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".. true or false? " Not really but I am sure this thread will get you your desired exposure. | |||
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".. true or false? Not really but I am sure this thread will get you your desired exposure." I’ve done a Male one too for balance (and exposure!) | |||
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".. true or false? " M more nterested in what Dan has done!!! Why the question DB? | |||
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".. true or false? M more nterested in what Dan has done!!! Why the question DB? No hidden subtext my lovely, no right or wrong answer! Just pondering some gross generalisations ! " Damn!! | |||
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".. true or false? " Not necessarily both male and female can be as bad as each other in my experience. | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story " Haha a Grimm watcher! | |||
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"I really think it depends on the circumstances. On this site though, there really isn't any room for jealousy as we are all here to share each other and play nicely??? I have witnessed a few truly evil pathological narcissitic bunny boilers in my time on here though " Yup yup yup | |||
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".. true or false? " I think it depends on the situation. The thing is only those involved actually ever know what has occurred Scorned women can get mental/nasty etc. It is very easy to make the other person look bad when you are upset and vice versa. Say things in the heat of the moment and continue that facade because actually deep down it probably did hurt you, to be vicious because of those feelings too, despite wanting to appear to be quite tough. People upset, hurt or scorned say things usually as a defence mechanism and the people who really know them are aware of this, their ways and try to placate them or explain that they are being a bit of a twat. Words on screens are the easiest things to misinterpret and skew depending on your perception of the person writing them. | |||
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".. true or false? I think it depends on the situation. The thing is only those involved actually ever know what has occurred Scorned women can get mental/nasty etc. It is very easy to make the other person look bad when you are upset and vice versa. Say things in the heat of the moment and continue that facade because actually deep down it probably did hurt you, to be vicious because of those feelings too, despite wanting to appear to be quite tough. People upset, hurt or scorned say things usually as a defence mechanism and the people who really know them are aware of this, their ways and try to placate them or explain that they are being a bit of a twat. Words on screens are the easiest things to misinterpret and skew depending on your perception of the person writing them. " The points you make are especially prevalent in women who’s lives may have been impacted by various unforeseen and unavoidable life changing situations that were no fault of her own. Although non of this can justify some of the things she may or may not say or do, the recipients of the scorn/fury could hopefully bear this in mind and perhaps agree to move on with no more ill feelings. Sometimes the woman underneath the veil of scorn is no true reflection of the woman she may be currently portraying. | |||
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".. true or false? I think it depends on the situation. The thing is only those involved actually ever know what has occurred Scorned women can get mental/nasty etc. It is very easy to make the other person look bad when you are upset and vice versa. Say things in the heat of the moment and continue that facade because actually deep down it probably did hurt you, to be vicious because of those feelings too, despite wanting to appear to be quite tough. People upset, hurt or scorned say things usually as a defence mechanism and the people who really know them are aware of this, their ways and try to placate them or explain that they are being a bit of a twat. Words on screens are the easiest things to misinterpret and skew depending on your perception of the person writing them. " | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! " Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example " You are most likely correct about that. There are many on here, only a select few seem to get targeted for it though, usually after others have pretended to be sympathetic to them. And when something else happens which is completely irrelevant to the thing which may have upset someone,which is probably well past its date, they are accused of still being scorned when in fact they never really were. Just upset. Let's take that into account before assumptions are cast. | |||
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"False, or I would have set my ex on fire by now " | |||
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"Play nicely everyone : This is just a banter thread, one of a pair with the ‘men’s egos are fragile’ one to just put up a couple of those ridiculous broad brush gender stereotype assumptions for debate! One for men one for women! Let’s keep it light hearted and civil please! " Oh Dan, how long have you been on the forum now? | |||
