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It depends on the who, how I’m feeling at the time and how healthy our dynamic is at the time.
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"Currently single, but 2 things in life I don't share. My food and my partner " Joey is that you ? | |||
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"Currently single, but 2 things in life I don't share. My food and my partner Joey is that you ? " Haha | |||
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"Currently single, but 2 things in life I don't share. My food and my partner Joey is that you ? " Damn. I am discovered | |||
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"Yes I've been in relationships were we have invited men to experience my partner on her own and have to say I've really enjoyed it, it is a bit odd to begin with but it's a bit like watching porn and knowing the actress Don't knock it until you've tried it" That's a pretty good analogy | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked?" Would or have you? | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked?" Well I enjoyed it with my ex. So I’d assume I still would. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Would or have you?" Yes. My profile says as much. | |||
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"And some of these replies are why we stopped bothering with single guys. The amount of times i as the male have been asked how can you do this even in clubs. Being in this life and having to explain yourself to others in it " | |||
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. But I've watched partners fuck and the reclaim sex after is the best thing ever | |||
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"And some of these replies are why we stopped bothering with single guys. The amount of times i as the male have been asked how can you do this even in clubs. Being in this life and having to explain yourself to others in it "No one said we wouldn't fuck her for you, that's your kink..  | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked?" Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that | |||
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"And some of these replies are why we stopped bothering with single guys. The amount of times i as the male have been asked how can you do this even in clubs. Being in this life and having to explain yourself to others in it
No one said we wouldn't fuck her for you, that's your kink.."Sorry man we have this strange desire to have our fun with swingers we're just fickle like that, possibly why we joined a swingers site   | |||
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"And some of these replies are why we stopped bothering with single guys. The amount of times i as the male have been asked how can you do this even in clubs. Being in this life and having to explain yourself to others in it
No one said we wouldn't fuck her for you, that's your kink..
Sorry man we have this strange desire to have our fun with swingers we're just fickle like that, possibly why we joined a swingers site "Fab swingers is the name
(Female but want to comment).... it’s a swinging site so seeing my partner with someone is the point, for me. Sharing is caring | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked?" yeah, it’s a fantasy. | |||
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"My husband loves to watch it "lucky him! | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck?" Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone.  | |||
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"And some of these replies are why we stopped bothering with single guys. The amount of times i as the male have been asked how can you do this even in clubs. Being in this life and having to explain yourself to others in it
No one said we wouldn't fuck her for you, that's your kink..
Sorry man we have this strange desire to have our fun with swingers we're just fickle like that, possibly why we joined a swingers site
Fab swingers is the name
(Female but want to comment).... it’s a swinging site so seeing my partner with someone is the point, for me. Sharing is caring "This lady gets it
Confidence in your own abilities and trust in your partner is liberating isn't it haha.. Just a shame topics like this s_ine such a light upon things | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Would or have you? Yes. My profile says as much. " Ah yes I see, sorry for not reading that straight away. | |||
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"No isea till im in that situation think i may be to competetive if im honest" Thats great from a womans poit of view, makes the boys try harder lol | |||
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"No isea till im in that situation think i may be to competetive if im honest Thats great from a womans poit of view, makes the boys try harder lol" | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck? Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone. "Absolutely , but we are on a swinging site . That’s a bit like saying fishing is bad on an angling forum . Why be there if you don’t agree with it ? I think it’s a very common thing amongst single men on here , but as long as they were happy to crack on with my wife as I watched , we were happy . And I never had any desire to fuck their partners anyway so it didn’t matter . | |||
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"It does make me wonder about a lot of people on here. They have signed up to a swingers site but a lot wouldn't want to swing with a partner. So they are happy enough to fuck other people's wives and husbands but wouldn't share their own. Hmmmmmm. I would love a long term partner who I could swing with occasionally. I've joined a swinging site because that's what I want to do. Yes. I know people can use this site as they wish, but it still makes me wonder." It is a bit odd seeing how many quite vocal guys are totally against this. I thought I was the great anti-swinger It's particularly odd because the question was quite minor. It's not like he's asking if you could watch her fuck her way through a room of men, or get fucked by another guy every week/month. I don't think I'd like either of those things. It's just asking if you'd get off on watching her get fucked once. Having done it with my ex, I can definitely imagine, if that was her thing, it would be a joy to watch. But oddly I don't really see that one off type thing as sharing. That's more just letting her have some fun and enjoying her enjoyment of it imo | |||
