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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...Do people just not read them anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly few do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Which is why I never (well rarely) send a first message. Reading I'm not what people are looking for helps stop me making a cock of myself even more than I do normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy an interesting profile... prefer witty/humorous to aggressive and blunt mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont i use forum banter to get to know people people lie about themselves on profiles much easier to read forumites

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"...Do people just not read them anymore?"

R U ok babe?

(Proves I’ve read it really. I’ve found that you have to explain humorous responses on here as they get too easily misinterpreted).

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We'd spent weeks talking to someone then arranging a social, the moment we mentioned no penetration they stopped contact. It clearly says it on the profile, along with soft swing.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"...Do people just not read them anymore?"

Obviously some don't, what have they said to you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This is a sex site, who needs reading!

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

We read profiles

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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago

Bexley/Buxton

We read them but getting the opinion a lot don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd spent weeks talking to someone then arranging a social, the moment we mentioned no penetration they stopped contact. It clearly says it on the profile, along with soft swing.

I get things like that all the time. It says on my profile that I’m not meeting people, and yet 97 of 100 messages will be along the lines of ‘when are you free?’

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Besides I have 15 trained monkeys that type all my responses for me

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some do,but not all

We get messages from couples wanting bi fems,I'm totally straight or from fbs where one is married etc.

Just wastes their own time ,as we delete when its obvious they didn't read.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re not meeting anyone, why don’t you hide your profile, or is that to easy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope plus I've stop looking at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you’re not meeting anyone, why don’t you hide your profile, or is that to easy ? "

Just because I’m not meeting doesn’t mean I won’t allow people to look at my pictures.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I love reading them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Do people just not read them anymore?"

Yes and I read yours after your post on another thread.

Was nice to see you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We'd spent weeks talking to someone then arranging a social, the moment we mentioned no penetration they stopped contact. It clearly says it on the profile, along with soft swing.

I get things like that all the time. It says on my profile that I’m not meeting people, and yet 97 of 100 messages will be along the lines of ‘when are you free?’ "

I'm extremely clear that I don't meet smokers/ vapers because I get sick when I do. (it's not at all personal) I get so many messages from smokers it's not even funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re not meeting anyone, why don’t you hide your profile, or is that to easy ?

Just because I’m not meeting doesn’t mean I won’t allow people to look at my pictures."

Ok, cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd spent weeks talking to someone then arranging a social, the moment we mentioned no penetration they stopped contact. It clearly says it on the profile, along with soft swing.

I get things like that all the time. It says on my profile that I’m not meeting people, and yet 97 of 100 messages will be along the lines of ‘when are you free?’

I'm extremely clear that I don't meet smokers/ vapers because I get sick when I do. (it's not at all personal) I get so many messages from smokers it's not even funny. "

The smell from the smoke and the taste in someone’s mouth? No thank you!

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

I read profiles to help decide if i want to message somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Removing men and couples from the looking for section will greatly reduce the amount of messages you receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a fact that men look at pictures women read text that’s just how it is

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" It’s a fact that men look at pictures women read text that’s just how it is "

Unfortunately literacy is up there, as a favourable trait, with hygiene for many.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I love reading them some are helerios. The local and the other update can be to. Both keep me in giggles on a slow nightshift

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some deffinatly do. Mine is pretty long but a fair few have made reference to various parts in their messages.

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By *appyWandererMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Intelligent people will, idiots however do not. Get them to put a phrase in the subject, that way you can instantly deleted those without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intelligent people will, idiots however do not. Get them to put a phrase in the subject, that way you can instantly deleted those without. "

Depends if you want someone compatible or a performing seal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read profiles!.... otherwise how do you know whether you have a starting point to being compatible?!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very few women's profiles I find readable. They are often lists of dont's or moaning about something.

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By *yvanwy black wild childTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I read someone's profile but I hardly ever send the 1st message

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"...Do people just not read them anymore?"

Someone read mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get attracted by the profile picture but before either winking or messaging; i always read the profile to see if i may be compatible.

Pete xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% don'tint read mine. So I delete. They can't take the time to learn a little about me then I'm not interested in them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do to be fair but the majority don't but then its a good first filter isn't it.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"We'd spent weeks talking to someone then arranging a social, the moment we mentioned no penetration they stopped contact. It clearly says it on the profile, along with soft swing.

I get things like that all the time. It says on my profile that I’m not meeting people, and yet 97 of 100 messages will be along the lines of ‘when are you free?’ "

You still have all your 'looking for' ticked, which means your profile appears in searches made by everyone within your filters... Remove these and you won't get as many.

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