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"Very off putting for me, I like a masculine man" Me too. Each to their own but you wouldn’t see me for dust. Definitely not for me. | |||
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"I used to send my ex to work in a garage wearing a pair of my thongs ![]() Because you liked it or as a punishment ? | |||
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"I adore a big, manly man in a pair of black lace women's knickers. The more manly the better. Big turn on." This | |||
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"YES!!!!! ![]() ![]() I was starting to wonder if there was something wrong with me. As a teenager, I often saw men in basques, stockings and suspenders due to Rocky Horror. I wouldn't specifically look for it, but I'd have no problem with it (unless he looked better than me in the basque, stocking and suspenders! ![]() | |||
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"I adore a big, manly man in a pair of black lace women's knickers. The more manly the better. Big turn on." A hard on poking over the waistband of a pair of knickers is a sight I love. I love it that so many guys are happy to oblige | |||
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"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone." Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest. | |||
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"Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights ![]() Oh God yes.... | |||
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"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone. Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest." Nice to see some actual responses to the OP ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing more kinky than a large erection trying to burst through a pair of fishnet tights ![]() God yes, or sheer tights ... | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?" ![]() | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?" She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been . With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway . | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been . With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway ." I think your dislike of anyone that doesn't stick to social gender norms has been documented enough on these forums by now | |||
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"Hi Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? " On the right man I love it. | |||
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"Love a masculine guy in lingerie, especially when they are hard and in charge. Partial to a sexy TV too..but not the sissy boy thing. Would love to find a dominant TV or CD but little luck so far." There are plenty of domme TV's on here | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?" So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. " Not what I said at all | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all" Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality?" It may not change someone’s personality but I would not be able to view a man as ‘masculine’ if he was dressed in a feminine way. Equally, I wouldn’t regard a woman as feminine if she was wearing men’s clothing. Clothing can reflect our personalities or just our mood, I don’t feel particularly feminine in certain outfits. Lou x | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong?" Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive | |||
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"Hi Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? On the right man I love it." Thank you ![]() | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018." At least someone understands | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018." I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. ![]() | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. ![]() Very true and they aren't me. | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. I know. And I understand that but it’s not for me. Just like something may not be for you. And you know how I feel about you and I think the feelings mutual. Doesn’t mean I’m particularly fond of your tights and heels. ![]() Haha ssshhhhhhh | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands" I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin. | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin." ![]() | |||
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"Love a masculine guy in lingerie, especially when they are hard and in charge. Partial to a sexy TV too..but not the sissy boy thing. Would love to find a dominant TV or CD but little luck so far." We are a rare breed apparently ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never!" You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert?" Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie." There are a few men on here into it ![]() | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie." Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine. | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine." Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though. To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless. | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine." Not in my book! | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine. Not in my book!" Agree - like my men dressed manly | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine. Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though. To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless." So you have come across men wearing lingerie then? ![]() | |||
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"It's too easy and frankly, basic to gender clothing. A bloke in silky things is still a bloke. To quote Eddie Izzard "They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”" ![]() | |||
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"It's too easy and frankly, basic to gender clothing. A bloke in silky things is still a bloke. To quote Eddie Izzard "They’re not women’s clothes. They’re my clothes. I bought them.”" Exactly! | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? She certainly wouldn’t be as feminine as she would have been . With regard to her personality , not necessarily , but if her personality was one which thought I may like to see her in your boxers then we wouldn’t have got along anyway . I think your dislike of anyone that doesn't stick to social gender norms has been documented enough on these forums by now " Oh really ? I wasn’t aware that I had a dislike of anyone that doesn’t stick to social gender norms , but thanks for making me aware of it now . Quite how my answer above suggests that I don’t like any particular gender is a bit puzzling though . Does everyone who has answered in a negative fashion with respect to men dressing in women’s lingerie have the same dislike of social gender norms too ? | |||
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"Hi Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? " No. I find straight men in women's underwear a turn off. I don't even like guys wearing male thongs, fetish wear or those silly Ann summers type underwear. Sorry but for sex I just prefer men to be naked! ![]() | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine. Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though. To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless. So you have come across men wearing lingerie then? ![]() I’m merely answering the OP’s question which was do any women like it? To me that’s asking am I as a woman, turned on by a man wearing lingerie, I’m thinking he means on a regular basis as opposed to once in a blue moon for fancy dress. IMO that is not the same thing at all, if you think it is then that’s your prerogative. And for the record I haven’t said it changes the person so not sure where that comment comes from. | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin." Absolutely agree with this. ![]() | |||
