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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know you are you?

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ooooooooooooooooo good question! Bet you want to let her know really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought I might

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ? "

Some would say thats karma coming to bite her in the ass.

I'd probably say it to him but resist the urge to tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell of a dilemma ....I’d tell him first see what he says .... I’ll watch this post lol

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol"

How did your relationship finish with your ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, I definitely would but I have a twisted sense of humour!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd let him dig himself a bigger hole, then you bury him in it.

That's just me, I'm not a bitter person, just a warped sense of humour haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol

How did your relationship finish with your ex?"

When I caught them. I’d installed a camera on to the garage at back of house and saw them on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd let him dig himself a bigger hole, then you bury him in it.

That's just me, I'm not a bitter person, just a warped sense of humour haha "

I don’t hold grudges but I’d love to do that

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Set up a fake female profile, add it to your Kik group,entice him to meet and then get her to come along and arrange a camera crew to film it for tv/YouTube?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Set up a fake female profile, add it to your Kik group,entice him to meet and then get her to come along and arrange a camera crew to film it for tv/YouTube? "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd be so fucking tempted to tell her but the devil inside me would want to play the long game. Preferring to sit back and watch knowing it's got fuck all to do with me but by fuck revenge is sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a bit of revenge

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"He don’t know I run groups. And yes I reckon it would give me slight satisfaction if she knew lol

How did your relationship finish with your ex?

When I caught them. I’d installed a camera on to the garage at back of house and saw them on that. "

Not well then I take it I will be honest I would find it hard not to indulge in sweet revenge and if you did well I wouldn't blame you or castigate you for doing it.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd leave it alone. He's her problem, not yours. For get gistory and concentrate on enjoying your future (plus a little inner smugness of the insider knowlage you now have).

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Gosh if it's definitely him it would be tempting to tell your ex. Suppose it depends if there's still any respect for her,if there is then tell her.

Or stay out of it,God knows.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would prob say nothing for now

Maybe take screenshots for later ,will she believe you or think you are trying to get back at her?.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay out of it. It's none of your business. Why would you want to interfere in your ex's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does your heart tell you

Frodos alive?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm not a vengeful person, but I do believe in 'what goes around, comes around'

You've had your karma OP, I'd leave it there.

If you interfere, then it could back fire on you & you'll be made to look the bad person.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"9/10 months ago my now ex had an affair with a fella who works in a local shop. They are now together and I’m happy for them. I run a couple of groups on Kik and he’s joined them. He’s openly asking for nsa fun. Should i Ignore it or let him know I know what he’s up to ? "

I'd just enjoy the karma and let it play out however it plays out...

Likely as not she finds out, it all kicks off and you have a chuckle. Or she doesn't find out, he snides her without her knowing, and you have a chuckle.

Either way the universe is taking care of revenge for you without you having to lift a finger.

As soon as you start getting involved, the potential for drama and being embroiled in shit you really don't need has just infinitely increased...

I'd say just grab some popcorn, sit back and let it unfold naturally

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would boot him from the group and ban him. Don't get involved.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Tell her on their wedding day.

Nah seriously, ignore him. You keep saying "I'm happy for them" or "I don't hold a grudge", but you clearly do and that's pretty natural. What goes around, comes around so sit back and let nature do its work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she know about you being on here? If so then I doubt she will care about what he is doing.

Avoid the angst and let them get on with it is my advice...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did she know about you being on here? If so then I doubt she will care about what he is doing.

Avoid the angst and let them get on with it is my advice..."

No she didn’t know I was on here. Simply because when was together I wasn’t on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite her to the kik group

Seriously... I’d leave well alone. Let karma do it’s thing; keep moving on with your life.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bitterness is not a very nice trait.

Keep out of it.

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By *hedark_knightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’d say stay out of it. Nothing ever stays hidden for very long. Won’t be surprised if you get a text from her once all is revealed.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Tempting but I'd stay out of it. It'll all come out in the wash

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By *evensnipeMan
over a year ago

Byfield

Realistically what would it achieve apart from opening old wounds and scores? This can only serve to drain your energies and raise negative emotions. I'd move on and ignore it and be the better person. That way if it ever comes up later you will have the moral high ground.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Sounds like he's going to hurt her anyway. Let them both live in the messy world they have made for each other. Be smug, be the bigger person and move on. Good post though. Xxxx

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