FabSwingers.com forum: Racial limitations : how do they make you feel?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering, when you view a profile that states 'no asians / blacks/ etc' or 'white only' or 'blacks only', how does that make you feel?

Is it really truly 'personal preference' or is there some underlying prejudice?

Your thoughts appreciated.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

My opinion is they are entitled to their preference and reading it never offends me as I give them the benefit of doubt

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Tin hats at the ready !!!

I think anyone can request a preference for whoever they want in their vag or hanging off the end of their cock. Best to know up front than waste time if one isn't their thing

Doesn't bother me in the slightest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering, when you view a profile that states 'no asians / blacks/ etc' or 'white only' or 'blacks only', how does that make you feel?

Is it really truly 'personal preference' or is there some underlying prejudice?

Your thoughts appreciated."
This is a regular question here and I'm not one to get bored but it does and is really quite boring, just think of it like this their are people you aren't attracted to and people they aren't attracted to and it's no less or more than that.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I don’t care to be honest. I don’t take it as a personal issue people like what they want and if I am outside those preferences there is nothing I can do about it anyway.

It’s when the preference manifests as something else where I take issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means that if I message. I’m going to get nowhere. No point in wasting my own time.

If that’s not what they’re looking for, then I can’t do much about it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Just wondering, when you view a profile that states 'no asians / blacks/ etc' or 'white only' or 'blacks only', how does that make you feel?

Is it really truly 'personal preference' or is there some underlying prejudice?

Yup. Next question!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It doesn't bother me in the slightest whether I'm in the range they are looking for or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering, when you view a profile that states 'no asians / blacks/ etc' or 'white only' or 'blacks only', how does that make you feel?

Is it really truly 'personal preference' or is there some underlying prejudice?

Your thoughts appreciated."

Add to that make profiles saying no men does that make them homophobic? For me it doesn't and it leaves a bitter taste for me when people are asked to justify their preferences for whom they are attracted to.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Like every preference, it depends how it’s worded. For example, if someone who prefers slim people stated no fatties on their profile it could be seen as offensive. In the same way, stating no blacks/Asians could be seen as offensive. Saying something along the lines of I prefer to meet Caucasian people or I prefer to meet slim people is ok in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering, when you view a profile that states 'no asians / blacks/ etc' or 'white only' or 'blacks only', how does that make you feel?

Is it really truly 'personal preference' or is there some underlying prejudice?

Your thoughts appreciated.

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