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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Nothing much more to say here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the state if their faces tbh with you op

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes.

Although, I don't think I'm viewed sexually anyway and so don't look at forum men that way (apart from Clem, of course ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. Usually the more I chat with a woman, the more I'm attracted to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer a good mental and intellectual sparring over sexy and flirtatious chat anyway. I guess my sex life must be over too. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are ladies on the forum I would enjoy meeting, but this is primarily about chat for me. As and when I'm in the UK I might well nudge some poor soul to say hello though.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, all the time!"

I knew it.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had it work both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "

I'm in a minority. There have been about 2 forum members in 6 years that I've found attractive sexually. There's a whole sexual world away from the forum. It's really a good thing and far from over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yes

Q x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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And yes, it's happened. Your sex life will still carry on plodding on don't worry op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno.. once someone is friendzoned.. theres no going back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "

Over last few weeks I’ve chatted to some lovely people and wouldclas them all as friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..

I'm in a minority. There have been about 2 forum members in 6 years that I've found attractive sexually. There's a whole sexual world away from the forum. It's really a good thing and far from over!"

I find the forum like a gold fish bowl. I've grown to fit it and get how it works the more I've used it. There's a very specific culture on it. I don't blame you for not finding guys who inhabit that culture attractive. It can be quite juvenile and piss takey, as well as competitive. But I'd hazard a guess that some of us aren't really those things. I know I'm not. But I enjoy joining in. Take me away from it and you'll find me quite different and happy to linger on the deeper, more beautiful and meaningful things in life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, all the time!

I knew it."

You dryhump me on the phone all day long and you know full well that our love will never die.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there’s a few people I’ve spoken to on the forums and seen the way they interact that has made me change my opinion of them in a negative way. But it has also worked the opposite way as well x

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I pretend to be interested in their mundane waffling but all I really want is for them to sit on my face and snog my wife whilst she rides my penetration device.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't like talking to people

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Nope. I just liked them more and wanted to fuck them.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yep all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.

However very few people are prepared to take the plunge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.

However very few people are prepared to take the plunge."

I like bungee jumping

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Yes once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.

However very few people are prepared to take the plunge.

I like bungee jumping"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.

However very few people are prepared to take the plunge."

. Rubbish! You’re just like your forum persona.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"There are certainly some people who I've started chatting to with a view to meeting, where over time it's been more about chatting than anything - in one particular instance we lived a distance apart but had agreed to meet for a social and then realised we'd friendzoned one another - we still talk lots about anything and everything and apart from perving her pics (which I wouldn't he a red blooded male if I didn't;-) ) there's nothing in the slightest bit sexual in my intentions or thoughts where she's concerned.

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Thank God it's not only me. If I'm honest and it's my own fault this place is the last place I get out from but having said that it's been some time since I've even tried. I've asked myself so often why I'm still here and I really don't know.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t often chat to people for very long. I bore them silent. Presumably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?.. "

Yes

And yes, mine might as well be too

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..

Yes

And yes, mine might as well be too "

Faf

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Only distance would be the reason I wouldn't consider the opportunity of meeting for a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think of forum people in a sexual way. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..

Yes

And yes, mine might as well be too

Faf"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Has anyone also chatted with a forum member to the point where you no longer view them sexually and just enjoy the chatting? Or is my sex life over?..

Yes

And yes, mine might as well be too

Faf

"

Sorry sister Scarlett I didn't recognise you without you habit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who actually chat with me find my forum persona and profile don't reflect me at all.

However very few people are prepared to take the plunge.

. Rubbish! You’re just like your forum persona. "

true dat

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