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"We only moan about all the dick pics when men ask for profile advice.. If you dont like the answer don't ask the question " | |||
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"We only moan about all the dick pics when men ask for profile advice.. If you dont like the answer don't ask the question " This | |||
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"Ah the old profile debate. The problem here, is everyone is different. What one person may find attractive, another may hate. So no one will ever have a perfect profile. Personally I don't like cock pics, those close up taken from 20 different angle shots. I'm intrested on the person, if they attract me, what they're cock looks like isn't really an issue. I also, on single mens profiles dislike action shots with multiple females. Yes I know he's having sex, but I don't want to see an encyclopedia of every woman & every position he's tried. It just shows lack of class IMO Either of those would be an instant delete if thst person messaged me But saying that, I've met some very charming men at socials & clubs, chatted, arranged to meet up at another date, then checked their profile & seem everything I detest. I've also met men at such events, who's profiles I've previously looked at and thought "oooh very nice" and they've turned out to be complete twunts Guess profiles can be misleading " | |||
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"I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap... What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see? " Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message. Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me. I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same. Minr may well be full of ‘trashy lingerie and crap information’ you can make up their own mind about that, but what it does do is represent me. You’ll know a bit about who I am if you read it. That’s what I like to see on a male profile. Add a few sexy but tasteful pics and maybe a cock pic too and that’s perfect | |||
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"I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap... What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see? Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message. Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me. I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same. Minr may well be full of ‘trashy lingerie and crap information’ you can make up their own mind about that, but what it does do is represent me. You’ll know a bit about who I am if you read it. That’s what I like to see on a male profile. Add a few sexy but tasteful pics and maybe a cock pic too and that’s perfect " | |||
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"Personally I feel that cock pics are all well and good, but if the first message sent is a cock pic followed by more cock pics at various angles, it's a huge turnoff for both Master and myself. A face pic isn't necessarily expected on the first message, but if all that's sent is a few cock pics with the message "Do you like big dick?" or something equally asinine, it's going to get ignored. The biggest pet peeve I personally have is not so much about cock pics, but rather men who message us and totally ignore Master, addressing their message to me. It shows that they haven't actually read our profile and if they have, they don't respect my collar. ~ Kitten =^.^=" Do you think it may have a smidge to do with he fact you have no picture's of said master?. Just throwing it out there | |||
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"Do you think it may have a smidge to do with he fact you have no picture's of said master?. Just throwing it out there " We do have pics of both him on his own and us as a couple in our private gallery. It's his choice that it's set up that way .We do cam shows about once a week and he does get on cam with me, so if anyone has seen those, they know he exists and what he looks like. I think my biggest pet peeve is that many of these men (and women...and couples...) claim to be knowledgeable about BDSM and I clearly wear a locked steel collar in the pictures on our profile (as well as the fact that we state we're in a M/s relationship)...so anyone with actual knowledge of protocol would know to not address the sub directly. If someone isn't claiming to be familiar with BDSM protocol that is one thing, but if you're messaging claiming to be a Dom/sub/switch/etc. and have no clue about protocol or choose to ignore it that doesn't cast you in a great light. ~ Kitten =^.^= | |||
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"I'm not sure why a profile which doesn't have anatomically detailed photos is bad. I don't want nude pictures of myself in public, but I'm sure people get enough of an idea from my pictures and verifications. Just because some guys might want them (or think their own profiles are the bee's knees with 80 near identical cock shots), doesn't mean that they're required. " What really makes me facepalm is when they complain about others who have shots that don't show their face but they have absolutely nothing but cock pics...no body shots even with their heads cropped off...just cock pics. ALLLL the cock pics. ~ Kitten =^.^= | |||
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"I'm not sure why a profile which doesn't have anatomically detailed photos is bad. I don't want nude pictures of myself in public, but I'm sure people get enough of an idea from my pictures and verifications. Just because some guys might want them (or think their own profiles are the bee's knees with 80 near identical cock shots), doesn't mean that they're required. What really makes me facepalm is when they complain about others who have shots that don't show their face but they have absolutely nothing but cock pics...no body shots even with their heads cropped off...just cock pics. ALLLL the cock pics. ~ Kitten =^.^=" The one that makes me laugh is "I can't show my face, so all I have to show is my cock!" You might be a medical miracle, sir, if your body is nothing but a face and a penis, but not one I'd like to shag... | |||
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"The one that makes me laugh is "I can't show my face, so all I have to show is my cock!" You might be a medical miracle, sir, if your body is nothing but a face and a penis, but not one I'd like to shag... " THIS TOO! OMG. And generally all the pictures are extreme close-ups at various angles xD ~ Kitten =^.^= | |||
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"So in summary ladies get yer tits and pussies out because that is what we want to see, and cut the crap listing all sorts of nonsense. Answer the messages and don't block everybody, and communicate and meet up instead of messing about....done. " Sorry. I don't have a single good reason to. | |||
