FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles and descriptions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap...

What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see?

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally I feel that cock pics are all well and good, but if the first message sent is a cock pic followed by more cock pics at various angles, it's a huge turnoff for both Master and myself. A face pic isn't necessarily expected on the first message, but if all that's sent is a few cock pics with the message "Do you like big dick?" or something equally asinine, it's going to get ignored.

The biggest pet peeve I personally have is not so much about cock pics, but rather men who message us and totally ignore Master, addressing their message to me. It shows that they haven't actually read our profile and if they have, they don't respect my collar.

~ Kitten =^.^=

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Nobody gives a shit about the profiles mate.

The girls certainly never search through them, and they also know that not actually writing one themselves will not largely change their experience of the site.

Even with a shit profile and profile pictures I stole from the Dad’s Army Facebook page I managed to smash a lot of Milf in my first few weeks here.

I got bored of it pretty quickly though, so now I don’t bother messaging anyone. I sit off, wait for them to come to me, but mainly delete their messages or ignore them because they don’t use my secret word, attach face pics or fit my very stringent criteria. Though obviously I never mention any of these things in the text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only moan about all the dick pics when men ask for profile advice..

If you dont like the answer don't ask the question

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

"We only moan about all the dick pics when men ask for profile advice..

If you dont like the answer don't ask the question

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no right or wrong general answer - for some a short and brief profile with limited pics might work, for others a long and detailed one wouldn't.

There's also a vast difference between what ladies can post and still get attention and what guys need to do to stand out. That's just the sheer numbers game of the site at play and there's nothing can be done about it other than guys putting the effort in and making their profile as appealing as possible.

For me (regardless of men, women, couples etc) a well thought out profile that has interesting and inviting text that piques my interest is key, and probably more important than pictures - I certainly don't need to see pictures of anyone naked to find an attraction. Yes to see well thought out pictures that are teasing and sensual is a plus but not absolutely essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message, I say don't, it's very rare I do.

I may be viewed as a stalker for viewing profiles and sometimes the same one more than once.

This is only because I like what I see, but I still won't message.

Just feel that it's a no win situation with most so for the best

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Ah the old profile debate.

The problem here, is everyone is different. What one person may find attractive, another may hate.

So no one will ever have a perfect profile.

Personally I don't like cock pics, those close up taken from 20 different angle shots. I'm intrested on the person, if they attract me, what they're cock looks like isn't really an issue.

I also, on single mens profiles dislike action shots with multiple females. Yes I know he's having sex, but I don't want to see an encyclopedia of every woman & every position he's tried.

It just shows lack of class IMO

Either of those would be an instant delete if thst person messaged me

But saying that, I've met some very charming men at socials & clubs, chatted, arranged to meet up at another date, then checked their profile & seem everything I detest.

I've also met men at such events, who's profiles I've previously looked at and thought "oooh very nice" and they've turned out to be complete twunts

Guess profiles can be misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We only moan about all the dick pics when men ask for profile advice..

If you dont like the answer don't ask the question

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah the old profile debate.

The problem here, is everyone is different. What one person may find attractive, another may hate.

So no one will ever have a perfect profile.

Personally I don't like cock pics, those close up taken from 20 different angle shots. I'm intrested on the person, if they attract me, what they're cock looks like isn't really an issue.

I also, on single mens profiles dislike action shots with multiple females. Yes I know he's having sex, but I don't want to see an encyclopedia of every woman & every position he's tried.

It just shows lack of class IMO

Either of those would be an instant delete if thst person messaged me

But saying that, I've met some very charming men at socials & clubs, chatted, arranged to meet up at another date, then checked their profile & seem everything I detest.

I've also met men at such events, who's profiles I've previously looked at and thought "oooh very nice" and they've turned out to be complete twunts

Guess profiles can be misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women both have good and bad profiles.

Just find one that you like and go for it and avoid the ones you don't

It's really not that hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap...

What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see?

Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message.

Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me.

I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same.