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"It does make me wonder about a lot of people on here. They have signed up to a swingers site but a lot wouldn't want to swing with a partner. So they are happy enough to fuck other people's wives and husbands but wouldn't share their own. Hmmmmmm. I would love a long term partner who I could swing with occasionally. I've joined a swinging site because that's what I want to do. Yes. I know people can use this site as they wish, but it still makes me wonder. It is a bit odd seeing how many quite vocal guys are totally against this. I thought I was the great anti-swinger It's particularly odd because the question was quite minor. It's not like he's asking if you could watch her fuck her way through a room of men, or get fucked by another guy every week/month. I don't think I'd like either of those things. It's just asking if you'd get off on watching her get fucked once. Having done it with my ex, I can definitely imagine, if that was her thing, it would be a joy to watch. But oddly I don't really see that one off type thing as sharing. That's more just letting her have some fun and enjoying her enjoyment of it imo "He didn’t specify once or multiple, actually. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that "Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site  | |||
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"It does make me wonder about a lot of people on here. They have signed up to a swingers site but a lot wouldn't want to swing with a partner. So they are happy enough to fuck other people's wives and husbands but wouldn't share their own. Hmmmmmm. I would love a long term partner who I could swing with occasionally. I've joined a swinging site because that's what I want to do. Yes. I know people can use this site as they wish, but it still makes me wonder. It is a bit odd seeing how many quite vocal guys are totally against this. I thought I was the great anti-swinger It's particularly odd because the question was quite minor. It's not like he's asking if you could watch her fuck her way through a room of men, or get fucked by another guy every week/month. I don't think I'd like either of those things. It's just asking if you'd get off on watching her get fucked once. Having done it with my ex, I can definitely imagine, if that was her thing, it would be a joy to watch. But oddly I don't really see that one off type thing as sharing. That's more just letting her have some fun and enjoying her enjoyment of it imo
He didn’t specify once or multiple, actually. "That's what I mean. If people couldn't sign up to it that's because they couldn't even do it once | |||
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"It does make me wonder about a lot of people on here. They have signed up to a swingers site but a lot wouldn't want to swing with a partner. So they are happy enough to fuck other people's wives and husbands but wouldn't share their own. Hmmmmmm. I would love a long term partner who I could swing with occasionally. I've joined a swinging site because that's what I want to do. Yes. I know people can use this site as they wish, but it still makes me wonder. It is a bit odd seeing how many quite vocal guys are totally against this. I thought I was the great anti-swinger It's particularly odd because the question was quite minor. It's not like he's asking if you could watch her fuck her way through a room of men, or get fucked by another guy every week/month. I don't think I'd like either of those things. It's just asking if you'd get off on watching her get fucked once. Having done it with my ex, I can definitely imagine, if that was her thing, it would be a joy to watch. But oddly I don't really see that one off type thing as sharing. That's more just letting her have some fun and enjoying her enjoyment of it imo
He didn’t specify once or multiple, actually.
That's what I mean. If people couldn't sign up to it that's because they couldn't even do it once "It’s not really what you said, but okay. | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck? Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone.
Absolutely , but we are on a swinging site .
That’s a bit like saying fishing is bad on an angling forum . Why be there if you don’t agree with it ?
I think it’s a very common thing amongst single men on here , but as long as they were happy to crack on with my wife as I watched , we were happy . And I never had any desire to fuck their partners anyway so it didn’t matter . "In all the years I've been on here you 2 are the only couple I've ever really wanted to meet or even thought about and I'd bet I'd suprise you why. As good as she looks it's not your Mrs although putting it like you have there fuck it I would. I Can't say couples has ever been a thing for me. (Puffs out chest all manly like for this bit) I'd love to meet you your a complete buzz. Your way of thinking is unique and know it would be funny as fuck. Add your delectable other half to that and I don't have the words other than it would be 1 very interesting and entertaining experience. Sadly I'd bore the shit out of you but fuck it I'm a single bloke so that's ok with me | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck? Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone.
Absolutely , but we are on a swinging site .
That’s a bit like saying fishing is bad on an angling forum . Why be there if you don’t agree with it ?
I think it’s a very common thing amongst single men on here , but as long as they were happy to crack on with my wife as I watched , we were happy . And I never had any desire to fuck their partners anyway so it didn’t matter . "I see it as people saying they like fishing but they do it in different ways. Swinging isn't all about 4somes. Some couples don't full swap. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site "My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint. "Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site."There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those. "I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here."If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then? Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then? Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself! | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself! "Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread "Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep. To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep.
To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too. "No but being on here might suggest they are at least open to the idea all be it in a perfect world. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep.
To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too.
No but being on here might suggest they are at least open to the idea all be it in a perfect world."Beg to differ though. People act very differently when possessiveness comes into play. It's infinitely easier for a single guy to be open to the idea of fucking someone else's wife on here in a threesome with their husband, than it is for the couple to decide that they are open to having a stranger join them in bed and get between them! | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck? Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone.
Absolutely , but we are on a swinging site .
That’s a bit like saying fishing is bad on an angling forum . Why be there if you don’t agree with it ?
I think it’s a very common thing amongst single men on here , but as long as they were happy to crack on with my wife as I watched , we were happy . And I never had any desire to fuck their partners anyway so it didn’t matter .
