FabSwingers.com forum: Are you normal ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does this site encourage normal behaviour ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am as normal as normal can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im normal

Its everyone else thats not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

I reject your reality and substitute my own

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

How do you mean, normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try to stay who i am.

not a lot of people like my humour but in person they would see me smiling.

i enjoy the forums and the people i exchange opinions with and that i guess is why im here.

to learn what i can about other people.

and improve myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define normal.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Does this site encourage normal behaviour ? "

No it doesn't. And no I'm not, thank goodness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is normal xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Define normal."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants normal? I'm not here for normal!

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'd say I'm averagely weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a thing??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My opinion .....you can get lost in this site which means everthing and nothing

The true reality of a normal person is totally lost

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

No, and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's normal to one person not to another , I am normal to me , others may totally disagree I don't really care

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By *esus H ChristMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Far from it.....

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

God no. I'm crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no normal as we are all individuals. There is a collective normal which has rules ie ticked box identity. Then there is a social and cultural normal which we may or may not force ourselves into. Does that answer the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hear the social side argument all the time ....but it all boils down chasing pussy / dick

I don’t see genuality from people ....it all about their own gratification

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I do hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pahahahahaahhahahahahahaahahahahaahahaahahaahahahhahahahahahahahaah yup we're totally normal, honest!

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Normal to me;

Heels no less than 3 “

Skirt must be at least above the knee preferably much shorter

Boobs no less than EE

Hair must be long

Make up sensible, not widow twankie

And every guy is a target

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

I'm unique....thank God there's only 1 of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this site encourage normal behaviour ? "

Meh, the term "Normal" in this context is well overrated

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Who wants to be normal when you can be fucking AWESOME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

normal

what is that ?

a word whose meaning is different to everyone

it includes and excludes

everything that is different should change

to become normal

therefore we strive to be different

better, richer, more beautiful, individual

different, not like others

in a word, normal

because if we are all equal nobody is special any more

but, if everyone is special, then everyone is equal

we want to be special, but treated normally

we want to love and be loved

we want to live

health, comfort, happiness and at least one smile each day

and everyone else ?

they want it too

but what we want is right

what they want is void

what we want is normal

what they want does not matter

although we are normal, the others are outsiders

grid, model, plan, that is what we created

those who don't fit must change

that is why we create boundaries

because who wants another human among us humans ?

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normal

what is that ?

a word that laughs at the question 'is it the human or the norm that is faulty?'

through individual use 'normal' becomes the definition for everything

however, normality is created through differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm normally out on the edge..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so thought this was going to be a somewhat niche thread about Ned's Atomic Dustbin's second album!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what normal is. I'm aware that I;m not like most people though, not sure whether I'm the odd one or the others are

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Am I fuck what is normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the clear message is those individuals who are adamant they are different

....sorry your not ...your still chasing the same thing but with different masks ....this is your Norm,

my other question is why is the behaviour on this site normal and acceptable ?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Normal is very overrated.

It's not something I aspire to.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Normally I'm quite normal but only on the normal things, outside of that I'm Definately ab-normal, with a bit of para-normal thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think I'm normal, don't all men want two women in their bed playing with each other while he fucks what ever hole he wants too?

Completely normal, me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd like to think I'm normal, don't all men want two women in their bed playing with each other while he fucks what ever hole he wants too?

Completely normal, me!

Finally.........this

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Normal is over rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who wants to be normal when you can be fucking AWESOME

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bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to think I'm normal, don't all men want two women in their bed playing with each other while he fucks what ever hole he wants too?

Completely normal, me!

Finally.........this "

Absolutely normal, me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion .....you can get lost in this site which means everthing and nothing

The true reality of a normal person is totally lost

I genuinely have no idea what normal means. I find that the people who I have met who consider themselves normal are utterly bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ned’s Atomic Dustbin

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this site encourage normal behaviour ? "

By my definition of what I consider to be normal behaviour, some is and some is waaaaay off the mark.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Normal is subjective.

The definition of the term varies greatly depending on each individuals perception of what normal is.

One person may believe something to be normal when it is in fact considerably irrational.

Who first defined what 'normal' was?

Who decides what it is now?

How do we know that these definitions are in fact normal at all?

Where did the word normal come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm normal.

Really!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm definitely not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ned’s Atomic Dustbin"

My serious darling, you are very normal, or that's I way think of you,sexy!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm normal.

Really!

Depends who is asking and what they consider normal.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Ned’s Atomic Dustbin

My serious darling, you are very normal, or that's I way think of you,sexy!

Sam, you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal is just what is acceptable by society.

What is acceptable in the fab world, won't be accepted in a work place (generally)

So as previously mentioned normal is subject to the situation and or society that you are in at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site encourages nothing and offers more.

- We can talk about normal until the cows come home?

- what are cows?

- Where is home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ned’s Atomic Dustbin

My serious darling, you are very normal, or that's I way think of you,sexy!

Sam, you've pulled "

You pulled first, pity you don't want to, x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"the clear message is those individuals who are adamant they are different

....sorry your not ...your still chasing the same thing but with different masks ....this is your Norm,

my other question is why is the behaviour on this site normal and acceptable ?

My perceived definition of what's Normal for me can be such that society would classify as non-Normal.

So "I'm not normal" is an entirely valid answer, and you're in no position to blithely override it to suit whatever underlying point you're trying to make.

In answer to the last question, what's normal within the boundaries of a particular subculture is completely acceptable to that subculture - by definition.

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By *ackAberMan
over a year ago

oxford

I dont think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not, no fun in being normal

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Of course I'm normal........ Normally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good golly gosh no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, entirely normal and this site encourages normal behaviour... for this situation.

Normality has a very wide range and I think we kid ourselves if we think we don't fit somewhere on that range.

There are very few true individuals in the world, that takes courage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s normal?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Whatever I am, I consider it to be normal. I often feel out of kilter with others but I love that as it makes me different.

For me, being normal is being different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Norman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like the phrase "you're not normal, you're just ordinary"

Who wants to be "normal" anyway???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I so thought this was going to be a somewhat niche thread about Ned's Atomic Dustbin's second album!"

Lead singer used to live near me, met him on several occasions and enjoyed a beer or two. Great bloke!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It terms of what we are all chasing we are normal.

Most humans if they were honest would love to have more sex, with different people, and try different things...so we are normal, there are just some of us who want to be thought of as eccentric and most just aren’t.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Define normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

That would be an ecumenical matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this site encourage normal behaviour ? "

Define normal?

Is it normal as in the big wide world or is it normal for on line behaviour you have to ask your self. I don't think the site itself encourages anything apart from good behaviour though it does draw in the lonely, the frustrated and wannabee attention seekers. Does normal even exist I wonder.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Clearly not. If this site and swinging was normal adult behaviour then most of the adult population would be on here.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Not sure what normal is? But I’d say we are average in a lot of respects

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