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Smart and chic or funky and cool?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which is more likely to turn your eye and make your heart flutter?

A well groomed man in a sharp suit/perfectly made up woman in a chic outfit

or

A funky somewhat scraggy and unshaven man in cool gear/funky styled woman in cool gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to be A (when I can be bothered) but attracted to B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer to be A (when I can be bothered) but attracted to B"

Oh that's a good idea Say which you prefer to be then which you're most attracted to.

I prefer to be B and am generally attracted to B. But I tend to dress up as A when swinging or dating as B can be a bit marmitey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B to both. I like someone relaxed and happy to just be himself rather than try too hard.

Plus I can be a bit scruffy myself at times!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Which is more likely to turn your eye and make your heart flutter?

A well groomed man in a sharp suit/perfectly made up woman in a chic outfit

or

A funky somewhat scraggy and unshaven man in cool gear/funky styled woman in cool gear"

I view life in colour , not false divisive dichotomies xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A for me initially, but once I get to know someone I don’t mind B x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"B to both. I like someone relaxed and happy to just be himself rather than try too hard.

Plus I can be a bit scruffy myself at times! "

I think the interesting thing is if we're all getting dressed up as A when we swing, in order to be attractive to others, but are all actually attracted to B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Sorry but I like a bit of both

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I like people who are as classy as me...

.....oh....erm... wait....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but I like a bit of both "

No need to apologise The ideal is definitely both isn't it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

One of each please. Nice new profile pic op!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of each please. Nice new profile pic op! "

You noticed I thought I'd try the ragged look for the a bit

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I love shabby chic, that's one reason Monty Don really trips my trigger - I love his slightly posh bohemian wardrobe!

Gotta be clean and sweet smelling of course, but when I worked as a creative the 'suits' were the enemy, and I've never quite been able to shake off the aversion lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B for me definitely! I'm very rarely in dress up mode, just not comfortable and just not 'me'! Though if they're happier dressed smart that's good too...at the end of the day it's all about what you are happy with

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the comfy middle ground.

Soft cashmere sweater and brushed cotton casual trousers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suits depend on who is wearing them.

I was never really turned on by a man in a suit until my LTP turned up in one on his way to work.

I think I left a snail trail from the front door to the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who's doing the wearing. If they're not comfortable in it, it tends to show.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A "

Oh jeans and a tailored shirt and t jacket are not a suit......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A

Oh jeans and a tailored shirt and t jacket are not a suit...... "

But it's bloody hot!... so I'm cheating a little

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"One of each please. Nice new profile pic op!

You noticed I thought I'd try the ragged look for the a bit "

Suits you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about looking like a scarecrow?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Suit. Even if their not wearing a full one. Just jeans and a jacket is hot as hell to me... so definitely A

Oh jeans and a tailored shirt and t jacket are not a suit......

But it's bloody hot!... so I'm cheating a little "

Yes, I like that look...

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