In all the years I've been on here you 2 are the only couple I've ever really wanted to meet or even thought about and I'd bet I'd suprise you why. As good as she looks it's not your Mrs although putting it like you have there fuck it I would. I Can't say couples has ever been a thing for me. (Puffs out chest all manly like for this bit) I'd love to meet you your a complete buzz. Your way of thinking is unique and know it would be funny as fuck. Add your delectable other half to that and I don't have the words other than it would be 1 very interesting and entertaining experience. Sadly I'd bore the shit out of you but fuck it I'm a single bloke so that's ok with me "In all the years we have been in here , it’s a bloody shame we haven’t met up . And I’ll surprise you too . Because it would be for the same reasons as you . The crack and the laughs we would have , and of course the outrageous behaviour of my Mrs who would no doubt have her wicked way with you ! There’s no way you would bore us , so in the hope that our paths cross at some point , see you soon | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep.
To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too.
No but being on here might suggest they are at least open to the idea all be it in a perfect world.
Beg to differ though. People act very differently when possessiveness comes into play.
It's infinitely easier for a single guy to be open to the idea of fucking someone else's wife on here in a threesome with their husband, than it is for the couple to decide that they are open to having a stranger join them in bed and get between them! "I couldn't agree more I don't think I could for a start but in that idea world I said about my mind wouldn't be set against it. All the poster above are saying is why be here if your completely closed to it in the way he's coming across that's all. In other words it's the difference between say hmmmm I dawt it but I'll think about it or no fucking chance she's mine mine mine and keep your eyes off cunt face. | |||
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"It's amazing how many men are delighted to share someone else's partner but wouldn't share their own. I wonder if, deep down, they see the bloke whose wife they're fucking as a bit of a cuck? Possibly some do. Possibly some would just feel too much jealousy to be able to do it with their own partner. I don't know why some people tend to think it's a bad thing. Swinging isn't for everyone.
Absolutely , but we are on a swinging site .
That’s a bit like saying fishing is bad on an angling forum . Why be there if you don’t agree with it ?
I think it’s a very common thing amongst single men on here , but as long as they were happy to crack on with my wife as I watched , we were happy . And I never had any desire to fuck their partners anyway so it didn’t matter .
In all the years I've been on here you 2 are the only couple I've ever really wanted to meet or even thought about and I'd bet I'd suprise you why. As good as she looks it's not your Mrs although putting it like you have there fuck it I would. I Can't say couples has ever been a thing for me. (Puffs out chest all manly like for this bit) I'd love to meet you your a complete buzz. Your way of thinking is unique and know it would be funny as fuck. Add your delectable other half to that and I don't have the words other than it would be 1 very interesting and entertaining experience. Sadly I'd bore the shit out of you but fuck it I'm a single bloke so that's ok with me
In all the years we have been in here , it’s a bloody shame we haven’t met up . And I’ll surprise you too . Because it would be for the same reasons as you . The crack and the laughs we would have , and of course the outrageous behaviour of my Mrs who would no doubt have her wicked way with you ! There’s no way you would bore us , so in the hope that our paths cross at some point , see you soon "What you go and say that for I've my rep to think of you know. I'm filling up now I really am. Aww seriosly I'm touched. I reckon them paths need a nudge | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep.
To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too.
No but being on here might suggest they are at least open to the idea all be it in a perfect world.
Beg to differ though. People act very differently when possessiveness comes into play.
It's infinitely easier for a single guy to be open to the idea of fucking someone else's wife on here in a threesome with their husband, than it is for the couple to decide that they are open to having a stranger join them in bed and get between them!
I couldn't agree more I don't think I could for a start but in that idea world I said about my mind wouldn't be set against it. All the poster above are saying is why be here if your completely closed to it in the way he's coming across that's all. In other words it's the difference between say hmmmm I dawt it but I'll think about it or no fucking chance she's mine mine mine and keep your eyes off cunt face."Hahahaha this actually made me blow tea out of my nose.. Tbf i have a big bloody nose so it's always a risk but you put that so beautifully. Thank you for that | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
Ahh... right okay... just scrolled up to read. Yep.
To be fair though, asking single men if they'd be up for swinging with their future girlfriends and wives, and watching them get fucked by other men whilst they're single now is a totally different kettle of fish from when it actually happens. No single man is going to know if he's going to have the trust and intimacy level with his future partner sufficient enough to take swinging in stride. Especially when nobody knows what their future relationship dynamic would be like too.
No but being on here might suggest they are at least open to the idea all be it in a perfect world.
Beg to differ though. People act very differently when possessiveness comes into play.
It's infinitely easier for a single guy to be open to the idea of fucking someone else's wife on here in a threesome with their husband, than it is for the couple to decide that they are open to having a stranger join them in bed and get between them!