Minr may well be full of ‘trashy lingerie and crap information’ you can make up their own mind about that, but what it does do is represent me. You’ll know a bit about who I am if you read it. That’s what I like to see on a male profile. Add a few sexy but tasteful pics and maybe a cock pic too and that’s perfect

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

It’s been said before.. what works for some doesn’t work for others

Profiles are a subjective thing.

I’m not too bothered about whether there are loads of pictures or not on the profile. My preference is for something to be well written and make sense without having to try and decipher or translate.

I might just be a bit biased but I think I have the perfect profile for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see?

Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message.

Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me.

I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same.

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By *uriousGuy1234200Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Is this an impossible question to answer completely?

Individuals preferences are subjective and based upon what they want, need or like as an individual.

Maybe we shouldn't get too hung up on the subject of profiles. Just put info and pictures that you believe represent you and what you are looking for and see what happens.

BTW any opinions on mine??

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Personally I feel that cock pics are all well and good, but if the first message sent is a cock pic followed by more cock pics at various angles, it's a huge turnoff for both Master and myself. A face pic isn't necessarily expected on the first message, but if all that's sent is a few cock pics with the message "Do you like big dick?" or something equally asinine, it's going to get ignored.

~ Kitten =^.^="

Do you think it may have a smidge to do with he fact you have no picture's of said master?. Just throwing it out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really lose patience with all the entitled pushy women who message me have no pics and expect me to have sex with them there and then

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you think it may have a smidge to do with he fact you have no picture's of said master?. Just throwing it out there

We do have pics of both him on his own and us as a couple in our private gallery. It's his choice that it's set up that way

.We do cam shows about once a week and he does get on cam with me, so if anyone has seen those, they know he exists and what he looks like.

I think my biggest pet peeve is that many of these men (and women...and couples...) claim to be knowledgeable about BDSM and I clearly wear a locked steel collar in the pictures on our profile (as well as the fact that we state we're in a M/s relationship)...so anyone with actual knowledge of protocol would know to not address the sub directly. If someone isn't claiming to be familiar with BDSM protocol that is one thing, but if you're messaging claiming to be a Dom/sub/switch/etc. and have no clue about protocol or choose to ignore it that doesn't cast you in a great light.

~ Kitten =^.^=

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure why a profile which doesn't have anatomically detailed photos is bad. I don't want nude pictures of myself in public, but I'm sure people get enough of an idea from my pictures and verifications. Just because some guys might want them (or think their own profiles are the bee's knees with 80 near identical cock shots), doesn't mean that they're required.

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm not sure why a profile which doesn't have anatomically detailed photos is bad. I don't want nude pictures of myself in public, but I'm sure people get enough of an idea from my pictures and verifications. Just because some guys might want them (or think their own profiles are the bee's knees with 80 near identical cock shots), doesn't mean that they're required. "

What really makes me facepalm is when they complain about others who have shots that don't show their face but they have absolutely nothing but cock pics...no body shots even with their heads cropped off...just cock pics. ALLLL the cock pics.

~ Kitten =^.^=

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

~ Kitten =^.^="

The one that makes me laugh is "I can't show my face, so all I have to show is my cock!"

You might be a medical miracle, sir, if your body is nothing but a face and a penis, but not one I'd like to shag...

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"The one that makes me laugh is "I can't show my face, so all I have to show is my cock!"

You might be a medical miracle, sir, if your body is nothing but a face and a penis, but not one I'd like to shag... "

THIS TOO! OMG. And generally all the pictures are extreme close-ups at various angles xD

~ Kitten =^.^=

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in summary ladies get yer tits and pussies out because that is what we want to see, and cut the crap listing all sorts of nonsense. Answer the messages and don't block everybody, and communicate and meet up instead of messing about....done.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"So in summary ladies get yer tits and pussies out because that is what we want to see, and cut the crap listing all sorts of nonsense. Answer the messages and don't block everybody, and communicate and meet up instead of messing about....done.

Sorry. I don't have a single good reason to.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see?

Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message.

Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me.

I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see?

I don't think there is a problem with single male profiles after all its an expression of the person behind it and the way people get an idea what they are like. The problem is with guys with poor profiles actually expecting people to take an interest in them never mind meet them that frustrates and annoys people.

