dad. So no daddy issues from me!

Thank you for answering honestly

But also the older fella gets beamed a sugar daddy "

But he isn’t labelled as someone who has ‘daughter issues’ is he?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, I get uncomfortable if a woman is too similar in age to my daughter. So, it’s me having issues not the woman.

Yes I get that, which is understandable, but why is it always assumed that a woman who likes older men has daddy issues?

It’s a very good question. And I’m going to say something you don’t often hear on the forums. ‘I don’t know’.

It’s just always bothered me, I have a very lovely, normal and healthy relationship with my dad. So no daddy issues from me!

Thank you for answering honestly

But also the older fella gets beamed a sugar daddy

But he isn’t labelled as someone who has ‘daughter issues’ is he?"

He may be labelled a lot of things, but never as someone with ‘daughter issues’

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have daddy issues. I was in denial all my life until a couple of years ago when someone pointed it out to me. It took another 2 years of soul searching and a couple of months ago i finally admitted it to myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have daddy issues. I was in denial all my life until a couple of years ago when someone pointed it out to me. It took another 2 years of soul searching and a couple of months ago i finally admitted it to myself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no sugar daddy.. being skint. No daughter issues as I've got two boys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no sugar daddy.. being skint. No daughter issues as I've got two boys "

I could do with a sugar daddy who’s cool with no physical contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no sugar daddy.. being skint. No daughter issues as I've got two boys

I could do with a sugar daddy who’s cool with no physical contact"

A real Daddy?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

and yes even though ive been in denial this is the first relationship ive felt complete and yes he is old enough to be my dad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no sugar daddy.. being skint. No daughter issues as I've got two boys

I could do with a sugar daddy who’s cool with no physical contact

A real Daddy?"

He’s bloody skint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on my FB put a status up yesterday about using the term “daddy” he basically said anyone who uses it are into children, I was so close to writing a long reply about kink shaming and how the term “daddy” has various connotations. Then I remembered it was FB not fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone on my FB put a status up yesterday about using the term “daddy” he basically said anyone who uses it are into children, I was so close to writing a long reply about kink shaming and how the term “daddy” has various connotations. Then I remembered it was FB not fab "

Oh I’ve almost done that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone on my FB put a status up yesterday about using the term “daddy” he basically said anyone who uses it are into children, I was so close to writing a long reply about kink shaming and how the term “daddy” has various connotations. Then I remembered it was FB not fab "

I've never known daddy to mean that so you should be pissed

There's a whole bunch of names for people like that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Prejudice and bias against certain genders and ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prejudice and bias against certain genders and ages"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone on my FB put a status up yesterday about using the term “daddy” he basically said anyone who uses it are into children, I was so close to writing a long reply about kink shaming and how the term “daddy” has various connotations. Then I remembered it was FB not fab

Oh I’ve almost done that!!!"

I did have to stop and think ‘ small minded and won’t understand ‘ and I’m not on fab I’m on FB. I was like ‘grrr what a cockwomble’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said I think it's just left over from a patriarchal society, obviously women can't have sexual tastes of their own and need to rely on men to sort their issues out . I much prefer meeting older men on here too and have a wonderful dad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like others have said I think it's just left over from a patriarchal society, obviously women can't have sexual tastes of their own and need to rely on men to sort their issues out . I much prefer meeting older men on here too and have a wonderful dad."

Cause men solve all our issues, right?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Subtle bump

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Like others have said I think it's just left over from a patriarchal society, obviously women can't have sexual tastes of their own and need to rely on men to sort their issues out . I much prefer meeting older men on here too and have a wonderful dad.

Cause men solve all our issues, right?! "

Need one man to fuck you up and another one to fuck you better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like others have said I think it's just left over from a patriarchal society, obviously women can't have sexual tastes of their own and need to rely on men to sort their issues out . I much prefer meeting older men on here too and have a wonderful dad.

Cause men solve all our issues, right?!

Need one man to fuck you up and another one to fuck you better? "

Correct!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Like others have said I think it's just left over from a patriarchal society, obviously women can't have sexual tastes of their own and need to rely on men to sort their issues out . I much prefer meeting older men on here too and have a wonderful dad.

Cause men solve all our issues, right?!

Need one man to fuck you up and another one to fuck you better?

Correct!"

It seems like less work to take them out of the equation. *burns bra*

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

It’s a very good point, however, I’ve had young ladies, young guys and cds/TVs refer to me as daddy and in obviously a sexual context, which personally is not for me. The however bit though, is, have older ladies ever been referred to as mummies by younger people in a sexual scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a very good point, however, I’ve had young ladies, young guys and cds/TVs refer to me as daddy and in obviously a sexual context, which personally is not for me. The however bit though, is, have older ladies ever been referred to as mummies by younger people in a sexual scenario. "

Hey daddy

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"It’s a very good point, however, I’ve had young ladies, young guys and cds/TVs refer to me as daddy and in obviously a sexual context, which personally is not for me. The however bit though, is, have older ladies ever been referred to as mummies by younger people in a sexual scenario.

Hey daddy "

You’ll get a smacked bottom with that kind of behaviour.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Dunno about Daddy issues, I had "Pervy Uncle" issues, which is probably one reason why I generally don't really go for "mature" men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dunno about Daddy issues, I had "Pervy Uncle" issues, which is probably one reason why I generally don't really go for "mature" men.

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