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The assumption swingers don't judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see it a lot on this site. People making comments about others being judgemental on a swingers site. Swingers aren't judgemental of course....tut!!

Where has it ever been recorded that sexually liberated people aren't judgemental, and why do some assume this should be the case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers don’t judge.

I judged people often, then as soon as I signed up for this site BAM. No temptation to judge. It’s magical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well usually people assume swingers don't judge because it's kind of like throwing stones in a glasshouse... swingers already get it in the neck enough from vanilla monogamous people in society, why cause more grief and ill will amongst us with judgement?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Don't judge what? We're supposed to abandon logic and reason because we like extra sexual partners

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


" You see it a lot on this site. People making comments about others being judgemental on a swingers site. Swingers aren't judgemental of course....tut!!

Where has it ever been recorded that sexually liberated people aren't judgemental, and why do some assume this should be the case? "

That made me smile! Of course they are judgemental getting your swingers badge doesn't change people at all.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think my judgement is in over drive here. I’m judgemental in some ways. Keeps me safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't judge what? We're supposed to abandon logic and reason because we like extra sexual partners "

Yes, of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my judgement, swingers are as entitled as anyone else to be judgemental. Problem comes in wide group discussion that people judge wrongly that they should offer judgement on things that don't come into contact with their real lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the swingers code was don't body shaming everyone is naked tra la la la la la.

We all like what we like sometimes you judge somone and they surprise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot please everyone.

So you will be judged .

Luckily it's not judge dread handing out the sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Thought the swingers code was don't body shaming everyone is naked tra la la la la la.

We all like what we like sometimes you judge somone and they surprise you "

That's what she said when I fell out of her wardrobe with her knickers on my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in the rule book. Of course you have to pay the Platinum membership to be able to view it, but trust me, it's there.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

This place is full of judgmental people, he said judgementally!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

So basically when people say "woah I didn't think a swinging forum would be judgemental" what they really mean is "in my opinion, you guys are the bottom of the moral barrle".

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"This place is full of judgmental people, he said judgementally! "

Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is full of judgmental people, he said judgementally!

Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr "

Damn it, now you made me judge your pics. And I judgementally decided the first on with a very fine arse on show needed fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the idea of a lot of people is that swingers are more open minded than non swingers. That of course, isn't always true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why people make the assumption. People are cunts everywhere.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I don't get why people make the assumption. People are cunts everywhere."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's also often assumed that swingers are "open minded".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's also often assumed that swingers are "open minded". "

Actually the worse assumption I have witnessed on here is that everyone is a swinger and wants to see your bits in strange public places...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's also often assumed that swingers are "open minded".

Actually the worse assumption I have witnessed on here is that everyone is a swinger and wants to see your bits in strange public places... "

Yes there's that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect the badge he earned it with his blood fear the gun his sentence may be death because i am the law

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We all judge and are judged

Swingers are human after all ...

Miss

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So swingers are open minded enough to feel that monogamy is not for them . That’s cool . But it doesn’t mean that they will not judge what they think is right or wrong in a whole multitude of other subject matters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the forums can be more judgemental than the general population.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger. I will judge thee!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I think the idea of a lot of people is that swingers are more open minded than non swingers. That of course, isn't always true."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the forums can be more judgemental than the general population. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically when people say "woah I didn't think a swinging forum would be judgemental" what they really mean is "in my opinion, you guys are the bottom of the moral barrle". "

I guess they are? It's kind of funny in my eyes, how people will pass comments on threads, and when someone else challenges them (rightly or wrongly) that's their retort?

Though to answer one comment above, it's far easier to judge in here. After all most of us are nothing but a profile....a few pictures and some text unless you've spoken to them.

I guess it always puzzled me why it was an assumption by some.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So basically when people say "woah I didn't think a swinging forum would be judgemental" what they really mean is "in my opinion, you guys are the bottom of the moral barrle".

I guess they are? It's kind of funny in my eyes, how people will pass comments on threads, and when someone else challenges them (rightly or wrongly) that's their retort?

Though to answer one comment above, it's far easier to judge in here. After all most of us are nothing but a profile....a few pictures and some text unless you've spoken to them.

I guess it always puzzled me why it was an assumption by some.

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Well this is a forum where people post provocative questions every day. So you see more ideas from the profiles than you would in normal conversation. Let's face it, if this was a social in a swingers club then we wouldn't be talking about single parent families, pregnant women who smoke or gender neutral pronouns. So you'd just never know what the other people's views were. Then again, talking about sex is way more interesting face to face than online too.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.

Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..

Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.

Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..

Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others.."

My god man! What is this tepid shower nonsense, showers have to be either hot or cold.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"Judgemental... bloody well of course swingers are as judgemental as the next person.

Accepting of others ways is probably more the case..

Where else other than a swingers site can you openly admit that you like to put a cucumber up your arse while taking a tepid shower and singing Cabarets Mein Herr and not be judged by others..

My god man! What is this tepid shower nonsense, showers have to be either hot or cold. "

Bloody judgemental bastard!!

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