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"Haven’t come across any men wearing lingerie. Tbh I cant see it floating my boat but never say never! You've never watched Rocky Horror, or Priscilla Queen of the Desert? Yes but that’s not reality and is a tad OTT. I was referring to meeting a man who was into wearing lingerie. Honestly, no not OTT. I've seen straight blokes go to watch Rocky Horror dressed in basques, stockings, high heels and the works. Still very masculine. Men dressing up for Rocky Horror isn’t really the same thing though is it? I’ve been on nights out with male friends dressed up as RH, they had fun and enjoyed the experience, not something they’ve pursued since though. To me that’s an entirely different entity than someone who dresses like that regardless. So you have come across men wearing lingerie then? ![]() Exactly - it doesn't change someone, but it does change how I feel about their sexual attraction to me. | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin. Absolutely agree with this. ![]() I don’t disagree with the concept that the individual doesn’t feel anything but masculine irrespective of the clothes they wear, but if we’re dealing with semantics, this masculine chap is, whether we like it or not, DRESSING femininely. So I kind of agree with both parties (unlike me to sit on the fence really!) - it’s not a masculine method of clothing oneself, but the individual themselves can be masculine. Clear as mud!? | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin. Absolutely agree with this. ![]() It’s the confidence that turns me on. I love guys in skinny jeans, many on here think it’s too girly. We are all attracted to different things. | |||
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"Hi Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? On the right man I love it.Thank you ![]() Your legs are alright. ![]() | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin." Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ? And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ? | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive " Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin. Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ? And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ? " Only to someone who doesn't get it. | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. " Well said ![]() | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() Exactly, that's what I'm saying, you may find it less attractive, but it doesn't make him any less masculine | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. " Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. | |||
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"You can still wear tights and be alpha. You can also wear boxers and be sub. Clothes don't change the person. But hey, never let that get in the way. Optional and infrequent tights wearer who stopped giving a fuck March 2018. At least someone understands I do too! I don't see them as any less masculine than I did before. If anything, more masculine because they are comfortable in their own skin. Isn’t a guy who is wearing female lingerie trying to be less masculine ? And isn’t the phrase “ comfortable in their own skin “ , a bit of a misnomer with respect to men wearing lingerie ? Only to someone who doesn't get it." Like many on this thread , guess I don’t get it at all , but hey ho . | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() It does to some of us . | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. " Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it. | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it. " I rarely come on the forums full stop , and quite how I got involved in this one is anyone’s guess . I have watched my husband ( who is on the forums 99% of the time ) play with TVs and although I like watching him , the guy in female attire does nothing for me at all . Simple as that . And if I’m playing , I like the guy to be a guy and certainly not be dressed in female lingerie . I’ll play with a woman if that’s what I seek . And I know in my mind that the guy in female lingerie is less masculine , so what anyone else says is irrelevant to me isn’t it ? | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Well said ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Exactly. This is why I try not to get involved in these kind of threads. It’s ridiculous. Every now and then I do though. If you see me doing it again give me a short sharp kick! We’ll be back to preferences V something “ist” before long. A man in a woman’s underwear or clothes isn’t for me no matter how masculine he may be. If there’s a label for me there then stick it on me I’ll take it. I rarely come on the forums full stop , and quite how I got involved in this one is anyone’s guess . I have watched my husband ( who is on the forums 99% of the time ) play with TVs and although I like watching him , the guy in female attire does nothing for me at all . Simple as that . And if I’m playing , I like the guy to be a guy and certainly not be dressed in female lingerie . I’ll play with a woman if that’s what I seek . And I know in my mind that the guy in female lingerie is less masculine , so what anyone else says is irrelevant to me isn’t it ? " Yes. Same with a woman though. I only like feminine women. I wouldn’t be attracted to a woman in a pair of boxers dressed like a bloke. My choice. Everyone else’s choice what they like. Simple as that surely!! | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() It kind of does though looking at this definition of the word masculine: “having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men.” | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that." I feel like both sides are trying to shame the other. | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() It kind of does to me as that definition is the one I associate with masculinity too ![]() | |||
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"I'll never understand why people seem to think that what you wear suddenly changes how manly or masculine you are. If a really hot feminine girl puts on a pair of my boxers is she suddenly not feminine anymore? Does it somehow change her personality? So you’ll never understand it? That’s the difference between you and me then. Question was do women like men to dress up in lingerie? No I don’t and I never will. Do i understand why people would? Yes I do. Not what I said at all Why can’t you understand it though? If I met a man I liked and he took off his clothes and he had pink frilly knickers on and a bra and stockings then no that’s not masculine enough for me. You can’t understand that? Or am i reading this wrong? Because the clothing has nothing to do with how masculine someone is. You may not like the appearance of it but the man was just as masculine as you thought he was before he took his clothes off. Say you see a bignburly lumberjack chopping some wood, this man is the epitome of masculinity in every way, personality, attitude, looka, suddenly he bends over and is in a thong. Is he suddenly less masculine? Or is he exactly the same person as before, but just in underwear you don't find attractive Suddenly hes just not attractive. It's the way some of our brains work something we just can't control its a turn off not a turn on. ![]() Women look less feminine when dressed in unisex clothing than in a pretty frock - so what? | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. I feel like both sides are trying to shame the other. " I don't think anyone who is ok with it is trying to shame anyone who doesn't. I can only speak for myself in saying I'm putting a different view forward and explaining my views so people can understand. I understand already why others may not find it attractive, so don't need it shoved down my throat. | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that." Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question... "Do any women like it when a guy dresses up?" Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either. | |||