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

In the years I've been on here u have tried a few different approaches...I tried a long detailed profile, that didn't work, I tried a short one, that didn't work, I've tried lots of different photos, some naked, some in uniform, some in normal clothing. None of that worked. I've read people's profile and tried to send a message about that . That didn't work either. With out a beard, didn't work, with a beard, didn't work. So now I don't care. I'm not part of the in crowd, and truthful I don't want to be part of the in crowd. I'm me, I'm a individual and what you see is what you get. You don't like it, hay that's your problem not mine. I'm now at that point where IL just come in and look, very rarely IL send a message to anyone. Cos I know I won't get a response. And anyway I'm doing ok away from this site.

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By *exyajmalMan
over a year ago

oxford

Same like the previous member

I have been here for the past one year but I didn't get any single meetup with the girls. I moved from Denmark and I did lot of sexual activities over there but not in UK. Mostly guys contacting me than girls

Genuinely I don't have any idea why ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years.

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years.

Probably not, cos if your not with the in crowd, you probably never will be .good luck anyway

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years.

Probably not, cos if your not with the in crowd, you probably never will be .good luck anyway"

It has nothing at all to do with being in with the 'in' crowd at all - it comes down to a number of factors:

Gender imbalance - a lot is made of this, and it's true there are a heck of a lot more men than women here (estimates range from 10:1 to 100:1) so that does make things tougher for single guys to find meets on here - BUT I actually believe if you take out those single guys with the wrong approach and attitude to the site then the numbers are a lot more evenly balanced, although still weighted in favour of women.

Approach and attitude - these are key, and where a lot of single guys get it wrong, so many make the mistake of thinking all they have to do is join the site to be guaranteed meets - which couldn't be further from the truth. You have to make an effort to stand out, have to get involved and present yourself in the right way and not have high expectations or a sense of entitlement.

Profile and pics - all too often these are written off as not being important - but as they are often the first thing people look at, and their only way to get an idea of the sort of person behind the profile, they're incredibly key - if you want to be seen as just a couple of lines of text and a cock pic or two then that is how you will be seen if you post them - if you want to show you've made an effort and thought about how you want to present yourself then surely that has to be a positive? Now finding the magic formula for you isn't always easy, but coming up with more than a couple of generic lines is surely worth it if it's going to improve your chances, even if it guarantees nothing.

There are other things too, but those are the key ones, and the "in" crowd doesn't come into any of them - in fact I'd question what the "in" crowd is anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years.

It might it might not.

Not everyone likes the same things, some women don’t like a bunch of cock pictures, some do.

Not everyone is going to be interested in you, and even changing your profile to suit the majority won’t guarantee you’ll be successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody gives a shit about the profiles mate.

The girls certainly never search through them, and they also know that not actually writing one themselves will not largely change their experience of the site.

Even with a shit profile and profile pictures I stole from the Dad’s Army Facebook page I managed to smash a lot of Milf in my first few weeks here.

You win the Fab Game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is perfect but as i never read others i dont expect people to read mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?"

Not for me they don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?"

Essential as so many block you on the first message or don't reply. We have to see something or there is no point being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?

Essential as so many block you on the first message or don't reply. We have to see something or there is no point being here."

Well I never message first so I am safe

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Nah mate, in summary if your a complete bellend then have 32 pics of your dick on your profile like a bad panorama with the obligatory "fill in later" line then come on the forums and whinge "i cant get a meet" or "why do i only get messages off guys" (it might be because the one and only pic that isnt your cock but of your gaping hairy arsehole complete with sweat beads). Job done.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There no right or wrong answer here. As someone already said, what one person will like to see in a profile another will have. Recently I asked for a bit of advice on mine. Was informed to start it again, have a little piece about myself, then a piece about what I'm looking for. So did that. Same people that advised me to do so said it was full of "superfluous information" so thwre is no win. Imo what i jave currently is fine. It's certainly not led to any more interest. That's for certain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men don't read profiles anyway, mine states what I don't want but that don't stop men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're welcome

What a fucking wanker.

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