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"Play nicely everyone : This is just a banter thread, one of a pair with the ‘men’s egos are fragile’ one to just put up a couple of those ridiculous broad brush gender stereotype assumptions for debate! One for men one for women! Let’s keep it light hearted and civil please! Oh Dan, how long have you been on the forum now? " Long enough to know what he’s doing and why he’s doing it | |||
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"Play nicely everyone : This is just a banter thread, one of a pair with the ‘men’s egos are fragile’ one to just put up a couple of those ridiculous broad brush gender stereotype assumptions for debate! One for men one for women! Let’s keep it light hearted and civil please! Oh Dan, how long have you been on the forum now? " I'm going to buy him a nice big spoon | |||
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"Dan I think it depends on the woman, we’re certainly not all the same. It’s not difficult on here to see the ones that have that issue. I would avoid a person that behaved that way - I definitely wouldn’t want to meet them. It’s a sex site, jealously and resentment shouldn’t have a place here. There’s absolutely no need or point in taking it onto a public forum. Its even worse when over time it then becomes bitterness. It can demonstrate an ugly side to a personality in my opinion. People drag these things onto the forums to make others feel bad. I suppose it’s because it’s an easy option. I would rather folk kept it private, whatever the gender. The only thing worse than a woman scorned is two women " It’s half of a generic pair of gender stereotypes open for debate (I’m going to rebump the men’s ego one!) not necessarily forum specific! The answer to both is simply : some yes, some no! | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example You are most likely correct about that. There are many on here, only a select few seem to get targeted for it though, usually after others have pretended to be sympathetic to them. And when something else happens which is completely irrelevant to the thing which may have upset someone,which is probably well past its date, they are accused of still being scorned when in fact they never really were. Just upset. Let's take that into account before assumptions are cast." Whatever it is keep it off the forum, It makes the place inhospitable for those not involved and invariably what is aired is distorted which is grossly unfair. The forum has rules for a reason. Faux sympathy? Maybe it wasn’t, maybe it was considered misplaced and therefore withdrawn. | |||
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"Play nicely everyone : This is just a banter thread, one of a pair with the ‘men’s egos are fragile’ one to just put up a couple of those ridiculous broad brush gender stereotype assumptions for debate! One for men one for women! Let’s keep it light hearted and civil please! Oh Dan, how long have you been on the forum now? I'm going to buy him a nice big spoon " Too late he already has several | |||
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"Dan I think it depends on the woman, we’re certainly not all the same. It’s not difficult on here to see the ones that have that issue. I would avoid a person that behaved that way - I definitely wouldn’t want to meet them. It’s a sex site, jealously and resentment shouldn’t have a place here. There’s absolutely no need or point in taking it onto a public forum. Its even worse when over time it then becomes bitterness. It can demonstrate an ugly side to a personality in my opinion. People drag these things onto the forums to make others feel bad. I suppose it’s because it’s an easy option. I would rather folk kept it private, whatever the gender. The only thing worse than a woman scorned is two women It’s half of a generic pair of gender stereotypes open for debate (I’m going to rebump the men’s ego one!) not necessarily forum specific! The answer to both is simply : some yes, some no! " You asked and I answered Dan, just like others. As you’ve drawn attention to my comment then I will say this ... It’s my opinion based on what I’ve seen on the forums over the two years I’ve been here. I didn’t know it was part of a pair but even if I did, my response would be the same. It depends on the woman - the way I see it in a Fab related scenario my opinion as above still stands. None fan related? I haven’t got a clue. My female friends seem pretty ok at managing themselves. There you go ... a fab and none fab answer The last sentence was a joke but I obviously shouldn’t attempt humour. I’m sure I’ve said that before | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example You are most likely correct about that. There are many on here, only a select few seem to get targeted for it though, usually after others have pretended to be sympathetic to them. And when something else happens which is completely irrelevant to the thing which may have upset someone,which is probably well past its date, they are accused of still being scorned when in fact they never really were. Just upset. Let's take that into account before assumptions are cast. Whatever it is keep it off the forum, It makes the place inhospitable for those not involved and invariably what is aired is distorted which is grossly unfair. The forum has rules for a reason. Faux sympathy? Maybe it wasn’t, maybe it was considered misplaced and therefore withdrawn. " Of course. Most things are