I couldn't agree more I don't think I could for a start but in that idea world I said about my mind wouldn't be set against it. All the poster above are saying is why be here if your completely closed to it in the way he's coming across that's all. In other words it's the difference between say hmmmm I dawt it but I'll think about it or no fucking chance she's mine mine mine and keep your eyes off cunt face.
Hahahaha this actually made me blow tea out of my nose.. Tbf i have a big bloody nose so it's always a risk but you put that so beautifully. Thank you for that "Wasn't nearly as funny as me having to scroll up to see which posts where yours I didn't have a clue. Your very welcome this account was originally a couples account we was just testing the water all them years ago and split soon after. Totally unrelated I might add. So guess I'm not in fact no I'm far from the standard single male. 1 or 2 even like me but I'd not trust them cunts | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself! "I'm rather confused why you have gone on a rant about my post. I'm actually single myself. Where did I mention couples? | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread "thank you x | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself! "I’m not sure that that was what was meant. | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked? Absolutely No fucking way. We wouldnt be together if she wanted that
Strange thing to say on a SWINGING site
My thoughts exactly, but it’s a common viewpoint.
Very strange thing to say on here. I do wonder why the join a swinging site.
There are so many ‘hook up sites’ out there for one on one sex, I wonder why more people don’t use those.
I understand they have a right to be on here, but it makes it so much more difficult to find the 'real swingers' on here.
If by "real swingers" you only refer to couples on here, where does that leave couples who are seeking single men or women for threesome fun together with? They any less real swingers then?
Or how about the women who want massive 16-men gangbangs all to themselves? They any less real swingers then?
Such couple snobbishness when it comes to defining who's a proper "swinger" or otherwise is extremely off-putting to single people on here like myself!
Your missing the point mate. They're referring to the shouty guy further up the thread
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"Yes What if she didn't want to see you fucking other women? Sorry for singling you out "I don't need to fuck other women. But if she wanted to fuck a lot of guys often or have a fuck buddy... well to be honest I'd suggest she leave me... but if for some weird reason I didn't feel that way I'd probably want my "fair share" I didn't promise I was going to be the greatest swinger ever. But I'm happy with a bit of dabbling every now and then | |||
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"Yes What if she didn't want to see you fucking other women? Sorry for singling you out
I don't need to fuck other women. But if she wanted to fuck a lot of guys often or have a fuck buddy... well to be honest I'd suggest she leave me... but if for some weird reason I didn't feel that way I'd probably want my "fair share"
I didn't promise I was going to be the greatest swinger ever. But I'm happy with a bit of dabbling every now and then "So you'd enjoy watching her with another man if you got to play with women too? | |||
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"Yes What if she didn't want to see you fucking other women? Sorry for singling you out
I don't need to fuck other women. But if she wanted to fuck a lot of guys often or have a fuck buddy... well to be honest I'd suggest she leave me... but if for some weird reason I didn't feel that way I'd probably want my "fair share"
I didn't promise I was going to be the greatest swinger ever. But I'm happy with a bit of dabbling every now and then
So you'd enjoy watching her with another man if you got to play with women too?"Either or. I'm not really a swinger by myself i.e I'm not really motivated to make it happen. But if my girlfriend was motivated I'd be more than happy to have some fun with her, whether that's watching her or whatever. But I couldn't see me being ok with that being a major part of our relationship. I'd prefer it to be the odd deviant treat | |||
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"Yes What if she didn't want to see you fucking other women? Sorry for singling you out
I don't need to fuck other women. But if she wanted to fuck a lot of guys often or have a fuck buddy... well to be honest I'd suggest she leave me... but if for some weird reason I didn't feel that way I'd probably want my "fair share"
I didn't promise I was going to be the greatest swinger ever. But I'm happy with a bit of dabbling every now and then
So you'd enjoy watching her with another man if you got to play with women too?
Either or. I'm not really a swinger by myself i.e I'm not really motivated to make it happen. But if my girlfriend was motivated I'd be more than happy to have some fun with her, whether that's watching her or whatever. But I couldn't see me being ok with that being a major part of our relationship. I'd prefer it to be the odd deviant treat "
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"My experience has been that men who say they are ok with watching me fuck another man actually aren't when it actually happens." Some guys have done it before. So they know they're probably ok with it. But even then it's difficult to tell what feelings it'll stir when they try it with a new partner | |||
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"Would you enjoy watching her being fucked?" I do enjoy it. More so if it's a foursome as it doesn't do much for me othwrwise. Same as watching girl on girl doesn't. People say i'm weird. But i say just because i'm a man doesn't mean i like watching women play | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. " Somebody buy this man a beer! | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer! "Why is that the right answer? Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong? | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?"It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try "It does seem to be the general consensus of the thread though. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try
It does seem to be the general consensus of the thread though."I haven't read the thread. Are you saying most guys were like Hatter? If so... sorry Hatter but you're gonna have to pass that beer around | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?"It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does . As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good . To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ? Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing . | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try
It does seem to be the general consensus of the thread though.