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"I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap... What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see? Personal opinion- one cock pic is enough, I’d rather it wasn’t your avatar or attached to a first message. Also I do read mend profiles and yes they matter to me. I have taken the time to complete my profile fully, and appreciate it when men do the same. Minr may well be full of ‘trashy lingerie and crap information’ you can make up their own mind about that, but what it does do is represent me. You’ll know a bit about who I am if you read it. That’s what I like to see on a male profile. Add a few sexy but tasteful pics and maybe a cock pic too and that’s perfect " Miss | |||
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"I note a lot of women and couples moan about the profiles that single guys have. Saying too many cock pics (how else would you see it) and a basic profile just saying what someone wants (well that is the idea). But, I have to say that there are some terrible women profiles out there. No pussy or tit pics, blurred pics with rubbish trashy lingerie on and an essay of information crap... What is a good profile for a guy and a woman wanting some simple meets? Discuss..what do you want to read and see? " I don't think there is a problem with single male profiles after all its an expression of the person behind it and the way people get an idea what they are like. The problem is with guys with poor profiles actually expecting people to take an interest in them never mind meet them that frustrates and annoys people. | |||
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"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years. " Probably not, cos if your not with the in crowd, you probably never will be .good luck anyway | |||
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"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years. Probably not, cos if your not with the in crowd, you probably never will be .good luck anyway" It has nothing at all to do with being in with the 'in' crowd at all - it comes down to a number of factors: Gender imbalance - a lot is made of this, and it's true there are a heck of a lot more men than women here (estimates range from 10:1 to 100:1) so that does make things tougher for single guys to find meets on here - BUT I actually believe if you take out those single guys with the wrong approach and attitude to the site then the numbers are a lot more evenly balanced, although still weighted in favour of women. Approach and attitude - these are key, and where a lot of single guys get it wrong, so many make the mistake of thinking all they have to do is join the site to be guaranteed meets - which couldn't be further from the truth. You have to make an effort to stand out, have to get involved and present yourself in the right way and not have high expectations or a sense of entitlement. Profile and pics - all too often these are written off as not being important - but as they are often the first thing people look at, and their only way to get an idea of the sort of person behind the profile, they're incredibly key - if you want to be seen as just a couple of lines of text and a cock pic or two then that is how you will be seen if you post them - if you want to show you've made an effort and thought about how you want to present yourself then surely that has to be a positive? Now finding the magic formula for you isn't always easy, but coming up with more than a couple of generic lines is surely worth it if it's going to improve your chances, even if it guarantees nothing. There are other things too, but those are the key ones, and the "in" crowd doesn't come into any of them - in fact I'd question what the "in" crowd is anyway? | |||
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"I have less cock picks on view and a profile pic without a cock on it (happy now ladies) hahahaha wonder if that will improve chances after five years. " It might it might not. Not everyone likes the same things, some women don’t like a bunch of cock pictures, some do. Not everyone is going to be interested in you, and even changing your profile to suit the majority won’t guarantee you’ll be successful. | |||
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"Nobody gives a shit about the profiles mate. The girls certainly never search through them, and they also know that not actually writing one themselves will not largely change their experience of the site. Even with a shit profile and profile pictures I stole from the Dad’s Army Facebook page I managed to smash a lot of Milf in my first few weeks here. I got bored of it pretty quickly though, so now I don’t bother messaging anyone. I sit off, wait for them to come to me, but mainly delete their messages or ignore them because they don’t use my secret word, attach face pics or fit my very stringent criteria. Though obviously I never mention any of these things in the text. " You win the Fab Game. | |||
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"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?" Not for me they don't | |||
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"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile?" Essential as so many block you on the first message or don't reply. We have to see something or there is no point being here. | |||
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"Do women need to have pussy or tit pics in their profile? Essential as so many block you on the first message or don't reply. We have to see something or there is no point being here." Well I never message first so I am safe | |||
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"So in summary ladies get yer tits and pussies out because that is what we want to see, and cut the crap listing all sorts of nonsense. Answer the messages and don't block everybody, and communicate and meet up instead of messing about....done. " Nah mate, in summary if your a complete bellend then have 32 pics of your dick on your profile like a bad panorama with the obligatory "fill in later" line then come on the forums and whinge "i cant get a meet" or "why do i only get messages off guys" (it might be because the one and only pic that isnt your cock but of your gaping hairy arsehole complete with sweat beads). Job done. You're welcome | |||
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"So in summary ladies get yer tits and pussies out because that is what we want to see, and cut the crap listing all sorts of nonsense. Answer the messages and don't block everybody, and communicate and meet up instead of messing about....done. Nah mate, in summary if your a complete bellend then have 32 pics of your dick on your profile like a bad panorama with the obligatory "fill in later" line then come on the forums and whinge "i cant get a meet" or "why do i only get messages off guys" (it might be because the one and only pic that isnt your cock but of your gaping hairy arsehole complete with sweat beads). Job done. You're welcome " What a fucking wanker. | |||
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