distorted resulting is people managing to entice others into their side of the story. Always the quiet ones who continue with their act. Correct grossly unfair but live and learn. | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example You are most likely correct about that. There are many on here, only a select few seem to get targeted for it though, usually after others have pretended to be sympathetic to them. And when something else happens which is completely irrelevant to the thing which may have upset someone,which is probably well past its date, they are accused of still being scorned when in fact they never really were. Just upset. Let's take that into account before assumptions are cast. Whatever it is keep it off the forum, It makes the place inhospitable for those not involved and invariably what is aired is distorted which is grossly unfair. The forum has rules for a reason. Faux sympathy? Maybe it wasn’t, maybe it was considered misplaced and therefore withdrawn. " Furthermore. Being a public forum all are entitled to offer their opinions and I simply offered mine on the matter, it wasn't from a personal point of view. | |||
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"There are one or two Hexenbiests around They tend to think they’re scorned but actually that’s only half the story Haha a Grimm watcher! Only season 6 left to watch I’m already in mourning However I won’t let how I feel spill onto the forum. I’m not that selfish I’d create a toxic atmosphere and make the forum inhospitable for others. Some things should be kept well away from the forum, like scorned women for example You are most likely correct about that. There are many on here, only a select few seem to get targeted for it though, usually after others have pretended to be sympathetic to them. And when something else happens which is completely irrelevant to the thing which may have upset someone,which is probably well past its date, they are accused of still being scorned when in fact they never really were. Just upset. Let's take that into account before assumptions are cast. Whatever it is keep it off the forum, It makes the place inhospitable for those not involved and invariably what is aired is distorted which is grossly unfair. The forum has rules for a reason. Faux sympathy? Maybe it wasn’t, maybe it was considered misplaced and therefore withdrawn. Of course. Most things are distorted resulting is people managing to entice others into their side of the story. Always the quiet ones who continue with their act. Correct grossly unfair but live and learn. " As mentioned, keep it away from the forum please | |||
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"Yes, true. Don't ever get on the wrong side of me. My Italian side comes out!" Ah I'm half scialian, don't upset us. | |||
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"You dealing in cliches today OP ?" Well two broad brush gender driven (ridiculous!) assumptions yes! | |||
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"Im one of the ones who goes quiet if I have been vexed . Watch out " Yeah that’s me. I’ll still stamp my feet and tantrum but I’ll do it in private! | |||
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"Naaa mate! If you want to see fury- try to give a pill to a cat! " soooo true!!! | |||
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"Naaa mate! If you want to see fury- try to give a pill to a cat! " Sounds fun! | |||
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"Dan I think it depends on the woman, we’re certainly not all the same. It’s not difficult on here to see the ones that have that issue. I would avoid a person that behaved that way - I definitely wouldn’t want to meet them. It’s a sex site, jealously and resentment shouldn’t have a place here. There’s absolutely no need or point in taking it onto a public forum. Its even worse when over time it then becomes bitterness. It can demonstrate an ugly side to a personality in my opinion. People drag these things onto the forums to make others feel bad. I suppose it’s because it’s an easy option. I would rather folk kept it private, whatever the gender. The only thing worse than a woman scorned is two women It’s half of a generic pair of gender stereotypes open for debate (I’m going to rebump the men’s ego one!) not necessarily forum specific! The answer to both is simply : some yes, some no! You asked and I answered Dan, just like others. As you’ve drawn attention to my comment then I will say this ... It’s my opinion based on what I’ve seen on the forums over the two years I’ve been here. I didn’t know it was part of a pair but even if I did, my response would be the same. It depends on the woman - the way I see it in a Fab related scenario my opinion as above still stands. None fan related? I haven’t got a clue. My female friends seem pretty ok at managing themselves. There you go ... a fab and none fab answer The last sentence was a joke but I obviously shouldn’t attempt humour. I’m sure I’ve said that before " Yes Babs, I was making a generic point and it was unfair to specifically add it at the bottom of your post. It was wrong of me to do that and it should have been a standalone point and not bringing particular attention to your particular post. For that, I apologise as it wasn’t meant to be a specific point aimed at you. | |||
