FabSwingers.com forum: absolute time wasting morons

By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

you come on this site to have fun explore you sexual desires ect and wether your married single whatever it's down right rude manners to leave some one waiting with no msg to just even say sorry not coming. I know women do it as well but men get a grip for God's sake

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

Be clearly registered blind if anyone didn't think you was special.. And hot of course!!

x x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Are you arranging socials or inviting people to yours?

Report them op,but if its continual maybe change the way you do things ? Ie a social meet ,don't indulge them in sexy talk.

Miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you arranging socials or inviting people to yours?

Report them op,but if its continual maybe change the way you do things ? Ie a social meet ,don't indulge them in sexy talk.

Miss"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

Welcome back cariad x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

Hello there Cariad Bach welcome back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

I know me too rather sexually frustrated

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Are you arranging socials or inviting people to yours?

Report them op,but if its continual maybe change the way you do things ? Ie a social meet ,don't indulge them in sexy talk.

Miss"

Or pic swaps or going off site. This sorts out the keyboard wankers, as does arranging the first meet as social only.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

"
so special gotta have some of your emotion give it to me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Seems to be par for the course on here but sorry to hear you are frustrated with it all but anyone passing up a meet with yourself is clearly not right in the head chin up and legs open you will get another meet sorted in no time xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to most at some point. Well not me, because I'm special

Special needs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Lots of people just don't reply for one reason or not both men and women its just something that happens if you are really miffed just block and move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day

6 in one day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day

6 in one day

Its good to have options

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your verifications I think you're doing ok.

Out of curiosity, how much did it cost to get revolving door installed?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at your verifications I think you're doing ok.

Out of curiosity, how much did it cost to get revolving door installed?"

I spat me tea out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!! No wonder you sound so cross...I hope you have a better day

6 in one day

Its good to have options"

So if 6 let you down then approx how many in the one day didnt let you down?

You dont need to give an exact number. Just round it up to the nearest dozen.

Example 25 showed up (2 dozen)

45 showed up (4 dozen)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

So what's your opinion on just regular plain old morons or does this thread only apply to those who fulfill all of the adjective criteria?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

[Removed by poster at 09/10/18 11:50:37]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Maybe the OP was organising a gang bang or perhaps had organised a new meet after each let down. Who are we to judge?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I say it?

These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Can I say it?

These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys"

Can i also say they ruin it for themselves, not everyone else?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I had a threesum organised the first two I couldn't get hold of so my mind knew they weren't coming so organised a different two they didn't turn up so tried 2 last minute ones they didn't turn up either. I'm a horny person were all here for the same reason I play safe so why not have some fun im single crack on if u don't like it jog on"

Perhaps you need to tighten up your meet criteria. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

6 times.. there was a couple with 13 the other day... I said the same to them.

The common denominator in this is you. Refine or change your selection process Put further checks and balances in place , if there are any red flags move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

6 times.. there was a couple with 13 the other day... I said the same to them.

The common denominator in this is you. Refine or change your selection process Put further checks and balances in place , if there are any red flags move on."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I say it?

These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys"

Disagree totally thats a negetive way to look at things it makes no diffence to me if others waste time im bothered about my experience not theres

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Can I say it?

These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys"

Can I use the cliche..

Their loss

Or has that gone already

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

true but few were guys id been speaking to for months but hey ho

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have these guys been meet verified ?

Some guys like the chase

Maybe they decided it wasn’t for them. Yes they should message.

Op. Isn’t there my local clubs that you can scratch that itch. ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"true but few were guys id been speaking to for months but hey ho "

Just a bit of advice if you aren't already doing this OP:

Don't give them wank fodder, ie naughty chat pictures.

Keep things on fab, alarm bells ring for me if they immediately try to get me on another app.

Speak on the phone or cam before meeting.

Insist on a social meet first.

Hopefully these tips will help you to w33d out the timewasters on here.

I wish you luck. xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oza OP Woman
over a year ago

Morecambe

thank you for your advice my nearest club is Manchester about an hr away

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"thank you for your advice my nearest club is Manchester about an hr away "

Very welcome, clubs and socials are probably better for you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The op is a single , horny woman who fancied a threesome . Nothing wrong with that .

The problem is that she ended up with six guys who said they would meet her for some mutually satisfying fun , and none turned up .

I’d say that’s pretty indicative of the general level of apathy shown by the guys who said they would turn up and just didn’t . Every one of them should be kicked off the site . Simple .

I hope the op reported them all , and admin do something positive about it , because if it gets much worse on fab , genuine people who want to meet will find another site where there aren’t as many time wasting dreamers .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

"thank you for your advice my nearest club is Manchester about an hr away "

Couple of clubs in Blackpool also

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I say it?

These time wasters ruin it for us genuine guys

Can I use the cliche..

Their loss

Or has that gone already

No you got it.... I’ll use the old

These guys must be crazy not to meet you...

if I lived closer and you invited me to a meet. I would definitely turn up..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Unfortunately it is the nature of fab OP. The site is overrun with single men,who are basically fantasists. Offer a real meet and they get scared. It's been like this for a while. Stopped meeting off here years ago. Clubs are your best bet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men talk the talk on here..but when it comes down it..that's all it is, all talk..they bottle out when it time to meet a confident woman who knows what she wants.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately it is the nature of fab OP. The site is overrun with single men,who are basically fantasists. Offer a real meet and they get scared. It's been like this for a while. Stopped meeting off here years ago. Clubs are your best bet. "

In our experience we have had 1 no show from all of our arranged meetings since joining Fab. The guys we have met have been genuine and good fun. We have never been to a club, and don’t intend to, so can’t express an opinion on those places.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!!"

If 6 guys in one day let you down there's something amiss with your selection process. I've never had a no-show

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe all 6 were the same guy.

I keep saying this site is full fakes and lesbians and no one believes me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you have to talk yourself into a wank... I’ve thanked meself later quite a few times

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Your status says you've been let down 6 times in one day ?!!

If 6 guys in one day let you down there's something amiss with your selection process. I've never had a no-show "

This

I’ve been on here since 2013, firstly as a single before I met hubby here. In all that time I have only ever had one no show. In that case alarm bells were ringing so I arranged to meet for coffee an hour before my shift at work. My instincts were right and he didn’t turn up but I lost nothing, had a lovely cuppa and bit of cake then went to work.

As someone else said, the common denominator here is you OP. If you want to stop the no shows then it’s time to look at your selection and vetting process.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread