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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally enjoy talking to married ladies who do not have consent to be here. I too am married and don't have consent. Some people seem to think that were just on here to cheat on our other halves, which isn't the case for me. We all have our own opinions on the situation.

I hope to hear from anyone who has the same opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally enjoy talking to married ladies who do not have consent to be here. I too am married and don't have consent. Some people seem to think that were just on here to cheat on our other halves, which isn't the case for me. We all have our own opinions on the situation.

I hope to hear from anyone who has the same opinion."

You’ve lit the fuse now lol it’s fine for women to cheat but god help a man who is married and on here whatever the reason haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally enjoy talking to married ladies who do not have consent to be here. I too am married and don't have consent. Some people seem to think that were just on here to cheat on our other halves, which isn't the case for me. We all have our own opinions on the situation.

I hope to hear from anyone who has the same opinion.

You’ve lit the fuse now lol it’s fine for women to cheat but god help a man who is married and on here whatever the reason haha "

A cheater is a cheater, whether it's a man or women. I'm not judging him. I just want to know if he's not cheating, what is he doing?

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I personally enjoy talking to married ladies who do not have consent to be here. I too am married and don't have consent. Some people seem to think that were just on here to cheat on our other halves, which isn't the case for me. We all have our own opinions on the situation.

I hope to hear from anyone who has the same opinion."

Popcorn is out and ready. This could be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if a lady wants you to join her... Will you say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see, my friend, your school boy error here is not that you are *cheating* or being open about it, it's that you are a man!

I hope you've got thick skin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?"

Talking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead."

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?

Talking."

Talking! Really?

Why just women then?

Just be honest and say you want more than talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re doing something you know for a fact you’re spouse will feel betrayed about... then you’re a shit spouse... we’re in 2018!!! You can literally live exactly how you like and most people are completely accepting... if you aren’t happy with your spouses rules you should change spouse, not continue to betray her and brake her as a human being if she ever found out... it really is the lowest form of cowardice and deceit. Just my opinion.. you do as you want but you’re poor wife she can’t defend herself because you haven’t given her that opportunity so I hope more people here defend her, not that it’ll make a difference to you I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re doing something you know for a fact you’re spouse will feel betrayed about... then you’re a shit spouse... we’re in 2018!!! You can literally live exactly how you like and most people are completely accepting... if you aren’t happy with your spouses rules you should change spouse, not continue to betray her and brake her as a human being if she ever found out... it really is the lowest form of cowardice and deceit. Just my opinion.. you do as you want but you’re poor wife she can’t defend herself because you haven’t given her that opportunity so I hope more people here defend her, not that it’ll make a difference to you I’m sure"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on here without your wife knowing

Thats cheating imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if your partner/wife found these chats you are anticipating would she view them as just talking?

If its day to day shit you want to talk about join a group on Facebook or a forum about your interests. Though I'm guessing its not or you wouldn't be so specific about who you want to talk too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs."

Well your one and only verification suggests that you like "naughty" talk which is a wee bit more than general folk participate in if they talk to a complete stranger on the street.

I couldn't give a shit what most people do on here tbh. Just have the balls to own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hiding it from your wife, then it’s pretty much cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?"
getting cookery tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your hiding it from your wife, then it’s pretty much cheating"

Anybody doing anything behind their partners back, thst they know they wouldn't approve of, is betraying them and cheating.

However the saddest part of that is then trying to justify that you aren't cheating. How very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?getting cookery tips "

Haha! On how to cook his sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?getting cookery tips

Haha! On how to cook his sausage"
poached eggs more like

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs."

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite."

Of course people judge people! Why wouldn’t they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking."

Or oral sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

"

You end up playing the saxophone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you are not on here to cheat on your other half, what exactly are you doing?getting cookery tips "

Nah, he'd need a man for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow "

Shite....wish I'd clocked on that first....ah well, that's 5 mins of my life I won't get back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

Of course people judge people! Why wouldn’t they?"

I judge you very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone? "

Will he play Baker Street?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O if your partners says it's ok to have sex with someone else but they don't want to know about it is that still cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

Of course people judge people! Why wouldn’t they?

I judge you very much! "

PM me your opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite."

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite."

OP, ask your wife if she is ok with you "chatting" with other women on a swingers site.....on the off chance she is fine with it (unlikely) then all tickety boo. If not then prepare yourself for Hell!!

As an aside, boot on the other foot, how would you feel if she was doing the same thing behind your back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone?

Will he play Baker Street? "

What else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O if your partners says it's ok to have sex with someone else but they don't want to know about it is that still cheating."

No, because your partner knows that, that is what your going to do but doesn't want to know details. Big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite."

Next time try not flagging up the fact you're cheating...

Oh actually its too late for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O if your partners says it's ok to have sex with someone else but they don't want to know about it is that still cheating.

No, because your partner knows that, that is what your going to do but doesn't want to know details. Big difference."

Cool I'm in the clear then

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"O if your partners says it's ok to have sex with someone else but they don't want to know about it is that still cheating."

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your "horny at work" OP why not ring the missus ?? Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow "

Just looked at the green arrow. Not impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow "

Quite an education, I always forget the green arrow of wisdom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone?

Will he play Baker Street?

What else?

"

Oh goody, some good out of this thread then, well second good thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge."

Why is it clear I want more? Can you read my thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

Quite an education, I always forget the green arrow of wisdom."

Oh dear, it's not looking good, is it the black cap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge.

Why is it clear I want more? Can you read my thoughts?"

It insinuates it in your profile wording so I guess thats similar to reading your thoughts as you assumably wrote those words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone?

Will he play Baker Street?

What else?

Oh goody, some good out of this thread then, well second good thing!"

Looks like I'm stuck in the middle with you

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Green arrow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't just talking on a sex site constitute some form of cheating though. If you're just here for chat why not join a chat site instead.

Maybe it does but I see cheating as a physical thing not talking. If we all thought talking was cheating then I guess most guys and some women would be guilty of it walking down the street and going shoooing. We all have thoughts on other projects that we see, even when looking at celebs.

You see here's the thing,we're all adults yeah and one thing tends to lead to another. You start of talking the talking gets flirty and the next thing you've arranged to meet. If your other half doesn't know you're on a sex site talking to women trust me she'll see it as cheating.

It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone?

Will he play Baker Street?

What else?

Oh goody, some good out of this thread then, well second good thing!

Looks like I'm stuck in the middle with you "

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If you’re only talking then why don’t you tell you’re wife you’re only talking... on a swingers site... full of horny women... see what she thinks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge.

Why is it clear I want more? Can you read my thoughts?"

I dont need to read your thoughts to kniw you want more

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"It's like the Bill Clinton thing.

You end up playing the saxophone? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re only talking then why don’t you tell you’re wife you’re only talking... on a swingers site... full of horny women... see what she thinks... "

Whoa, whoa, whoa, site full of horny women! You wouldn't like to point one my way, would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re only talking then why don’t you tell you’re wife you’re only talking... on a swingers site... full of horny women... see what she thinks...

Whoa, whoa, whoa, site full of horny women! You wouldn't like to point one my way, would you? "

Haha hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re only talking then why don’t you tell you’re wife you’re only talking... on a swingers site... full of horny women... see what she thinks...

Whoa, whoa, whoa, site full of horny women! You wouldn't like to point one my way, would you?

Haha hilarious"

I'm going to go with.....sarcasm?

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Moi? Sarcasm? Nooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moi? Sarcasm? Nooooo "

Doesn't it go....pretentious, moi!

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite."

I judge people who start the same thread over and over again. Yawn.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

"

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do. "

Consistently filling a swinging site with non-swinging content. Swinging is not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do.

Consistently filling a swinging site with non-swinging content. Swinging is not cheating. "

Whilst the site name is indeed FabSwingers, the site ceased to be a purely Swinging site a loooooong time ago! There’s something for everyone here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do. "

That's true, it may be his kink but don't say it's not some form of cheating because it is. If he thinks it's not then by all means tell his wife, let her be the judge not us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do.

Consistently filling a swinging site with non-swinging content. Swinging is not cheating.

Whilst the site name is indeed FabSwingers, the site ceased to be a purely Swinging site a loooooong time ago! There’s something for everyone here.

"

I'm here just to chat in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moi? Sarcasm? Nooooo

Doesn't it go....pretentious, moi! "

Me...pretentious, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do.

Consistently filling a swinging site with non-swinging content. Swinging is not cheating.

Whilst the site name is indeed FabSwingers, the site ceased to be a purely Swinging site a loooooong time ago! There’s something for everyone here.

"

I'm supprised there isn't "Market Place" on here and I'm not being sarcastic one bit.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Green arrow

The Green arrow shows to me that he’s consistent. Nothing wrong with that.

It’s his ‘thing’ talking to married ladies. Some people won’t like that, fair enough, but it’s his kink and he’s allowed to have it!

I bet most of the people on this thread, men and women, are talking to married ladies on here (or would given the chance) - I know I do.

Consistently filling a swinging site with non-swinging content. Swinging is not cheating.

Whilst the site name is indeed FabSwingers, the site ceased to be a purely Swinging site a loooooong time ago! There’s something for everyone here.

"

Maybe but it's naive in the extreme to expect swingers to endorse cheating. We did a thread the other day about why people expect this to be a low judgement enviornment, the answers weren't favourable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge."
Can I judge your bum cheeks, Severn

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I do love these threads. People say they don't judge people, what a load of shite.

It's not judging. But don't come on a sex site and say you want ladies to just chat to you when it clear you want more. That's when people will judge.Can I judge your bum cheeks, Severn "

Not only do we judge, we're quite proud of our judging too: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/811952

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