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"Based on the time I went proper bat shit crazy I’d be inclined to agree. Mad Mac isn’t to be messed with " Mad Hanky isn't either..... This is another reason why we are friends Some men can drive you to the brink though, promise to never do it again, then you find out they still are and more besides..... And you wonder why we lose it!? | |||
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"Dan I think it depends on the woman, we’re certainly not all the same. It’s not difficult on here to see the ones that have that issue. I would avoid a person that behaved that way - I definitely wouldn’t want to meet them. It’s a sex site, jealously and resentment shouldn’t have a place here. There’s absolutely no need or point in taking it onto a public forum. Its even worse when over time it then becomes bitterness. It can demonstrate an ugly side to a personality in my opinion. People drag these things onto the forums to make others feel bad. I suppose it’s because it’s an easy option. I would rather folk kept it private, whatever the gender. The only thing worse than a woman scorned is two women It’s half of a generic pair of gender stereotypes open for debate (I’m going to rebump the men’s ego one!) not necessarily forum specific! The answer to both is simply : some yes, some no! You asked and I answered Dan, just like others. As you’ve drawn attention to my comment then I will say this ... It’s my opinion based on what I’ve seen on the forums over the two years I’ve been here. I didn’t know it was part of a pair but even if I did, my response would be the same. It depends on the woman - the way I see it in a Fab related scenario my opinion as above still stands. None fan related? I haven’t got a clue. My female friends seem pretty ok at managing themselves. There you go ... a fab and none fab answer The last sentence was a joke but I obviously shouldn’t attempt humour. I’m sure I’ve said that before Yes Babs, I was making a generic point and it was unfair to specifically add it at the bottom of your post. It was wrong of me to do that and it should have been a standalone point and not bringing particular attention to your particular post. For that, I apologise as it wasn’t meant to be a specific point aimed at you. " Thank you for your apology Dan. I shall try and take it in the spirit it’s offered | |||
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"Based on the time I went proper bat shit crazy I’d be inclined to agree. Mad Mac isn’t to be messed with Mad Hanky isn't either..... This is another reason why we are friends Some men can drive you to the brink though, promise to never do it again, then you find out they still are and more besides..... And you wonder why we lose it!? " A wise man once said ‘You’re crazy but I like the way you fuck me’ | |||
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".. true or false? Most of the time False.... on the odd occasion TRUE your nice diamond" Thank you x | |||
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" All the woman I've turned down on here have repeatedly gone batshit crazy, each one sending me an abusive message everyday. It results in thousands of messages clogging up my mailbox preventing me meeting the tidy people. " #shakesfistatthecrazies | |||
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".. true or false? " Major generalisation. Some are some aren't. I've seen scarier things | |||
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"False.. I generally cba " Tell that to One Night Stanley and the best thread of 2018 | |||
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"My pride comes before anything. I would never give someone the satisfaction of knowing I was hurt/scorned. I prefer to step back, reflect on the part I may have played, learn from it, then move on. " She's back! | |||
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"My pride comes before anything. I would never give someone the satisfaction of knowing I was hurt/scorned. I prefer to step back, reflect on the part I may have played, learn from it, then move on. She's back! " Haha. Hello gorgeous | |||
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"Based on the time I went proper bat shit crazy I’d be inclined to agree. Mad Mac isn’t to be messed with Mad Hanky isn't either..... This is another reason why we are friends Some men can drive you to the brink though, promise to never do it again, then you find out they still are and more besides..... And you wonder why we lose it!? A wise man once said ‘You’re crazy but I like the way you fuck me’ " Right, I'm diving in the car now, strap on in hand!! | |||
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"I wouldn't give anyone the satisfaction of knowing how i feel when im made a fool of this earning the reputation of being a hard bitch. Also wouldnt make a fool of myself and find that Karma usually bites them on the arse on the end x " Sweetness makes them guilty. | |||
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"Naaa mate! If you want to see fury- try to give a pill to a cat! I see your pill and raise you giving them a bath " | |||
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" As mentioned, keep it away from the forum please" This comment was for both parties if there is any doubt Thanks | |||
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"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor Hell a fury, like a woman scorned."" Seems a couple different versions. | |||
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