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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if any of you lovely ladies had advice about how to get a meet , I'm polite with my messages and in the chat rooms is that a bad thing ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad, sad, sad, sad, sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort. A lot of effort. With your profile, messages, photos etc.

And be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad, sad, sad, sad, sad"

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ‘manners’ comment is harsh, a lot of men on fab are respectful, your not the first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do put effort in don't just say fancy a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve been here for over two years (going by your cam veri) and haven’t managed a meet. That would be a major put off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Create some mystery about yourself and amp up your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate others are respectful , just wondering if that's the wrong approach .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK

I'll lay it on the line

None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense

You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking

Your pics are boring

Your text is boring

It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too

You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women

Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?

Have you been to any clubs ?

Have you been to any social events ?

Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?

Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?

Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys

Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side

Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different

It won't change any time soon

The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage

A few guys have cracked the code

That's what you need to do

Nobody here is going to give you the code

It's up to you to change

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK

I'll lay it on the line

None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense

You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking

Your pics are boring

Your text is boring

It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too

You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women

Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?

Have you been to any clubs ?

Have you been to any social events ?

Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?

Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?

Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys

Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side

Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different

It won't change any time soon

The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage

A few guys have cracked the code

That's what you need to do

Nobody here is going to give you the code

It's up to you to change

Sorry "

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering if any of you lovely ladies had advice about how to get a meet , I'm polite with my messages and in the chat rooms is that a bad thing ???? "

People mainly meet people they are interested in so the key is to make yourself as possible. How you do that though is down to you and how you express yourself.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP it would be helpful for you to ask for advice from the "successful" men on fab. They are getting meets which is obviously what you are seeking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will apologise if you (or anyone else) feels that last post was overly personal or critical

I'm not going to remove it as I feel it has validity

I mean no offence and the comments were made with the best of intentions

Sometimes though I have the subtlety of a brick

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Appreciate others are respectful , just wondering if that's the wrong approach ."

People who ask a question like this would have me questioning if they have any social skills at all. Seriously??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the time it;s taken to type this I;ve forgottenm what your profile said. It gave not a single clue as to anything about you and was instantly forgetable. Effort in = reward out. Write a profile that pulls people in and snd messages that make people want to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK

I'll lay it on the line

None of this is advice, just observation, questions and common sense

You're a regular looking guy - nothing spectacular about you at all, not ugly, not great looking

Your pics are boring

Your text is boring

It wouldn't be hard to imagine your messages will be boring too

You are a guy here amongst thousands looking for what most of the 30,000 here are looking for, women

Bearing in mind the above, why would a woman want to meet or fuck you above the next guy, or the next or the next ?

Have you been to any clubs ?

Have you been to any social events ?

Do you contribute on the forums regularly ?

Do you do anything to raise your visibility on the site / scene other than logging on and sending messages ?

Fab is a tough place for ordinary guys

Fab is a really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side

Fab is a really, really tough place for ordinary guys that are maybe a little on the shy / quiet side and don't know how to make themselves stand out or different

It won't change any time soon

The ladies (and couples with a female) have got this site running to their advantage

A few guys have cracked the code

That's what you need to do

Nobody here is going to give you the code

It's up to you to change

Sorry "

Very good advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate the feedback people , and no worries Bussy , I do have social skills just more wondering if this is the right place for me , I'm like everyone on here enjoy sex , but that gets frowned upon on plenty of fish lol .

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The line about not being here for your own pleasure is difficult to believe, it's why everyone's here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So bricks aren't subtle then !!!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

It's as simple as this..

If folk aren't attracted to you no words on your profile or in your messages wil change their minds..

If they attracted to you a well written message and profile will create interest .

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