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"Alas, as you are no doubt now seeing OP, there are more folk that are willing to come forward and say what they don't like. There are no doubt those that share your taste on here though. Fab has pretty much something for everyone. Plenty of people share his taste, as my inbox can attest." I just love the feel I get when I wear them, as you can see from my pictures, doesn't mean I want sex with another man, totally the opposite, I would love to have sex while wearing a sexy pair of Lacey panties, each to their own ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question... Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either." The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it . Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices . | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine?" Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . | |||
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"Dare anyone to define 'normal' ... it's about the person, not the clothing. Plenty of opinions on the subject, I prefer 'live and let live' x" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question... Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either. The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it . Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices . " I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion? We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not. Hey ho ![]() | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would ." Pink is a female colour though? | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question... Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either. The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it . Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices . I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion? We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not. Hey ho ![]() They weren't the first/only ones to mention it. And tbf I'd guess the reason they keep bringing it up is because people keep asking questions about masculinity. | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though?" I can see what you are saying , but a male item of clothing is a male item of clothing whatever colour it is . The concept of pink being a female colour is long gone . | |||
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"How disgusting that people aren't attracted to some things in life. Let's shame them so they feel guilty about their sexual attraction until they change their minds. Actually, I feel as though people are trying to shame those who think it's ok to dress like that. Indeed....Let's look at the OPs question... Do any women like it when a guy dresses up? Some do, most don't. Cool. But comments going on about how distasteful it is, is about as useful as a chocolate teapot. Enforcing negativity about the choices of others isn't helpful either. The more negative comments came as a result of posters who insisted that guys wearing female lingerie maintained their masculinity , or even enhanced it . Some of us questioned this belief , because to us it doesn’t . It’s not that we are enforcing negativity about anyone’s choices . I don't understand why it's so important to state that you don't find a man in lingerie to be masculine. Who cares? Do you need to keep reinforcing this opinion? We're all on a swingers site. Our lifestyle is marginalised and judged from the mainstream. Ideally we'd all be welcoming of alternatives, wether they tickled our pickle or not. Hey ho ![]() Thank you , I was about to reply but you’ve said it just as I would have ![]() | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though?" Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both ![]() | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though? Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both ![]() I’m sure I read that it’s because of Hitler that pink is now seen as girls colour? Idk | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though? Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both ![]() I knew about the dresses, but didn't know about the colour switch ![]() | |||
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"Lots of discussions on whether it increases masculinity but for lots of us that do dress up we do so because we are wanting to be less masculine. And in answer to the OP original question, yes lots of women do enjoy it." That was where my confusion lay in relation to the masculinity question. Tbh I thought that was the point for a lot of people who do it. | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though? Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both ![]() ![]() Pink is a stronger pigment so they thought it more dominant. Only post WW2 that clothing manufacturers switched it around. And now everything is gendered ![]() | |||
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"A question for those people who think it's not masculine for a man to wear lingerie. Would a guy wearing pink (a shirt, tie, or even boxers) make you think he was less masculine? Nope , but a tiny women’s thong , stockings , frilly panties or a bra would . Pink is a female colour though? Not originally. The Victorians put boys in pink and girls in blue. Dresses. For both ![]() ![]() ![]() I think it needs to be the right kind of pink too - I would not like barbie pink on a man but a deep or slightly mauvey pink...hubba hubba! | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off" I’m glad you qualified what I thought you were thinking ![]() | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off" I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost ![]() | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost ![]() I don't think they did ![]() | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost ![]() I don’t think your views got lost at all . It would be very dull ( or should I say even more dull than it already is ) on here if we all agreed on everything . ![]() | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Wow. I was only expecting yes or no. I don't think it questions masculinity. For me, it was about sex and if it turned people on in the moment. Good to see opinions! Healthy! I like wearing as it turns me on. I like to think I look ok as I shave.I've seen some guys and they look good. I've seen others that turn me right off I don't think it questions masculinity either, but apparently my views got lost ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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