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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is when the fella refers to his other half as “slut” etc...

Now we all like to live out our fantasies in one way or another but that’s still your missus?!

Don’t think I’d ever be cool with that?!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's weird when it's her calling him that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is when the fella refers to his other half as “slut” etc...

Now we all like to live out our fantasies in one way or another but that’s still your missus?!

Don’t think I’d ever be cool with that?! "

Likely to be a fake profile., some guy pratting about

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Is when the fella refers to his other half as “slut” etc...

Now we all like to live out our fantasies in one way or another but that’s still your missus?!

Don’t think I’d ever be cool with that?! "
I'm personally not a fan of degrading women, I think a lot of it is said playfully and sometimes in jest though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is when the fella refers to his other half as “slut” etc...

Now we all like to live out our fantasies in one way or another but that’s still your missus?!

Don’t think I’d ever be cool with that?! "

She might be a slut though

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Some women like it...

No idea why but they do.

Nita

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

I’m quite partial at times to being called names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my partner called me a slut it would be the last thing he did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand the sentiment in the heat of passion... when playing etc... it could be quite a turn on...

But in public?... “Hi I’m Steve and this is my slut of a wife”?!

I’d fully expect to get smashed square in the face!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If my partner called me a slut it would be the last thing he did "

EXACTLY the reaction I’d expect!...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I understand the sentiment in the heat of passion... when playing etc... it could be quite a turn on...

But in public?... “Hi I’m Steve and this is my slut of a wife”?!

I’d fully expect to get smashed square in the face!

"
Who does that though in public? except for maybe a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s your problem not there’s. who are you to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, i can understand some do it as a sexual kick or fantasy but some genuinely do it. Like you i couldn't have anything to do with degraded name calling, choking, abuse fantasy, whipping, etc. I just enjoy friendly clean fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s your problem not there’s. who are you to judge?"

I wasn’t judging I was expressing my own opinion, which is why I said “puts me off” and not “puts everyone off”... therefore gauging who agree’s and who doesn’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be hurt if my husband used such a derogatory term towards me...

would that mean he’s more of one as he’s slept with more people?

We’ve never name called - ever- even in an argument. I respect him too much

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to a woman on Kik and she loves being called a slut but I try not to I don’t feel comfortable saying it lol

And when she tries to chat to my wife she scares her haha

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If it’s all in context, ie role play then it’s all part of the fun. What makes me giggle though is the ‘white knight’ brigade not knowing how to answer this honestly lol.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s all in context, ie role play then it’s all part of the fun. What makes me giggle though is the ‘white knight’ brigade not knowing how to answer this honestly lol.

Ed"

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it."

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine. "

Hang on I'll ask her...

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

Hang on I'll ask her..."

She had to think about it for a second but no she doesn't love it when referring to her only when I say it to her, you were right.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine. "

Or in general conversation

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

Or in general conversation "

Oh look speak of the slut

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

Or in general conversation

Oh look speak of the slut"

The slap you get for that's gonna hurt!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

Or in general conversation

Oh look speak of the slut

The slap you get for that's gonna hurt! "

It sure will!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It's ok as long as I call her my slut, then she loves it.

But not when referring her to others I would imagine.

Or in general conversation

Oh look speak of the slut

The slap you get for that's gonna hurt!

It sure will!! "

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