I haven't read the thread. Are you saying most guys were like Hatter? If so... sorry Hatter but you're gonna have to pass that beer around "I was just throwing in my two cents. But there's no one like me. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try
It does seem to be the general consensus of the thread though."No, I was referring to the men who aren't interested in it. The consensus seems to be that they're wrong in some way. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing ."Well said | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing ."They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it."Well ok , let’s look at it this way . The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ? If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that ! As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me . | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me . "You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too? Do you view singles as swingers then? | |||
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Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?"Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too . Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag . | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag ."fully second that | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It's not the "right" answer. I just think he's cool for being willing to give it a try and making up his mind from that. If he doesn't like it then you can't complain that he didn't try
It does seem to be the general consensus of the thread though.
No, I was referring to the men who aren't interested in it. The consensus seems to be that they're wrong in some way.
"It's perfectly natural not to want to see your partner fucked by another guy. That's normal. But some guys find it kinky. And others, like me, would get enjoyment from seeing her enjoyment... just as long as it wasn't a regular thing. If the normal guys are getting hounded for being normal then that's a bit topsy turvy I guess. But I myself have been surprised that on a swinging site more guys haven't been more open minded about trying it if that's what the woman wants... not even once. By this I don't mean that the guys on here need to change their mind. Just that I was surprised there was't a higher percentage with a different mind that's all | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag ."For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards? Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too ."Ok thanks. I found it interesting that it would come up in conversation. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Ok thanks. I found it interesting that it would come up in conversation.
"Generally it goes something like this . “ wow mate , that was fantastic , I don’t know how you can share a woman like that “ , to which I say , “ wouldn’t you ? “ , and the answer every time is “no chance “ . I could take it as disrespectful , insomuch as they are implying there’s something wrong with sharing my wife . What they don’t realise is the pleasure we both get from the experience too . The reclamation sex is the best | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap. "I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one . So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ? | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ? "I'm just struggling with the double standards part. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
"I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too ! I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing . So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ? Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ? | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ? "No you're not missing anything, it's my thoughts that are going off on a tangent as usual.
You're right, the OP was specific to men and that question.
Reclaim sex is awesome.
I still don't think it's necessarily a bad thing that they wouldn't or couldn't 'share' a partner. Some men will have a negative view but some won't. They might want to in theory but just know they couldn't in reality as they'd feel too jealous or inadequate. (I'm not saying that couples that swing are inadequate.) | |||
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"In the same sense, I will happily sleep with a smoker but wouldn't go out with one except if she is beyond amazing. So because other men share their wife does not mean I have to. However, I do not believe we are meant to be monogamy for a long time. So you never know" I don't think anyones saying it should be tit for tat but we personally always hope if we are playing with single guys they are at least of a similar mindset. As _loswingers said the amount of times we have had guys either after we have played or if they approach us say "i could never share my partner" now very evidently _loswingers look at it how i wish i personally could look at it, but in all honesty i take it as hypocritical. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ? "I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not. Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife. Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone? | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?"There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation. If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world. "I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else. I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world.
I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else.
I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it."That's because they have that entitlement thingy. If you fuck my wife, I have to fuck yours-if you get one. No one sees it as the third person is giving them what they want; which is a third person to fuck their wife. If I joined in with a husband and wife I wouldn't tell them that the wife has to reciprocate and fuck my partner with me present. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world.
I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else.
I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it.
That's because they have that entitlement thingy. If you fuck my wife, I have to fuck yours-if you get one. No one sees it as the third person is giving them what they want; which is a third person to fuck their wife. " | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world.
I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else.
I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it."The SM was in response to the OP but you are right about judgement from others too. | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world.
I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else.
I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it.
That's because they have that entitlement thingy. If you fuck my wife, I have to fuck yours-if you get one. No one sees it as the third person is giving them what they want; which is a third person to fuck their wife.
If I joined in with a husband and wife I wouldn't tell them that the wife has to reciprocate and fuck my partner with me present. "Well since so much of the above is quoted from my words , may I take this opportunity to say that I have said on more than one occasion that we are grateful for the attention my wife gets from the single guys . While I don’t understand the mind of the guy spending time with her , that doesn’t matter really . We have as much fun as they do . I only entered the thread as it seemed pertinent to put some of our experience forward . It most certainly isn’t the case that I would want to fuck the other guys wife as that’s not my thing at all ! | |||
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"I don't know. But it's something I would be happy to try and see. Somebody buy this man a beer!
Why is that the right answer?
Why are men who know/say that they're not into it be wrong?
It certainly surprises me that so many men are happy to play with my wife , with me watching , yet they wouldn’t dream of having a partner that would do what she does .
