FabSwingers.com forum: Generic verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm quite happy with generic. Don't really like graphic ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find what to say, I’ve had graphic ones written for me which I find cringy so I hide them. Even if I had an amazing time (which I have on pretty much all my meets) I always struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looked like a nice couple, I wanted to shag the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be happy with that, says what it needs x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I had one of those "treat her with respect" ones, then he went and left the site and I lost it, gutted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im usually quite good with words,but when it comes to writing a veri, inspiration just won't flow so they are all a bit generic and stilted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't and doesn't bother me either way

I am usually not stuck for anything to write about anyone unless i only met them briefly

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Op.

She was as awesome as I imagine she would be. Gorgeous red head with beautiful smile and a laugh that melted my heart. She made me ask for a FAF twice but she never replied, maybe next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love writing veris and love most of the ones I've received too ... really don't like graphic ones as I'm a private person and prefer what happens between 2 (or more) people to stay with between them

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Op.

She was as awesome as I imagine she would be. Gorgeous red head with beautiful smile and a laugh that melted my heart. She made me ask for a FAF twice but she never replied, maybe next time

You make me laugh missus!!!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

In answer to your question OP, I think they can all sound a little generic when you have a lot too write, and after all there is only so much anyone can say about anyone.....

P.S.So sorry we didn't get to talk as much as I would have liked yesterday, whilst socials are ace, they aren't always conducive too 'proper' conversations and I was being pulled from pillar to post a little (in a good way of course!) xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Can't stand that type - write something interesting or amusing or don't bother!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I have "I met her".

Would rather have those than graphic ones.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Generic is boring don’t you think? Your veri should at least reflect a bit more about you than “nice people/person, had a nice chat” and your time together... alas, at the same time graphic ones are a bit much.. they to can be tastefully written.

In my opinion

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"Op.

She was as awesome as I imagine she would be. Gorgeous red head with beautiful smile and a laugh that melted my heart. She made me ask for a FAF twice but she never replied, maybe next time

You make me laugh missus!!!

I'm Fucking hilarious

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Doesn't bother me either way to be honest - especially if it's from an organised social where you've had fleeting conversations with numerous people and finding something more than a generic "chatted briefly they seemed nice" isn't that easy.

For more intimate meets, be they social or otherwise, I do like to try and personalise veris a little more and make a reference to what happened (without being graphic) as a reminder of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite bad at writing verifications and I usually respond in the same manner I receive a verification.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?"

Not at all. I've attended events and chatted with people at them whom I'd never interacted with previously, so we end up swapping a generic veri of exactly that nature. I might be a little disappointed though if someone I'd been chatting to a long time and really got along with just gave me a one-liner. As for play veris... There's lots that can be said without being graphic. I don't like them and I won't write them for someone else, even when asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to say. Sometimes I make it funny, some I just say thanks.

Depends on how it goes.

Nil points from the Russian judge

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?"

I would not be offended by that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?"

Would be more disappointed than offended and would most likely keep it hidden if it was bland and uninformative.

Flipping it round, we would look up verification's left by prospective meets as a filter of sorts. If they were wishy-washy generic we'd probably pass.

We very much write them to inform others with personality, attributes and performance to the fore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like personal (not graphic) veris. I think it helps paint a picture of the person.

When I see that type of standard veri I assume (wrongly by the sound of it) that it was probably a case of ‘damning by faint praise’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me but wouldn't see the point as I have verifications already to verify I'm what it says on the tin.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We have no problems with generic verifications.

They are intended to prove you exist and turn up. You don't have to display them...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would prefer it to just be an accredited tick box type verification system.

All I need to know is

Are they who they say?

Did they turn up?

Are the photos them?

How well you got on with them has little relevance to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ideal veri would be "sexy guy, would be happy to meet again". Anything less just seems a bit lacklustre, inferring there wasn't any attraction there, and anything more I'd probably hide as it'd come across as too much of a notch on the bed post

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"My ideal veri would be "sexy guy, would be happy to meet again". Anything less just seems a bit lacklustre, inferring there wasn't any attraction there, and anything more I'd probably hide as it'd come across as too much of a notch on the bed post "

How about 'sexy voice, can't wait to meet'

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I like personal (not graphic) veris. I think it helps paint a picture of the person. "

This is also my approach, I apply the 'human' and 'sentient' element to it and avoid something that resembles a product review for something I bought from a department-store.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?"

We prefer generic to graphic ones

Mrs

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't like graphic verifications but do like them to be unique where possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I only meet someone socially say at a fab social then it will just be polite and generic.

If it's for someone I have played with then I like it to be a little amusing and tongue in cheek.

The best one I have had left for me said along the lines of "like the thrill of the response of a high performance F1 car". Unfortunately we broke up and he left the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you be offended if you got a generic veri?

"We met at the social, s/he is a lovely person and we had a nice chat."

Do you struggle knowing what to say or do you find it easy?

I would not be offended by that

I suppose it's better than "I had no idea who she was even though I've met her before!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have no problems with generic verifications.

They are intended to prove you exist and turn up. You don't have to display them...

Nita"

Yeah they could hide it. I'd feel awful if my crap veri cost them a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im usually quite good with words,but when it comes to writing a veri, inspiration just won't flow so they are all a bit generic and stilted

That's me too. I feel like a few words don't do them justice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op.

She was as awesome as I imagine she would be. Gorgeous red head with beautiful smile and a laugh that melted my heart. She made me ask for a FAF twice but she never replied, maybe next time

You make me laugh missus!!!

You're both lovely.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I wouldn’t be offended at that at all.

Nice mug op!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Can’t stand the graphic ones. Just acknowledge that we are a real couple who turn up and are representative of our profile and pictures. Any other opinions about sexual performance or attraction are going to be different depending on each persons perception anyway.

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