FabSwingers.com forum: Avoiding the truth

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

It must be frustrating that you feel you have to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve no one to answer to except my girl

I avoid certain truths with her .... only when necessary

I go to college occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell it how it is, honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

It must be frustrating that you feel you have to do that."

It's just easier...she's buying me out, so once the paperwork is all sorted on this and my new place, I can move out and forego the subterfuge.

It is slightly galling that there are such blatant double standards (she's allowed to be on Tinder etc, I'm not) but then I guess that's all part and parcel of why We're not together any more.

Meh. I can deal with it. Compared to what we've gone through in the past it's a minor inconvenience really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None we have no secrets & always truthful with each other,anyhow we know each other so well we’d know if one or the other was fibbing or trying to hide something

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell "

I've had a few ex who think like that. Strange fuckers

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who has about 20 boxes of laboutins in the loft which she hides from her partner. She also puts all tags off new clothes in a carrier bag and dumps them in petrol station bins and also insisted on a joint account with her partner which they both deposit money into for bills instead of having joint access to accounts they use for their spends.

I tell her she should be honest cos she works hard and earns good money but she says she always tells him he can't buy things like 3D printers or drones or retro fruit machines, not because she wants to control what he buys but cos she says doesn't want all his shit around the house.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

How sharp are your teeth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?"

I never understood relationships based on 'petty deception' and fear, I honestly don't. If I can't be totally open and honest with my partner who can I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

I never understood relationships based on 'petty deception' and fear, I honestly don't. If I can't be totally open and honest with my partner who can I be?"
nobody that's the only person or yourself of course

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

I never understood relationships based on 'petty deception' and fear, I honestly don't. If I can't be totally open and honest with my partner who can I be?"

Me neither I don't get it.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There's a whole mess of avoiding the truth on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how cheap horses are to keep

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's amazing how cheap horses are to keep

That's funny.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell "

Well, she says this kind of stuff half-jokingly, and then in her slightly more serious thoughtful moments she says that she wants me to be happy and that I deserve someone nice, but then she says if I settle down with someone with kids and play happy families (ostensibly the reason we broke up - she wanted them, I didn't) she'll stab us both to death, so...

If she knew I was with someone, she'd be upset. She got really off with me and didn't speak to me for a couple of weeks after seeing I had a Bumble profile about a year after we split, even though she was on Tinder the same week that we split...

It's not fair, but there we go. No point going looking for trouble

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's amazing how cheap horses are to keep

Hmm maybe there is exception lol....

I'll say that much for my ex, he never, ever complained about money spent on horses, but then I would go pretty much without everything else.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch."

I had a biscuit for breakfast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None we have no secrets & always truthful with each other,anyhow we know each other so well we’d know if one or the other was fibbing or trying to hide something "

This for us. We don’t need to hide things from each other.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch.

I had a biscuit for breakfast!

Oh I'm not that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell

It's not fair, but there we go. No point going looking for trouble"

Hope you get it sorted soon mate, nobody deserves that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch.

I had a biscuit for breakfast!

Oh I'm not that bad."

That's why you're not this porky lol!

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?"

I could not be in the kind of relationship you describe

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?"

Pretty much the opposite. Rather than tell me wife that something she has bought looks garish and is adding 20 years to her appearance. It tends to quietly make its way to the clothes donation bins across the road.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch.

I had a biscuit for breakfast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell

I've had a few ex who think like that. Strange fuckers "

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell my ex that I'm visiting friends when meeting up for romantic liaisons.

It's ridiculous, seeing as we've been split up well over a year now, but it saves any arguments...

Why would you argue about it if you have been separated over a year

Because I'm not allowed to ever be with anyone ever again

Really?

That's how she thinks?

Fucking hell

It's not fair, but there we go. No point going looking for trouble"

My ex is the same. He's had many girlfriends. If there's any hint of me seeing someone he acts like he's 5 years old. It's easier to just lie.

It's put me off ever being in a relationship again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Joys of being really single I answer to nobody so do as I like. I may have to hide the digestives from the dog but that's only because he's getting a fat bastord

I need someone to hide the biscuits from me!+

I was just thinking that,I had my breakfast at silly oclock this morning so I've just failed and had some before my lunch.

I had a biscuit for breakfast!

I need taking in hand!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

I never understood relationships based on 'petty deception' and fear, I honestly don't. If I can't be totally open and honest with my partner who can I be?"

Who has mentioned fear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do as I buy so many clothes and he’s starts nagging. To easier this way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The truth hurts"

It can, yes. Sometimes little white lies are best for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The truth hurts

It can, yes. Sometimes little white lies are best for everyone."
I'm handsome

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I’ve no one to answer to except my girl

I avoid certain truths with her .... only when necessary

I go to college occasionally

What are you studying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The truth hurts

It can, yes. Sometimes little white lies are best for everyone.I'm handsome "

And I'm a princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The truth hurts

It can, yes. Sometimes little white lies are best for everyone.I'm handsome

And I'm a princess "
are you I'm a frog can I get a kiss

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"A few friends I know hide their new clothes shopping in the car and sneak it into the house when their partner isn't around, then say the usual "no, it's not new, I've had it ages".

Which other 'avoiding the truth' do you do?"

That’s terrible. I never knew. Do you do that Ruby?

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