As I said earlier , it’s cool because we get what we want , and so do they . So it’s all good .
To answer your point I can only say this . The very definition of swinging is the mutual enjoyment of having sex with multiple partners . So to deny a partner the opportunity to swing makes the one denying it a definitive non swinger . Yet they happily fuck other men’s partners until they find a woman of their own , and then they tell her she can’t swing ! Which on a swinging site is surely wrong isn’t it ?
Obviously if we weren’t in a swinging site forum I would totally agree with you and the guys who wouldn’t want their partner to swing .
They're not denying them anything, if neither of them are into it.
Well ok , let’s look at it this way .
The guys who aren’t into it make it perfectly clear they wouldn’t want their partner to swing . And anywhere else that would be cool , no one would be at all surprised . But these same guys happily fuck other people’s partners . And they are on a swinging site . So double standards springs to mind does it not ?
If they left the site when they got a partner , and didn’t rejoin or swing themselves while with their partner , then that’s absolutely fine . But I can assure they don’t . They love the thrill of swinging , yet wouldn’t dream of doing it as a couple as their partner is only for them , no one else is gonna go there at all . They’ll see to that !
As I say , if we weren’t talking about guys ona swinging site I’d be 100% with you on this one , but we are , and it seems like double standards to me .
You've met single guys where that's come up in conversation? How about single women? Does it come up with them too?
Do you view singles as swingers then?
Yes we have met single guys where it comes up in conversation , many times . Single women who like to watch their other half equally as elusive on here , and we’ve met some who would and most who wouldn’t too .
Do I think singles are swingers ? Some are , they have the mentality that suits the lifestyle and are a fantastic part of the scene . Most however are here for what they can get , and that’s not really swinging is it ? It suits us , but not ideal for those who like to establish something more than a quick shag .
For some couples only one of them fucks. The other one prefers to just watch. Do these types of couples have double standards?
Maybe the men like fucking but they're not into watching or being watched. Some couples only do separate room swap.
I think the subject matter on this thread is single guys and whether they would swing with their partner if they had one .
So no I don’t think couples where one watches is a double standard at all . They make it clear in their profile that that’s their thing . Just as separate room swapping is their thing , but men who happily fuck other people’s partners but wouldn’t swing with their partner is a completely different ball game isn’t it ? Or am I missing something ?
I'm just struggling with the double standards part.
I’m struggling with the fact that you’re struggling with it too !
I get that you think it’s ok that they may not want to share or see their partner swing .
So if they have a partner , they hadn’t really ought to be swinging then ? Do we agree on that part ?
Now , maybe this is the contentious bit . When they are genuinely single , and they happily fuck other people’s partners , they are enjoying something they would never do themselves from the other guys perspective . Which is an integral part of swinging isn’t it ? Maybe the double standards isn’t the right way to word it . My definition of double standard would be in this instance , that the guy is perfectly happy to fuck my wife , but finds it an abhorrent idea to have his partner being fucked by someone else . What’s that if it isn’t a double standard ?
I'm struggling to understand why it's a bad thing. Double standards or not.
Maybe they see it as fucking a woman who wants to fuck them, as opposed to viewing it as fucking a man's wife.
Are double standards always bad? What about a bi man (for example) who is a bottom? He wants a man to penetrate him, but he won't penetrate anyone?
There’s a difference between not wanting to share a partner yourself and having a judgment on people who do want to share, especially when you are the SM in the situation.
If it’s the latter then don’t enter the swinging world.
I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else.
I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it.
That's because they have that entitlement thingy. If you fuck my wife, I have to fuck yours-if you get one. No one sees it as the third person is giving them what they want; which is a third person to fuck their wife.
If I joined in with a husband and wife I wouldn't tell them that the wife has to reciprocate and fuck my partner with me present.
Well since so much of the above is quoted from my words , may I take this opportunity to say that I have said on more than one occasion that we are grateful for the attention my wife gets from the single guys . While I don’t understand the mind of the guy spending time with her , that doesn’t matter really . We have as much fun as they do .
I only entered the thread as it seemed pertinent to put some of our experience forward .
