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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them work to meet you, if they get impatient they just want to get their willy wet. If they’re prepared to wait - then it’s you they’re interested in. Plus the other 199 they’ve messaged!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Considering that all the mail I get is rejections then your latter argument is flawed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because I am absolutely stunning, look half my age and have the best photos on fab of course. Well that's what some of our mail says. Are you telling me they're saying it to 199 others too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can usually tell whether a message is a generic message or a message directed to you.

For example if they start talking about boots, Winnie the Pooh and gingers. They might have taken a liking to ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

go on...I need a shag

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By *dontknowMan
over a year ago

North Devon


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

I was going to mail you, but you’re 220 miles away?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

Sounds about right that ladybird.

Copy n paste was a gift from God to them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have test questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've answered your own question. That's pretty much fab. Most women understand that but some on here get swept away with the false attention and get addicted to it, but as you say the messages get sent to prwtty much all women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I must be cheap and only message guys under 100 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarly send a first message just chum the water with rolos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Considering that all the mail I get is rejections then your latter argument is flawed "

But did you mail them first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I am absolutely stunning, look half my age and have the best photos on fab of course. Well that's what some of our mail says. Are you telling me they're saying it to 199 others too? "

Only 198. They say I'm rough as a barge and look older than I say but they'll fuck me anyway cos they're nice like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Because I am absolutely stunning, look half my age and have the best photos on fab of course. Well that's what some of our mail says. Are you telling me they're saying it to 199 others too?

Only 198. They say I'm rough as a barge and look older than I say but they'll fuck me anyway cos they're nice like that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate those cut and paste messages..

Especially when they forget to change them to suit ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've answered your own question. That's pretty much fab. Most women understand that but some on here get swept away with the false attention and get addicted to it, but as you say the messages get sent to prwtty much all women. "

Oh crap I was hoping I was wrong. I just got a wink and my clit twitched so hard I fell into the pond.

You're right. I'll send the wedding dress back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate those cut and paste messages..

Especially when they forget to change them to suit .. "

Hi guys you're a really hot couple

Hey sexy I love all your pics

Your profile is amazing, I read it all

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

Unless a message contains something personal or shows they've actually read my profile. I judge all messages as exactly that.

The fact I've been sat, on more occasions than I can count with a group of friends & we've all recieved the same message, when not one of us have anything in common, physically, or written on our profiles, just emphasises the 'scattergun' approach alot of men apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

Gut instinct I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chat. It'll emerge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate those cut and paste messages..

Especially when they forget to change them to suit ..

Hi guys you're a really hot couple

Hey sexy I love all your pics

Your profile is amazing, I read it all

"

And the rest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have test questions "

Have you got a hair dryer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make them work for this piece of ass. The ones who don't really want it soon fuck off to pastures green or get bored waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were to bother messaging men first I'd adopt the scattergun approach and hope they don't all reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

You could possibly insert into your profile that they must title any messages with a specific word you’re currently thinking of.

If you’re sexually compatible and they really do wanna fuck you then they’ll know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies.

You could possibly insert into your profile that they must title any messages with a specific word you’re currently thinking of.

If you’re sexually compatible and they really do wanna fuck you then they’ll know."

I'm doing this.

Gonna get me some cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies.

You could possibly insert into your profile that they must title any messages with a specific word you’re currently thinking of.

If you’re sexually compatible and they really do wanna fuck you then they’ll know.

I'm doing this.

Gonna get me some cock. "

Why does such crudity make me laugh so...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies.

You could possibly insert into your profile that they must title any messages with a specific word you’re currently thinking of.

If you’re sexually compatible and they really do wanna fuck you then they’ll know.

I'm doing this.

Gonna get me some cock.

Why does such crudity make me laugh so... "

It didn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies.

You could possibly insert into your profile that they must title any messages with a specific word you’re currently thinking of.

If you’re sexually compatible and they really do wanna fuck you then they’ll know.

I'm doing this.

Gonna get me some cock.

Why does such crudity make me laugh so...

It didn't work. "

No cock?

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

I would say put yourself in a mans position on here if the ratio was the other way around I’m guessing women would do the same or some would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say put yourself in a mans position on here if the ratio was the other way around I’m guessing women would do the same or some would "

I dont buy that at all the whole ratio thing never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't.

Maybe I am just using them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you trying to say I was probably at the bottom of a very long list, of that lovely 25yo that messaged me earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont send mail.

unless its to say thanks for wink or something like that.

a man sending mail seems to be all some people moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all want me

Especially at between 1 & 4am when there's no one else logged in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On swinging and dating sites women have the luxury of sitting back and watching the emails roll in. I've even seen many profiles with no photos or description and still the messages roll in.

A man's experiences are usually completely different. They start out by crafting messages to the individual they are writing to but these are often deleted without reply. Over time men can lose heart and stop making the effort they once did as why spend so much time and effort to get little to nothing out. Hence the messages aren't great and can be cut and paste.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

Some do I was talking to a guy a while back and he openly admitted he mailed over 700 profiles a week with the hope 3-4 are interested.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Send them a questionnaire, to be sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

I only message those I "want".

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Do it the other way round, reply to every message, those that are weak and unimaginative soon Fall by the wayside

Those that stand the pace I meet and get them to shag me.

Never ending cock that way.

I should get an one or something- service to the community....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that the people that mail you actually want *you*?

Maybe they just mailed everyone online within 200 miles.

They fuck whoever replies. "

However many messages they send out, probably they still *want*.

The more important question is, do you want them?

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