FabSwingers.com forum: Quick morality check/karmic effect

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hypothetical situation here plus I'm asking for a friend. She had a boyfriend as a teenager who has since grown into a very handsome 37 year old man. He has a partner and a child (must be honest) Said man wants to fuck my friends brains out for old times sake, they've already fucked a few times over the years as adults but during periods where they were both single. Would my friend get bad karma if she fucked him again, doesn't want him in her life or to be his wife and steal him from his family, just a familiar fuck.

If it's a majority no, it's horrible, she'd get bad karma, I'll tell her not to and she will listen to me.

Thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

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Nah too complicated. Leave it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regardless of past times he’s not single so she should leave him be. X

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry"

Read it again.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

It's a no...leave it in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypothetical situation for a friend

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry"

No she didn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask a forum and vote on the issue, Shouldn’t that be left to your friend to decide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's that age old question... which is cheating? The wanting and arranging to fuck another woman in secret? Or the actual doing it? And if it's the latter how much worse is the doing it than the orchestrating to do it? Dunno

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, it's wrong, end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ask a forum and vote on the issue, Shouldn’t that be left to your friend to decide? "

Because it's a hypothetical situation for a friend

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Yes she would get bad karma, it's definitely not worth doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ask a forum and vote on the issue, Shouldn’t that be left to your friend to decide?

Because it's a hypothetical situation for a friend

I know exactly what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. How would she feel if some other woman was fucking her man just for old time's sake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in Karma. It may bite her on the arse, further down the line. I'm sure she can find others to fuck. It may not be a familiar one, but she can get her itch scratched, without resorting to fucking him. The potential for repercussions are not worth a few hours of shagging, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe in Karma. It may bite her on the arse, further down the line. I'm sure she can find others to fuck. It may not be a familiar one, but she can get her itch scratched, without resorting to fucking him. The potential for repercussions are not worth a few hours of shagging, in my opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

Read it again. "

Trust me, he still won’t understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically no she shouldn't go there.

However. They do seem to be two souls trying to connect over years. The question she has to ask it us just sex he is wanting or more.

Sex = no he is being a cheating pig!

More = then perhaps the souls are meant to be together.

Does make it easy? Hell no. There are others involved.

But it might be that they are meant to be with each other and if so they could work it out.

What does she want - a relationship? Does she want a relationship with him? Does he with her?. They are the important questions.

Sex is off the table either way.

Mistress Amelia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

Read it again.

Trust me, he still won’t understand. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama. "

Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.

Ah, you get the idea with that.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

This one definitely has a posterior bighting outcome if she goes ahead with it.... and it's not as if she doesn't know what he's like to fuck since they both became adults. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her it's wrong and to console herself she should come and fuck my brains out instead..

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama.

Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.

Ah, you get the idea with that. "

Yep, getting the drift.

A big fat nope to being selfish and I hope karma does bite her in the arse if she runs with it.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

" Why would she even go there? Too much potential for drama.

Drama is her middle name, she puts two fingers up in the face of drama. We need oxygen, she needs drama. Her Favorite Erasure single is ‘Drama’.

Ah, you get the idea with that. "

There are many ways of getting drama, they don't need to involve hurting somebody else.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Hell no. Why are you even asking?. For a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe adults make choices based on whether it’s going to be good / bad karma.

It’s really nothing to do with karma or anyone else what she chooses to do. You can give her an informed opinion and let her decide, she probably already knows in her mind regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does fucking the brain out of someone mean pounding it through the earhole ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me just go off and talk with god. I'll get back to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

Read it again. "

Oops

urm er hmmm er oops sorry i never read it propperly as per fucking usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

Read it again.

Trust me, he still won’t understand. "

I just had a phone call to fix my brain

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Nah she shouldn't do it. The sex gods will strike down on her with furious anger, she'll get a nasty coleslaw and eventually her clit will fall off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She already knows it's the wrong thing to do.

If they get found out he has ruined his relationship, just for a fuck.

Is she ok with that and would he fuck someone else if she doesn't fuck him.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Don't touch him with a bargepole

A quick shag is not worth the potential hurt and fallout it could cause ,to the blokes partner and kids if he has them.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im confused you said he wants to fuck ur brains out then your friend im lost sorry

Read it again.

Trust me, he still won’t understand.

I just had a phone call to fix my brain

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Hmmmm.....give me a minute, I’ll give Sean Walsh a ring to ask his advice on the issue....

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I lost you at "friend"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like there are feelings investors loved between them, not just sex. If they are both wanting to then the likelihood is that they probably will, but they need to be aware of the repurcussions if they get caught.