It most certainly isn’t the case that I would want to fuck the other guys wife as that’s not my thing at all ! "Just like it's not his thing either | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship " A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity | |||
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".. . I've read back through the thread. I can only see one negative judgement from a single who wouldn't be into seeing his partner with someone else. I do, however, see a lot of judgement by people who are into it. That's because they have that entitlement thingy. If you fuck my wife, I have to fuck yours-if you get one. No one sees it as the third person is giving them what they want; which is a third person to fuck their wife. If I joined in with a husband and wife I wouldn't tell them that the wife has to reciprocate and fuck my partner with me present. That's an interesting and good point. " I don't know that anyone has said that though, i for one certainly don't have that "entitlement" as any and all scenarios are open to be explored in our relationship (barring cuckold just not my thing) but that being said given the choice which this site gives us we would both much prefer to spend time with people single or otherwise with a similar view of this life to us, i.e enjoying sharing ones partner and whether in a relationship or not being receptive to the idea of sharing there partner. To play with someone who when they placed there selves in our shoes would find the situation abhorent just holds no allure to us in the least. Thankfully this site has allowed us to meet people like us in certain mindsets but refreshingly different in others. And this topic has prooved a reminder to appreciate the brilliant for want of a better word relationships we have built | |||
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"I shouldn’t judge it until I’ve tried it (and I don’t judge anyone on here, for the record). But I struggle to imagine enjoying watching my other half being f*cked by someone else in front of me::: Am I old fashioned or just inhibited? Not that my opinion on the matter will be changing anytime soon. It won’t! " But what if that other half wants to try it. your relationship is solid so nobody's getting in for want of a better word. They are just providing you with that extra element and obviously getting there own jollys. Would you still be so closed to it in that situation. Don't get me wrong I quite honestly don't know if I could handle it either and for the same reasons your thinking. The only difference is I have already shared a partner with another fem and fuck me as I expected I loved it. so if I had what these couples had i.e. a solid relationship and a truck load of trust I'd at least concider it. | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity "I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread . First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife . The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed . Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us . So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship . You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity . | |||
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I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity ."I so know you'd want to reply yourself. Knowing jack shit I was so tempted | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity "WHOA WHOA WHOA ease off. Swinging happens with consent for all parties involved, so you can't just go on about how apparently a man is potentially objectifying his partner and effectively "pimping" her out for other men to use to get his jollies off, because that's just denying free will and agency on the part of the woman to allow/want that to happen. It is her body for God's sake. If a man truly wanted to objectify a woman, why even go through the trouble of staying nominally in a relationship with her, instead of just keeping her on a booty-call list and forget about actually having a relationship with her, swinging or otherwise? | |||
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WHOA WHOA WHOA ease off. Swinging happens with consent for all parties involved, so you can't just go on about how apparently a man is potentially objectifying his partner and effectively "pimping" her out for other men to use to get his jollies off, because that's just denying free will and agency on the part of the woman to allow/want that to happen. It is her body for God's sake.
If a man truly wanted to objectify a woman, why even go through the trouble of staying nominally in a relationship with her, instead of just keeping her on a booty-call list and forget about actually having a relationship with her, swinging or otherwise? "Would I be classed as a female pimp?! Lol Q x | |||
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's. "I totally understand what you mean about the reclamation sex after your partner returns from a meet with another woman without you. It's a certain element of possessiveness mixed in with pride that your partner enjoyed their time with someone else, and yet chose to return to your bed and be with you at the end of the night. I could easily see myself as such a partner in future if any of my relationships took a swinging turn. I'm not resistant towards swinging as a couple in future, although I am very leery of giving the impression to my partner or anyone else that I'm instigating the exploration into swinging by then because I'm greedy to fuck other people more through a more "legitimate  " manner like swinging. Hence why I'd never suggest swinging to my partner; if it happens it would have to be by her initiation and then with my guidance (since I'd probably be the more experienced one).
And as for letting a future partner potentially fuck other guys with or without me around, the analogy of the Mont Blanc fountain pen applies. A Mont Blanc fountain pen is beautiful and always well appreciated by anyone who writes it. Doesn't matter who the pen is lent out to (as long as they know how to appreciate and take care of it), but at the end of the day it will always return to my pocket and be mine. I wouldn't appreciate it if my partner ended up catching feelings for a swinging partner, but I can see how my love and trust for her would strengthen even more if I was the one she'd choose to return home with every time after a meet. | |||
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" Would I be classed as a female pimp?! Lol Q x" Not at all! It's not like you're objectifying your husband are you? Or rather, earning any money off him fucking other people, like what a real pimp entails! | |||
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" Would I be classed as a female pimp?! Lol Q x Not at all! It's not like you're objectifying your husband are you? Or rather, earning any money off him fucking other people, like what a real pimp entails! " He supplies me with chocolate... does that count?! | |||
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend "Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab | |||
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Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab "Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs | |||
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Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops "Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops
Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
No idea what she's into, we made a pact not to tell each other our profile names lol, there's some things that sisters don't need to see "You've know idea just how much I get that I'm in a similar position. Makes for an interesting Christmas dinner | |||
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops
Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
No idea what she's into, we made a pact not to tell each other our profile names lol, there's some things that sisters don't need to see
You've know idea just how much I get that I'm in a similar position. Makes for an interesting Christmas dinner "Lol, we accidentally came across her on a previous profile.... some things just can't be unseen | |||
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops
Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
No idea what she's into, we made a pact not to tell each other our profile names lol, there's some things that sisters don't need to see
You've know idea just how much I get that I'm in a similar position. Makes for an interesting Christmas dinner
Lol, we accidentally came across her on a previous profile.... some things just can't be unseen "I know right. How slow is that back button when you really need it. | |||
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops
Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
No idea what she's into, we made a pact not to tell each other our profile names lol, there's some things that sisters don't need to see
You've know idea just how much I get that I'm in a similar position. Makes for an interesting Christmas dinner
Lol, we accidentally came across her on a previous profile.... some things just can't be unseen
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"I consider myself a Cuckquean, i love watching my husband with another woman whilst I sit back and enjoy the view, i also get my kicks out of him meeting solo and coming home to tell me all about it, reclaiming him is such a big turn on for me. It's nothing to do with me being inadequate (FYI I'm awesome ) I have no interest whatsoever in being with another man, and just because I'm happy to share my husband, it doesn't mean that I should be expected to indulge with someone else's.
Have you got a sister. Asking for a friend
Lol, interestingly enough I do she's also on fab
Tell me single and loves a dad bod and I'm sorry lucky but I'm kissing your Mrs
Sorry he's kissing your Mrs oops
Ha, my lips belong to Lucky
No idea what she's into, we made a pact not to tell each other our profile names lol, there's some things that sisters don't need to see
You've know idea just how much I get that I'm in a similar position. Makes for an interesting Christmas dinner
Lol, we accidentally came across her on a previous profile.... some things just can't be unseen
I know right. How slow is that back button when you really need it.
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity ."If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh. No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained... And who says I’m single? | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single? "So first you say you're on here in a strictly single capacity... Then you say "and who says I'm single?" Either you're a cheater, or you're a liar bluffing about not being single with that smartass implied comment. I'm not sure which is worse. So which is it? Frankly you're beginning to irritate even me with your sanctimonousness and failed attempts at trying to be smart. | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single?
So first you say you're on here in a strictly single capacity...
Then you say "and who says I'm single?"
Either you're a cheater, or you're a liar bluffing about not being single with that smartass implied comment. I'm not sure which is worse.
So which is it? Frankly you're beginning to irritate even me with your sanctimonousness and failed attempts at trying to be smart. " | |||
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single? "Oops! I said I was. I clearly am. I’m actually not .
Give me some credit, I’ve been out for a 40th tonight and I’m absolutely c*nted!
Especially after telling Thursday’s date from here I was; a date which I’ve subsequently blown off on the basis of dreadful pics, a general smell of mentalness and and chronically low expectations.
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single?
Oops!
I said I was. I clearly am. I’m actually not .
Give me some credit, I’ve been out for a 40th tonight and I’m absolutely c*nted!
Especially after telling Thursday’s date from here I was; a date which I’ve subsequently blown off on the basis of dreadful pics, a general smell of mentalness and and chronically low expectations.
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single?
Oops!
I said I was. I clearly am. I’m actually not .
Give me some credit, I’ve been out for a 40th tonight and I’m absolutely c*nted!
Especially after telling Thursday’s date from here I was; a date which I’ve subsequently blown off on the basis of dreadful pics, a general smell of mentalness and and chronically low expectations.
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"Takes a very sexually secure man to share his partner and a very solid relationship A very sexually secure man? Or a man who objectifies his partner, views as her as a sex object hence wishing to see her being banged by other blokes, in order to make up for his own sexual failings/lack of true intimacy towards her. That’s not to my taste, and would b a complete deal breaker, in any functional relationship of mine. I’m on here in a strictly single capacity
I don’t think I’ve ever read such a misguided load of complete crap in my whole time on here , and perhaps this is why I insisted on stating our case on the thread .
First off , I have no sexual failings whatsoever , and I certainly don’t lack any true intimacy towards my wife .
The functionality of our marriage has always been about sharing our deepest and most intimate desires together . Which we have done over the past eight years . Me watching her with single guys has been a part of this journey , and the reclamation sex has to be experienced to be believed .
Swinging is a hobby for both of us . A sideline if you like , which adds to what we already have together . Respectful single guys who get what swinging is about have been a major part of what makes swinging fun for us .
So a sexually secure man such as myself has no problem at all in enjoying the sight of his wife enjoying other men and women . And I can assure you that there is no objectification going on in our relationship .
You clearly have a lot to learn about swinging , but I guess as you say , you are happy in a strictly single capacity .
If you think it’s a load of crap - excuse me for not being enormously bothered, tbh.
No judgement intended there - just my opinion on whether I’d see my other half shagging another man. I wouldn’t, with reference to the thread title, for reasons explained...
And who says I’m single?
Oops!
I said I was. I clearly am. I’m actually not .
Give me some credit, I’ve been out for a 40th tonight and I’m absolutely c*nted!
Especially after telling Thursday’s date from here I was; a date which I’ve subsequently blown off on the basis of dreadful pics, a general smell of mentalness and and chronically low expectations.
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