I don't however believe in karma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sounds like there are feelings investors loved between them, not just sex. If they are both wanting to then the likelihood is that they probably will, but they need to be aware of the repurcussions if they get caught.

I don't however believe in karma."

*feelings involved between them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Karma only exists in the sense that essentially good people are negatively affected when they intentionally cause harm to other people. If she's essentially good she will feel bad, if she isn't, she won't

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Hypothetical situation here plus I'm asking for a friend. She had a boyfriend as a teenager who has since grown into a very handsome 37 year old man. He has a partner and a child (must be honest) Said man wants to fuck my friends brains out for old times sake, they've already fucked a few times over the years as adults but during periods where they were both single. Would my friend get bad karma if she fucked him again, doesn't want him in her life or to be his wife and steal him from his family, just a familiar fuck.

If it's a majority no, it's horrible, she'd get bad karma, I'll tell her not to and she will listen to me.

Thoughts..."

Karma does not exist

Morality however does as does a child

If the man in question no longer loves his gf or child then leave them both and fuck away

However if he is worth any salt as a father and the relationship has potential and the gf would not be consenting then it's a very bad idea and statistically very likey to end with a sad child

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Both women are not to be blame, he is willingly choosing to have sex with her "your friend".

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It clearly wouldn't be a one off would it? There's history there. You don't build up all that tension to fuck once to release it.

So no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I doubt bad karma will effect her but nothing good will come of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked. Adultery is the sin apparently. But rimming is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in karma, but there may be consequences to her actions.

Surely her own conscience can guide her decision making process.

Why would our views have any impact on her decision?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one else can tell you where your morals should stand, that's a personal sliding scale for every individual to judge for themselves.

If your friend can sleep soundly at night knowing she shagged a married guy then she should...if it will wrack her with guilt and make her judge her actions then she shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for old times sake.

what a lovely way to put it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"for old times sake.

what a lovely way to put it.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.

He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...

What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.

He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...

What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..

He'll be fine as long as he doesn't plug it in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.

He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...

What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His poor family.

She should stay well away from him. He sounds like a cunt and she needs to give her head a serious wobble for even contemporary this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.

He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...

What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..

I think that sounds like a fabulous idea

whilst he’s at it he can have a wet shave with an electric razor whilst having a bath....

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"My friend has just mentioned it’s starting to get a little chilly but he is too mean to put the heating on.

He’s just asked if he should take his old two bar electric fire into the bathroom with him...

What does the forum think? I’ll let him know the answer..

Electric fire....bathroom....does he intend to drop it into the bath and end it all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both women are not to be blame, he is willingly choosing to have sex with her "your friend".

How can you say the woman who participates in the extra marital sex isn’t partly to blame? she knows the score...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"His poor family.

She should stay well away from him. She sounds like a cunt and she needs to give her head a serious wobble for even contemporary this. "

FIFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His poor family.

She should stay well away from him. She sounds like a cunt and she needs to give her head a serious wobble for even contemporary this.

FIFY"

I agree. Two cunts. Hope his wife and kid all the best because they do not deserve to be stuck with a slimy prick like him.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No,no and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yazoo?!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think it's bad that she puts her selfish needs before that on an inosent other woman and their relationship. Now if the guy wanted to fuck to that is his problem and that of their relationship. She can't protect that woman from hurt if he cheats with another but at least she's not made her self part on the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yazoo?!"

You wrote nesquik the first time didn’t you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yazoo?!

You wrote nesquik the first time didn’t you!! "

No damn autocorrect turned it to Yahoo!!

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By *andydave28Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

Oh no she didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant chicken korma - John Lennon

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By *andydave28Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

Oh no she didn't and oh no she shouldn't

Love a pantomime nearly the season too

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think your friend should cut all contact with him. Old times are in the past and his future lies with his wife and child.

I know things aren't always as straight forward as that, but unless your friend is wanting the two of them to build a future of their own and potentially be known as a homewrecker then I would advise her to think about the wife and child rather than herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I believe in karma...

...but no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't however believe in karma."

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Oh and the karma thing... yes. I do believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fat no.

"The past is a different country, they do things differently there"

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

karma karma karma karma chameleon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"karma karma karma karma chameleon

You cum and go, you cum and go..ooooh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've told her it's not a good thing to do. Think it was just because she saw him yesterday and he asked her when he could fuck her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say guilty dunno why but its what my brain said i should say

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I've told her it's not a good thing to do. Think it was just because she saw him yesterday and he asked her when he could fuck her again. "

Good call, bloke sounds like one to avoid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"karma karma karma karma chameleon

You cum and go, you cum and go..ooooh"

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